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00:00:06I
00:01:28super hot job
00:01:30that university should be done
00:01:31just go to degree in order to make sure that it will be done
00:01:35all the problems of your hands will be done
00:01:37and the university will be done
00:01:40and the opportunity to make sure that
00:01:43Allah will give a time to make sure that all the time
00:01:44all the time will give up will go away
00:01:47no, after meeting the relationship
00:01:50after meeting the relationship, you will be a problem
00:01:52if you have a child, you will be a child
00:01:54it will be a good spouse to make a tension
00:01:56He wasague and ceremony from all that we should continue to work with our children.
00:02:08Just imagine things that way their lives were complete.
00:02:13Then their children came to help them, their children were eating and eating.
00:02:22They had to come and eat.
00:02:26we have children who are going to be
00:02:28and we think it was wrong
00:02:30or wrong or wrong
00:02:31or wrong or wrong
00:02:33or wrong
00:02:33we have no tension
00:02:36we will relax and chill
00:02:38we have no
00:02:40children
00:02:41and then
00:02:42the tension is growing
00:02:46where every child has mobile
00:02:50every child has computer
00:02:52iPad
00:02:53and all the social media
00:02:55where you can't
00:03:00not put a lot of children
00:03:03how to control
00:03:03how to do it
00:03:04how to do it
00:03:05how to do it
00:03:07this is a very difficult
00:03:10difficult
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00:03:13and now
00:03:15they are not finished
00:03:17now
00:03:18how to do it
00:03:21how to do it
00:03:23how to do it
00:03:30how to do it
00:03:37how to do it
00:03:41how to do it
00:03:46how to do it
00:03:47how to do it
00:03:48what to do it
00:03:51how to do it
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00:04:06Thank you very much.
00:04:30Good morning Pakistan
00:04:39Welcome, welcome back. Good morning Pakistan
00:04:42So my panel today
00:04:44which is a big discussion
00:04:46First of all, Sunita Marchan
00:04:48Assalamu alaikum
00:04:50How are you?
00:04:52Because today's discussion
00:04:54in the midst of your children
00:04:56It's about the pain
00:04:57in teenage years
00:04:59It's很 pivotal
00:05:01so your thoughts will come
00:05:04and what you'll hear
00:05:06they will be the main concern
00:05:08I have another panelist
00:05:11Dr. Rabia Farooqi
00:05:12Clinical psychologist
00:05:13Assalamu alaikum alaikum
00:05:14And then on my side
00:05:19Assalamu alaikum
00:05:20Assistant Inspector General
00:05:21on Gender Crime
00:05:24Assalamu alaikum alaikum alaikum
00:05:26I am very happy.
00:05:28Dr. Nida Shaqeel, Consultant and Physician.
00:05:32We are sitting with you.
00:05:33How are you?
00:05:35Yes, so today's topic,
00:05:38I will repeat this topic,
00:05:39if you have joined us today,
00:05:41that our children who are especially 13,
00:05:44or from the age of teen age,
00:05:45from 13 to 17,
00:05:47or from the age of 20,
00:05:49are such an age,
00:05:51that we feel like,
00:05:52oh, thank you,
00:05:53but the most important thing is,
00:05:56actually,
00:05:57to keep the age of children,
00:05:59or to monitor them,
00:06:01because this is the age,
00:06:03in which we say,
00:06:05in a common language,
00:06:06children can be angry at all the problems,
00:06:10families can be angry at all,
00:06:12and they can be trapped in the age of children,
00:06:15at that age.
00:06:16We need to give a lot of attention,
00:06:19and
00:06:20to keep the age of children,
00:06:23because the age of children,
00:06:25that they also need independence,
00:06:27that you are keeping so much,
00:06:29that you have to suffocate,
00:06:31you have to suffocate us,
00:06:32and we get to hear a lot of things,
00:06:33and we get to hear a lot of mothers,
00:06:34and in that age,
00:06:36there are hormonal changes,
00:06:38if we ask people from medical point of view,
00:06:39we ask people,
00:06:41they will tell you,
00:06:43because you have to deal with hormones,
00:06:46as a doctor,
00:06:47so,
00:06:48how do they understand all the things,
00:06:51because we also become parents,
00:06:54and we do not know,
00:06:55how to cater them,
00:06:57so I will start with hormones,
00:06:59and I will ask you,
00:07:03that children,
00:07:04when they come in the teenage years,
00:07:06how do their hormones,
00:07:07what do they do in their work?
