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Host: Nida Yasir
Guests: Bilal Qureshi, Uroosa Qureshi
Good Morning Pakistan is your first source of entertainment as soon as you wake up in the morning, keeping you energized for the rest of the day.
Timing: Every Monday – Friday at 9:00 AM on ARY Digital.
Guests: Bilal Qureshi, Uroosa Qureshi
Good Morning Pakistan is your first source of entertainment as soon as you wake up in the morning, keeping you energized for the rest of the day.
Timing: Every Monday – Friday at 9:00 AM on ARY Digital.
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00:00:05This is the morning that is coming
00:00:07Your lips will come
00:00:10We will come with you
00:00:11We will come with you
00:00:12We will come with you
00:00:19The morning that is coming
00:00:22This morning that is coming
00:00:33This morning that is coming
00:00:34We will dove
00:00:37We will都ai
00:00:37We will be out
00:00:37He will have to play
00:00:39We will take this
00:00:40The hill we're supposed to
00:00:44Sun luôn
00:00:50When the風 is facing
00:00:52Pl won't grant
00:00:53Some joll pull
00:01:21Asalaam alaikum, good morning, good morning Pakistan.
00:01:54Asalaam alaikum, good morning, good morning.
00:02:25Asalaam alaikum, good morning, good morning.
00:02:39Asalaam alaikum, good morning, good morning.
00:02:43Asalaam alaikum, good morning, good morning.
00:03:18Asalaam alaikum, good morning.
00:03:55Asalaam alaikum, good morning.
00:03:56Asalaam alaikum, good morning.
00:04:31Asalaam alaikum, good morning.
00:04:35Asalaam alaikum, good morning.
00:04:41Asalaam alaikum, good morning.
00:04:45Asalaam alaikum, good morning.
00:05:00Asalaam alaikum, good morning.
00:05:05Asalaam alaikum, good morning.
00:05:06Asaik� alaikum.
00:05:21Asalaam alaikum, good morning.
00:05:23بارش ہوتی ہے ہر چیز کی
00:05:25اچھا برا ہر قسم
00:05:27کا وقت آپ کو لپیٹے میں لیتا ہے
00:05:29اور اگر اس وقت
00:05:31آپ کی نا بن رہی ہو
00:05:32یا آپ اجسٹ نہیں کر پا رہے ہو
00:05:35تو پھر بہت مشکل سے
00:05:37دوچار ہو جاتے کیونکہ بہت ساری چیزیں
00:05:39چل رہی ہوتی ہیں اس سٹیج میں
00:05:43پھر
00:05:43اس کے بعد آتا ہے مچورٹی کا سٹیج
00:05:45اور اس مچورٹی کے سٹیج میں
00:05:47جب آپ پیچھیں مڑ کے دیکھتے ہیں
00:05:49کہ آپ کو اتنی ہسی آتی
00:05:51اتنی چھوٹی سی بات کو میں نے اتنا بڑا بنا لیا تھا
00:05:54یہ تو یہ
00:05:55یہ تو یوں گزر جائے گی
00:05:56اس میں تو کوئی ایسی بڑی بات نہیں ہے
00:05:58اس مچورٹی کی سٹیج میں آپ ریلائز کرتے ہیں
00:06:02کبھی پیچھے دیکھ کے
00:06:03کہ یہ جو
00:06:06میری بیوی بنی ہے
00:06:07میں مردوں کی ذہنیت آپ کو بتانا جاؤں گی
00:06:09اس نے میرا کتنا ساتھ دیا ہے
00:06:11میرے اچھے برے وقت میں میرے ساتھ رہی ہے
00:06:13اور آپ ریلائز کر لیتے ہیں
00:06:15کہ آپ کا اس کے بغیر گزارہ نہیں
00:06:17بائیس ورسا بیوی بھی کہتی کہ اس میرا نے کتنی بھاگ دوڑ کی ہے
00:06:21ہمارا گھر بنانے کے لیے
00:06:23ہمارے بچوں کی میری خواہشات پوری کرنے کے لیے
00:06:26اور وہ بھی بہت سارے پوزیٹیف پوائنٹس پیچھے مڑ کے دیکھتی ہے
00:06:29اور اس مچورٹی میں اس کو یہ پتا چلتا ہے
00:06:32یہ مچورٹی کا سٹیج آپ کو اور قریب کرتا ہے
00:06:36اور آپ کو اور دور بھی کر سکتا ہے
00:06:38کیونکہ اس مچورٹی کی سٹیج پر آپ کو کبھی کبھار لگتا ہے
00:06:41مجھ سے فیصلہ غلط ہو گیا
00:06:42یہ وہ پارٹنر نہیں تھا
00:06:44جو مجھے چاہیے تھا
00:06:46یہ آدمی بھی سوچ سکتا ہے اور عورت بھی سوچ سکتا ہے
00:06:50سو یہ مچورٹی کا سٹیج بھی بڑا خاتر نہ آگئے
00:06:53اگر میں یہ کہوں کہ یہ ایک ایسا دھاگہ ہے
00:06:58جیسے ہم کبھی کبھار کچھا دھاگہ بھی کہتے ہیں
00:07:01کہ یہ ٹوٹ بھی سکتا ہے
00:07:03جیسے بہت سارے آپ کے بلڈ ریلیشنز ہیں
00:07:05چاہے آپ کو اچھے لگیں برے لگیں
00:07:07آپ ناراض رہیں ان سے بات کریں لیکن وہ ٹوٹتے نہیں ہیں
00:07:09کیونکہ وہ خونی رشتے ہوتے ہیں
00:07:12یہ بڑا نازوک رشتہ ہے
00:07:13اور دوسری طرف سے بڑا مضبوط رشتہ بھی ہے
00:07:16کہ آپ اس سے ہر چیز اپنی discuss کر سکتے ہیں
00:07:20آپ جیسے اندر ہیں جیسے باہر ہیں
00:07:22وہ آپ کا پارٹنر آپ کو اچھے سے جانتا ہے
00:07:25ایک چھوٹے سے بریک کے بعد آئیے
00:07:28ان سٹیجز کے بارے میں جانئے
00:07:29تاکہ آپ کو تھوڑی آسانی ہوں زندگی گزارنے میں
00:07:33پتہ چلے گا یہ آپ کا کونسا سٹیج چل رہا ہے
00:07:36Good Morning Pakistan
00:07:49Welcome, Welcome Back
00:07:51Good Morning Pakistan
00:07:52آج میرے پاس وہ گیسٹ ہیں
00:07:54جو مجھے فلیش بیک میں لے کے چلے گئے ہیں
00:07:56جب میرا شو نیا نیا شروع ہوا
00:07:59وہ شروع کے دن ان کے ساتھ بہت سارے شوز کیے
00:08:03اور ابھی اتنے گاب کے بعد جب یہ آئے نا
00:08:05تو میں اپنے فلیش بیک میں چلی گئی ہوں بالکل
00:08:08جس وقت گھبرات ہو رہی ہوتی تھی
00:08:1010, 9, 8, 7, 6
00:08:12آپ وہ پتہ نہیں گھبرات کچھ دادہ ہی وہ ہو گئی
00:08:16یونکہ اپنا واقعی ڈوانگ روم سمجھ دے لگی ہوں
00:08:18میں اپنے سیٹ کو
00:08:19تو آج میں آپ کو ملواری ہوں
00:08:22آپ بھی بہت دنوں بعد ان کو میرے شو پر ایک ساتھ یہاں دیکھیں گے
00:08:25بہت ہی پیارا سا کپل
00:08:27اور یہ جو سٹیجز والی کہانی ہے
00:08:28یہ ان کے پر تو پوری اترتی ہے
00:08:31آئیے والکم کرتے ہیں
00:08:32دونوں بہت ٹیلنٹڈ ہیں اپنے اپنی فیلز میں
00:08:35لیکن اب جو ہے وہ جو فیمیل ہماری ایکٹرس ہیں
00:08:38وہ ایک امہ کا رول ادا کر رہی ہوں
00:08:40اور بیوی کا جو کہ وہ بھی با خوبی کر رہی ہوں
00:08:42اور آپ ان کو سوشل میڈیا پہ
00:08:45اتنے مزے مزے کے
00:08:47پوری ایک تھیمز کے ساتھ دیکھتے رہتے ہیں
00:08:50اور آپ انجوئے کرتے ہیں
00:08:51تو آئیے ملتے ہیں
00:08:52بلال قریشی اور اروسہ قریشی سے
00:08:55السلام علیکم
00:08:57کیسے ہیں
00:08:58بلکو ٹک ٹاک
00:08:59بھئی ماشاءاللہ بلال
00:09:00ہم نے آپ کو ایک مبارک بات دینی ہے
00:09:03کہتے ہیں کہ اگر آپ نے
00:09:04دیکھنا ہو کہ لڑکی کتنی خوش ہے
00:09:07تو آپ اس کے پہناوے سے
00:09:09اور اس کی باڈی لینگویج سے
00:09:10اور فزیکل اپیرن سے دیکھیں
00:09:12تو کامیاب ہوگا
00:09:13آپ کے لڑکی ویسی ہی دی ہے
00:09:16جیسی ہی شادی سے پہلے
00:09:17ایک درمان کھڑی ہو کے آپ دکھائیں
00:09:18میں ماں کو کہنا چاہوں گی
00:09:20کہ دو بچوں کے بعد بھی
00:09:22یہ ایسے ہی
00:09:24پلیز بیٹھے
00:09:24پلیز بیٹھے
00:09:25پلیز بیٹھے
00:09:25آپ نے اس طرح براہ
00:09:27ہر کوئی مجھے ملتا ہے
00:09:28کہتا ہے
