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Philosopher Stefan Molyneux shows how romance novels lead to depopulation by feeding women a victim mindset that makes them reject ordinary men and chase exceptional ones who must change while they stay flawless.
0:00:00 Hypergamy and Romance
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00:00All right, Stefan Molyneux from freedomain.com.
00:05Freedomain.com slash donate to help out the show.
00:07I'd really, really appreciate your very kind support.
00:10Now, I want to talk about the kind of subtle depopulation thing
00:16that is going on in the world.
00:18And it is a kind of modern story of hypergamy grandeur
00:30that is settled by programming women to not have children,
00:35to not be satisfied.
00:38Maybe you're just like my mama.
00:40She's never satisfied.
00:43I wasn't lying.
00:44It almost struck me.
00:45So, what am I talking about?
00:46Well, in the past, the stories generally were
00:52a man and a woman don't get together
00:55because both of them are flawed.
00:58Right, you can think sort of pride and prejudice.
01:01You can think of Emma.
01:02You can think of taming of the shrew and so on.
01:05So, men and women are flawed
01:09and it is their flaws which keep them from falling in love
01:13and pair bonding and getting together.
01:15And then, when they overcome those flaws,
01:21they can fall in love and get married and move on.
01:26Right?
01:26It's the classic, you know, guy chases girl,
01:29guy gets girl, guy loses girl,
01:31and then a certain bit of knowledge or self-knowledge
01:36or something is resolved.
01:37I mean, one of the examples of this from the male side
01:41is something like Good Will Hunting
01:44where Will has a problem with lying and violence and so on
01:50and he overcomes his childhood trauma
01:55and then goes and gets the girl.
01:59Now, this idea that love doesn't come to either party
02:05if either party has particular flaws
02:08and the flaws tend to be kind of moral flaws.
02:12They tend to be things like vanity, greed, licentiousness, lust,
02:17and so on.
02:18I'm too good for him.
02:20Pride and prejudice with the lead male
02:26hates his attraction to the young woman
02:28and has too much pride and so on to be honest.
02:33Or it could be cowardice
02:36that the man doesn't have the courage to ask the girl out
02:39or something like that.
02:41For the woman, it could be she has bad friends
02:44who keep her from love because of their own pathologies,
02:48which is not uncommon, right?
02:49You get a coterie of single people of both sexes
02:54and next thing you know,
02:56they're working hard to keep each other single
02:58because it's kind of painful.
03:00If you are single
03:03and a bunch of friends of yours are single
03:05and then one by one they start getting married off,
03:07I mean, you do begin to panic.
03:08You do begin to feel kind of bad after a while
03:11and it's tough.
03:13So the idea that Adam and Eve,
03:17to use a sort of alpha of humanity nomenclature,
03:23the idea that Adam and Eve both have problems,
03:28and here I'm just referring to males and females,
03:30not original Adam and Eve,
03:31they both have problems
03:32and once they work on those problems
03:36or suffer enough from those problems,
03:39then the path forward for them to fall in love
03:42is opened up
03:44and all of these wonderful things happen.
03:46Now, of course, in Good Will Hunting,
03:48the Minnie Driver character has no flaws.
03:50She's perfect and wonderful and deep-throated
03:52and has that guttural, throaty laugh
03:55that Minnie Driver has perfected and so on.
03:58So she's perfect,
03:59but of course, Will has to fix himself
04:01because he's male
04:01and that's kind of the thing.
04:04Now, one of the things that happens
04:07when you place people in a victim mindset,
04:09which feminism does, right?
04:10That women are victimized and exploited
04:12and so on throughout history.
04:13One of the things that happens
04:15when you put people in a victim mindset,
04:18and this is one of the foundational reasons
04:20why they're put into a victim mindset,
04:22is you make them extremely angry towards criticism.
04:28If someone is a slave,
04:31then criticizing them
04:35for something wrong with their personality
04:37or something wrong with their work ethic
04:38or something wrong with their morals and so on,
04:41well, they're a slave.
04:42So once you put someone in the mindset
04:46of being a victim,
04:47then you can't criticize that person
04:50because they are victims
04:53and therefore the only criticism that exists
04:56would have to be reserved for the exploiter,
05:00the man, the patriarchy,
05:02the men who dominate and control and bully and so on, right?
05:07And this is sort of encapsulated
05:10in the classic rhetoric of
05:12don't blame the victim, right?
05:14So some woman is out in a skimpy outfit
05:17and she's drunk
05:19and she's kind of bumping and grinding
05:20on guys at a club
05:21and then something bad happens
05:24and of course the person who does the bad thing
05:26should go to jail
05:28and all that sort of stuff.
05:29But at the same time,
05:30we would say that prevention
05:33is the better part of cure
05:35and life is not safe
05:37and the people are often not safe,
05:41particularly people who were out at clubs
05:42around closing time and so on.
05:44They're a little bit higher
05:45in the predator-to-normie ratio.
05:48But of course,
05:49if a woman is attacked in this kind of way,
05:53I mean, she's obviously a victim
05:55and it was evil what was done to her,
05:58and the idea of criticizing her
05:59because she is a victim,
06:02you can't criticize victims.
06:04And so because women
06:06have now been portrayed
06:07as eternal and perpetual victims,
06:11they can't be criticized.
06:13Because if a woman is criticized
06:16in general,
06:18her mind immediately shifts to,
06:21but I'm a victim,
06:23men are infinitely worse,
06:24the patriarchy is infinitely worse,
06:26and therefore you can't criticize me.
06:30It's cowardly to criticize me.
06:34If a slave is being beaten by his master,
06:38then to criticize the slave is cowardly
06:40because what you really should be doing
06:42is criticizing the master
06:44and slavery and the beating and so on, right?
06:46If a slave is beaten
06:48because the soup he serves
06:50is not warm enough,
06:52then criticizing the slave
06:54for not having the soup
06:57but the right temperature
06:58is wrong and bad
07:01and, like, that would be
07:02a terrible thing to do.
07:03You would criticize the beating,
07:04the master of slavery as a whole,
07:06the institution, the laws,
07:07all of that sort of stuff, right?
07:10So once you convince people
07:13that they're victims,
07:15then they become immune to criticism.
07:20And, of course, you see this
07:22all the time on social media,
07:24and it's something that I pointed out constantly
07:26over my up-y-down-y rollercoaster career
07:30in social media,
07:30which is if I criticize something about women,
07:34the pivot to male is always the case, right?
07:38And the pivot to male is because
07:42when you make someone a victim,
07:45you strip that person of moral agency,
07:50which is perfectly valid
07:51in some situations in life, of course,
07:55a four-year-old child
07:56who is beaten by a grandfather or something,
08:00clearly, at least from
08:01the peaceful parenting standpoint,
08:03clearly the child
08:05is not a full moral agent
08:08and is a victim of circumstances,
08:09did not choose the family,
08:11did not choose the grandfather,
08:12did not choose the beating.
08:14And if you, for some reason,
08:15like, let's say that you say,
08:16ah, yes, but it is valid
08:18to beat a four-year-old child,
08:21okay, make it a one-year-old child.
