00:00But the umbrella sentiment, really, I mean, that headline is obviously kind of picking out one bit,
00:07but the umbrella sentiment is not being heard.
00:09Yeah.
00:10So she was saying to him, you know, it is a problem for me that there is a dishwasher there
00:14and you just,
00:15and it wasn't actually, it wasn't just the fact that it was the dishwasher,
00:20it was like she was saying to him, you're not listening to me,
00:23and you're saying that your need to just stick that on the top there
00:27is greater than my need for you to just put it in the dishwasher.
00:31And like she said, wiping the pee from around the toilet, you know, picking up the socks,
00:35all those things, day in, day out.
00:37It's not sexy, boys.
00:39It's not.
00:40And with Mother's Day coming out, there's a wonder, I think it's a fascinating article.
00:45Yeah, I do.
00:45He does this wonderful bit where he says, you know, a lot of what happens on Mother's Day,
00:49it's like, well, I'm going to take the, you know, we're going to treat you today.
00:53It's like there's 365 days in the year, and it's like this sort of,
00:59I'm going to look after the children for you, is how he was.
01:04I mean, this is, you know, not all men are like this.
01:07No.
01:08But he's talking about his experience, and he said that when the marriage broke up,
01:13he sort of just descended into depression and anesthetising himself with vodka,
01:20and he put out a kind of an online thing, woe is me, woe is me, and started a blog,
01:25and then he said suddenly all these men started to email him,
01:29and he realised that this pattern of behaviour, and that was when he had his epiphany,
01:35and he went, oh, see, actually, it's me.
01:37I actually don't.
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