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00:00Previously on This Is Polly.
00:02I'm her husband.
00:03I'm excited to get to call you my husband one day as well.
00:05Me and Becca are engaged.
00:07I didn't feel like I needed to ask Jacob for permission.
00:11What is Jacob's role in all this?
00:13We're not the closest.
00:15My solo adventure will be with a young lady that I met
00:17while I was incarcerated.
00:19You might develop an emotional attachment to somebody
00:21that's not the three of us.
00:23You're not gay.
00:24And you're not bi.
00:25I told you that from the very beginning.
00:27And so did every other girl that I've ever f***ed in my life.
00:31We need another girl that'll spot you.
00:33He got caught cheating.
00:34I said to myself, allow what he's looking for
00:38outside of this relationship.
00:39Bring it into the relationship.
00:42Oh my God.
00:43Oh, and I'm f***ing.
00:45If you go back in there, it's f***ing over, B.
00:47It's over. It's over.
00:49Stop, stop, stop, just stop.
00:51You guys, we need a phone. I'm done.
00:53Propose already.
00:54But you are legally married.
00:57You need to get a divorce before I marry you.
01:00Like, do that sound crazy?
01:01So you're giving me an ultimatum,
01:03get a divorce or I lose you.
01:04That's what you want to call me.
01:35The biggest obstacle with me and Marley right now,
01:38and our polycule is her and it's divorce.
01:41I'm done being taken for granted.
01:43Like, I cannot keep preaching to somebody who is married to somebody else.
01:46If I can't be hurt, it's time to roll.
01:54I feel like this was the only option at this point.
02:02This isn't for like a day or two, a week.
02:05Like, I'm done. It's official.
02:08I'm out. I'm moving.
02:16To the pool house.
02:19Home sweet home.
02:21I'm petty, but I'm not financially stupid.
02:24That's why it makes sense to have two dwellings on one property.
02:35Bree!
02:42Bree!
02:48Bree!
02:51Bree!
02:56Bree!
02:59Bree!
03:00Uh-huh.
03:02Okay.
03:03That's what we doing.
03:05Bad.
03:08I'm just...
03:10...
03:10...
03:11...
03:13...
03:13...
03:14...
03:14...
03:15...
03:15...
03:20...
03:24Oh, okay. You send me the voicemail. Okay.
03:30Where do you think Bree moved to?
03:31The pool house.
03:32Her car is there.
03:33Got her location.
03:35When she get mad, this what she do.
03:37You know what?
03:38Oh my god, kid.
03:39Are you gonna act out?
03:41I'm definitely going outside.
03:43I'm definitely finna get some fresh air.
03:45You got it, no matter how many feet away you are.
03:48Hey, bae.
03:49Hey, baby.
03:50I just came home, and Brie is not here.
03:55I go upstairs, look in the closet.
03:57She's not even here.
03:58She took every .
04:00What the hell?
04:02Since she want to be like this, I'm gonna go do me.
04:05I'm done with it.
04:07Don't go too far.
04:08I'm gonna try to reach out to her and figure out
04:10what the going on.
04:11You want to move out and do your thing?
04:13You got it.
04:14Now you want to open up a can of her.
04:17I'm gonna do me and have a good time.
04:19Yeah, your girl's outside tonight.
04:22I'll call you.
04:23I love you.
04:24I love you, too.
04:25Bye.
04:26What the ?
04:27Gotta eat this food alone?
04:30Food.
04:40This is a throuple date night, definitely some much needed time from all the things that
04:46we've been dealing with.
04:47Let our hair down, kind of have a few drinks, eat some food that I didn't have to cook.
04:52It's gonna be great.
04:54We're gonna get creative, so I want you to have this vodka berry smash and this lavender
04:59white lemon.
04:59Okay.
04:59Let's say they made a baby.
05:01Okay.
05:02Yeah, and by the way, that's my drink, so she's making my drink for me.
05:04I'm gonna do the berry.
05:05She always does.
05:06I'm gonna do the berry mix mule.
05:08I'll do it old fashioned.
05:09No problem, guys.
05:09I'm gonna get this going for us, okay?
05:10Okay.
05:10Thank you so much.
05:20We need to touch on Lee and what that means for us.
05:27What first started as like a friend in jail turned into, you know, an adventure, which
05:31was my idea, and that just kind of snowballed and now have these emotional strings that
05:37is tied to another human being that's not my primary partner.
05:39We're still trying to figure out what it is that you're needing or missing out on.
05:43So it's more so what she recepates for me.
05:47Like, I know that you're not different.
05:50Told you that from the very beginning.
05:52Okay, forgive me if that has not ever been a problem before, okay?
05:55So, like, you giving me not compensate what I get from Lee giving me .
06:01That make sense?
06:02It's not the same thing.
06:03Because it's female.
06:04Because it's female.
06:05They're different.
06:06They're different.
06:07It feels different.
06:08It's just different.
06:09Three years and this is the first time you've ever mentioned that.
