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Revathy, born Asha Kelunni, is widely admired for her exceptional body of work as an actress - from glamorous roles to subtle performances & powerful mother characters! As she turns 60, we revisit the time when she stepped behind the camera and created history with Mitr, My Friend (2002), which went on to win the National Award. In this rare throwback interview, Revathy shares the vision behind making the film with a small unit, casting Shobana, Naseer, Preeti & other foreign actors, working with an all-women crew, and confidently directing her debut feature. Watch this fascinating behind-the-scenes conversation, exclusively only on Lehren!

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00:00I wouldn't say it has a story. I would rather, I would say that it is emotions we put together
00:04and weave the story into it. I mean, what I feel personally is this is like, this is like my,
00:10my product, my baby. How can I say that I like the eye better than the nose or the nose
00:14better
00:14than the, you know, fingers or whatever. I like my film. And we had a lot of laughs, a lot
00:21of tears,
00:22frustration, everything together. We went through all the emotions that anybody would go through in,
00:26you know, one single project. I enjoyed myself. I mean, I don't know if my next film will ever be
00:32as
00:32beautiful, as beautiful an experience that this was.
00:41Tell us about the film Mitra.
00:44Well, Mitra started when Priya told me the story. And it's about relationships in a family,
00:53husband, wife and a 17 year old daughter.
00:56The film basically talks about relationships, about how important friendship in a relationship
01:02is. And, you know, how they work through the whole little, little emotions and problems.
01:10It's not explained in a serious way. It's done in a very lighthearted way. And I mean,
01:19it's, I enjoyed it because it was my debut film and I identified with it very, very well.
01:25So, how the casting and all was done?
01:28Well, the three main roles in this film are Lakshmi, Prithvi and the daughter Divya. When we wrote,
01:37you know, about Lakshmi and her characterization, we thought about Shobhana because she fitted the role
01:42perfectly, very Indian looking and who would suit, you know, in a westernized society.
01:49Nasser Abdullah, we thought of him because we wanted a distinguished looking middle-aged
01:54person owning a software company in the Silicon Valley, you know, who would go well in the
02:01atmosphere of Americans. And we didn't have a, you know, this film basically is a small
02:07budget film. So we wanted to make it with people who we know and who would adjust to our budget
02:13and
02:13things like that. So Mr. Nasser Abdullah came into it and he's, he's molded into the character very
02:20beautifully. And Piti Vissa was selected for Divya because I wanted a girl born and brought up in the
02:26U.S. because their body language is very different. And I auditioned a few kids there and she fitted the
02:33role well and she gave another film. I mean, the rest of the cast, they're all Americans. And they were
02:40chosen, you know, along with the casting agency where we gave them the list of characters and the
02:45kind of people we wanted. We selected from the auditions they did. And things went into place like
02:52that.
02:53Considering Nasser is more a model than an actor. So how do you think that he would fill the role
02:57of an actor?
02:59One was his looks because I felt he fitted it very well. Second, we brought him down to Chennai
03:06for an audition. And we had a nice, you know, a scene with Shobana and Nasser. He worked very
03:12well at it. And he has a thing of learning and to kind of, you know, work with what the
03:22director
03:22wants. So it was very nice working with him. I liked what I saw after that and then chosen.
03:28Why an all-woman crew for this film?
03:30We didn't plan it to be an all-woman crew. You know, Priya told the story. Sudha, who's
03:34a screenplay writer in my office, worked on the script and dialogues. A friend of mine
03:40came into it as a costume designer, Prabha. Then Dina is a person I know. She's an editor.
03:46So she came into the film. And when I spoke to Mr. P.C. Sri Ram for a cinematographer,
03:51he said his assistant Fauzia is the next in line to, you know, become an independent cameraman.
03:56So she came into it. So it just turned out to be an all-woman. The person we really looked,
04:02when we went looking for was the music director. And I heard that Mr. Laraja's daughter, Bhavatar
04:08me is composing her own tunes. I heard a couple of her tunes and she came into it. So it
04:13started
04:13kind of like any other film and turned out to be an all-woman by chance.
04:19Here's a brief storyline of the film.