00:07:12In males,
00:07:12estrogen,
00:07:12estradiol,
00:07:13it starts to come at peak,
00:07:16in males,
00:07:17testosterone peak,
00:07:19so their physical appearance,
00:07:21also changes,
00:07:23mental capability,
00:07:24mental stress,
00:07:26dealing with the stress,
00:07:27dealing with the other people,
00:07:29what to do,
00:07:30how to do things,
00:07:31some small things,
00:07:32things come out,
00:07:34sleep patterns change,
00:07:36body figures change,
00:07:38the girls want to come out,
00:07:39the voices change,
00:07:41some people understand it,
00:07:42some people think,
00:07:43they do not like this,
00:07:45I do not like that,
00:07:45or I do not like that,
00:07:46or I do like that,
00:07:47or like that,
00:07:47these things come from.
00:07:50There are also complexes in the girl's and girls,
00:07:52and they are frappled,
00:07:53and it's really important to them,
00:07:56mood changes in the mood,
00:07:58Now, mood changes and irritability, which we will say,
00:08:02chid-chidha-pun.
00:08:03If you have a mistake, they have answered foreign policy.
00:08:05So, this is because of their hormones.
00:08:07It is not necessary to deal with it or something.
00:08:11So, the way to deal with it is a little different.
00:08:14I will also explain this to my parents,
00:08:16that parents, who had a lot of problems with their parents,
00:08:20now that generation has changed.
00:08:22Now, there is Gen Z, there is technology,
00:08:25there are mobiles.
00:08:26They want to explore.
00:08:27So, we want to become friends of our children,
00:08:30as well as teachers.
00:08:32They don't want to take that dumb system.
00:08:34Or else, they will disappear.
00:08:37They will disappear.
00:08:38I will tell you, like Dr. Aiba,
00:08:40that there are so many depression,
00:08:42so many anxiety patients,
00:08:43and so many learned children,
00:08:45that they will know what we are doing.
00:08:47And they will warn us that they will not deal with it.
00:08:50So, these are all the problems.
00:08:52So, if children have anxiety,
00:08:55and children help,
00:08:56then,
00:08:57do they need to help?
00:08:59Do they need to help?
00:08:59Because Amin,
00:09:00do they need to know how to deal with it?
00:09:03Definitely.
00:09:04First of all,
00:09:05they need to talk about their level.
00:09:08They need to talk about their level.
00:09:09They need to think about our parents.
00:09:11They need to travel around us.
00:09:13They need to talk about their own way.
00:09:16They need to talk about their own way.
00:09:17That's not the same thing.
00:09:17The generation is changing.
00:09:18If we don't change it with them,
00:09:20we will leave our children.
00:09:23they don't want to live with the parents, they don't want to live with the parents,
00:09:26then that old homes concept begins to come.
00:09:28In fact, some children who have some diseases, like in teen age,
00:09:32PCO is very common in children, thyroid is very common,
00:09:36diabetes is very common in type 1,
00:09:38so that children can be very difficult to tackle it.
00:09:42Because they don't believe that we need insulin,
00:09:45and girls don't believe that they start eating their own mind,
00:09:47they don't believe that they don't want to be a girl,
00:09:50they don't want to be a girl,
00:09:50they don't want to be a girl,
00:09:53so they need to deal with family, friends, doctors, psychologists,
00:09:59all their work.
00:10:00It's an effort.
00:10:05Sunita, I always want to ask you, MashaAllah,
00:10:08I've always seen you say your children special,
00:10:12with your career,
00:10:13you're taking a lot of horse riding,
00:10:16you're taking a lot of activities for their activities.
00:10:19I've followed you,
00:10:21and I've convinced you,
00:10:22that you've given a good attention to them,
00:10:24after seeing them.
00:10:26So, you've got a little difficulty,
00:10:27when they were going to be in teen age?
00:10:30Okay, so,
00:10:31my daughter is 14,
00:10:33and my daughter is 12.
00:10:35Okay.
00:10:37I'm glad that my daughter is so aggressive,
00:10:40so I'm glad that she doesn't have to be a cheese face.
00:10:44But I believe,
00:10:46Can you tell me why your children are not aggressive?