08:23A six-month-old baby.
08:25At some point, you have to say
08:27there's no moral agency
08:28and the child is purely a victim.
08:30So, if the child pees on the caregiver
08:34and the caregiver beats the child
08:36and it's a baby or whatever, right?
08:38Then clearly the baby is not in control
08:39of the bladder and all that kind of stuff, right?
08:41So, somebody who is genuinely a victim
08:47has no moral agency.
08:50Now, if you have no moral agency,
08:53you cannot be criticized.
08:56I mean, a man does not have moral agency
09:00over his eye color, his height,
09:03whether he goes bald.
09:06I mean, you can obviously wear lifts,
09:08you can wear eye contacts
09:10and you can get gross hair transplants
09:13and things like that.
09:14Sorry, Elon, but it's true.
09:16But we would not morally blame a man
09:20for being short, for, say, having brown eyes
09:23rather than the electric blue-green
09:25or whatever's considered icy Nordic model steering,
09:30or for being short.
09:33We would not blame,
09:34because height, hair color,
09:37I'm sorry, hair, more hair color too, right?
09:39We wouldn't blame somebody
09:40for being black or brown or blonde.
09:42So, height, hair color,
09:46and the presence or absence of hair,
09:48male pattern baldness, and so on.
09:51These are things that people are not responsible for.
09:54Again, there's things that you can do
09:55to change it, right?
09:57You can dye your hair and so on, right?
09:58But if somebody has gray hair
10:00and decides to dye it,
10:01we don't blame them morally for having gray hair,
10:04because it's not a moral choice.
10:06It is a matter of genetics and aging and so on.
10:10If somebody...
10:11Well, it's interesting, yeah.
10:12The glasses thing, I don't know.
10:13Is it bad to read a lot of social media
10:15or read a lot of books?
10:16Is that bad for your eyes?
10:18But anyway, so...
10:19But just height, of course.
10:21No man or woman is morally responsible
10:24for his or her height.
10:27And so where there is no moral agency,
10:29there can be no valid criticism.
10:33And so if women, for instance,
10:35and this is one of the aspects of feminism
10:39that is very strong,
10:41women are told that throughout evolution,
10:44throughout human history,
10:46and way up until the present,
10:48that they are inert, passive victims
10:51that the evil patriarchy
10:54acts upon
10:56and controls
10:56and punishes
10:58and attacks
10:59and exploits
11:00and so on, right?
11:01And that they have no agency,
11:03no choice
11:04in the matter.
11:06This is the root of the complaint
11:08that I heard
11:09when I was a kid.
11:10Men are all the same.
11:12Well, that's because
11:1480% of women
11:15are trying to have sex
11:15with the top 20% of guys,
11:17and therefore,
11:19of course,
11:20they seem to be kind of the same
11:21because they're all
11:22kind of going for the same.
11:24It's like
11:24only dating super,
11:25like models
11:26and saying, you know,
11:27they're kind of skinny and shallow,
11:28blah, blah, blah, right?
11:29Hedy Lamarr accepted.
11:31So,
11:32if you can convince women
11:34that they
11:34are passive,
11:37victim only,
11:39without agency,
11:40lumps of
11:42cells
11:42and clumps of cells,
11:44then you cannot criticize them.
11:45If somebody
11:47were to say to you,
11:48yes,
11:49there's a video
11:50of my grandfather
11:51beating me
11:52when I was six years old
11:54because I
11:54lost control
11:55of my bladder,
11:57if somebody
11:57were to say,
11:58well,
11:59you shouldn't have
12:01lost control
12:01of your bladder,
12:02you brought it on yourself,
12:04we would view that person
12:05as
12:06a monster.
12:07I mean,
12:08that's a horrible thing to say,
12:09and it would indicate
12:11some severe sociopathy,
12:13at least I would assume.
12:14So,
12:15if you
12:16make women
12:17passive
12:17lumps of clay
12:19that are pushed around
12:20by men,
12:20men have agency,
12:22women are pure victims,
12:23then women
12:25cannot
12:26take criticism.
12:28And it is
12:29kind of a modern
12:30thing
12:31that
12:32women cannot
12:33take
12:34criticism.
12:36And if you are
12:37with someone
12:37who cannot take
12:38criticism,
12:39and they are
12:40an adult
12:42human being
12:43with moral
12:43agency and
12:44intelligence and
12:45perception and
12:46free will
12:47and so on,
12:49if that person
12:50cannot take
12:50criticism,
12:51then in a sense
12:52they are claiming
12:53the moral status
12:54of infancy,
12:56which is that you
12:57are passive
12:58and acted upon,
12:59right?
13:00You wouldn't say
13:03about
13:03a baby,
13:05let's say,
13:05the parents
13:06move from
13:06Nashville
13:07to New York,
13:08right?
13:09You wouldn't say
13:10to that person
13:11when they grew older,
13:12like,
13:12why did you choose
13:13to move
13:13to New York
13:14from Nashville?
13:15I mean,
13:15those winters,
13:16Nashville is nice,
13:17country music.
13:18They would say,
13:18look,
13:19I was six months
13:20old,
13:20I didn't have
13:21any choice
13:21of the matter,
13:22I didn't even
13:22have any words
13:22yet,
13:23right?
13:24Now,
13:24that's somebody
13:25who's passive
13:25and acted upon
13:26by the parents.
13:28So,
13:29you wouldn't
13:29criticize someone
13:32for what
13:33was inflicted
13:33upon them
13:34or positive
13:35things,
13:35right?
13:36When they were
13:37a baby,
13:37because they
13:37don't have
13:38any choice
13:38anymore or agency.
13:39So,
13:40criticizing
13:41an infant
13:42makes no sense
13:44and is actually
13:44kind of corrupt.
13:45And if,
13:47you know,
13:47through feminism,
13:48women believed
13:48that they were
13:49only acted upon
13:51and that they
13:52had no choice
13:53and no preferences
13:54and so on,
13:55then,
13:57hmm,
13:58they can't be
13:59criticized.
14:00And you can see
14:03how romance
14:04stories have
14:06changed over
14:08time to
14:09accommodate
14:09the concept
14:11that women
14:12have no agency,
14:14that they merely
14:14acted upon,
14:15that they're
14:15always victims,
14:16and therefore
14:18they cannot be
14:18criticized.
14:20And so,
14:20it's very rare
14:22that
14:24in modern
14:25stories,
14:26a woman
14:28is at fault,
14:30the man
14:30is good,
14:31the woman
14:32is at fault,
14:33and the woman
14:34needs to learn
14:35how to be
14:35a better person
14:36in order to
14:38fall in love,
14:40right?
14:40In order to
14:41fall in love.
14:42So,
14:43how does this
14:45translate?
14:46So,
14:47you know
14:47sort of
14:48the modern
14:50standard
14:51of romance,
14:52and the
14:53modern standard
14:53of romance
14:54is
14:56a fairly
14:57ordinary
14:58woman
14:59catches the
15:00eye
15:01of
15:02a world
15:03alpha.