04:22I'd rather not tell the story. You know, I'd like to tell what the, you know, it's just
04:27that it's about relationships within a family and about how a mother reacts to a teenage
04:32daughter when she becomes independent. How a teenage daughter reacts to a mother when the
04:37mother is like nagging her and saying, don't do that and that kind of a thing. Where the
04:42husband feels, you know, talking about home and everyday problems at home is like nagging.
04:49And where the wife is feeling, you know, kind of lonely because nobody seems to be paying
04:54attention. It's something that happens in everybody's life in every home. You know, a teenager would
05:00identify with the daughter, a middle-aged person would identify with the mother or the father,
05:04you know, both man and woman. And older people identify saying this is what happened with our
05:09daughters and our granddaughters, you know. So it's that kind of a thing. And I wouldn't
05:16say it has a story. I would rather, I would say that it is emotions we have put together
05:21and weaved a story into it.
05:23Being your debut as a director, how planned were you?
05:26Very well planned. I had the script ready. I gave my total script to the main cast.
05:33And they were very, very prepared because all of them read the scripts. When they came
05:38to the set, I didn't have to teach them dialogues. They all knew their dialogues by heart, you
05:43know. And working in the US taught us something where every junior artist, they call themselves
05:51extras there. Every, every single character, they want their scenes much in advance. So everything
05:56was emailed to them. They came to the sets prepared. And we had to have our locations and everything
06:03ready because you need insurance papers, you need this, you need that, a lot of paperwork.
06:07So that was planned. So I think this whole experience of Mitra being a small unit, we were just a
06:1515 member crew, working in the US, multitasking. We learned a lot. And my crew was amazing.
06:25Didn't you plan to cast yourself from Shobhana's place?
06:29No, I had decided when I, when I decided to direct, I had decided I will not act. Because
06:35direction is a very big responsibility. And I didn't want to do a, you know, sloppy job
06:42on that. Because acting and directing is very difficult. You have to be one behind the camera
06:48and one in front. And I don't know if I could have done both. But I'm very happy I did
06:53not act.
06:55How was your entire experience doing this film? Any problems which came up or something like that
06:59during the making of the film?
07:00No. Problems are bad. But you know, I think the crew that worked with me, we were very strong mentally.
07:07And we gave
07:08each other support in problems, in times of problems. And we had a lot of laughs, a lot of tears,
07:16frustration,
07:17everything together. We went through all the emotions that anybody would go through in, you know, one single project.
07:23We stayed together in one room, you know, four of us. So it was great fun. And I enjoyed myself.
07:31I mean,
07:32I don't know if my next film will ever be as beautiful, as beautiful an experience that this was.
07:38Any particular scene you really relished to him or love directing, which came out amazingly well?
07:45That is very difficult for any director to say, because for me, I mean, what I feel personally is this
07:51is like,
07:52this is like my product, my baby. How can I say that I like the eye better than the nose
07:57or the nose better than the,
07:59you know, fingers or whatever. I like my film. I really can't say this was better and that was better.
08:06But the experience, the climax, the shooting experience of, you know, when you're shooting the climax was interesting.
08:12Because we shot in a tourist spot where the first thing that people, they told us that you cannot stop
08:17the tourists.
08:18You cannot say, don't walk here, don't walk there. Shoot it. So we asked the crowd in the scene.
08:24That was a challenge to shoot. Plus, we had to tell them exact time.
08:28The camera is going to be here at 9.45. The camera is going to be there at 10.05.
08:34The camera is going to be there at 10.25.
08:36We need to give them specifications, timing. That was a real challenge. I enjoyed shooting that.
08:42Plus, I had all my artists. It was a climax. It was a very vibrant scene. It had emotions. It
08:47had fun. It had everything.
08:50Tell us about the music in the film.
08:57Music is very important in this film because we don't have songs as such, you know.
09:01We have used tracks in the background of certain scenes, not song-song. We haven't shot a song and things
09:08like that.
09:10But the music had to go with the mood of the film. It had to load the kind of flow
09:15that the film had.
09:17And we decided that let's not have, you know, let's give it a Western look because the whole film is
09:24happening in the U.S.
09:25So give a bit of, more of Western instruments. We decided on that.
09:32And I'm thrilled with the music that Bhavata has done, you know.
09:36She really gave the soul to my film.
09:42And I'm pleased with the brilliant music that we have already.
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