06:11I know that.
06:11Just trying to understand.
06:12I'm just saying that they're different.
06:13They're different.
06:14You would love that from me, but that may not ever be possible, and we knew that from
06:17the very beginning.
06:18No, we did not know that from the very beginning.
06:21Well, you should have, because that was communicated.
06:24Touché.
06:24We were completely honest.
06:26She's never been married, and she's got the Cinderella story dream.
06:29If that's what she really needs to go find her person, we bless her to go do that.
06:34But we really want her to choose us if she wants to be with us.
06:37We agreed.
06:39Yes, I know.
06:40That everybody could have one a month, and your date is still continuing.
06:46Does that seem fair?
06:50I am in anxiety and stress right now, because Nita is not able to manage herself in the
06:55parameters that we've set.
06:56What is our goal as a Throbel?
06:59Isn't it?
06:59If anything takes away from the three of us, then...
07:02I don't believe that it has to.
07:03But it has.
07:06What's supposed to be an adventure or a fling or a one-night stand has, you know, evolved
07:12into this emotional connection where I can see her being a part of my day, you know?
07:17I'm not asking anything.
07:18I'm just asking that you don't cut Lee out of my life.
07:21Well, that really depends on you.
07:22That depends on you.
07:25Love is love is love is love.
07:27So we do believe, and I think you do too, that love is limitless.
07:31Like, we could love as many, but time is not.
07:34I agree.
07:35And when you take time away from the garden you're supposed to be watering, and the garden
07:40you were supposed to be watering is dying.
07:42Does that make sense?
07:42It makes the same sense.
07:44If it would have stayed as a one-time adventure, but the fact that...
07:48We were friends first.
07:49That's not fair.
07:50It was probably not the right person to have an adventure with.
07:52So my adventure looks different than yours.
07:54How do we cater to that?
07:55That's not fair.
07:56So, like, mine is always going to be an emotional connection.
07:58That is not what we agreed upon.
07:59Uh-uh.
07:59The rule in our thruple was that each one of us could have an adventure once a month,
08:05and that looks like one evening, say approximately four hours.
08:09And the issue is that it's definitely a slippery slope when you start having an emotional connection
08:14with somebody else that's not your partner or your partner's.
08:18I'm not trying to, like, have a primary relationship with somebody else.
08:21If we want this to work, we need to focus on the three of us.
08:24I...
08:25What if we took, like, a platonic level?
08:30I don't think you can do that now.
08:32Now...
08:32Can we do that?
08:33Look at us.
08:34Like, we'll never be able to go back to a closed marriage.
08:36Once you open that box, we'll never be able to go back.
08:39You have to decide what you want.
08:41We still need to communicate about what Lee looks like for the next couple weeks,
08:44because right now, it's... we're not going in a good direction.
08:48I feel like you need to decide what you want,
08:51because I don't think both can live in the same space.
08:56Coming up...
08:57I definitely find myself in between Jacob and Davis.
09:01Since Davis and I have gotten engaged, how are you feeling about it?
09:04I am always scared of, like, losing our time together.
09:08Is she turning into, like, a girlfriend?
09:12This is embarrassing. This is what I'm talking about.
09:15It's mortifying. People on there know that that's my fiancee.
09:31I've got some colored pencils and some charcoal pencils,
09:35and I got a couple drawing pads so we can draw one another or...
09:40That's a frat.
09:40Me and Becca first met in a little tattoo studio.
09:45In our early 20s, she had just moved from Vermont to the middle of nowhere, Georgia,
09:51where there's just a small tattoo studio.
09:54As soon as she walked in on her first, like, day meeting everybody,
09:58it was, like, slow motion.
10:00I remember what she was wearing.
10:02I remember the shoes she had on.
10:04I remember her haircut.
10:06She looked so cool and amazing and beautiful,
10:10and I was, like, automatically, like, starstruck.
10:14Yeah, you look really beautiful here.
10:17I'm so excited to be here.
10:19I am, too.
10:19I'm so grateful that you wanted to come out here with me.
10:22Of course.
10:22And you always look so good next to the water.
10:25Jacob has done the majority of my tattoos.
10:27He's done, like, my chest and, you know, my forms, my cat portraits,
10:31my tummy tiger Jacob did as well, which is probably, like, one of my favorites.
10:36Since Davis and I have gotten engaged, you know, are you feeling like there's been any, like, shifts in our
10:40dynamic that you wanted to talk about?
10:42Or how are you feeling about it?
10:44I definitely am always scared of, like, losing our time together.
10:49You know, whenever we first started dating, I'd never been polyamorous before.
10:54When Becca and Davis started dating, you know, we were spending almost every single day, you know, around one another
11:0024-7,
11:01and then suddenly, Becca and Davis had their own apartment, and Becca would be gone half of the week.
11:07Like, I still feel, you know, every time that there's a new thing, it has its own hardships.