15:04Now,
15:04a world
15:04alpha isn't
15:05just like the
15:05coolest guy
15:06in the neighborhood
15:06or the
15:07quarterback
15:08in a small
15:09town,
15:09like he is
15:10a world
15:10alpha,
15:11right?
15:11because there's
15:12no top
15:13to hypergamy.
15:15Hypergamy
15:16has no
15:16ceiling.
15:19And so,
15:20you get
15:20immortal vampires,
15:22you get
15:22Christian Grey,
15:23all these
15:24kinds of
15:24guys,
15:25and
15:27they are
15:27world
15:28alphas.
15:29They're not
15:29just
15:30one in
15:31a hundred,
15:31one in
15:31a thousand,
15:32they are
15:33one in
15:34a hundred
15:35million,
15:35or one in
15:36ten million.
15:38And
15:38they are
15:39powerful
15:40and gorgeous
15:41and tall
15:43and handsome
15:44and have
15:44great bodies
15:45and are
15:47emotionally
15:48mysterious,
15:50and a
15:52thoroughly
15:52average
15:53woman
15:54catches
15:55the man's
15:57eye,
15:57the man
15:58god.
15:59This is
15:59really a
16:01love the
16:02gods
16:02scenario
16:03in these
16:04sort of
16:04modern
16:04romance
16:05stories.
16:06Even in
16:07a story
16:07like
16:08The
16:09Housemaid,
16:09I think
16:10it is
16:10The
16:10Housemaid,
16:11you think
16:12that there's
16:12I'm not
16:12going to
16:13spoil it
16:13much,
16:13but you
16:14think
16:15there's
16:15a woman
16:15who's
16:16at fault,
16:17but it
16:17turns out
16:18no,
16:18no,
16:19the woman
16:21isn't at
16:21fault,
16:22only the
16:22man is
16:22at fault,
16:23as it
16:23turns out,
16:24as it
16:24turns out.
16:25Or,
16:28gosh,
16:28Goodbye Earl,
16:29do you remember
16:30that song by
16:31the Dixie
16:31Chicks?
16:31It's really
16:32old now,
16:32decades old
16:33now,
16:34but it's
16:34about a
16:34woman who
16:35loves a
16:35guy and
16:36he's
16:37violent,
16:37right?
16:37He walks
16:38right through
16:38the restraining
16:39order and
16:39puts her in
16:40intensive care
16:40and then they
16:41kill him and
16:42then they sell
16:42Tennessee ham and
16:43strawberry jam out
16:44on the highway and
16:45they live happily ever
16:46after because Earl had
16:47to die,
16:48right?
16:49So there's nothing
16:49wrong with her,
16:50the only thing that's
16:51wrong is Earl.
16:52Earl is wrong,
16:53Earl is bad,
16:55and Earl has to
16:56die.
16:57And then these
16:58women who get rid of
16:59these guys have
17:00wonderful lives
17:01afterwards.
17:03and of course,
17:04if you know
17:05anything about
17:06people,
17:07relationships,
17:08and humanity,
17:09and so on,
17:10you know that
17:11most times
17:12that a woman
17:14gets out of an
17:16abusive relationship,
17:17what does she do?
17:18Well,
17:19most often,
17:21and this is true
17:21for men as well,
17:22but we're talking
17:22about women here
17:23for the moment,
17:24so when women
17:26get out of an
17:27abusive relationship,
17:28the most common
17:30thing they do
17:30is what?
17:31Well,
17:31they get into
17:32another abusive
17:32relationship.
17:34It's as common
17:35as the wind moving
17:37and the sun rising.
17:38That's what's going
17:40to happen.
17:41So,
17:41usually,
17:43and again,
17:43I've done thousands
17:44of these convos,
17:45so I think I know
17:45what I'm talking
17:46about,
17:47but usually,
17:48people are stuck
17:49in these bad
17:50relationships
17:51until such time
17:52as they figure out
17:54what went wrong
17:56in their lives,
17:57in their childhoods,
17:58what bad imprinting
17:59they had,
17:59what mistreatment
18:00they had,
18:00what,
18:01Stockholm Syndrome
18:02bonding with
18:03dysfunctional parents
18:03or other authority
18:04figures they had
18:05that has them
18:06repeat this terrible
18:06stuff.
18:08So,
18:09the women
18:10are victims,
18:11the women
18:12cannot be criticized,
18:12and what that
18:14means is that
18:15the barrier
18:18to the man
18:19and the woman
18:20getting together
18:21is always the
18:22flaw
18:23in the man.
18:25Christian Grey
18:26and Christian Grey
18:26it's his prior abuse
18:27and his
18:27S&M tendencies
18:29and so on
18:30and it could be
18:31the man's family
18:32and his cowardice
18:33before them.
18:33Mom opposes
18:35and he has to
18:36overcome that
18:37or I guess
18:38with Edward
18:40in Twilight
18:42that he's an
18:43immortal vampire,
18:45which is a little
18:46bit on the
18:46PDF side,
18:49but he has to
18:50overcome his
18:51fear and
18:52hesitation
18:52and you either
18:54get the skinny
18:55guy with the
18:56chiseled jaw
18:56and the great
18:57hair
18:57or the
18:59buff
18:59semi-Hispanic
19:00werewolf,
19:01both of which
19:02are, you know,
19:02really top-tier
19:04men in terms of
19:04looks,
19:05muscularity
19:05and strength
19:07and charisma
19:07and so on.
19:08So,
19:10because women
19:11are victims
19:12and therefore
19:13women cannot
19:13be criticized
19:14and women
19:15are passive
19:16agents
19:17that are
19:18acted upon,
19:19the only
19:19barrier
19:20to the man
19:22and woman
19:22getting together
19:23has to be
19:24a fatal flaw
19:25on the part
19:26of the man
19:27and you can't
19:28have
19:29Lady Macbeth,
19:31right,
19:31who encourages
19:32her husband
19:32and goads
19:35and taunts
19:35her husband
19:36Macbeth
19:37into
19:38killing
19:38the King
19:39Duncan.
19:40You can't
19:40have that
19:41because,
19:42again,
19:42women are
19:43acted upon,
19:43women are
19:44passive agents
19:47and so
19:48the world
19:49alpha,
19:50right,
19:51again,
19:51not just
19:51the alpha
19:52in the environment
19:53but the alpha
19:54in the world,
19:55right,
19:55if you,
19:56again,
19:56to take
19:56Christian Grey,
19:57I mean,
19:57I go back
19:58to Christian Grey
19:58because it's
19:59the most popular
20:00work of fiction
20:01in all of
20:02human history
20:03outside of
20:04documents that
20:04claim to
20:05restrain the
20:05government,
20:06but,
20:08he is,
20:09what,
20:1027,
20:11physically
20:12gorgeous,
20:12a billionaire,
20:14he flies
20:15helicopters,
20:16he plays
20:17piano,
20:18he,
20:18you know,
20:19has impeccable
20:20taste,
20:20he,
20:21you know,
20:21you name it,
20:22right,
20:23and,
20:24you know,
20:24all he is is
20:25excessively
20:26dominant,
20:26which,
20:26of course,
20:27is kind of
20:27catnip to
20:28a lot of
20:29women,
20:29so he's like
20:30a world
20:30alpha,
20:31like there's
20:31nobody
20:32like him
20:33in the
20:34world.