00:09:28کیا گیا تمہیں کھاتی نہیں ہو تم
00:09:30نہیں دو بچوں کے بعد
00:09:31یہ ایک بہانہ ہوتا ہے
00:09:32بچوں کے بعد
00:09:33دیکھو وہاں شادی ہو گئی
00:09:36ماشاءاللہ ماشاءاللہ
00:09:37اروسہ
00:09:37ویسی کی ویسی ہو گئی
00:09:39میں اگر ابھی پرانے کلپس نکالوں
00:09:41تو یہ
00:09:41اگزیکلی سیم
00:09:43اور تم دونوں
00:09:43well thank you so much
00:09:45and first of all
00:09:45it's an honour
00:09:46to come back
00:09:46to my سسرال
00:09:48because یہ مجھے
00:09:49جنرلی لگتا ہے
00:09:50کہ جب بھی میں
00:09:50good morning پاکستان میں آتا ہوں
00:09:51تو یہ میرا سسرال ہے
00:09:52کیونکہ یہ میری
00:09:53بڑی بہین ہیں
00:09:54بلکہ
00:09:55سندھی بہینیں زیادہ ہیں
00:09:56تو میں پنجابی
00:09:58لیکن وہ جس طرح داماد کی
00:10:00آپ کا سسرال بھی سندھی ہے
00:10:01میرا سسرال بھی سندھی ہے
00:10:02واپ واپ
00:10:03یہ طورتا ہوں
00:10:04یاسر بھائی کے ساتھ ہے
00:10:06تو وہ جو ہوتا ہے نا
00:10:07ایک داماد
00:10:08اور وہ والی
00:10:08فیلنگ تو وہ جہاں
00:10:09good morning پاکستان میں
00:10:10ہمیشہ ملی ہے
00:10:11and it's great pleasure
00:10:12and we missed you as well
00:10:14it's been long long time
00:10:165 سال شاید
00:10:17ہمارا جان
00:10:18کم سے کم تو 5 سال تو ہوئے
00:10:20اور good morning پاکستان کے علاوہ
00:10:22میرا نہیں خیال کہ
00:10:23کبھی بھی کسی بھی شو میں
00:10:24جا کر ہم نے انجوائے کیا ہے
00:10:25تو ہمیں بھی یہ
00:10:26جیسے آپ نے کہا نا
00:10:27کہ اپنا ڈرائنگ روم
00:10:27تو ہمیں بھی لگتا ہے
00:10:28کہ ہم اپنے گھر پہ ہی ہیں
00:10:29نہیں ونگ
00:10:30good morning پاکستان
00:10:31ہمارے دل کے بہت قریب ہے
00:10:32کیونکہ ہماری شاہدی
00:10:33تو بہت سمپل ہوئی تھی
00:10:34اور جو سیلیبریشن وغیرہ
00:10:36وہ یہاں پر ہوا ہے
00:10:38ہمارا
00:10:40so اب ماشاءاللہ
00:10:41آپ لوگ دو بچوں کے
00:10:42اممہ اببہ بلچوں ہیں
00:10:44seniority
00:10:44نہیں نہیں
00:10:45ہم بہن بھائی ہیں
00:10:47that's we try to
00:10:48یہ ہی ہونا چاہیے
00:10:49جب ہمارے دو بڑے بچے ہیں
00:10:51ہم ان کے بہن بھائی ہیں
00:10:53exactly
00:10:53ایسے ہی ہونا چاہیے
00:10:54جب ہم اکھٹے
00:10:55فن کرتے ہیں
00:10:57تو کافی
00:10:58جنریشن گیپ
00:10:59جو ہے
00:10:59وہ تھوڑا سا کام ہوتا ہے
00:11:01true
00:11:01اوہ
00:11:02اپکا میں نے پکچر دیکھی تھی
00:11:03اپکا بڑا بیٹا
00:11:04تو
00:11:04اس کا تو زکر ہی نہیں کرتے
00:11:07بہن بھائی
00:11:09ایسے ہی ہے
00:11:09سو ماشاءاللہ
00:11:10ایسے ہی ہوتا ہے
00:11:11جب آپ شادی کرتے ہیں
00:11:12اور جلدی جلدی بچے کرتے ہیں
00:11:14میرے میاں کے یہ کونسپ تھا
00:11:16کہ ہم جوان تو
00:11:17بچے بھی جوان ہونے چاہے ہیں
00:11:18تو وہ آپ لوگ کے ساتھ
00:11:20بھی ایسے ہی ہوتا ہے
00:11:20exactly
00:11:21exactly
00:11:21انشاءاللہ
00:11:22انشاءاللہ
00:11:23so ایک تو روحان ہے
00:11:26سوہان
00:11:27اور رومان
00:11:28رومان
00:11:28اور سوہان جب
00:11:293 months کا تھا
00:11:31I remember
00:11:31سوہان آج تک کبھی
00:11:33کسی
00:11:34you know
00:11:34national television پہ نہیں
00:11:36پہروا لیکن
00:11:373 months کا تھا
00:11:38پاکستان میں جب آیا تھا
00:11:40تو پپو نے بھی بڑا پیار کیا
00:11:42پپو بھی ہیں خالہ بھی ہیں
00:11:43تو وہ ہماری بڑی اچھے
00:11:44ایک میموری ہے
00:11:45وہ ایک کید ہو گئی نا
00:11:47ایک اس طرح ہی ہوا
00:11:47اور وہ یاد ہے
00:11:48شو ختم ہوا
00:11:49اور ندا بھی بھاگ بھاگ کر آئی
00:11:51ایک اچھا انسیڈنس ہے
00:11:53جو میں سنا چاہوں گا
00:11:53جو ہمارے دل میں
00:11:54نا فریز ہوا ہوا ہے
00:11:55جیسے
00:11:56میں آپ کو بھی شاید یاد نہ ہو
00:11:57وہ جب ہم جا رہے تھے
00:12:01بھاگ بھاگ بھاگ کر
00:12:02سمرن کے طرح
00:12:03ہاں سے بھاگ کر آئی ہے
00:12:04ہاں میں اپنے بچے کو
00:12:06وہ تو دی نہیں
00:12:07وہ پیار سلامی
00:12:07تو ندا بھی
00:12:09جو ہے وہ بڑے پیار سے
00:12:10تو وہ جیسٹر جو ہے에چ
00:12:11فریز دنار جیسٹر
00:12:12دینی ہے مجھے تریا
00:12:13رہی ہے نہیں لیکن نہیں نہیں جیسے
00:12:15ویدی لیکن
00:12:17آپ سوہان
00:12:17کتنے
00:12:18بڑے
00:12:18ہیں نین یار نین اور رومان چار سال
00:12:22کھا چار
00:12:22سال
00:12:22کے تو ابھی
00:12:23سپول
00:12:23Did you get to go to Rome?
00:12:25No, no.
00:12:26Today, Suhan has a paper of Urdu.
00:12:28So, you all pray.
00:12:29And pray in Urdu.
00:12:31The paper is good.
00:12:33So, mashallah, it's the time when the paper is done.
00:12:36Today, it's 6.45pm.
00:12:37We call from here.
00:12:38Suhan has taken care of.
00:12:40So, she is an amazing mother.
00:12:44I mean, I have to say.
00:12:46Rome is not going to school now.
00:12:47So, you are not doing it in 4 years.
00:12:50So, my father is doing it in 18 months.
00:12:51I want to say something here.
00:12:54Our experience is the best so far.
00:12:57We thought that when our son is 7 years old,
00:13:00we will send him to school.
00:13:01Seriously?
00:13:027 years.
00:13:03Suhan, when he is 7 years old,
00:13:05we have sent him to school.
00:13:06And what did he do from that?
00:13:09When he goes to school,
00:13:10his criteria is this.
00:13:11In 7 years.
00:13:12He takes two classes.
00:13:13So, first of all,
00:13:15go to school and go home and go home.
00:13:17That's a different thing.
00:13:18But the schooling,
00:13:20the morning,
00:13:20the morning,
00:13:20the morning,
00:13:21we have done it in 7 years.
00:13:23So, that's why
00:13:23the benefit is that
00:13:25now he is mature enough in terms
00:13:27that he enjoys his schooling.
00:13:29Burden.
00:13:30Burden.
00:13:30Every day,
00:13:30he takes a shower.
00:13:32I remember that
00:13:33in our school time,
00:13:34we had a lot of burden.
00:13:35That's a pattern.
00:13:37And he enjoys it.
00:13:39So, in my opinion,
00:13:40in life,
00:13:40those things,
00:13:41like schooling...
00:13:41It's a great experience.
00:13:43If we start the school,
00:13:45and then go to our job
00:13:45and profession,
00:13:47we will enjoy it.
00:13:49So, you will be successful.
00:13:51So,
00:13:527 years is the best age.
00:13:54you thought for romance?
00:13:55Yes, exactly.
00:13:56K-7.
00:13:57Yes.
00:13:58How do you do home schooling?
00:13:59How do you do it?
00:14:00Actually,
00:14:01both of them are their academy.