11:15How are you feeling about maybe wanting to, like, you know, deepen your relationship with Davis now that we're engaged?
11:22Well, Davis and I will have conversations, like, on the way to and from work when we ride together.
11:28Right.
11:28But, you know, it's like a couple of minutes and small talk, typically.
11:33I can definitely see that I haven't been putting in that effort as much as I could.
11:39So my position as the hinge in our relationship, I definitely find myself in between Jacob and Davis
11:46and, like, little silly things, whether it be like, oh, do you mind asking him if he can take the
11:50trash out today?
11:51Or do you mind, you know, and I'll be like, well, why can't you do it?
11:53And they're like, well, you know him better.
11:55I am, like, hopeful that y'all will continue to get closer and that our relationship between the two of
12:02us,
12:02and between Davis and I and between you two, like, everything will just continue to grow and get more comfortable.
12:08My first reaction to Becca and Davis getting engaged, you know, I was nervous.
12:14Jealousy happens.
12:16And, you know, there's always that little flicker inside of you that's like, oh, you know, like, am I good
12:22enough?
12:23I think giving him a chance, which I know you will, you know, I think you'll find that he's more
12:29agreeable.
12:30Right, yeah.
12:31Becca's right, you know, like, especially since we've lived together and he is Becca's partner.
12:35I'm willing to, like, give her what she wants and try to find that time and that space for Davis.
12:41I'm lucky that you let me be a part of your life.
12:44I love you as a part of my life. And I love you.
12:47I love you.
12:47Yeah, no, I am really looking forward to your and Davis's, like, relationship growing, you know, strengthen our family bond.
12:54I definitely think it will.
12:56Yeah.
13:08Jackie.
13:09Hey, boo.
13:11Jackie has been my friend for, like, 14 years. She has something that she has to tell me in person.
13:16You have, like, time to meet up with me? I have some tea.
13:19Jackie.
13:19What is it about? Jackie, what is it about?
13:22Something I saw.
13:23Is BQ involved in it? That's all I need to .
13:26That's all I want. That's it. I'll be there.
13:28Now I'm just like, blech.
13:30What's going on? What's new and exciting?
13:33I get a text message from the landlord stating that there's something in the house that we need to move
13:39out.
13:39So I call him. He's like, I'm at work. You know, I'm like, well, we have to talk because we
13:44need to find a place to live in 60 days.
13:46And he's like, I don't give a , you know, I don't care. I'm going to the gym right now.
13:52And I finally put a tracker in his car. And he wasn't at the gym. He was at the strip
13:58club.
14:02BQ is a sex addict. BQ cares about BQ. BQ cares about BQ's and where it's going to go next.
14:11And I know she's tired and he's never going to change.
14:16I'm done. I'm .
14:20So, um, the reason why I asked you to come here is because someone sent this to me because they
14:25know how close we were.
14:27And I had to check it out for myself. And when I looked.
14:31Oh my God, can you just tell me what the .
14:34So there's this group.
14:37Okay.
14:38And I go on.
14:39Where is this group?
14:39What is this group?
14:40It's online. It's on Facebook.
14:42What is it called?
14:43Let me just show you. The name is not even important.
14:48I'm so sorry.
14:49Are we dating the same guy? Why is his on there?
14:52I don't know, babe.
14:53This is embarrassing.
14:54I know.
14:55This is embarrassing.
14:56This is embarrassing.
14:56This is what I'm talking about.
14:57Like how many people seen this?
14:58Even once I introduced the polyamory into our relationship, he never stopped cheating.
15:04After I said, hey, we can have a girlfriend. She can live with us.
15:08He was still continuing these relations.
15:10Almost like I gave a dog a treat that just like over the house.
15:15Wait, when does it stop?
15:16It's not.
15:17And then he looks me in the face and he says, I'm not doing .
15:19I'm not doing .
15:20And he's .
15:21And now his face is on a site.
15:24I don't ever have a fair chance at making my own decisions in this relationship.
15:28I just have to do it.
15:29And that's not a relationship, babe.
15:30No, it's not.
15:30Everything is .
15:32That's a dictatorship.
15:34And you're a boss.
15:35He's breaking you down.
15:36You've got to get it together, him.
15:39I think maybe I should just get my own place and just start over without him.
15:45But it's not going to be easy.
15:47That's good.
15:48I've never heard you say that before.
15:50That's a step in the right direction.
15:53Mina, I love you, but I cannot continue to watch you.
15:57You're falling apart.
15:59I need the old Mina back.
16:01Like, come on, girl.
16:03You've got to get it together.
16:06What are you going to do right now, Mina?
16:08He's ruining your life.
16:11Coming up.
16:12How are things with Lee?
16:15Let's say my mom was in your shoes and she met someone.
16:18I would never follow it.
16:20To new beginnings.
16:22Let's go.
16:23Let's go.
16:24What the ?
16:25I thought we were a poly.
16:27We are.
16:28You don't want to exclude it yourself.