20:34he is the
20:35number one
20:36male in
20:37the world,
20:37and what is
20:38it that makes
20:39her so
20:40alluring,
20:41because Christian
20:42Grey also
20:43chews through a
20:43bunch of other
20:44women on his
20:45way to
20:46Anastasia
20:46Steele,
20:49sorry,
20:50it's kind of
20:50cringe,
20:52but what's
20:54so great
20:55about her,
20:55well,
20:57you know,
20:57Dakota Johnson,
20:59she's,
21:00you know,
21:01cute,
21:02and skinny,
21:03but not a
21:04goddess,
21:04and not
21:05super gorgeous,
21:06and not,
21:06you know,
21:08Jamie Lee Curtis
21:08in her prime
21:09in terms of
21:09the body
21:10or anything
21:11like that,
21:11but she
21:13is attractive
21:15and not
21:16particularly
21:17brilliant,
21:17not particularly
21:18confident,
21:19you know,
21:20she's very
21:20clumsy,
21:21it's all
21:21fantasy wish
21:22fulfillment,
21:23so she
21:23goes from
21:23so clumsy,
21:24which is
21:24kind of
21:25constantly
21:25signals that,
21:26you know,
21:27she trips
21:27and is
21:28awkward and
21:29shy when
21:29she first
21:30interviews
21:30Christian
21:31Grey,
21:31and then
21:32later she
21:32tears up
21:33a real
21:34estate agent
21:34for flirting
21:35with her
21:35husband,
21:35because women
21:36have these
21:37sort of
21:37fantasies
21:37that just
21:38win against
21:38predatory
21:39women,
21:41but Christian
21:42Grey is
21:42sort of the
21:43archetype of
21:44this kind,
21:44not the
21:45first,
21:45obviously,
21:45but kind
21:46of like an
21:46archetype of
21:47this stuff.
21:49So,
21:49an average
21:50woman attracts
21:52the interests
21:53of a world
21:53alpha,
21:55a man with
21:57powers that
21:58seem magical,
22:00I mean,
22:01excessive wealth
22:02and excessive
22:04physical
22:06muscularity,
22:07and,
22:08you know,
22:08again,
22:09does all of
22:09the things,
22:10speaks every
22:11language,
22:12does great
22:12math,
22:13and plays
22:13piano,
22:14and flies
22:14helicopters,
22:15and so
22:15on.
22:16And the
22:18magic of
22:19wealth and
22:19talent and
22:21looks compared
22:23to the talent
22:24of being able
22:25to run
22:25through trees
22:26and be
22:26immortal and
22:27so on with
22:28Twilight,
22:29it's magic.
22:31So,
22:32Kristen Stewart,
22:33that's a good
22:34actress, but
22:35I mean,
22:35not a model,
22:38and so no
22:38great shakes
22:40with regards
22:40to her body
22:42and so on.
22:43Again,
22:43fine,
22:44whatever,
22:44right,
22:45but not
22:46generally
22:47modeled
22:47material.
22:48So,
22:49the average
22:50woman attracts
22:51the world
22:52alpha,
22:53and she
22:55doesn't need
22:56to fix
22:57anything about
22:58herself.
22:58She has
22:59no flaws.
23:01Even the
23:02world alpha
23:03has to fix
23:05himself
23:05to be
23:07with her.
23:08That's sort
23:08of the end
23:08of the first
23:09book or
23:12movie of
23:13Fifty Shades
23:13of Grey
23:14is after
23:15he hits
23:17her hard
23:17as a result
23:18of his
23:20sadism in
23:21the red
23:21room.
23:22It's not
23:22leaving the
23:22bedroom,
23:23it's the
23:23red room.
23:24She leaves
23:25and she's
23:25like,
23:25no,
23:26don't touch
23:27me.
23:27How dare
23:28you?
23:28How dare
23:29you hit
23:29me when
23:30I ask
23:31you to
23:31hit me?
23:32I mean,
23:32it's wild.
23:33Anyway,
23:35because she
23:36says,
23:36you know,
23:36do it to
23:37me.
23:37Do what
23:38you really
23:38want to
23:39me and
23:39really hit
23:39me,
23:39and then
23:40he really
23:40hits her
23:40and then
23:40she's
23:41like,
23:41no.
23:42So he,
23:43as the
23:44world alpha,
23:45needs to
23:46be fixed,
23:47needs to
23:47confront his
23:48own demons,
23:49needs to
23:49change,
23:50needs to
23:50be a
23:50better
23:50person,
23:51needs to
23:51improve,
23:52needs to
23:52improve,
23:53to be
23:54with a
23:55woman with
23:57no particular
23:57wit,
23:58talent,
23:59intelligence,
24:00or abilities
24:00who works
24:01in a hardware
24:02store and
24:03lives with
24:03a roommate.
24:05Now,
24:05I mean,
24:06these kinds
24:06of things
24:07can happen.
24:08I don't
24:09know,
24:11Matt Damon
24:12married a
24:13single mom,
24:14he met in
24:15a bar,
24:16and Joe
24:17Rogan married
24:18a single
24:19mom,
24:19some cocktail
24:20waitress or
24:21whatever.
24:22So,
24:22I mean,
24:23it definitely
24:23can happen,
24:24but it
24:24tends to
24:25happen before
24:25the men
24:26are world
24:27alphas.
24:29I mean,
24:30is it
24:31possible that
24:31a jacked up
24:32Jeff Bezos
24:32is going to
24:34rapidly pursue
24:35and be
24:36willing to
24:37overturn
24:37his entire
24:38personality
24:38to get
24:40a hold
24:40of a
24:41woman of
24:41no particular
24:42distinction
24:43and no
24:44great looks
24:44who works
24:45in a
24:45hardware
24:45store?
24:47It's
24:48madness.
24:49Madness to
24:50even consider
24:51something like
24:51that.
24:53So,
24:54nothing
24:54that gets
24:56promoted
24:57in the
24:57West
24:58is good
24:58for the
24:59West.
24:59It's a
25:00foundational
25:00fact and
25:02reality.
25:02You know,
25:03I couldn't
25:03really
25:04understand
25:04why I
25:06got such
25:07great praise
25:07for my
25:07books but
25:08could never
25:08get a
25:08publishing
25:09contract.
25:09Now,
25:10of course,
25:10I understand
25:11it now in
25:12hindsight that
25:13white males
25:13were being
25:14rapidly excluded
25:15from publishing
25:17and so on,
25:18unless they
25:19publish something
25:20or provide
25:21stories that
25:21are really
25:23bad for the
25:23West.
25:23So,
25:23everything that
25:24is promoted
25:25is bad for
25:26the West.