00:14:05So,
00:14:05they would go to the academy?
00:14:06Aha.
00:14:07Which way?
00:14:09It's a GEMS academy.
00:14:10Lahore is in Lahore.
00:14:11They are prepared for us.
00:14:14So,
00:14:15my big sister is their academy.
00:14:16So,
00:14:17Suhaan would go there.
00:14:18Just like Ruman,
00:14:19they would go there.
00:14:21they do playgroup?
00:14:22No.
00:14:23They only playgroup?
00:14:24No.
00:14:25It's a little time.
00:14:25It's like,
00:14:27I have a school.
00:14:28My school is for entry test.
00:14:29They have to prepare for entry test.
00:14:31they have to prepare for entry test.
00:14:31They have to prepare for two or three years.
00:14:33And then,
00:14:33they will be tested for two classes.
00:14:36If they are passed,
00:14:37then...
00:14:38Oh,
00:14:38You are so good.
00:14:40So,
00:14:40you have not been tired of them.
00:14:42They have to be tired of you.
00:14:43My mother is the same.
00:14:44Now,
00:14:44I will go to school.
00:14:44I will sleep a little.
00:14:46I do not know.
00:14:47I do not know.
00:14:48When school is going to school,
00:14:49you have to be more responsible.
00:14:52Or,
00:14:52I do not know that
00:14:53I have to make lunch box of lunch.
00:15:23I do not know that
00:15:24I am going to be alone.
00:15:26No!
00:15:29I am going to be alone.
00:15:35I am going to be alone.
00:15:43That I am going to be alone.
00:15:54so we just try to you know make it all the best for you all
00:15:57so I feel like I should make memories
00:15:59after you have shifted to Lahore because many actors
00:16:02have shifted to Lahore from Lahore
00:16:04because of the work
00:16:05I am the same thing in every situation
00:16:07I have shifted to Lahore from Lahore
00:16:09so this is not your job then?
00:16:12it's a very small
00:16:1390% loss
00:16:14because obviously they have to
00:16:17provide traveling and accommodation
00:16:20and all that
00:16:21so you know channels and production houses
00:16:24so there is a lot of loss
00:16:26and because of the work is slow
00:16:28but then that is my priority
00:16:30is that I had to move
00:16:32because we used to live alone
00:16:35so if I went to the shoot
00:16:38then they are all alone in the apartment
00:16:41so my heart is stuck
00:16:42you know
00:16:43so in Lahore
00:16:45there is a house, my aunt, my aunt
00:16:46my family is ironic
00:16:48so now if I am out of 2 months
00:16:50and I am shooting in Karachi
00:16:51so it is not tension
00:16:52so we have to relax
00:16:53and then the second thing is that
00:16:55schooling again
00:16:56is that in Lahore
00:16:58is one of the schools in Lahore
00:16:59it is not in Karachi
00:17:00or any other city
00:17:01so it is for the children
00:17:02so it is for the children
00:17:03so that is for the children
00:17:04so if you come to Karachi
00:17:06for the work
00:17:08then do you have to live
00:17:09so do you have to live
00:17:10so do you have to live
00:17:11so do you have to live
00:17:19for the child
00:17:20and the children
00:17:20I am too young
00:17:23I am a scientist
00:17:27and my son is a young man
00:17:28and my son is a young man
00:17:29because
00:17:29we are all crazy parents
00:17:31we are very very
00:17:32so you have to be a child
00:17:33that you don't have the sick
00:17:34because if you have to live
00:17:34that you have to be a bigger
00:17:35so you have to be a conscious
00:17:36conscious
00:17:37I am too busy
00:17:39especially I am too busy
00:17:40yes
00:17:41because now someone says
00:17:42to try to see the kids
00:17:43and you are talking
00:17:44to her
00:17:46Ikra had a good idea, I was watching on social media and she said that I was married in a
00:17:51big family
00:17:52and she was saying that she was the first baby and she was the first baby
00:17:57and she said that when I was married in a big family, I realized that she was the small family
00:18:03that when you grow your family, you don't have any other family
00:18:09Exactly, when you find your friends in your family there is nothing like that
00:18:14because the time, the energy, the money you spend on your family, it's always worthy, it's never wasted
00:18:19Friends or outside, what we do in our social media, there is a lot of gathering
00:18:23but we both are social
00:18:25If we were in Karachi, if we were to go somewhere, we would have a problem
00:18:29that we wouldn't have to do where to go
00:18:31Now we don't have to worry, we both left in Lahore
00:18:34I know that they are in Dhyal and Tajani
00:18:38Even when I go to my kids, they are happy
00:18:40because they have unlimited TVs and unlimited candies
00:18:44and they all get food
00:18:45that I get at home
00:18:47Let me tell you, how are the Bengals?
00:18:49No, I'm serious, you said how are you feeling?
00:18:52It was a lot of struggle, I said that they are not feeling good
00:18:55but they are feeling good
00:18:56Because today, this trend is on full sleeves
00:18:58You tell them
00:19:00I don't wear it, I don't know
00:19:03Do they say that they are feeling good or not?
00:19:07They say that they are so good
00:19:07You advise but when I go to my kids, they say that
00:19:10You tell me that they always advise but they listen
00:19:13They listen
00:19:13No, I don't just advise
00:19:16They don't listen
00:19:17They listen from here
00:19:17They listen from here
00:19:18When I go shopping
00:19:19Thank you that they have to say
00:19:20When I go shopping
00:19:21I go shopping
00:19:23Tell me
00:19:24Tell me
00:19:25I remember
00:19:25I was talking before
00:19:26I was listening
00:19:28I was listening
00:19:29You have more confidence
00:19:30I have more confidence
00:19:31You have more confidence
00:19:32Like when kids are growing
00:19:33they are automatically
00:19:35You have confidence
00:19:36Exactly
00:19:36You can see
00:19:37I have lost my laptop
00:19:39so kids are growing
00:19:40so you have confidence
00:19:42You have confidence
00:19:43I have lost my laptop
00:19:45I have lost my mobile laptop
00:19:46I am getting training
00:19:47Wow
00:19:47Wow
00:19:49Today we are talking about stages
00:19:50We are talking about
00:19:51First stage
00:19:51First stage
00:19:52First stage
00:19:53First stage
00:19:53First stage
00:19:53Let's go to flashback
00:19:55Right?
00:19:56But we are starting to first year
00:19:58Yes
00:19:59Yes
00:19:59Seriously
00:20:00First stage
00:20:02First stage
00:20:04How did you get involved?
00:20:07Now the truth is true
00:20:09No
00:20:10We always say the truth
00:20:11Once upon a time
00:20:13Once upon a time
00:20:14Once upon a time
00:20:14One time
00:20:14Once upon a time
00:20:14One time
00:20:15I was a woman
00:20:17I was in my hair
00:20:18I was in my hair
00:20:19We were shooting in Kasim Park
00:20:20We were shooting in a project
00:20:21A.R.Y. Digital
00:20:22A.R.Y. Digital
00:20:22A.R.Y. Digital
00:20:24She was loved her
00:20:24And I told her
00:20:27The actors are also
00:20:28So I saw a girl
00:20:30So it felt like
00:20:31She was wearing her
00:20:32She was wearing her
00:20:32She was wearing a brown shirt
00:20:33Oh!
00:20:35It was beautiful
00:20:36Who are you?
00:20:37She also told her
00:20:37What?
00:20:38She was telling her
00:20:41She was wearing her
00:20:41But unfortunately
00:20:42She told me
00:20:42That this girl
00:20:43Is your daughter
00:20:46So she says
00:20:47She was wearing her
00:20:48And she was wearing a dress
00:20:50And she is standing here
00:20:51I was staying here
00:20:51Good girl
00:20:54Well
00:20:54So done
00:20:56She was become a girl
00:20:57She was in a girl
00:21:07Yes.
00:21:08Then, I proposed them in that project.
00:21:10In the other project, I proposed them.
00:21:12What do you have to waste time?
00:21:13It's a small thing.
00:21:15What did you do to impress them?
00:21:17I don't need to impress them.
00:21:20They don't need to impress them.
00:21:22But then?
00:21:23What about you?
00:21:24What about you?
00:21:25One minute.
00:21:28Wow, wow, wow.
00:21:29We always quote that when Nidha Aapi asked,
00:21:33you were impressed with them.
00:21:36So, I said that they don't drink cigarettes.
00:21:39After the show, I asked this question.
00:21:41So, I told everyone.
00:21:42My grandmother said that they don't drink cigarettes.
00:21:44That's why I got married.
00:21:46So, all smokers, you can not have a pretty wife.
00:21:49They've also heard stories.
00:21:51When they told me to impress them,
00:21:54I said,
00:21:55Mia, how do you see these girls?
00:21:58How do you remember?
00:21:58How do you remember your hair, brown color,
00:22:00the clothes, the buttons.
00:22:02They all remember.
00:22:03You see so much.
00:22:05Actually, it wasn't that much.
00:22:06It wasn't that much.
00:22:07And then, I said,
00:22:09I said,
00:22:10I said,
00:22:12I said,
00:22:13I was very recent to you.
00:22:15I said,
00:22:15Shreef is the same thing.
00:22:17If you don't have a shirt,
00:22:18then you just flirt.
00:22:19I'm a Shreef.
00:22:20It's all smoothly.
00:22:22You've told me.
00:22:24Yes,
00:22:24Mashallah.