00:10:50What is their reason?
00:10:51What is their reason?
00:10:51Why are they aggressive children?
00:10:53I will also ask them,
00:10:54but what do you think?
00:10:54What do you think?
00:10:55I wanted to say that,
00:10:57I believe,
00:10:58that the reason is a little family,
00:11:00and how do you feel about your home?
00:11:01Yes.
00:11:02So,
00:11:03I feel like,
00:11:04that the way they have done their upbringing,
00:11:06now,
00:11:07that the upbringing,
00:11:09is a benefit of us.
00:11:11That they don't blame anything on anything.
00:11:14The other,
00:11:15the behavioural...
00:11:15I'm asking you,
00:11:16what is your upbringing?
00:11:17What do you think about your upbringing?
00:11:20Have you not done anything with them?
00:11:22Have you not done anything with them?
00:11:24Have you not done anything with them?
00:11:26Have you not done anything with them?
00:11:27Have you not done anything with them?
00:11:28I will tell you,
00:11:29I think my daughter was around 6-7 years ago,
00:11:33but maybe even more than 4-5 years ago,
00:11:36at that time,
00:11:37I felt like anxiety was starting to start,
00:11:42and that time,
00:11:43I started to be more aggressive.
00:11:46But,
00:11:46after that,
00:11:47that period was small,
00:11:49I had to control it quickly,
00:11:51because,
00:11:51what happens when you don't know yourself,
00:11:53if you don't know yourself,
00:11:54you get angry with your children.
00:11:57Because,
00:11:57if you don't get angry with your children,
00:11:58you can't get angry with your children.
00:12:02But,
00:12:03I noticed it quickly,
00:12:04that it's bad.
00:12:06If you have a family support,
00:12:08you will notice things quickly.
00:12:10So,
00:12:11I have done some work on myself,
00:12:13I have improved my anxiety,
00:12:15so,
00:12:15that it was a benefit,
00:12:16that I didn't get angry with my children,
00:12:18and I will be better.
00:12:20So,
00:12:21my children,
00:12:21the habit is that,
00:12:22we talk at home,
00:12:23we talk at home,
00:12:26as parents,
00:12:27Hasan and I,
00:12:28we have very closeness,
00:12:30so,
00:12:31we also hug each other,
00:12:34we kiss each other,
00:12:35so,
00:12:35they are very normal.
00:12:36So,
00:12:37it's a happy family,
00:12:39it's a happy family,
00:12:40it's like that.
00:12:41And,
00:12:41the most important thing,
00:12:43I think,
00:12:44is that,
00:12:45if you're talking about something,
00:12:46then,
00:12:47listen to them.
00:12:49Listen,
00:12:50understand,
00:12:51and then,
00:12:51answer.
00:12:52A lot of people are busy,
00:12:55but,
00:12:56we also are busy,
00:12:57but,
00:12:57there is an extra effort,
00:12:58that effort,
00:13:00you don't have to do it,
00:13:01so that,
00:13:01the child feels like,
00:13:03yes,
00:13:03I'm getting time,
00:13:04I'm listening to my mother,
00:13:05my mother,
00:13:06I'm listening to my mother.
00:13:06The other thing,
00:13:08the new time,
00:13:08especially,
00:13:09you talked about Gen Z,
00:13:11these kids already know a lot.
00:13:14The other thing is,
00:13:15they learn on the internet,
00:13:17so,
00:13:17they need everything,
00:13:18they need reasoning.
00:13:20If you want them,
00:13:22straight away,
00:13:24that aggressiveness will come,
00:13:25and then,
00:13:26it will increase.
00:13:28So,
00:13:28it's better,
00:13:29that,
00:13:29you listen to them,
00:13:31and,
00:13:31you discuss them,
00:13:33and,
00:13:34you don't have to blame them,
00:13:35and,
00:13:36you say,
00:13:36that,
00:13:36I feel like,
00:13:37that,
00:13:38that,
00:13:38that,
00:13:38that,
00:13:38that,
00:13:38that,
00:13:39that,
00:13:39that,
00:13:39that,
00:13:39性 and sexual relationship,
00:13:45that,
00:13:45that,
00:13:45that,
00:13:45I,
00:13:45and,
00:13:46Because I have,
00:13:47and that,
00:13:48because we all have the way into this,
00:13:53that,
00:13:56I have.