25:27Everything that
25:28is good for
25:28the West is
25:28attacked and
25:29ostracized and
25:30excluded and so
25:30on.
25:31Everything that
25:31is promoted
25:32is bad for
25:34the West
25:34because there's
25:35a war,
25:36right?
25:37And if
25:38France is at
25:39war with
25:40Germany,
25:41then everything
25:42that France
25:43promotes in
25:44Germany is
25:45going to be
25:45bad for
25:45Germany and
25:46everything that
25:47Germany promotes
25:47in France is
25:48going to be
25:48bad for
25:49France.
25:49That's,
25:49you know,
25:49because you're
25:50at war.
25:51So,
25:52everything that
25:53is allowed and
25:54promoted is
25:55bad for the
25:56West, which
25:56begs the
25:57question,
25:58what are
26:00these
26:01werewolf,
26:02vampire,
26:02billionaire
26:03stories,
26:03how are
26:04they bad
26:05for the
26:05West?
26:05Well, I
26:05mean, the
26:06answer, of
26:07course, is
26:08that it
26:10hyper-stimulates
26:12average women
26:13to the point
26:14where average
26:15men seem
26:17repulsive to
26:18them.
26:18Let me say
26:19this again.
26:20It hyper-stimulates
26:22average women
26:24to the point
26:25where average
26:26men seem
26:28repulsive to
26:29them.
26:29And we
26:30can sort
26:31of go
26:31through the
26:32ideology of
26:32this as a
26:33whole.
26:33You know,
26:34for evidence
26:34you can look
26:35at things
26:35like the
26:36whatever
26:36podcast,
26:37you can look
26:37at Kevin
26:38Samuels and
26:39some of the
26:40fresh and fit
26:40stuff and so
26:41on, where
26:43women will
26:43sit across
26:44from Brian
26:45in the
26:46whatever
26:46podcast and
26:47he says,
26:47like, what
26:48is the
26:48minimum yearly
26:49income for
26:51a man to
26:51be your
26:51husband?
26:52And women
26:52will say
26:52half a
26:53million dollars
26:53or a
26:54million dollars
26:55or things
26:55like that.
26:57or women
26:59want a guy
27:00who's six
27:01foot tall
27:01making six
27:02figures,
27:02he's single
27:04and not
27:05overweight and
27:06if the, you
27:07know, what is
27:07it, 140
27:08million men
27:09in America,
27:10they're talking
27:11about 49,000
27:12men.
27:13Was it 0.03%
27:15or something
27:15like that of
27:16the population?
27:18And if you
27:19want to be
27:20one of the
27:21one in 10,000,
27:23if you want
27:23one of the
27:24one in 10,000
27:25men, don't
27:26you have to
27:26be a one
27:27in 10,000
27:28woman?
27:30So, also
27:31love the
27:31woman in
27:33Fifty Shades
27:34of Grey,
27:36the girl
27:37who's come
27:37out of the
27:38hardware store
27:39and stumbles
27:40and bumbles
27:41her way into
27:41a business
27:42office and
27:42has no
27:43experience in
27:44business or
27:44negotiation,
27:45suddenly becomes
27:46an expert
27:46negotiator,
27:47when it
27:47comes to
27:48how much
27:49of the
27:50beat-me-eat-me
27:51licorice whip
27:51is going to
27:52need to be
27:52consumed in
27:53the average
27:53red room
27:54play session.
27:55Just hilarious.
27:57I mean,
27:57negotiation is a
27:58skill.
27:58You have to
27:59learn it,
28:00and she
28:00didn't learn
28:01it at home,
28:01and she
28:01didn't learn
28:02it in the
28:02hardware store,
28:03but now she
28:04speaks,
28:04it's like,
28:05you know,
28:05just sits
28:06down,
28:06she speaks
28:06Japanese,
28:07just speaks
28:07Japanese like
28:08the way she
28:08can negotiate
28:09with one of
28:10the most
28:10successful
28:11businessmen on
28:11the planet.
28:12She can just
28:13out-negotiate
28:13him.
28:13It's amazing.
28:14Anyway,
28:15so the
28:16point is
28:17to super
28:18stimulate
28:20a woman's
28:21hypergamy
28:22by having
28:24a world
28:25alpha
28:26be obsessed
28:27with her
28:28and be able
28:29to have her
28:30quit her job
28:31and be able
28:32to have her
28:32fly around
28:33in a helicopter
28:34and be able
28:35to have her
28:36move into
28:37his gorgeous
28:39penthouse suite
28:40and admire
28:40his abs
28:41and like all
28:42of this sort
28:42of stuff,
28:43right?
28:43that she
28:44doesn't have
28:44to worry
28:44about a
28:45thing,
28:45she doesn't
28:45have to
28:45think about
28:46a thing,
28:46she just
28:47gets swept
28:47up into
28:47his world
28:48and everything
28:49becomes easy
28:50and even
28:51though he's
28:51a world
28:52alpha and
28:52she's an
28:53average woman,
28:54he still
28:54needs to
28:54fix himself
28:55in order
28:56to keep
28:56her.
28:57He still
28:57needs to
28:58rise somehow
28:58to her
28:59level.
29:01It's wild.
29:03It's wild.
29:03So it's a
29:04super stimulus.
29:06You know,
29:06there are some
29:07birds that
29:07just sit on
29:09the largest
29:09eggs and
29:10if you give
29:10them an
29:10ostrich egg
29:11they'll sit
29:11on that.
29:11They don't
29:12have an
29:12upper limit
29:12to the
29:13eggs that
29:13they'll
29:13sit on.
29:14Super
29:14stimulus like
29:15this happens
29:15with junk
29:16food,
29:16right?
29:17Super
29:18salty,
29:19super sweet,
29:20you know,
29:21I mean,
29:21I have a bit
29:22of a weakness
29:22for salted
29:23caramel ice
29:23cream which
29:24I'll have
29:24once in a
29:24while but
29:25I mean,
29:26you wouldn't
29:26want to go
29:28straight from
29:28salted caramel
29:30ice cream
29:31to raw
29:32carrots,
29:32right?
29:32So I had
29:33a whole bunch
29:34of raw
29:34carrots today
29:35and,
29:36you know,
29:36they're not
29:37as good
29:37as salted
29:39caramel ice
29:40cream.
29:41And this
29:42is one
29:42of the
29:42reasons
29:42why I
29:44don't really
29:44eat dessert
29:45because if I
29:46super stimulate
29:47my palate,
29:49then ordinary
29:49food tastes
29:50bland or
29:52becomes sort
29:53of cardboardy
29:53and tasteless,
29:54right?
29:55So when you
29:57super stimulate
29:58women's expectations,
30:00ordinary guys
30:02feel repulsive
30:04to them.
30:05I mean,
30:05if you're
30:06Steve Tyler
30:08in his prime,
30:09you know,
30:09with the groupies
30:10and all of
30:10that and
30:13there's some,
30:14you expect the
30:15top of the top,
30:16right?
30:16Like the,
30:17I always remember
30:18this,
30:19this bathroom's
30:20bigger than our
30:21whole apartment.