00:22:25It's all smooth.
00:22:25That's the first thing.
00:22:26It's the first thing.
00:22:28It's the first thing.
00:22:29It's the first thing.
00:22:29We have a first stage.
00:22:32smoothies.
00:22:33It's all smoothly.
00:22:34then you get married.
00:22:34It's been like,
00:22:36It took...
00:22:37It took about one and a half.
00:22:38After that.
00:22:40In 2013,
00:22:42then we did a project.
00:22:43And in 2015,
00:22:44we had married.
00:22:46And no business house,
00:22:47did you have all been around?
00:22:49Or did you have any problems?
00:22:50No.
00:22:50The business house,
00:22:51yes.
00:22:52From their house or your house.
00:22:54No, in the beginning it was like that we are Punjabi, we are Sindhi
00:22:59so maybe it happened to us but at the end we both are Qureshi
00:23:05we don't need to change their surname
00:23:07because I often say that let's change the trend
00:23:11that we call Mr. and Mrs. Qureshi
00:23:13so now we call Mr. Qureshi
00:23:16so with us it is very good that we can do it
00:23:18such as there are no hurdles
00:23:19we don't have a chance to do it
00:23:20and yes, when Mr. Qureshi made tea
00:23:23when Mr. Qureshi went to their man's house
00:23:25I thought that I should do it or not
00:23:27Why did you do it?
00:23:28I didn't do it, I didn't drink tea
00:23:30I didn't drink tea, I didn't drink tea
00:23:34and I didn't drink tea
00:23:35I didn't drink tea and I am a tea lover
00:23:37but then Mr. Qureshi was thinking about it
00:23:41but then I learned how to do it
00:23:42Now we will go after the break
00:23:45for the first year of marriage
00:23:47after the first year of marriage
00:23:49and then we will cover all the stages
00:23:51until now, where are you going to get married?
00:23:53How many years have been married?
00:23:5410 years
00:23:5410 years
00:23:56you have reached 10
00:23:57it's been 20 years
00:23:58it's been 20 years
00:23:59it's been 20 too
00:23:59okay
00:24:00so let's talk about a little break
00:24:02and let's talk about the stages
00:24:05what are their experiences
00:24:07and a first experience
00:24:09they shared in this segment
00:24:10that they gave kids to school for 7 years
00:24:12they gave them a lot of tips
00:24:25good morning Pakistan
00:24:25welcome, welcome back
00:24:27good morning Pakistan
00:24:28and now Rusa and Bilal are with us
00:24:31and we will talk about different stages of life
00:24:34and in the last segment
00:24:37we have talked about the stages of marriage
00:24:39and now the stage of marriage
00:24:41different stages of marriage
00:24:43different stages of marriage
00:24:44different stages of marriage
00:24:44that's right
00:24:45I'm saying that's right
00:24:47but I'm saying that
00:24:48this is our very hard
00:24:49marriage
00:24:50today
00:24:51this is our big test
00:24:52and let's see
00:24:54what happens
00:24:55we have passed or failed
00:24:56no
00:24:57no
00:24:57you can pass
00:24:58you will be passed
00:24:59when we have passed
00:24:59we will have passed
00:25:01so the first year of marriage
00:25:03yes
00:25:03okay, first of all
00:25:04tell us Rusa
00:25:05it's the first year of marriage
00:25:07it's the first year of marriage
00:25:09it's the first year of marriage
00:25:11it's the first year of marriage
00:25:11it's the first year of marriage
00:25:11I wasn't a lot
00:25:13but I was a little scared
00:25:14because it's our society
00:25:16that life changes
00:25:17restrictions
00:25:18come on
00:25:19so in the beginning
00:25:20I didn't understand
00:25:22that there was no change
00:25:23what changed
00:25:24what changed
00:25:24I mean
00:25:25I'm sleeping
00:25:26I'm going to shoot
00:25:27I'm going to shoot
00:25:28I'm going to shoot
00:25:29so it was beautiful
00:25:30after that
00:25:31I was conceived
00:25:33in the first year
00:25:35Alhamdulillah
00:25:35so the first year of pregnancy
00:25:38started
00:25:38I was pregnant
00:25:40on my first anniversary
00:25:41I guess
00:25:426-7 months
00:25:44I was pregnant
00:25:44MashaAllah
00:25:45so it was beautiful
00:25:47they said
00:25:48they didn't change
00:25:49so they didn't change
00:25:50their surname
00:25:51they didn't change
00:25:51so that's why
00:25:53we just felt like
00:25:54home
00:25:54you were in Karachi
00:25:55we were in Karachi
00:25:57we were in Karachi
00:25:58we both were working
00:25:59in the first year
00:25:59it was very interesting
00:26:01that we both were working people
00:26:05we both were working people
00:26:05we both were acting
00:26:05and working
00:26:06and when we were home
00:26:07we were making food
00:26:08I used to chop and cut
00:26:11the tomato payas
00:26:13and everything
00:26:13because Uruzha
00:26:14didn't eat food
00:26:15it was 50-50
00:26:17we were eating food
00:26:18so that's why
00:26:20we were doing
00:26:20the activity
00:26:21because while doing
00:26:23and cooking
00:26:23and all
00:26:23we were eating
00:26:25and then we were eating
00:26:25in one plate
00:26:27I used to eat
00:26:28and then when
00:26:30it was sohaan
00:26:30and I shifted
00:26:32in two plates
00:26:32so I didn't know
00:26:34they didn't know
00:26:34that
00:26:34look, I had two
00:26:36love
00:26:38mashaAllah
00:26:38you know
00:26:38so that you
00:26:39put them
00:26:39on your hands
00:26:40and
00:26:43when was that?
00:26:45I didn't remember
00:26:45that
00:26:46I didn't remember
00:26:48definitely
00:26:48in the first year
00:26:49definitely
00:26:50build up
00:26:51and fight
00:26:52all goody
00:26:53I want to clear
00:26:54here
00:26:55that people
00:26:55understand
00:26:55that we never
00:26:56fought
00:26:56actually
00:26:57fought
00:26:58we never did
00:26:59on social media
00:27:00in the first year
00:27:01I think
00:27:02that people
00:27:02will fight
00:27:03and I will show
00:27:04that we are
00:27:06the same
00:27:07way
00:27:07you all
00:27:08fight
00:27:08no
00:27:09so the first year
00:27:12basically
00:27:13today's topic
00:27:14is that
00:27:15your personality
00:27:16changes
00:27:17in these stages
00:27:18when you come
00:27:21where you are
00:27:21and say
00:27:22you will
00:27:23have a laugh
00:27:24that we were
00:27:25right
00:27:25that
00:27:26are
00:27:26right
00:27:26that
00:27:28we have
00:27:28so much
00:27:28that
00:27:29we have
00:27:30so much
00:27:30that
00:27:31we have
00:27:31so much
00:27:31that
00:27:33we have
00:27:40here
00:27:42and
00:27:42we have
00:27:43confirmed
00:27:45and
00:27:46we were
00:27:46in the mall
00:27:47in the car
00:27:47and
00:27:48we were
00:27:48in the mall
00:27:50so
00:27:50that
00:27:50I thought
00:27:53that
00:27:53I was
00:27:53not
00:27:54we are
00:27:55so
00:27:56as
00:27:57we have
00:27:59mad
00:28:00and
00:28:00we are
00:28:01I thought
00:28:01this
00:28:19is
00:28:19my
00:28:20I will not get angry at all.
00:28:22Then I said, I can get angry at all.
00:28:26I will get angry at all.
00:28:28Then I will get angry at all.
00:28:30After that, there was a phase that came to understand.
00:28:35But now he knows that okay, he can get angry at all.
00:28:39Now he knows that Bilal is going to get angry at all.
00:28:44If I get angry at all, I will get angry at all.
00:28:46Actually, I think that marriage is a 24-hour relationship.
00:28:52Whatever the relationship between parents and brothers and children.
00:28:55It is time limited.
00:28:58But marriage is a relationship between 24 hours.
00:29:01We must be together, we must be together.
00:29:03But we are mentally connected.
00:29:05And I think this is the only relationship with each other.
00:29:08For anything.
00:29:09They can ask anything. Your partner can ask anything.
00:29:12So we need to do that value and respect.
00:29:14And I always say that this is the first relationship with the creation.
00:29:18Husband and wife.
00:29:19Husband and wife.
00:29:19It is a very precious relationship.
00:29:22And a lot of people when they ask me for marriage,
00:29:24I say, it is a great relationship.
00:29:26It is a great relationship.
00:29:27It is a great relationship.
00:29:29It is not a dangerous relationship.
00:29:30It is not a normal relationship.
00:29:32It is a great relationship.
00:29:37It is a great relationship.
00:29:37If I ask the women to ask them, I can answer that.
00:29:41I was expecting Sohan.
00:29:43My name.
00:29:46I was mad at that.
00:29:48At the beginning, I was so scared.
00:29:50I was so scared.
00:29:51After that, I was so scared.
00:29:54I was so scared.
00:29:55I was so scared.
00:29:59But now I can't say anything.
00:30:00I can't say anything.
00:30:00I can't say anything.
00:30:01I can't say anything.
00:30:03But no, Alhamdulillah.
00:30:04If we talk about bad things,
00:30:07I'm 70% bad.
00:30:08I can't say anything.
00:30:11I can't say anything.
