00:00If my parents tell me to concentrate on my education, like studying, but I can't concentrate on it.
00:07So it means education isn't worth it to concentrate.
00:11The question that I must first of all address is, why must a 22 or 25 year old quote his
00:18parents when it comes to asking a question?
00:20Sorry, sir.
00:24That's the fundamental problem.
00:26When love and parental instruction do not sit very well together, what you are saying is analogous to saying my
00:33parents want me to get married to someone, how do I concentrate on her?
00:37These two things don't go well.
00:39Also, parents, if they have raised the kid well, should realize that beyond a point, it is counterproductive to offer
00:47advice.
00:48The success of the parents lies in leaving the son or the daughter free after a point.
00:54If the kid has to be dependent on the parents mentally or financially, even at 22 or 25 or 28,
01:02then the parents have failed.
01:03Have they not?
01:04So you must know you are in college.
01:06What is it that's worth doing in life?
01:09You must know which course you must enroll in.
01:11And beyond the campus, you must know what is it that really will make you come alive.
01:16Higher education, consultancy, a job in your core area.
01:20You must know all these things instead of really knowing these things.
01:24We are dependent on the trends or we are dependent on all kinds of advices.
01:32And that's a prescription to a loveless life.
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