30:22There's this woman
30:22in the Pink Floyd
30:24movie The Wall
30:26and she is a
30:28very physically
30:29attractive groupie.
30:31Now,
30:31can you imagine,
30:33I don't know,
30:33I don't know if
30:34Roger Waters did
30:35groupies or not,
30:36who knows,
30:37right?
30:37But can you imagine
30:37some rock star
30:38when choosing
30:39between some
30:41Pamela Anderson
30:42basketball cannons
30:43in her prime,
30:45woman,
30:45and then
30:45Trigglypuff,
30:46some chunky
30:48woman with
30:48looks like a
30:50second ass
30:51hanging over
30:52her elbows,
30:53he's going to be
30:54like,
30:55like I'm used to
30:56this parade of
30:56hotties,
30:58and I'm like
31:00then an average
31:01woman or an
31:02overweight woman
31:02or whatever
31:03becomes repulsive.
31:04And I think
31:05the Chinese
31:05government has
31:06banned some
31:06of these
31:07short videos
31:09that are junk
31:10food for the
31:11female brain.
31:12It's junk food
31:13for the female
31:14brain.
31:15Because it
31:16gives women
31:16the idea that
31:18super handsome,
31:19super slender
31:19billionaires are
31:21falling out of
31:22the trees,
31:22landing at their
31:22feet,
31:23and springing to
31:25their knees with
31:25engagement rings.
31:27And what that
31:27does, of course,
31:29is it makes
31:31the ordinary
31:32man who's
31:34perfectly suitable
31:35for the
31:35ordinary woman.
31:36It makes the
31:38ordinary man
31:38seem repulsive
31:40to these women.
31:42And so what do
31:43they do?
31:43Well, the women
31:44try to get the
31:45more attractive
31:46men, and they
31:47throw themselves
31:48at the more
31:50attractive men.
31:51And how do
31:53they throw
31:55themselves at the
31:55more attractive
31:56men?
31:56Well, of course,
31:57we know.
31:57We know.
31:57They offer sex.
31:58They offer sex.
32:00They offer sex.
32:01And so they
32:03offer sex to
32:04these men.
32:05The top 20%,
32:07top 10%,
32:07or whatever,
32:08the women will
32:08offer sex.
32:09And lots of
32:10other women are
32:10offering sex.
32:12Because the
32:13women do not
32:13have a realistic
32:15view of their
32:17own degree of
32:19sexual attractiveness.
32:20I don't know if
32:21you've ever had a
32:22conversation with
32:23people about this.
32:25I mean, it's
32:25kind of rough.
32:26But it's really
32:27quite important.
32:28And the
32:28conversation that
32:29you have is
32:30something like,
32:31I mean, many
32:32years ago, I
32:32talked to a
32:33guy who
32:34was, you
32:34know, I
32:35mean, a
32:36six or a
32:37seven.
32:38He had some
32:38money.
32:39He had some
32:39professional success,
32:40but not a lot of
32:41dating experience and
32:42so on.
32:43And he's like,
32:43well, he was
32:44like, well, a
32:45woman doesn't
32:45have to be a
32:4610.
32:46And I'm like,
32:47well, you're
32:48not getting a
32:4910.
32:49You're not
32:49getting a
32:50nine.
32:50You're not
32:50getting an
32:51eight.
32:51You're going
32:52to get someone
32:52on your level.
32:55And in
32:56general, if
32:58you look at
32:58most couples,
32:59again, there
33:00could be some
33:01differences in
33:02terms of the
33:02man's super
33:02wealthy or
33:03whatever it
33:03is.
33:03But if you
33:04look at most
33:04couples, they're
33:05looks matched.
33:06I'm looks
33:07matched with
33:08my wife.
33:08If I want to
33:09know how
33:09attractive I
33:09am, I
33:10just look at
33:10my wife.
33:11We're looks
33:11matched.
33:12It generally
33:12is the case
33:14that people
33:15end up with
33:16other people
33:18who are similar
33:19to them in
33:20terms of
33:21looks.
33:22Right?
33:23And that's
33:24natural.
33:25That's natural.
33:27people often
33:28have friends
33:28who are
33:29similar to
33:29them in
33:29terms of
33:30income and
33:32career success
33:33and usually
33:35people play
33:37sports with
33:38other people
33:39who are at
33:40similar levels
33:41of ability.
33:42Right?
33:43So you
33:43don't often
33:44see people
33:45who are really
33:46good at
33:46tennis playing
33:47people who
33:48are really
33:48bad at
33:48tennis because
33:49it tends to
33:50be frustrating
33:50for both
33:51people, for
33:52both parties.
33:53So people
33:54end up
33:55shaking out
33:56in similar
33:58levels of
33:59competence,
33:59similar, like
34:00people who
34:00have a lot
34:01of self-knowledge
34:02and humility
34:04and wisdom
34:05don't tend to
34:06end up
34:06hanging around
34:07with a lot
34:07of people
34:08who are
34:09impulsive
34:10and don't
34:11have self-knowledge
34:12and don't
34:13follow any
34:14particular virtues
34:15or values
34:16in any
34:16consistent kind
34:17of way.
34:17And, you
34:18know, people
34:18who spend
34:19a lot of
34:21money and
34:21are continually
34:22broke,
34:23well, you
34:24don't tend
34:24to, they
34:26don't tend
34:26to end up
34:26hanging out
34:27with people
34:28who've got
34:28a good deal
34:29of money
34:30and who
34:30aren't
34:31spendthrifts,
34:32right?
34:32Because the
34:34people who
34:34have a lot
34:36of money
34:36and who
34:36aren't
34:36spendthrifts
34:37are generally
34:38doing things
34:39that are kind
34:39of expensive.
34:40Like, hey,
34:40we're going to
34:41Jamaica next
34:42week and,
34:42you know,
34:43do you guys
34:43want to come
34:43along?
34:44And the
34:44people who
34:44are broke
34:45can't really
34:46or don't
34:47really do
34:47that,
34:47right?
34:48They can't.
34:50So, in
34:51general,
34:51people, in
34:52the long
34:53run, people
34:55shake out
34:57at their
34:57own similar
34:58levels.
35:00And, again,
35:01there can be
35:02exceptions and
35:02so on, but
35:03that generally
35:03tends to be the
35:04case over the
35:06long run.
35:06Because if people
35:07are at very
35:07different levels
35:08in life, you
35:08just have less
35:09and less in
35:09common over
35:10time.
35:10And certainly
35:11this was the
35:11case when I
35:12was younger,
35:12when I was
35:12really pushing
35:14to excel and
35:15exceed and
35:15improve myself
35:16and add more
35:17value to the
35:17world and
35:18do all kinds
35:19of cool,
35:20interesting,
35:21risky,
35:22exciting things,
35:24then the
35:24people who
35:25were just
35:25kind of,
35:25you know,
35:26plodding along
35:26and not
35:28really doing
35:29much of
35:29anything
35:30professionally
35:30or anything
35:30like that,
35:31those people
35:32and I had
35:33less and
35:33less in
35:33common over
35:34time.