16:39I do think the river is one of my favorite parts about Redding.
16:43My relationship with Zoe was very close.
16:47It's like having a daughter and a best friend and a counselor all wrapped into this great
16:51little package.
16:52Picnic in a box.
16:53We love it.
16:54Very good, darling.
16:55It's a great present.
16:56Oh, we even have mustard and .
16:57I thought about these.
16:58You do picnics pretty fabulous.
17:01I love having Nita in my life because kind of like sisters, we process our emotions together.
17:07Toast you guys coming out is a throuple.
17:09All right.
17:09My journey with polyamory is very exciting and it's allowed me to get to know and love
17:17Nita.
17:17And she teaches me so much about the world.
17:20I think one of the most important things about coming out is you'd never know who really
17:24has you until you take that step.
17:26Because nobody even knows you until you take that step.
17:30So how do you feel about parents coming out as a throuple?
17:33It's going to be hard to go to any sort of family reunions and just feel those stares
17:38that I know just don't understand.
17:40You think we're still going to get invited?
17:41Now that my parents have come out as a throuple, I'm nervous about some extended family.
17:47I don't think they care to try to understand.
17:49And so where I used to love going to family gatherings or reunions, I can't see myself going
17:54if my parents don't get invited.
17:56How about you?
17:56How are things with Leigh?
18:00Is she turning into like a girlfriend?
18:02Is that the direction it's going?
18:06My attraction to Leigh initially is like she's definitely like a lesbian woman.
18:11I mean, full-fledged lesbian.
18:12We haven't been intimate more than just once.
18:14But as far as the physical turning into an emotional development, I didn't cut it off
18:19when I started having feelings or liking her.
18:21That wouldn't work for us.
18:22Yeah, I know that you were the one that kind of set up the boundaries.
18:26That was not what we agreed upon.
18:27Of a close throuple.
18:29So now that you're adventuring in this way, how do you think that's going to ripple out?
18:32I've been, um, trinogamous.
18:35What?
18:36Right?
18:36Is that a real world?
18:37Or did I make that up?
18:38Either way, I follow.
18:40I've been trinogamous for three years.
18:42Like that's a long time to the same person.
18:45We're the same people.
18:48Okay.
18:49Have you talked to the parents about it?
18:52Yeah, about that.
18:54So your mom.
18:56Yeah, she'll call you on your .
18:59Let's say my mom was in your shoes and she met someone and she wanted to continue on more
19:04than just an adventure buddy.
19:05What feelings would you have?
19:06I would never tolerate it.
19:07I would never.
19:08No.
19:09You couldn't tolerate it?
19:10There's no way I would welcome that.
19:11I feel guilty about the connection with Leigh.
19:14Cause I know I'm wronger than two left shoes.
19:15I mean like I'm already breaking the rules.
19:18But we've endured far greater struggles than, you know, me liking another girl.
19:22Polyamory is for people who.
19:24Have thick skin.
19:24Want to grow.
19:26Do you think there could be space for all of it if you learn exactly what everyone needs?
19:31Not right now.
19:32Not right now.
19:33I know the answer is no.
19:34That's just.
19:35Well, what are your biggest fears?
19:37I don't know.
19:37It's a female, female relationship.
19:38I feel like your mom might feel like I'm trying to replace her or something.
19:43She just told me what I already knew.
19:44She just held the mirror for me.
19:45I need to make this better before things get at hand.
19:48God willing, there'll be no tear shed, hopefully.
20:07I'm trying to mend things with Brie.
20:09So I asked her out to dinner tonight.
20:14Hey, Brie.
20:17Just bull .
20:19I'm going out with Drie.
20:21Hi.
20:23Is it shady that you're going out with Drie?
20:26Like what's going on?
20:27Like this is too much talking.
20:29But what you want to do about it?
20:32No, I'm not being shady.
20:34Shady was when Brie got up and packed her and moved off the house.
20:38And hi, baby.
20:39Hi, Red.
20:40How are you?
20:42You know, just working.
20:44Getting ready for my birthday.
20:46Birthday?
20:47Clock that.
20:50So where the other half at?
20:52It's just us.
20:53You don't want to vibe with me?
20:55Yeah, I do.
20:55But you know, I'm used to trio.
20:58Some things you got to get unused to.
21:00Okay.
21:01Recently, Brie decided she wanted to move out.
21:05Hold up.
21:06I need a drink.
21:07Wait.
21:09Hold up.
21:10Hold up.
21:11You might need a drink for this one.
21:13I tried reaching out to Brie.
21:15She ain't answer me.
21:16I'm done with that .
21:17I'm not reaching out.
21:19She can reach out to me.
21:31He, like, hit me up to come on this date to go play pickleball.
21:35I'm down to play pickleball.
21:37But what the pickleball?
21:44Some white people's .
21:46What's up, baby?
21:48Hey, babe.
21:49How you doing?
21:50Hey.
21:51I ain't seen you in a minute.
21:53I know.