00:30:12I can't say anything.
00:30:13I can't say anything.
00:30:14What do you say?
00:30:15I'm wearing a special hat.
00:30:16This is always right.
00:30:17I'm watching this.
00:30:19Always right.
00:30:20Always right.
00:30:21So this is...
00:30:22Like in the first year,
00:30:25I conceived Sohan.
00:30:26Have you ever had a discussion of
00:30:31that you don't work?
00:30:33No.
00:30:33No.
00:30:36He always wanted to work.
00:30:37This is my choice.
00:30:40I'm a fussy mother.
00:30:42And I'm lazy.
00:30:43So I'm not.
00:30:44Aiza Khan inspires me.
00:30:47But I can't do it.
00:30:48I'm not multi-talented.
00:30:49Aiza was too little.
00:30:51But when I was little,
00:30:52I had a gap for a few days.
00:30:54But...
00:30:55In fact,
00:30:55we were in the morning at the hotel
00:30:57and a woman came to the hotel
00:30:59and she was very cute.
00:30:59If she was watching.
00:31:01So I thought,
00:31:02sorry,
00:31:02I'm not bothered.
00:31:03I'm not saying that.
00:31:04No, no, no.
00:31:05It's all fine.
00:31:07Why don't you give her work?
00:31:09She didn't give her work.
00:31:09She didn't give her work.
00:31:10Innocently she asked me.
00:31:11I said,
00:31:11Who am I to stop her?
00:31:16Why are you saying that?
00:31:17I've never stopped her.
00:31:18She's going to ask her.
00:31:21They ask and talk to us
00:31:23like very...
00:31:23with a big ownership.
00:31:26So I want to tell everyone
00:31:28that people have an impact
00:31:29that if your wife doesn't work,
00:31:32you might think that your husband
00:31:33has done it.
00:31:35I think that today's generation,
00:31:38like Gen Z,
00:31:38the first of our generation is
00:31:40that they celebrate and appreciate
00:31:44each other's success.
00:31:45And their passion.
00:31:47If they want.
00:31:48But the choice is all hers.
00:31:50She is...
00:31:51Like,
00:31:52every mother,
00:31:54every mother says,
00:31:55she's angry.
00:31:56The mother's love
00:31:57it wins above all.
00:31:59So that's why
00:32:00she is like
00:32:00Sohan, Roman, Sohan, Roman.
00:32:03That's her choice.
00:32:04All.
00:32:04All.
00:32:05Because I've also gone through this phase
00:32:07when I was acting.
00:32:08So I was thinking
00:32:09that when I was acting
00:32:10on the set
00:32:11and I was at home
00:32:13then my heart was like
00:32:15like this.
00:32:16Like someone had
00:32:16hit it.
00:32:17So that thing
00:32:18that I liked acting
00:32:20would feel bad.
00:32:22That's why
00:32:22I was living with a child.
00:32:24When I was living with a child
00:32:25and I didn't work
00:32:26and then after that,
00:32:28I was like,
00:32:28I'm a little bit of depression.
00:32:29I left my job.
00:32:31That's right.
00:32:31So I thought
00:32:31I got a beach path
00:32:32so I changed my career.
00:32:35And then,
00:32:35Good morning, Pakistan!
00:32:36It's the history!
00:32:38That's right.
00:32:40That's right.
00:32:41Seriously,
00:32:41we'd like to appreciate you on that.
00:32:44There are so many channels,
00:32:44so many shows,
00:32:45so many hosts
00:32:46came,
00:32:47but mashallah, mashallah,
00:32:48you rocked
00:32:49and you're still rocking.
00:32:50This is a big thing.
00:32:51I just thought
00:32:52that I was in school,
00:32:53so I'm here.
00:32:54That's right.
00:32:55That's right.
00:32:56And now,
00:32:57this was the smart move.
00:32:59In the drama,
00:33:00we're also playing the mother,
00:33:01the daughter, and the daughter.
00:33:02And here,
00:33:03you're also in Pakistan,
00:33:04some people take you as sister,
00:33:06some people take you.
00:33:06Yes, we're all.
00:33:07Yes, that's right.
00:33:07I'm also saying that
00:33:08I'm a sister.
00:33:09So that was a smart move.
00:33:11Good morning, Pakistan.
00:33:12When we're going to Nida Yasser,
00:33:13we're going to go to Arusa Tureshi.
00:33:15Done.
00:33:16I'll just say it.
00:33:17That's right.
00:33:18It's the truth.
00:33:20You're going to sit down
00:33:21and talk to yourself.
00:33:22Yes.
00:33:23You're going to be training.
00:33:24You're going to be training.
00:33:25Nida Yasser.
00:33:26Yes.
00:33:27That's right.
00:33:27No, you're going to be training.
00:33:30No, I'll do it.
00:33:32I'll do it.
00:33:33My second family,
00:33:35I've come to be working at 4 years,
00:33:38so if I've come to be 5 years,
00:33:40I'll do this work.
00:33:41So that's right.
00:33:43You'll be able to get to the people.
00:33:45You've got to get to get to the people.
00:33:45Because the children of 7 years,
00:33:47they're important.
00:33:48Yes, yes.
00:33:49They are going to school,
00:33:51Mashallah.
00:33:53I'll add one thing to say,
00:33:54if you don't mind.
00:33:55I heard a statement from Meulana Tariq Jameel that
00:33:58that for 10 years, give a lot of devotion, love, love, respect and care
00:34:05that you will do all your life.
00:34:06So it became its base?
00:34:08Yes, there was another great saying that I had heard or heard
00:34:11that for 7 years, you have to be an uncle and you have to be an uncle.
00:34:16Then for 7-14 years, you have to be an uncle and call a uncle.
00:34:20Then for 14-20 years, you have to be a friend.
00:34:23You have to be a friend.
00:34:24He or she is ready to conquer the world.
00:34:29So that pattern in my mind was these things.
00:34:32So, for 7 years, I have been a uncle and I became a uncle.
00:34:35So, when will they become a uncle?
00:34:38Yes, when will they become a uncle?
00:34:40He is an amazing father.
00:34:43He is a big expert.
00:34:45I often say that you are a uncle.
00:34:48It means that it should be friendly.
00:34:50But then they don't have to be friendly.
00:34:53It means that they don't know the difference between a friend and a father.
00:34:56Yes.
00:34:57But this is a lot of regards.
00:34:58Yes.
00:34:59I am happy.
00:34:59Happy to be.
00:35:00So, now we come to the marriage of three years.
00:35:03Three years.
00:35:04Three years later.
00:35:06Three years later.
00:35:07Yes.
00:35:07Actually, three years later.
00:35:09Yes.
00:35:09The happiness.
00:35:10All about.
00:35:14Not as an adult.
00:35:15I am happy.
00:35:17The happy individual needs to be a parent.
00:35:17It makes a child very big.
00:35:19God is not a kid.
00:35:20He has to lose weight.
00:35:22Can he go to the hospital, to sleep, to sleep, to sleep.
00:35:31Oh, yes.
00:35:38We put the mattress on the ground and dispose of the bed so that we don't fall down.
00:35:43Second, the switch holes, the cover is closed, it's protective.
00:35:48Our house was like shifting.
00:35:52We didn't have any decoration piece, we didn't have a very consciously.
00:35:56In TV lounge, we had a mattress and we didn't sit on the sofa.
00:36:00We were very conscious, we were very newly parents.
00:36:03Our process was very enjoyed.
00:36:04We didn't have any control over the whole body, but it was very complex.
00:36:11I was really excited about how to sell a braids.
00:36:12As you said, we never made a braids.
00:36:19We went out and looked down.
00:36:20I had a braids in front of the room.
00:36:24All the time we had bought a braids in front of the room,
00:36:30we lost some shoes, and then we were looking for the braids.
00:36:33When the inconsistency of the bed was too big,
00:36:33we didn't have a braids in front of the room.
00:36:33you have to be very conscious in that time, you have to be very conscious in that time.
00:36:39So in the beginning of 3 years, after marriage,
00:36:42we were able to capture it.
00:36:46We were able to capture it.
00:36:49We were able to capture it.
00:36:51I also say that we don't do that much.
00:36:55So when we grow up in social media,
00:36:58we didn't do anything with us.
00:36:58We didn't do anything with us.
00:37:00So in the beginning of the year,
00:37:02when you are parents,
00:37:05we felt so blessed.
00:37:07We were listening, reading,
00:37:10watching films,
00:37:12parents, children,
00:37:13but when it happens, we know that they are children.
00:37:17After marriage,
00:37:18if I ask you to ask,
00:37:19you have to capture it in us.
00:37:21In his childhood, in his milestones.
00:37:24Who is conscious?
00:37:26He doesn't get out of breath.
00:37:27He doesn't get out of breath.
00:37:29He doesn't get out of breath.
00:37:29In our couples,
00:37:32the compatibility,
00:37:35the main point is that
00:37:37we both don't have any concerns.
00:37:40Mother is watching.
00:37:42But we both are equally concerned for children.
00:37:45And we have to take care of children.
00:37:52So many things,
00:37:53we should not have to do that.
00:37:53In the meantime,
00:37:53But we are trying to destroy them,
00:37:55The trauma of children based on the children's
00:37:55collection,
00:37:56which other parents have been changed.
00:38:01The trauma went with different ages.