35:34The same
35:34thing happens
35:35when you
35:35get married
35:35and have
35:36kids,
35:36that the
35:37people who
35:37don't get
35:38married and
35:38don't have
35:38kids,
35:38you just
35:39have less
35:39and less
35:39in common
35:40over time.
35:41And once
35:42you found
35:42someone that
35:42you really
35:43love and
35:43want to
35:43spend the
35:44rest of
35:44your life
35:44with,
35:44I mean,
35:45you have
35:45a certain
35:45amount of
35:46patience for
35:46other people's
35:48tales of
35:48dating woes,
35:49but it does
35:49become a little
35:50tiresome or
35:51tiring after a
35:51while.
35:53So,
35:53if you've ever
35:54had the
35:54conversation,
35:56you know,
35:56there's a,
35:57Dakota Johnson,
35:58I think,
35:59is in a scene
36:00that she'll
36:00occasionally see
36:01on social
36:01media where
36:03a woman in
36:04her mid-30s
36:05is, you
36:07know,
36:07she's like
36:07trying to,
36:07I'm trying
36:08to settle,
36:09I'm trying,
36:10I'm trying,
36:11you know,
36:12like,
36:13is he really
36:145'8 or
36:15is he actually
36:155'6 or
36:165'7?
36:16Hey,
36:16what's a
36:17couple of
36:17inches,
36:17right?
36:19I've got
36:19this guy,
36:20he's 47,
36:2147,
36:21yeah,
36:22but he
36:22looks great
36:22for his
36:22age,
36:23he's,
36:23he only
36:23looks like
36:24he's 40,
36:25it's like,
36:25oh,
36:25my God,
36:26right,
36:26so this
36:27woman is
36:27trying to
36:28compromise,
36:28and it's
36:29really tough.
36:30I have more
36:31sympathy than
36:32sometimes people
36:32think,
36:32and that
36:33probably is
36:33my fault,
36:34so let me
36:34take sort of
36:35ownership for
36:35that myself,
36:36but I have a
36:38lot more
36:38sympathy for
36:38women than
36:40most people
36:40realize,
36:41because women
36:42are born with
36:43this golden
36:44treasure of
36:45youth and
36:45sexuality and
36:46beauty and
36:46so on,
36:48and then it
36:49sort of drains
36:49away,
36:50right,
36:50women get a
36:51little bit less
36:52valuable as
36:53they age,
36:53women,
36:54men generally
36:54get more
36:55valuable because
36:55in the exchange
36:57of excess
36:58fertility for
36:59excess resources,
37:00women's fertility
37:01declines,
37:02men's resources
37:02increase,
37:04and so I
37:06would rather
37:07be born poor
37:08and become rich
37:09than be born
37:09rich.
37:10And become
37:11poor.
37:12That's,
37:13I mean,
37:13obviously it's
37:14tougher at the
37:14beginning,
37:15but it's better
37:16as you go
37:17forward.
37:18So I do have
37:19a lot of
37:19sympathy.
37:19It's very
37:20tough for
37:20women who
37:21have the
37:22sort of
37:23natural hubris
37:23and arrogance
37:26of everybody
37:26wants me,
37:27all the guys
37:28are pursuing
37:29me,
37:29I get,
37:29you know,
37:3050 matches
37:32a day on
37:33Hinge or
37:33Tinder or
37:34Bumble or
37:34whatever,
37:35and,
37:36you know,
37:36guys want
37:36to take me
37:37out and they
37:37want to fly
37:38me out
37:38sometimes,
37:39you know,
37:39if you're an
37:39attractive woman
37:40and so on.
37:41And so it's
37:42tough,
37:43you know,
37:43it's tough
37:43then when you
37:44feel it kind
37:44of slipping
37:44away.
37:46And then you're
37:46like,
37:46oh,
37:47I got to
37:47lock down
37:47a guy in
37:49my 30s.
37:49I got to
37:50lock down
37:50a guy.
37:51And it's
37:52tough.
37:53it's tough
37:54because,
37:55you know,
37:55the high-quality
37:56guys are in
37:56very short
37:57supply in
37:58your 30s,
37:58and the
37:59high-quality
37:59guys,
38:00in general,
38:01if they're
38:01financially
38:02successful,
38:03they want
38:03to have
38:04kids.
38:05And if
38:05you're,
38:06you know,
38:0633,
38:0634,
38:0735,
38:08it gets
38:08kind of
38:08dicey.
38:09It gets
38:10kind of
38:10dicey.
38:11So the
38:12men are
38:12looking for,
38:12and they're
38:13kind of
38:14red-pilled
38:14men,
38:14so,
38:15you know,
38:15they recognize
38:16the baggage
38:16that comes
38:17from a
38:17woman in
38:18her 20s,
38:19and particularly,
38:19of course,
38:20if the
38:20woman has
38:22pursued,
38:22as a lot
38:23of women
38:23do,
38:23they think
38:25that what
38:25they would
38:25find attractive
38:26in a man
38:26is what a
38:27man would
38:27find attractive
38:28in them.
38:29So,
38:29you know,
38:29they swear,
38:31they're kind
38:32of aggressive
38:32and punchy,
38:33and,
38:33you know,
38:34they think
38:35that men
38:35don't take
38:36feedback,
38:37and so
38:38because men
38:39don't take
38:40feedback,
38:43they think
38:44that not
38:44taking feedback
38:45is sort
38:46of masculine,
38:46but men
38:47do take
38:47feedback,
38:47and men
38:48in order
38:49to improve
38:49in sports
38:50and business
38:50and so
38:50on,
38:51they definitely
38:51need to
38:52take feedback,
38:53but women
38:54think that men
38:54don't take
38:55feedback because
38:55patriarchy makes
38:56them all
38:56dominant,
38:57and therefore
38:58the women
38:58don't take
39:00any feedback.
39:02So,
39:02of course,
39:03with the
39:03super stimulus
39:04or super stimuli,
39:06women end up
39:07having to
39:08subsidize sex
39:09to get anywhere
39:09close to the
39:10alphas in their
39:11environment,
39:12and,
39:13of course,
39:13what this does
39:14is it makes
39:15ordinary men
39:17unappealing.
39:17There's a,
39:18um,
39:18a video of
39:19a woman who
39:21went to
39:21South Korea
39:22because she
39:23liked boy
39:24bands or
39:24something like
39:25that,
39:25and then she
39:26has these
39:27images of
39:28the average,
39:29you know,
39:29shaped like a
39:30dumpling,
39:30smoking and
39:31balding,
39:32slightly chubby
39:33Korean man,
39:34and she can't
39:35reconcile the
39:37perfection in
39:38her mind with
39:39the reality of
39:40people in,
39:41uh,
39:42the world.