21:55It's been since the pool party, right?
21:57I've been good.
21:58How you been?
21:59Missing you.
22:00But, you know, I've been good.
22:01I'm excited to see Key because, honestly, like, my hair space ain't been right since all
22:06these events that done happened.
22:07You ready?
22:08I'ma make you sweat today, babe.
22:10I'm bringing her hair.
22:13Yeah, you know I make a scissor.
22:16Yeah, you know I had the drizzle.
22:19Ah!
22:21I know since the party, she kind of, like, been off.
22:24Like, is it because of me, or...?
22:26No, I just think it's because, you know, me and Bri, as you know, we started this poly thing with
22:35my ex.
22:36Mm-hmm.
22:36But he's not actually my ex-husband yet.
22:39We're still married.
22:41Mm-hmm.
22:41Mm-hmm.
22:42So I know as you've been...
22:43Unfinished business.
22:44Exactly.
22:45But now it's getting real pushy.
22:48It's getting to the point where she told me, like, if you don't do it, I'm moving out.
22:52And I come home and she gone.
22:56Well, at the end of the day, like, new doors is opening and stuff.
23:00You know what I'm saying?
23:01So, like, you gotta close that chapter.
23:06I did have a conversation with Marlee a little bit before this.
23:10I wanna know what's going on.
23:12I love her.
23:13But it's like, she's not divorced.
23:17She needs to make the decision and stop playing.
23:20Right.
23:20We've been together for too many damn years to still be playing this girlfriend card.
23:27I gave her ultimatum.
23:29Do you wanna go on with this for real or do you wanna live this fairytale life?
23:33I'm willing to get a divorce.
23:35I told her that verbally, but she's not taking that word.
23:38She's ready for action, like, you do this or you do this.
23:42Like, I don't know.
23:43It just seemed, like, bossy a little bit to me.
23:47Maybe she's trying to show you, like...
23:49Don't show me.
23:50This is not school.
23:51But you're not showing her neither.
23:53She definitely needs to figure that out if she wants to move forward with anybody
23:58because everybody's not gonna wanna deal with that situation.
24:02And she's definitely gonna have to figure that out if she wanna move forward with me.
24:06Well, why you have to do the disappearing act on her, though?
24:10And raise her blood pressure like that?
24:12But I kinda needed a clear space.
24:14I needed to think.
24:15I needed to get my mind right.
24:17But what if she's not ready to let go of her past?
24:20Clearly, it's something that's keeping her from doing this.
24:23It's love there for both of them, like, really deeply.
24:28It's like, I feel pulled for real, for real.
24:31But I feel like you need to close that chapter.
24:35It's hard.
24:38Divorce time.
24:39If you're not with divorce time, then you can't have my time.
24:43There's no way on moving forward with somebody who is married to somebody else.
24:47You gotta figure this thing out, because I want both of y'all.
24:50So what is it gonna take?
24:51Until she presents paperwork, there's nothing we need to talk about.
24:59Coming up...
25:00You have never affected me or our relationship.
25:04I was inside, no doubt.
25:05And I really can't afford to lose her at this point.
25:07She's everything I got.
25:09Let me take you to a real party, baby.
25:12Go.
25:12Go.
25:13Come on.
25:14Okay.
25:15See you later.
25:15All right.
25:26Man, I'm excited about this.
25:28I, um, am still kind of interested as to what in the hell you even have in store or what
25:34this place is.
25:35I've been here once before.
25:36I think you'll find some pretty cool stuff.
25:38My fiance's husband is taking us shopping to find her an engagement gift.
25:53There's so many odd things in here.
25:57I've got a good idea of, like, what Becca likes whenever it comes to, like, oddities and knick-knacks and
26:03stuff.
26:04So I'm sure we can find a really good little gift.
26:08I wouldn't get Becca anything from here, but it's right up Jacob's alley.
26:13I feel like I've always been drawn to the weird and the wild, just real oddball stuff.
26:20Davis and I bonding is definitely something that Becca wants, especially with their engagement
26:25and thinking about how we're going to spend so much time together potentially for the rest of our lives.
26:31Yeah, these butterflies are really nice.
26:33I'm sure for her, she would really like that.
26:35That might be a good one.
26:36Or the bat, even.
26:37Well, I don't think she'll want a taxidermied animal.
26:40Considering, like, you know, Jacob's interest, I genuinely can say I never thought I'd be actually sharing a bed with
26:45this guy.
26:46Are these ethically sourced, like, animals?
26:50Yes, all of our specimens we have here are ethically sourced out of natural causes.
26:55Awesome.
26:56That's what I thought.
26:58I know we have our differences and sometimes I get a little scared of, like, creating conflict, you know, especially
27:06with your relationship with Becca.
27:08You know, I'm always a little bit afraid of, you know, butting heads.
27:12And sometimes I feel like it keeps us from kind of bonding in that way, or at least I may
27:17feel that way.
27:17I don't know about you.
