00:25I'm very big on conversations dito.
00:29And I'm not one to impose kasi sa relationship.
00:32So ako, I'll take muna kung ano yung kanyang side.
00:36I'll try to digest it.
00:37And in the same way, gusto ko rin paintindi sa kanya kung bakit ganun yung take ko.
00:41Pero I don't think it's going to be a reason for me to break up with somebody
00:44unless it's about morals, unless we're talking about lives being lost.
00:49Doon siguro ako magdodraw ng line.
00:50Pero if it's just politically being different, ako meron pa akong leeway to understand.
00:55Pero again, pag understanding ko, magsastop lang siya kapag buhay na ang pinag-uusapan.
01:00Oo, buhay ay understand.
01:01Pero pag moralidad ang pinag-uusapan,
01:03Kasama yan dito.
01:04At halimbawa, politika ang pinag-uusapan, vis-a-vis moralidad, problema.
01:08Kasi halimbawa sabihin ng boyfriend mo o nanliligaw sa iyo na,
01:12to me this is morality.
01:13Imoral para sa akin ang impeachment process na ito.
01:18Pag pumunta siya doon sa diskusyon na yun, and you disagree to it, anong gagawin mo?
01:25Not break up agad.
01:27Ako talaga, conversation.
01:28Kasi dito naman sa usapin ng impeachment, ako, I'm very big on constitutional procedures.
01:33So, so long as equal naman, both parties are getting what they deserve.
01:36Like, yung right to a defense and also yung mga presentation natin ng evidences and ng facts natin.
01:43As long as nababalad siya, okay siya for me.
01:44Pero pagdating sa usaping moralidad, sa aking partner, unless talaga it's something that I cannot take,
01:50lalo na kapag yun na din yung way na gusto niyang mabuhay at i-lead yung relationship.
01:53Violative na. Parang nagbab-violate na.
01:55Parang na, ito na yung, parang ito na yung paniniwala mo, ito na yung ideals mo as a person and
02:00morals mo as a person.
02:01Doon na ako magdodraw ng line.
02:02Okay. Baw si kao?
02:03Ako, hard no kung magkaiba kami ng politics.
02:06And because I think politics is...
02:08Hard no, ibig sabihin, hihiwalay ka, hindi mo sasagutin, hindi mo liligawan.
02:12Well, I guess, bago rin muna maging kami, tatanungin ko muna,
02:14sa'yo yung binoto mo nung huling election.
02:17Pero that's a deal breaker for you.
02:19I think so.
02:20Because, di ba, yung kasama mo na to, kasama mo sa bahay,
02:24and of course, balak mo, kasama mo siya for the rest of your life.
02:26So, politics needs to be a factor in terms of how you are going to view this partner.
02:31Because the way they support you and your outlook in life, in terms of abundance, in terms of access,
02:38in terms of justice in general, I think that is a very big deal.
02:42Or those are major factors I look for in a partner.
02:45Pero, Baos, hindi ba, is that tantamount to saying na ang pagmamahal nyo ay less than the political disagreement?
02:54Not necessarily, but I think politics is one of the things that will inform the relationship that you are building.
03:02So, it's just a major factor to consider.
03:04Okay. Ipupush ko ng konti.
03:05So, ikay may karanasan ba, Baos, na nung mga nakaraang taon,
03:10may mga kaibigan ka bang na unfriend, mga kapitbahay na hindi nakausap,
03:15dahil magkasalungat, colliding ang inyong opinion sa mga usaping political?
03:19Wala akong personal friend, per se, na iba yung politics,
03:23pero yung meron ka na lang may kitang, maybe batchmate mo from high school or college,
03:27parang, oh, yan na pala yung paniniwala niya.
03:29Mga pleasant surprises siguro ang taon ko doon.
03:33Okay. And when you go through the pleasant surprises, what do you do?
03:36It becomes an unpleasant experience for me.
03:39Okay. Yeah, and I totally respect that.
03:41So, doon umiiwas ka, hindi ka na lang nakikip...
03:44Umiiwas...
03:45You're not confrontational?
03:46No, but I know that I am also being unfair to them
03:49because, you know, they don't get to reason with me.
03:51But again, that's my feed, not theirs.
03:55That's your space?
03:55Yes.
03:56Okay.
04:26That's our research.
04:45Transcription by CastingWords
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