00:14:00and that,
00:14:01that,
00:14:01that,
00:14:02that,
00:14:03Sometimes we have some things like my grandfather has said something.
00:14:06He says something into his thoughts about his thoughts.
00:14:09Our parents are first to make a good decision.
00:14:13We teach children as such to the kids.
00:14:16But if you do not agree,
00:14:18not you agree that they're saying what he's saying.
00:14:21There are some things that you can ignore.
00:14:24An important thing is to explain to you.
00:14:26Getting to learn something about children,
00:14:28to learn to ignore a bit.
00:14:31So now I am going to be cautious, so I feel that my kids naturally have to face any problem.
00:14:38So I feel that naturally their behavior is not very aggressive, so I feel that there is also a benefit.
00:14:44Another thing I feel that my upbringing is that they are a work, they listen to me.
00:14:52Sometimes it happens, but sometimes it happens.
00:15:00Sometimes they are going to be in their own words, sometimes I don't hear anything.
00:15:07Sometimes I say something about Hassan, then he hears something about Hassan, sometimes he hears something about him.
00:15:12But we don't get into it so much, we know that he is going to be moving from age,
00:15:18so we also get into our own thoughts, and we understand things, and we understand things.
00:15:25but with time we know it will be able to understand it, so that's what we don't have to do.
00:15:31Okay, so now we go to our own cases, before that you want to say something and then I will
00:15:39go to them
00:15:40because they will explain many cases from their hands.
00:15:44Dr. Nida has put a lot of good light on that, and Neeta has got a lot of good tips,
00:15:49and we will take it further. I will say that in this age there is a psychological conflict,
00:15:56in a way of thinking about what a child is going through,
00:15:58because there is a thing that is medically happening,
00:16:00and in this age there is a conflict that we call identity versus role confusion.
00:16:06This means that in this age, a person is thinking about this world.
00:16:11Where am I fit? Where am I? Where am I? What is my role?
00:16:16What is my identity? What am I going to do?
00:16:18Okay, if this is a thing that is resolved,
00:16:21then it becomes a confident, full of self-esteem, self-aware person.
00:16:26If this is not resolved, then it becomes very confused, low-confident,
00:16:31and there is a lack of weakness.
00:16:33And then there are many other things that exist in this type of person.
00:16:37What is the reason?
00:16:39Dr. Nida has said that medically there are hormonal changes.
00:16:42In the psychological way we say that stress and storm period.
00:16:46It is a mental illness and the mental crisis.
00:16:49You can do it in this age.
00:16:51You also have many things that you do in this age.
00:16:54When that storm is spreading,
00:16:56when the teen age goes down,
00:16:57then when he goes down,
00:16:59when he reflects himself,
00:17:00there are many regrets.
00:17:02What are others that have done?
00:17:05So parents don't make it more.
00:17:08They are being taken by their mistakes, they don't forgive them.
00:17:13But one thing is that a person is going to go through this.
00:17:17The other thing is that if we are parents first to become parents,
00:17:20we don't know.
00:17:22But if we are parents first to become parents, we don't know.
00:17:25But you think that parents first to become parents,
00:17:27but you have also been over the age.
00:17:29As a human, you have been over the age.
00:17:33What is happening inside?
00:17:34You can better understand what child is going through.
00:17:38Instead of trying to understand what child is going through.
00:17:41They are not going through age.
00:17:43So parents can be more empathetic.
00:17:45And they need to be more empathetic.
00:17:48Parents need to understand what child is going through.
00:17:53Because they are going through that.
00:17:54The third time, Dr. Neena said,
00:17:56that child is not going through that.
00:18:00This is absolutely right.
00:18:02This age is not where you are going through control.
00:18:04You will see a lot of authority and control.
00:18:07And the child will get out of your hands.
00:18:09They will be gone.
00:18:10Here is the work of friendship.
00:18:12Trust.
00:18:12Dr. Neena says,
00:18:13a little bit on the family,
00:18:14while she will not be owing.
00:18:15Dr. Neena says,
00:18:16it's not the legal issue that child is not the legal issue.