27:18Possibly.
27:18I mean, you know, like, the stakes are high, right, whenever it comes to Becca.
27:22Like, we're both with her, you know, and we plan on being with her forever.
27:27You know what I mean?
27:28That's the point.
27:29And so, like, building a friendship with you hasn't necessarily been the forefront of my mind.
27:33Right.
27:34Yeah.
27:34My relationship with Becca is separate from Jacob's relationship with Becca, even though we share a partner, essentially.
27:41But an outside relationship we don't really have outside of Becca.
27:46You know, whenever you ask me to come hang out, I thought it might be a little awkward.
27:50But, you know, this might be the second longest conversation we've ever had.
27:55When you put it in that perspective, it makes me feel like, you know, maybe we could do a little
27:59bit more.
27:59Yeah.
28:00Next time we hang out, you know, we'll do something that you want to do.
28:03I would absolutely be down to go to a sports game.
28:06I know Becca doesn't 100% love that, even though she would probably go just to be with, like, me.
28:11I like Davis.
28:12I also see how good of a partner he is to Becca, and that helps me strive to be a
28:18better partner and husband myself.
28:21Here's a little...
28:22Smaller?
28:22There's a little groomsman troll and a bride troll.
28:27I love this.
28:29Let's do it.
28:29All right.
28:30Let's do it.
28:31Nice.
28:31Bring us up.
28:32All set.
28:34All right.
28:35Oh, they're perfect.
28:36Do you look like us?
28:37Me and Davis?
28:38Yes.
28:39I love it.
28:39Yes.
28:40It's amazing.
28:41Excellent.
28:41It's perfect.
28:42Thanks for listening to us talk so long.
28:44Of course.
28:45That was fun.
28:46I felt like I shouldn't have been listening.
28:49You know, even though I just got engaged to Becca, I think that I still want to foster any kind
28:55of organic connection that may come its way to me.
28:58And how long have you guys been here?
28:59We have been here six years now, this past July.
29:03That's awesome.
29:03I am open to dating.
29:04I do think there is a ceiling in regards to, you know, how many engagements, how many partners you can
29:09or one can have.
29:10But I haven't necessarily reached that yet.
29:13I'm definitely going to come see you guys over at your place.
29:16Oh, you should, for sure.
29:17Yeah.
29:17Come get tattooed.
29:18Let's get a little something.
29:30Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
29:37That's why you my baby.
29:42As you guys all know that Bri have moved away.
29:45So I reloaded.
29:47I'm going to be in here with seven girls.
29:48Cash flow.
29:49I'mma need it on time.
29:51Cash flow.
29:51I'mma need it on time.
29:53Call all them bitches up.
29:56One by one.
29:57You look good.
29:58There you go.
29:59There you go.
30:00There you go.
30:01You look good.
30:01You look good.
30:03Of course, you know, I had to invite Dri.
30:05Bringing her back to the scene of the crime.
30:08I look sexy in this to the back.
30:11I like Dri because Dri likes me.
30:14It's just how she moves.
30:16Like, she cool.
30:16How you feeling about this here situation?
30:19It is what it is.
30:20People come and go, you know.
30:23I just want them to be back on their good terms.
30:26You know what I'm saying?
30:27Well, we just kind of see what happens in the future.
30:30What the future holds, right?
30:32Us.
30:34Let me, let me just kind of be devil's advocate here.
30:37Brie is not open to it.
30:40She can't make no decisions for me.
30:42I'm in whether or not Brie come back or not.
30:44As long as we stay on the same page and turn the chapters together, we good.
30:50I'm just trying to piece it all together.
30:53That's it.
30:53In polyamory, there's never just a fight between two people.
30:58Dri is a problem for the entire polycule.
31:01She could the whole thing up.
31:03All right, y'all.
31:04Let's make a toast right now to new beginnings.
31:06To new beginnings.
31:08To me too.
31:11Let's go.
31:13This is good vibes.
31:15Like, I like this.
31:16House full of women.
31:17Where can we go wrong?
31:30Coming up.
31:31So you didn't tell me what this is.
31:33I'm livid.
31:34There's no excuse.
31:35It's your picture and read all the comments on it.
31:37I knew this .
31:38It was coming.
31:40Let me take you to a real party.
31:42Get up out this wacky .
31:44She not.
31:45Don't play with me.
31:46I'll pour this drink on both of y'all.
31:47Watch.
31:48I'm just being tugged between the two.
31:50Go. Come on.
31:55Daddy.
31:57I need bolt cutters.
31:58I need the chain to be cut.
32:01Tonight, currently, I'm in the dog house.
32:03But hopefully, by the end of this, things will be different.
32:07Do we have bolt cutters?
32:09No.
32:10I could.
32:10I don't know if I could either figure out how to cut.
32:13It's a pretty thick chain.
32:14I don't know.
32:14We definitely need bolt cutters.
32:18After a bit of a rough patch and her emotional connection with Lee, I need to ask for a date
32:23night.