00:38:06The trauma of children based on the personal data,
00:38:06but the trauma of children based on the United States,
00:38:07I think the trauma is changed
00:38:11and the trauma of child.
00:38:14Especially when the number 2 was a rapper,
00:38:16the father, father, father, father,
00:38:18then it was the case that he changed it.
00:38:20I would say that the human beings...
00:38:22It's very important.
00:38:25It's very important.
00:38:26Because our people don't do this work.
00:38:29I don't know if there is a piece of paper,
00:38:31one thing is,
00:38:32how did he do it?
00:38:33He's doing it.
00:38:34How did this develop?
00:38:38Have you seen your parents or your brothers
00:38:42or someone who is doing it?
00:38:44No.
00:38:46People often say,
00:38:48we are dead in Pakistan.
00:38:49I would like to say that
00:38:53in a human life,
00:38:57when he is not capable
00:38:57that he can keep himself
00:38:58and keep his needs.
00:39:02At that moment,
00:39:03the father is devoted to him.
00:39:04In the world,
00:39:05there is no devotion for you.
00:39:08It's not our fault.
00:39:10And,
00:39:11as you asked about being a man,
00:39:13I think that gender is not something.
00:39:17Yes,
00:39:17gender in terms
00:39:18that Mother has been born
00:39:19and in that regard,
00:39:21it's a benefit and a good deal.
00:39:22But my father,
00:39:24in my opinion,
00:39:25in our mind,
00:39:27there should not be a problem.
00:39:29Sometimes you should pick it up, see the child who sees it
00:39:32No, it's my knowledge
00:39:34No, it's their father, it's their big brother
00:39:38But it's my knowledge
00:39:39Parents and children, it's my knowledge
00:39:43I mean, I can do anything for this
00:39:45It's my feeling
00:39:46So, it's not practically to say that
00:39:51People say, no, that's a big deal
00:39:53People look after them
00:39:55Like expenses, all that
00:39:57But you enjoy it
00:39:59I love doing it
00:40:00I'm also in romance
00:40:01I love it
00:40:03I love to do it
00:40:04I love them
00:40:05I love the ideas
00:40:11Because I don't have to raise children
00:40:15I'm scared
00:40:16In the beginning, I was too, as you said, in the beginning of the marriage.
00:40:20When the child was born, in the beginning of the month, it was only one month.
00:40:25It was a day, right?
00:40:26It was a bit of time, but I was conscious of it.
00:40:28I will not say that.
00:40:29But a lot of times, when someone told me that my daughter had a sari,
00:40:32she gave me a little while, and she said,
00:40:34what will they say?
00:40:36I'm not going to pick you up.
00:40:37I'm not going to pick you up.
00:40:38No, no.
00:40:39If they go outside, then it's their children.
00:40:41Our children are not going to be hanging around.
00:40:43Maybe they are in malls, maybe they are outstation, picnic point, holiday, or park.
00:40:49Now, mashaAllah, they both are running.
00:40:50But when they have to pick up in the room,
00:40:52they must always pick up.
00:40:53If you have more duties in the room, I will take it.
00:40:56We have our mentality of the men's like,
00:40:58what do they say?
00:41:00Juru is a victim.
00:41:01When I pick up children, I've seen them more.
00:41:04If you become a victim, you will become a victim in the world.
00:41:07If you become a victim of a victim of a victim,
00:41:09you will become a victim of a victim.
00:41:10If you become a victim of a victim,
00:41:11you will become a victim of a victim.
00:41:12Maybe we don't have any nannies or anything like that, we don't have any.
00:41:1824 hours made.
00:41:18So, both of them have contributed to their own things.
00:41:22But then, if only a woman is alone, then it's necessary.
00:41:26Yes, it's my husband.
00:41:28No, this is what you did, let's take it and put it in a compliment.
00:41:32And I have told you that I like to mention this on here.
00:41:36She is amazing in terms of diet.
00:41:39No cold drinks, no junk food.
00:41:41I like to mention this on here.
00:41:44My husband has 9 years old and my husband has 4 years old.
00:41:48They don't have any cold drinks.
00:41:49They don't know how it tastes.
00:41:51Even junk food or any sweet thing.
00:41:55Now, if we are here, let's suppose there will be a cake or cookies or anything.
00:42:01So, Suhan will call first.
00:42:03Mama, this is coming, I will eat.
00:42:04If Mama says no, then no.
00:42:06No means no. She is the boss.
00:42:07Okay.
00:42:38She is the boss.
00:42:40Yeah.
00:42:41going to be 50,000,000,000. In which you will be able to participate in the 29th December
00:42:47and how you can participate, it will be this way that if you will book gold, automatically
00:42:57your name will be 50,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000
00:43:04,000.
00:43:05And if you want all the information on the screen, you can contact the numbers on the screen
00:43:13and you will be able to complete it. So today we have basically Bilal and Urusa
00:43:20but their stage is now for 10 years, the stage that we are discussing today.
00:43:27And many days later we have come and we have started with a flashback.
00:43:31True.
00:43:33And MashaAllah, Alhamdulillah, we have seen this, that we have seen a lot of extreme
00:43:39in our lives. Alhamdulillah, it is not.
00:43:42No, Alhamdulillah.
00:43:43MashaAllah, it is a good life.
00:43:47Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah.
00:43:48But many couples are such a way that they are tested in different stages of life.
00:43:56So I have a couple here, which is called Maouz Ansari and Saira Ansari, 25 years ago.
00:44:03MashaAllah.
00:44:04And in their lives, the graph is like this and this came out. And in that way, the other
00:44:11happens.
00:44:12Many people, if they have a bad time, they will leave their babies and leave their babies.
00:44:16If they have a bad time, they will leave their babies and leave their babies and leave their babies.
00:44:22They will leave their babies and leave their babies and leave their babies and leave their babies.
00:44:26True.
00:44:27So what is your story about the stages?
00:44:31I think starting, when he married, he was working there.
00:44:38So after I married 4-5 months, I went there.
00:44:43But within 3 months, they had a contract and they had a job.
00:44:50And now they had a new new婚.
00:44:53And when I married, I conceived also.
00:44:56So when we came back, I was expecting them.
00:44:59And they didn't work at that time.
00:45:02So that was a financial challenge.
00:45:05That was a very big challenge.
00:45:07That was a very big challenge.
00:45:08That was also the beginning of the wedding day.
00:45:09That was the first stage.
00:45:10That was the first stage.
00:45:12So that's not our way of being a fantasy.
00:45:15But otherwise, I started working.
00:45:19I started working.
00:45:20I study business.
00:45:21So you were pregnant.
00:45:22You were also going to be a child.
00:45:24You started working.
00:45:25You started working.
00:45:26So that was a fantasy year.
00:45:27You were struggling for your time.
00:45:28That was a struggle.
00:45:29Exactly.
00:45:31And then, because of pregnancy, it was a tough time.
00:45:35It was a tough pregnancy first.
00:45:37I had a lot of blood pressure.
00:45:39I had a lot of swelling.
00:45:40I was going to study business.
00:45:42I had an MBA.
00:45:43So at that time, I was a permanent faculty.
00:45:46Now I am visiting.
00:45:47And I am in different colleges.
00:45:48But the swelling of my teeth, it was a lot of swelling.
00:45:53It was tough.
00:45:54Then, it was a little bit of time for them.
00:45:58We didn't do a job.
00:46:00And you do a job.
00:46:01And you are pregnant.
00:46:02Yes, I was pregnant.
00:46:03But he was doing a lot of things.
00:46:06He was doing a lot of work and everything.
00:46:08But it was a tough time.
00:46:10Then, my daughter's name was Maham.
00:46:14Then, after a few months,
00:46:16he started his career.
00:46:19So that was a challenge.
00:46:21I was doing a job too.
00:46:23And we had to do something.
00:46:23Just stand by my mother's mother's family.
00:46:24And then, I got to do something.
00:46:24Then, I had to do something.
00:46:27Then, I had to do something.
00:46:28I had always wanted to do something.
00:46:29My mother was my father's family.
00:46:31My house was very supportive.
00:46:32But there were some women who still were separate.
00:46:36And, other than them were separate.
00:46:37So, having to do something.
00:46:39So, managing a job was definitely the challenge.
00:46:41Everyone was working.
00:46:42And we had to do something.
00:46:48This was also very important.
00:46:50Did you not work for shop?
00:46:51Yes, definitely.
00:46:54Then, Behral managed well.
00:46:55I have a very good family.
00:46:59I have a very good family.
00:47:00I have a very good family.
00:47:01I have a very good family.
00:47:03I have a very good family.
00:47:03I have a very good family.
00:47:10Then, if I am a little further,
00:47:12then I have settled things.
00:47:14Alhamdulillah.
00:47:15Then, the second time, it was 2007,
00:47:18I think.
00:47:19My daughter, Maryam.
00:47:21When she died in five months,
00:47:24she died.
00:47:25That was the other hurdle.
00:47:27It was a big blow.
00:47:32When she had not done three months,
00:47:34she was poor.
00:47:36We used to take her,
00:47:38and everything.
00:47:39Loose motions.
00:47:40There were cystic fibroses.
00:47:42That was the second child's death.
00:47:44At that time,
00:47:46many parents go into depression.
00:47:48I have seen that many parents get away.
00:47:51Many parents get away.
00:47:51Many people come close.
00:47:53What happened with you?
00:47:55My daughter is close.
00:47:56My daughter is close.