00:18:18I have to forget a doubt
00:18:37because it doesn't matter that the child is a little over and take advantage of the child
00:18:44and it doesn't matter that the child is a little over and it doesn't matter that the child is a
00:18:47little over
00:18:48so we have to understand and learn a little and work
00:18:55so Shaila, before I listen to those topics, what are the cases that you want to share today
00:19:04it's very important topic, you have talked about the laws of age
00:19:09you have talked about the challenges of adolescence
00:19:12of course, with growing age, with children, hormonal changes, biological changes
00:19:16physical changes, psychological changes and emotional changes as well
00:19:20so all the changes in the body, the parents need to understand
00:19:24so the police is also a leader
00:19:27because the law is written for adults in many cases
00:19:33let's say you have a driving license, at the age of 18 you have to issue
00:19:36otherwise you have other things like identity card
00:19:40that is also made in 18
00:19:42but for minor, below 18, the law has been kept for children
00:19:48and their needs are made by children
00:19:51for example, I am talking about juvenile delinquency
00:19:53like school bunking, play trancy, this is the biggest world's largest crime
00:19:59counterfeit currency, second largest crime of the world
00:20:01so the first crime is the first crime, it is the kids
00:20:03the minors
00:20:04and why children are skipping and why they are skipping, why they are bunking
00:20:09the reason behind that is that they are deviant
00:20:11so we need to understand that the deviant behaviour
00:20:13the parents need to address it
00:20:16again, the poor parenting
00:20:17like madam has discussed
00:20:20that the children are poor parenting
00:20:23and the good parenting
00:20:25they have no challenge
00:20:26but when parents neglect
00:20:28they are single parent
00:20:29or in other cases
00:20:31they are not giving attention to children
00:20:33they are not giving attention to children
00:20:33and if you are not in their lives
00:20:34if you are not in their lives
00:20:35then you are not in their memories
00:20:37so the thing is
00:20:38you have to be present in the lives of your children
00:20:41and for children
00:20:42you have to make availability
00:20:43in this age
00:20:45it is more possible
00:20:46to make it
00:20:46although it is a working environment
00:20:48and the husband is working
00:20:49and the wife is working
00:20:50but children are neglecting
00:20:52at the disposal of Aya
00:20:54they are trained
00:20:55and their personality
00:20:57is kept on
00:20:57so the person is being left
00:20:57so the person is being left
00:20:58and the person is being left
00:20:59who is living in a criminal
00:21:01or deviant behaviour
00:21:02or the delinquency
00:21:04or the delinquency
00:21:04and what we have in our rules
00:21:06is that children are being used
00:21:08self-corner
00:21:08that if their child is being
00:21:10a crime
00:21:10then they are being deviant
00:21:12or the delinquency behaviour
00:21:14they are being the law
00:21:16then they are being taught
00:21:17that the law
00:21:18and they are trained
00:21:18after a break
00:21:19I will come back
00:21:19and then I will talk
00:21:22after a break
00:21:23Maharsah
00:21:24Good Morning Pakistan
00:21:32Welcome, welcome back. Good morning Pakistan 13 plus
00:21:37which are our children. Today, we are talking about their problems.
00:21:42We are talking about what we need to do, what we need to do as a parent.
00:21:49Let's go to the children's problems so that we can learn a little bit.
00:21:57We are talking about what we need to do. What should we say about our children?
00:22:03Hello, my name is Hina. My age is 16. I was very shocked when I was looking at modeling and
00:22:12acting.
00:22:13When I was watching ads and dramas, I was very shocked. My parents were very different.
00:22:20They were saying that you are very small or you are not. You don't have to see it.
00:22:25But I was so shocked that I didn't say that I had to do it. I wanted to do it.
00:22:30I had to keep myself in my mind that I had to do it.
00:22:34And this was the biggest mistake of my life.
00:22:36One day, I was running a phone and I saw an ad in which I needed the kids.
00:22:42I needed the models. I applied them. After applying them, they called me.
00:22:47And when I went to the location, it was a very good location.
00:22:50People came with families. They were giving auditions.
00:22:53It was a very good place of family.
00:22:54I told them, why my parents are being stopped. This is such a good place.
00:22:57Now I will do this.
00:22:58And they told me, two or three days later, we will call you.
00:23:01Then I came back.
00:23:02After two or three days later, I called me.
00:23:04There is a shoot. You go there.
00:23:05There is a shoot.
00:23:06I went to the location.
00:23:45Alright, two or three days later.
00:23:54He took two hours later.
00:24:05There is a shot.
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