32:23Which I love, because we don't get that very often.
32:26We don't get to have time just for a night.
32:30And I'm sure she has some fun things planned.
32:32Which is always exciting for me.
32:34I love that.
32:35Hey!
32:36Are you guys good up there?
32:38So, like, from here to the bed, we should be, like, right there.
32:42And then, yeah.
32:43So, yeah, basically in half almost.
32:45Yep.
32:46This night has to be really special.
32:47Like Romeo and Juliet type .
32:49This is where the magic happens.
32:51Help is dramatic.
32:52I want it to happen like it does in the movies.
32:56It'd be, like, super not sexy if I dropped her.
32:58That would not be good.
33:02I think I just saw my husband walk outside with chains.
33:08Glass.
33:09Glass is always best policy.
33:14The base of it doesn't fit in my strap, so we have to improv something.
33:18Date night was supposed to start 30 minutes ago.
33:24Success.
33:28You're amazing.
33:29You're so sexy right now.
33:31Yes.
33:32This is taking forever.
33:36I believe she's trying to do something special.
33:39It would be really good to connect.
33:41What's really, really interesting about her and I
33:44today is we communicate best through intimacy.
33:48This should get me out of the dog house.
33:49Like, we're just missing when we're talking.
33:51And when her and I have sex for some reason,
33:54we completely understand each other.
33:56One, two, three.
33:57On your mark and say it.
33:58Go.
33:59Oh, man.
34:00But we're successful.
34:06Well, well.
34:07Let's speak to the very hard work I've been doing.
34:11I'm excited.
34:12Are you?
34:12Are you seeing the orange ones?
34:15Okay.
34:15I know many of you, you're not going to understand this.
34:19I wouldn't have understood this.
34:21I don't want to mess up your lashes, okay?
34:22I think you have to experience some things to even have an opinion about something.
34:28Believe me.
34:29I mean, like, this is something that's beautiful and amazing and I wouldn't have known that.
34:34Oh, my lord.
34:37That's beautiful.
34:39I love you.
34:41I apologize.
34:42Will you forgive me?
34:44Please forgive me.
34:44No, I don't. No, stop.
34:45Please forgive me.
34:47Okay.
34:47So I'm done?
34:48Sex, mostly.
34:49And mostly more sex.
34:50And mostly more sex.
34:52That's what it looks like.
34:53That's amazing.
34:55And makeup sex is always the best, right?
34:59Okay, go.
35:00Okay.
35:01Okay.
35:02Okay.
35:03Okay.
35:04Okay.
35:04No, okay.
35:05Bye.
35:12Hey.
35:13Hey.
35:14Hey.
35:15Everybody say hi tonight.
35:18Yeah.
35:18What the going on in this bitch ass mother .
35:24When Brie walked through that door, the whole energy just went left.
35:28You got five weak ass bitches in this mother .
35:31Hey.
35:32Oh.
35:33Baby.
35:34I laid this trap out.
35:36I knew once Brie heard the ruckus, she was gonna come see what's going on.
35:40I see you got Dree there, though.
35:42Hi.
35:43Once I see Dree, I'm just annoyed off that, off tops.
35:47Why are you over here?
35:48Don't you live in the pool house?
35:50Marlee's super obvious, like, that she's trying to get under my skin.
35:54I came to party with this weak ass party.
35:57I came to turn it up.
35:58I was weak.
35:59It look a little dry.
36:00We got soda.
36:01We got chips.
36:02We got her nerves.
36:04Missing pizza.
36:06I thought we were a poly.
36:07We are.
36:08You don't want to exclude it yourself.
36:10I can see the tension and the boiliness coming off of Brie.
36:13I see the steam off of Brie's shoulders.
36:15This ain't no poly-cool this .
36:17Over.
36:17This was your poly-cool and you left it.
36:20Bye.
36:21I really don't care for bum-ass .
36:24This is some stupid .
36:28Why the you doing my house like that?
36:30This crazy-ass girl done turned into the exorcist.
36:35Do you understand?
36:35She started throwing chips.
36:37What is wrong with her?
36:39Ain't we poly?
36:40Go back to your pool house.
36:42You probably need some crackers and cheese for these hoes.
36:46I don't know you.
36:49Let me take you to a real party, baby.
36:52Come on.
36:52Get up off this whack-ass .
36:55She not.
36:55Don't play with me.
36:56I'll pour this drink on both of y'all.
36:58Watch out.
36:58I'm just being tugged between the two like I'm a tug of war rope.
37:02Come on.
37:02Go.
37:03Go.
37:04Come on.
37:04Get that way.
37:05Go.
37:06Stop playing with me.
37:06Go.
37:08Come on.
37:09Slide.
37:09All right.
37:09If you want to talk to me like a woman, then do that.
37:12Slide.
37:12We're poly, right?
37:13Come on.
37:13Polly.
37:14Okay.
37:14See you later.
37:15All right.