00:47:56We are close.
00:47:57There was a lot of loss.
00:47:59She was five years old.
00:48:03She was five years old.
00:48:06It was a loss.
00:48:08It was a lot of support.
00:48:10It was a lot of emotional support.
00:48:11It was a lot of financial support.
00:48:14It was a lot of emotional support.
00:48:16After the next stage,
00:48:16there was a lot of emotional support.
00:48:18It was a lot of loss.
00:48:20If it wasn't a loss,
00:48:21it was really difficult for the relationship.
00:48:23It was a lot of emotional support.
00:48:25It was a lot of emotional support.
00:48:28It was a lot of emotional support.
00:48:29After Maryam,
00:48:30after 2 years,
00:48:33I have two daughters now.
00:48:36I have two daughters now.
00:48:37At that time,
00:48:38the trauma,
00:48:40I felt that
00:48:41nothing will happen.
00:48:43It will happen.
00:48:44It will happen.
00:48:46It was a genetic disorder
00:48:50and it has not been digested.
00:48:52It was a pneumonia.
00:48:54I had no idea of giving it
00:48:56to me.
00:48:58I don't have to give it to me.
00:48:59I don't have to give it to me.
00:49:00I don't have to give it to me.
00:49:02It will happen.
00:49:03It will happen.
00:49:06It was a very challenging period.
00:49:09I was working.
00:49:10But I was visiting.
00:49:11It was easy for me.
00:49:13To go home,
00:49:15to go,
00:49:15everything.
00:49:16I was impatient.
00:49:20I didn't want to give it to me.
00:49:22I'm not saying
00:49:23that I'm doing something better.
00:49:27It's a moment to give it to me.
00:49:30The work is bordering.
00:49:31It's a moment to give it to me.
00:49:33It's a moment to give it to me.
00:49:36It's a moment to give it to me.
00:49:37It has to be a moment to give it to me.
00:49:39or something we missed, that's the thing.
00:49:42And I would like to clarify that I've never said that.
00:49:47But it's just that you don't have anything from our side.
00:49:52At that time, doctors told me it was not because of a feeder or anything,
00:49:57it was a genetic disorder,
00:49:59which didn't become digestive enzymes and everything.
00:50:02But that was a tough period.
00:50:05And that was also a tough period.
00:50:10So, when did you get a little smooth?
00:50:13They say, inna mahal, usri, usra.
00:50:17So, every problem is easy.
00:50:19So, I think after Mariam,
00:50:22our financial draft,
00:50:25opportunities, a lot of things.
00:50:29Inaya, then, mashaAllah, there hasn't been a disease.
00:50:32It's a lot of damage.
00:50:34That's why Allah has done a lot.
00:50:37Allah has balanced.
00:50:39It gives a lot of pain,
00:50:41the amount of pain,
00:50:43the amount of pain,
00:50:44the amount of pain,
00:50:45the amount of pain,
00:50:45But, as I think of digestion,
00:50:49I don't have any issue.
00:50:51So, you have 25 years old.
00:50:53That's why I have no doubt.
00:50:54It's not even a doubt.
00:50:54Sometimes it's true.
00:50:55It's also true.
00:50:56As for emotional and financial.
00:50:58After five years,
00:50:59it's true.
00:51:01No, after 40,
00:51:02it's also naughty.
00:51:03Oh, yeah.
00:51:04That's true.
00:51:05What do we call it?
00:51:06Mid-Age crisis.
00:51:07Nowadays, 40 is new.
00:51:09Teenage.
00:51:10No, I am not.
00:51:11They have been very good.
00:51:12When it started,
00:51:13they are a lot of pain now.
00:51:15Then, they are very good with us.
00:51:16They have much of scared.
00:51:17And financially, emotionally.
00:51:19It's not naughty because of 40?
00:51:21It's not a problem.
00:51:23I don't even know them.
00:51:24It's not a problem.
00:51:25I didn't do them well.
00:51:28They're all so proud.
00:51:29I don't know if those things
00:51:32I'm not sure.
00:51:34Today I will keep my phone and check on the phone.
00:51:37I will keep my team up.
00:51:39This is a mid-age crisis of naughty 40.
00:51:44Because I don't know what happens.
00:51:47But 40 is naughty, not gender specific.
00:51:51Yes, this is also true.
00:51:53I am checking your phone too.
00:51:56After 40, there are other issues after 40,
00:51:58and after 40, there are other issues after 40.
00:52:01The Khawateen, the first time of the post,
00:52:04is a big deal.
00:52:05And they are feeling bad at little and little.
00:52:07So there are so many things.
00:52:09What do you want to know?
00:52:09At our stage, it's not like that.
00:52:11I want to tell you quickly a recent challenge.
00:52:15Last year, Eid, when I woke up at Eid,
00:52:19the left side of my face was completely paralyzed.
00:52:22I mean, if I smile too, I didn't smile from here.
00:52:25So that was very tough.
00:52:27It was Bell's palsy.
00:52:28There is a cranial nerve.
00:52:31If it's damaged.
00:52:33That's why your system will break a circuit.
00:52:37I knew that my dad had happened a few years ago.
00:52:41And when I went to the hospital,
00:52:42I knew that there was an infection of the skin.
00:52:45That's why I was scared.
00:52:46I was scared.
00:52:47That's why I was scared.
00:52:48Actually, there is an infection of the skin.
00:52:50It's an idiopathic disease,
00:52:52which sometimes there is no reason.
00:52:54Sometimes there is a BP shoot.
00:52:57But sometimes there is a swelling here.
00:52:59So there is no instructions.
00:53:01So that's a very tough situation.
00:53:04The eyes can't even blink.
00:53:06The smile on both sides.
00:53:07The eyes don't blink, but the eyes don't blink.
00:53:09And my job is to speak all the time.
00:53:13I have to study in colleges.
00:53:15I have to study in my YouTube channel.
00:53:16I have to do counseling.
00:53:18How many years did you do?
00:53:20I think five to six months.
00:53:22I think five to six months.
00:53:23I mean, it took six months.
00:53:24It took six months.
00:53:25So it's kind of a play.
00:53:27What kind of play was that?
00:53:28My family had more.
00:53:28It was a film that had the best in their life.
00:53:30That was a very supportive story.
00:53:31My family overall.
00:53:34I would also credit my friends.
00:53:36Family and everybody.
00:53:37But it's as much as your life partner.
00:53:40It's very important.
00:53:42You have to become completely depressed.
00:53:46You have to drink water and drink water.
00:53:49Otherwise, it will rain.
00:53:50They call a colours.
00:53:52It means that your life is increasing from events.
00:53:59Basically, your life, your life, your life,
00:54:02there are events.
00:54:04That's true.
00:54:05That's true.
00:54:06When you look at the machine like this,
00:54:09it means that your life is running.
00:54:11When it is like this, it means that your life is running.
00:54:14So hats off to you guys.
00:54:15Mashallah, 25 years.
00:54:16In your life, every person's life has financial problems.
00:54:20Yes, yes, yes.
00:54:22And our life is also coming.
00:54:23Exactly.
00:54:24That's right.
00:54:26Alhamdulillah, I'm very blessed and lucky
00:54:27that if my projects haven't happened
00:54:30or there's a gap in time,
00:54:33she's very positive in terms.
00:54:35We are a lot of people from Allah.
00:54:37This is our father's side.
00:54:39So we are never into that.
00:54:42Until now, there's no good face financially.
00:54:45But she has a strong will.
00:54:47I always encourage.
00:54:48Will power is strong.
00:54:49Yes, very strong.
00:54:50Will power is very strong.
00:54:51Will power is very strong.
00:54:52Will power is very strong.
00:54:53Will power is very strong.
00:54:53I'm a weak person.
00:54:55Will power is very strong.
00:54:56But innerly, I think that woman is stronger.
00:55:00My belief is that if something is bad,
00:55:06then there is also no problem.
00:55:08This is my firm belief.
00:55:14That is not the same thing,
00:55:15I think that I am very strong.
00:55:15I am very strong.
00:55:15My belief is that Allah has seen me in front of me.
00:55:17In front of me,
00:55:17That is better.
00:55:20That is why it has been better.
00:55:24That is what it has done.
00:55:26I think that marriage is a kind of relationship with patience.
00:55:30I mean that it can't work hard, but it can work hard.
00:55:33Actually, our life has not made so fancy.
00:55:36I am going to talk about this.
00:55:38Simple, simple.
00:55:39I am going to talk about this.
00:55:40I am going to talk about this.
00:55:41We are not.
00:55:46God's thanks to this disease.
00:55:48Not at all.
00:55:50There is no materialistic approach.
00:55:52We don't have it through that.
00:55:54Maybe people ask what they say.
00:55:55I think that the biggest thing to live in life is that people say.
00:55:58But when you act for a people,
00:55:59you waste your life.
00:56:01Absolutely.
00:56:01We do not.
00:56:02We have seen people that give their accounts away from their good times
00:56:06and when they get down there they don't have anything.
00:56:10Something doesn't happen.
00:56:10Mayanna Ravii.
00:56:11Make balance.
00:56:13You will be okay with your great time.
00:56:14So, the money is good?
00:56:16Oh, it's just right.
00:56:17The money is bad.
00:56:19We are celebrities.
00:56:20But, people expect us to call out the sale.
00:56:23My wife didn't allow me to go regular.