39:43and so what
39:45happens is,
39:46of course,
39:46by getting
39:47women addicted
39:48to this,
39:49I shouldn't say
39:49getting,
39:50women choosing
39:50to some degree
39:51to become
39:51addicted to
39:52the super
39:52stimuli,
39:53it means that
39:54they can't
39:55pair bond,
39:56they're arrogant,
39:57they can't be
39:58corrected,
39:59they're vain,
39:59they won't
40:00submit in
40:01anything because
40:02submission is
40:02surrender to the
40:03patriarchy and the
40:04evil exploitation,
40:05they don't have
40:06a moral agency,
40:07and they end
40:08up,
40:08of course,
40:09having to
40:10subsidize going
40:11up two to three
40:12points on the
40:12attractiveness scale
40:13with sexual access,
40:15which screws up
40:16their pair bonding,
40:17makes them even
40:18more bitter,
40:21and has them
40:22view men more
40:23negatively,
40:23and this kills
40:24the birth rate.
40:25So, I mean,
40:26this stuff's not
40:26accidental,
40:27it gets pushed
40:27for a very sort
40:28of specific reason,
40:30and everything
40:31that is promoted
40:31in the West
40:33is against the
40:34West,
40:34everything that
40:35is not attacked
40:36is,
40:38toxic.
40:39So, I just
40:40want to point
40:41that out,
40:42that this is a
40:42really, very
40:43real phenomenon.
40:44I have found,
40:45when I was younger,
40:46trying to correct
40:47women, and listen,
40:48I was open to
40:49being corrected,
40:49I'm generally
40:50open to being
40:51corrected,
40:51certainly not
40:51perfect,
40:52but I try my
40:52best,
40:54but as a whole,
40:55trying to correct
40:56women was like
40:57trying to disarm
40:57a bomb,
40:58because, again,
40:59they're just
41:00victims, and how
41:00dare you insult
41:01women, women are
41:02perfect, women are
41:02wonderful, so this
41:03is the vanity
41:05aspect.
41:05If you inflate
41:06women's vanity,
41:06they become
41:07uncoachable,
41:08and they then
41:09believe that they
41:10are deserving
41:12of a world
41:14alpha, through no
41:16particular effort
41:17of their own,
41:18and this means
41:19that a man who
41:20is on their
41:20level is
41:22repulsive to
41:23them, in the
41:24same way that if
41:25you just eat a
41:25whole bunch of
41:26junk food, normal
41:27tasting food tastes
41:28really bad, but it's
41:29even worse than that
41:30as a whole, because
41:31you don't normally
41:32become repulsed by
41:33normal food.
41:34it is more
41:35along the
41:36lines, not
41:37of food, just
41:38to shape the
41:39analogy a little
41:40bit, but it's
41:40more along the
41:41lines of
41:41heroin.
41:42Heroin, famously
41:44a thousand times
41:45better than your
41:45best orgasm, and
41:46so after that,
41:48ordinary life is
41:49gross, it's
41:50painful, it's
41:52empty, and so
41:53on, right?
41:54Or, you know, how
41:55would you feel if
41:57you lived for many
42:00years in expectation
42:01of a giant
42:02inheritance, like,
42:03you know, $50
42:04million or something
42:05like, some giant
42:06inheritance, and
42:07then it turns out
42:09you weren't getting
42:10it, I mean, and
42:12then you just had
42:12to go and get a
42:14job, and you
42:14hadn't, you know,
42:15developed any
42:16particular work
42:16skills or discipline,
42:18you just kind of
42:19went into debt and
42:19borrowed and chiseled
42:21your way through
42:22life because just
42:22waiting on this
42:23giant inheritance,
42:24you know, 10
42:24years, 15 years,
42:25whatever, and then
42:26it turns out that
42:27this giant inheritance
42:28isn't coming your
42:29way, and you have
42:30to get a job on
42:31your level, which
42:32is probably some
42:33waitering job or,
42:34you know, something
42:35at the very low
42:35end, and you're
42:36incredibly humiliated,
42:37and, you know, all
42:38the people you bragged
42:39about getting all
42:40this money from, they
42:41come and order coffee
42:43and pie from you at
42:44the diner, and you
42:44bring it to them, and
42:45it's just, it's a
42:46horrendous experience,
42:48it's a horrendous
42:49fall from grace, and
42:51it just creates a
42:52massive amount of
42:53bitterness, and so
42:55the fact that, you
42:56know, half of women
42:56under the age of 30
42:57have no kids, and
42:58half of them will
42:58never have any kids, and
42:5990% of them will
43:00regret it, comes out
43:01of this hyper
43:02stimulus, and you've
43:03got to find someone
43:04on your level, and
43:06ladies, ladies, men
43:08become good because we
43:09are coachable, I
43:11mean, I became good
43:12at philosophy because I
43:13took a lot of
43:14coaching in philosophy,
43:17but because you think
43:18men are just, you
43:19know, powerful and
43:19aggressive and
43:20dominant and so on,
43:23and the men thump the
43:24table and you can't
43:25correct them and so
43:26on, well, you can't
43:28really correct the
43:29alphas that you're
43:30trading sex for access
43:31to because they don't
43:33really care for your
43:33opinion because they're
43:34just there for sex and
43:35they're going to move
43:36on, and then you say,
43:37oh, men don't commit, and
43:39it's like, well, the men
43:39that you chase after don't
43:40commit, oh, men just
43:41ghost me, it's like,
43:41well, if you're shooting
43:43out of your league, then
43:45you're going to get
43:45ghosted, like, if I were
43:47to apply for a job as a
43:50partner in a law firm, I
43:52wouldn't, I'd be ghosted,
43:53right, because I don't
43:55have a law degree, I
43:56can't practice law, I
43:57can't do any of these
43:58things, right, if I
43:59applied for a job as the,
44:01you know, head oncology
44:04guy at some hospital, I'm
44:05not a doctor, I don't
44:06study oncology, and I
44:08can't provide, so I'm
44:08just going to get
44:09ghosted, right, because
44:10I'm shooting for things
44:12that are way out of my
44:12league and I'm not
44:13qualified for, and so
44:14you have to keep
44:15adjusting your
44:16expectations until you
44:17get what you're
44:19actually worth.
44:20That's true in the
44:20marketplace, it's true in
44:21friendships, it's true
44:23in dating, love, sex,
44:24romance, and so on, but
44:25you have to keep
44:26adjusting your
44:26expectations until you
44:28get what you want, and
44:31part of a relationship,
44:33part of the most
44:34essential aspects of
44:35relationship is not
44:36just having outputs, but
44:37having inputs, right, so
44:39my wife can correct me
44:40on things and she's
44:41right about a bunch of
44:41stuff, I can correct my
44:42wife from time to time
44:43and I'm right about a
44:44bunch of stuff, and
44:45you know, together we're
44:46very strong and
44:47effective that way, but
44:49if you're brought up
44:49with women are
44:50wonderful and you
44:51deserve the ultimate
44:52world alpha for working
44:54in a hardware store,
44:55well, you're not going
44:57to pair bond, you're
44:58going to get more and
44:59more bitter because sex
45:00does not buy you.
45:02Commitment and the
45:03population collapses.
45:06Freedomain.com slash
45:07donate.
45:07Thank you so much.
45:08Thank you so much.
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