37:17Cue the music.
37:18Hey, our poly will never function with just one of us.
37:21It's either both of us or it's no poly at all.
37:24Let's go, y'all.
37:25Donut.
37:26Hey.
37:27Straight lane .
37:28We have to find a way to get us back on track and fast.
37:51The last time I saw Tamina was at the strip club, which almost was a good time.
37:56But it ended up becoming the show after.
37:59Angel.
38:00Come here, Angel.
38:00Come here.
38:01Come here.
38:02Come.
38:03Come here.
38:13Hi.
38:14Hi.
38:15Oh, rocker?
38:17Yeah.
38:18What's wrong with that?
38:19Crazy.
38:20That's .
38:21See that club when you were supposed to be at the gym?
38:26First of all, I'm not-
38:27I have every right to know where my fiance is and you're lying about it.
38:30So I-
38:30Not like that.
38:31Yeah, I do.
38:31Yeah.
38:32That's not what's happening.
38:33That is what's happening.
38:33How about you are my fiance and you clean the house?
38:36I'm sorry.
38:37Maybe you could stop and pay more attention to your family and then maybe I will clean the house.
38:43It's a mess.
38:43Yeah.
38:44This is all my stuff.
38:45You care.
38:46You're not home.
38:47You think that your house is going to stay when you're not taking care of what's yours?
38:52You're taking care of what someone else's?
38:53Who?
38:54Yeah, the house is a mess.
38:55Because I'm going to have my person here.
38:58He's out there having a relationship with everyone else.
39:01Since I met up with Jackie and I saw these social media posts about BQ, I'm livid.
39:10I'm like, there's no excuse.
39:13So you're going to tell me what this is.
39:15You want to tell me what this is?
39:18It's in a Facebook group that says, are we dating the same guy in Long Island?
39:24And it's your picture and read all the comments on it.
39:27This just happened.
39:28Like you've been home.
39:29This is old .
39:30How is this old ?
39:31I know about these posts.
39:33I seen them for a little while.
39:35I knew it was coming.
39:37I knew it was coming.
39:38You want to explain why your face is being posted and are we dating the same guy website?
39:44Huh?
39:45This is all after you came home.
39:47I knew this was coming.
39:50Long story short, I stepped out of the relationship for a year.
39:53I went on a couple of dating sites.
39:54It was literally like Uber for girls.
39:57You know what I'm saying?
39:58I'm like, this is easy.
40:00I'm like, I could swipe right and .
40:02I have posting your picture on Facebook with over 100,000 people.
40:09You know how mortifying that is?
40:10And the nerve of you to tell me that you're doing the right thing.
40:14Bull .
40:14I talk my way out of like one girl cheating.
40:17Yeah.
40:18Maybe like two girls.
40:19But dude, a forum of women.
40:22I'm like, no, I'm going to take the on this one.
40:25I need .
40:26I need .
40:27You need .
40:28You.
40:28You've been cheating on me before any of this.
40:31You never stopped.
40:33You have never respected me or our relationship in eight years.
40:39And you're still lying to my .
40:44I'm .
40:45It's like the Incredible Hulk was coming out, dude.
40:47It was over for me.
40:48Like, listen, I was .
40:49No doubt.
40:51No doubt.
40:51Of course you can own up to it now.
40:53I was outside.
40:54What about therapy?
40:55I don't think you're in any position to say anything right now,
40:59but yes or I'm leaving.
41:00That's it.
41:01There's no no.
41:05I don't know.
41:06All right, listen.
41:07I'll about the therapy, but as long as you're
41:09get over the .
41:10I'll get over it if I get over it.
41:13You know, I know I'm no catch.
41:14I know.
41:14Listen, you could probably get any in the world that you want.
41:18Understandable.
41:18Listen, I never thought that you couldn't.
41:21She's like my life.
41:22That's all I know.
41:23I've known her for eight years.
41:24She's my best friend.
41:25She's my partner.
41:26She's my lover.
41:27She's my business partner.
41:28And that's all I really know.
41:30And I really can't afford to lose her at this point.
41:32She's everything I got.
41:34And I love her.
41:35Like, with all my heart.
41:38I know there's a lot of damage that I did in this relationship.
41:41And listen, it's going to be a long way out of the hole that I've caused us to be in.
41:45But I would like to try to at least fix it before it's too late.
41:48We can do the therapy thing and try to work on us and just see where that goes.
41:52That's what I've been saying.
41:54Let's do therapy.
41:55And you keep saying you got to think about it.
41:57So it's therapy or I'm out.
42:03OK.
42:04Well, then it looks like I'm going to have to choose the therapy.
42:07Because honestly, I don't want to lose you.
42:09If my options are losing her or therapy, I'm going to therapy.
42:15I up, man.
42:16I always up.
42:17But I just don't want to continue to up.
42:19And I just hope that the therapy makes things a little better.
42:23Yeah, me too.
42:24Me too.
42:25No better.
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