00:00When I was 28 and I started working instead, I'd like transition my career away from just
00:05mental health and kind of expanded it. I got a call from my grandmother and the first thing
00:09she said was, I hope you're not mad at me. And I was like, hello, what'd you do? And she's
00:13like,
00:13oh, you got a letter from that man that says he's your father. And I've never heard of prison
00:18clickbait, but stick with me. So the reason I called it prison clickbait, because on the outside
00:22of the letter, it said, hey, this is your father, you have a sister. And I was like, that gives
00:26clickbait because you want me to open it. So I read the letter by myself the night before.
00:30And I kind of just sat with it. Now what's in this letter? I know you're thinking, what is it?
00:34It was both the thing that struck me and I was done after that. I continued to read it,
00:38but there was nothing else to absorb was he wrote things happen between me and your mother. Sorry
00:43about that. He proceeded to tell me about this sister, quote unquote, describing her more clickbait.
00:48He goes, if you want to know more, write me back. And so my thought was, how the hell did
00:53you get my
00:54grandparents' address? We didn't live in that same house before we had moved. And so he actually told
00:59me at the end of the letter that some lawyer had gotten my grandparents' address and given it to
01:04him. And I was like, that is so disgusting and unsafe. And so you will never get the right to
01:10be
01:10called a dad or a father, because those are active roles. And you just donated some.
01:15times.
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