00:56:26We take it for children, it doesn't matter how many.
00:56:29But we don't allow it to wait for sale.
00:56:32It's a good move to do.
00:56:34It's a good move to do.
00:56:35Just to get out of the disease.
00:56:38It's not.
00:56:39I think that if it's not the disease,
00:56:41it's a disease.
00:56:42Yes, it's a disease.
00:56:43It's a disease.
00:56:44If it's not the disease,
00:56:46then your life will go through your budget.
00:56:50Exactly.
00:56:51And then you won't come down.
00:56:51Yes.
00:56:53Because you have to leave it for the first time.
00:56:56Yes.
00:56:56If you will go through extra money,
00:56:57and credit,
00:56:58then you will go through extra money.
00:56:59Because people see that
00:57:00that is so colorful and show-off life.
00:57:03And they are asking for sale.
00:57:05Yes.
00:57:06I would say that husband and wife
00:57:08should not be burdened on each other.
00:57:12Because it's not that you did it,
00:57:15but we did it.
00:57:16It's not that you, it's not that we.
00:57:18We should understand this.
00:57:21We should understand this.
00:57:22It's not that there are 25 years old.
00:57:23It's never been enough to me.
00:57:25I won't be afraid of the song.
00:57:26Yes, sir.
00:57:26Yes.
00:57:27We would do this for the song.
00:57:29We can sing the song for the baby.
00:57:31It's never been a difficult time.
00:57:32We've been listening for the song for the baby.
00:57:33It's never been a difficult time for the baby.
00:57:34We can sing the song for the baby.
00:57:35It's never seen as Indians.
00:57:49So, what do you think is that now that you have to meet each other, what do you want to
00:57:53do?
00:57:54It's a dream to be a couple.
00:57:57It's a target.
00:57:58Like I and Yassir, in every stage, there is no target.
00:58:03I think if we make a target,
00:58:05then you will be able to achieve this.
00:58:09It's a great pleasure to tell you about this.
00:58:12You will also be 25, you will also be 23 or 24.
00:58:14It's a great pleasure to tell you about this.
00:58:16My wife, in these 10 years, made me three statements.
00:58:21One statement that I can complete.
00:58:24One statement that I can complete.
00:58:25And one statement that I can't complete.
00:58:27The statement that I can't complete.
00:58:29It's my home.
00:58:30A woman wants to secure her home.
00:58:33She says that it's my home.
00:58:36Inshallah, I will make it.
00:58:38But I can't achieve that.
00:58:39But I don't have any pressure,
00:58:41or anything like that.
00:58:43There is no negativity.
00:58:44There is also an encouragement that
00:58:45Inshallah, we will do it.
00:58:46We can and we will.
00:58:48The other thing is that
00:58:4950-50,
00:58:50as I told you,
00:58:51that I am very conscious of
00:58:53that I don't eat junk food,
00:58:54outside,
00:58:55and I don't eat bad things.
00:58:57It's 50-50.
00:58:58I always believe and listen.
00:58:59I always control it.
00:59:00I always cheat.
00:59:01And one thing that,
00:59:02Alhamdulillah,
00:59:03I always enjoy my love
00:59:04is that
00:59:05I always pray for 5 times.
00:59:07So,
00:59:07I always try and say,
00:59:09Alhamdulillah,
00:59:10I will be ill.
00:59:11I am ill.
00:59:12But I am ill.
00:59:13So,
00:59:13one of those three statements
00:59:15which is very genuine and pure.
00:59:17Then,
00:59:17the person will feel your happiness.
00:59:19No doubt,
00:59:20there is no doubt.
00:59:21Like I said before,
00:59:22that,
00:59:24this is the only relation
00:59:25which is 24 hour relationship.
00:59:27Okay?
00:59:28When you have some problems,
00:59:30any problems,
00:59:31anything,
00:59:32the only person,
00:59:33you can completely,
00:59:34100% rely on.
00:59:35Because,
00:59:35you think about others
00:59:36and others,
00:59:37take care of their problem,
00:59:39their home,
00:59:40their home.
00:59:40This is ownership.
00:59:42So,
00:59:42when you own it,
00:59:43you just glow and grow.
00:59:45Exactly.
00:59:45And,
00:59:46first,
00:59:46we think for children.
00:59:49Our first thought
00:59:50is for children.
00:59:51And,
00:59:52I tell them,
00:59:53that,
00:59:53when children grow up,
00:59:55and when we grow up,
00:59:57then,
00:59:57we will be like this.
00:59:58We will be like this.
00:59:58Like this,
01:00:00I don't want to know you.
01:00:02Like this.
01:00:03We will be like this.
01:00:03After a short break,
01:00:04we will see
01:00:05Good Morning Pakistan.
01:00:17Welcome,
01:00:18Welcome back.
01:00:18Good Morning Pakistan.
01:00:20Good Morning Pakistan.
01:00:48So,
01:00:53so we will be like this.
01:00:59If we don't do this, this is better.
01:01:02Okay.
01:01:03The couple is also mature, right?
01:01:05They grow together.
01:01:07Okay, the wrongs are the biggest.
01:01:10Yes, it's been 10 years old.
01:01:11I think that it's been 10 years now.
01:01:14We don't think that we're mature.
01:01:17But I think that the biggest wrong boys
01:01:21are fighting by their own home.
01:01:24And they're involved with the family.
01:01:26That's not my mother.
01:01:27I don't know.
01:01:28I don't know.
01:01:32I don't know.
01:01:33Because in the end,
01:01:35you have to come back.
01:01:36So when you come back,
01:01:37why don't you go back?
01:01:39So that's what I've done.
01:01:41That's what I've done in my house.
01:01:44And as we say in the past,
01:01:46Miha and Bibi is another one.
01:01:49You believe that the best part of our couple,
01:01:52there's no doubt that family, friends,
01:01:56I would've never seen people say about this.
01:01:56Even if someone had been friends,
01:02:00I wouldn't know.
01:02:02He would've never seen us.
01:02:02I can share and say,
01:02:03that God, I'm a victim.
01:02:08I'm witness this.
01:02:09that there was a negative thing about her husband or something like that.
01:02:13Same goes with her, they've never done her family in her circle.
01:02:17I've never done anything with her.
01:02:20Saira is our mutual friend.
01:02:22My sister, Saira, is our mutual best friend.
01:02:26She complains her about me, I complain her about her.
01:02:31So she's our guru.
01:02:33One of the main reasons is that she is not a real person.
01:02:37She is a real person.
01:02:39True that.
01:02:40I think that if my sister and sister is not a real person,
01:02:46she doesn't have a hat on her.
01:02:48She's got a hat on her pants and said to her.
01:02:50As I say, my friends are saying that
01:02:5599% of the people who are married are not happy to be married and one is happy to be
01:02:58so happy.
01:02:59Why don't you try to be that one person?
01:03:02If you look at that, you can become one percent, you can become one percent, because I feel like Nidaphi,
01:03:10it's not only love, it's not only care, it's only respect.
01:03:13When these three parts come together, then you can have a successful marriage, it's only mutual.
01:03:19As I asked them to see them, they said that this is good, your family and their family are good,
01:03:26and the credit is given to them.
01:03:28We also have a relationship with our husbands, and then we say that they don't go to the house, they
01:03:37don't sit, because we have ourselves.
01:03:40So if I tell you to see them to see them, then what do you feel like you have a
01:03:44wrong job?
01:03:46No, I feel like I have a lot of mistakes, I don't have mistakes, I definitely have mistakes.
01:03:52But the best quality of her, as a person, is that they have to forgive.
01:03:58So if you have to forgive one another, and clean your heart, then your life is very nice.
01:04:05Because no one can't give any mistakes.
01:04:08And in our case, definitely, I have a lot of mistakes.
01:04:10I always have to forgive my heart.
01:04:13I have always said something like that.
01:04:14And Nidaphi, actually, I have put their password on their phone.
01:04:19You can't tell me, it's wrong.
01:04:21What is wrong?
01:04:21Then it starts now, so I will take the door.
01:04:23Yes, it's necessary to know.
01:04:25Yes, it's necessary to know.
01:04:26I don't remember.
01:04:28But in the beginning, when I came back, I told you that I should know your password.
01:04:31Yes, it's necessary to know your password.
01:04:31Yes, because I told you that I need to know your password, but what will need to know your password?
01:05:01Yes.
01:05:02Our commitment.
01:05:03And sometimes the wives are very fussy.
01:05:07If your wife has talked to someone,
01:05:10or even hug them,
01:05:13then they complain.
01:05:15Or if they go to dinner with your friend,
01:05:18then it's not a big deal.
01:05:20Actually, I have a lot of girlfriends.
01:05:22I mean, there are girls and friends.
01:05:24Yes.
01:05:24If there is a friend, then it will be okay.
01:05:26But if there is a friend, then you will...
01:05:29No, no, no.
01:05:29No, no.
01:05:31No, no.
01:05:31Please tell me about me.
01:05:33If you want to marry me,
01:05:35then you will marry me.
01:05:38Yes.
01:05:39Yes.
01:05:40Yes.
01:05:41Yes.
01:05:41Yes.
01:05:41Yes.
01:05:42Yes.
01:05:43Yes.
01:05:43Yes.
01:05:43Yes.
01:05:43Yes.
01:05:54Yes.
01:05:59Yes.
01:06:00Yes.
01:06:01Yes.
01:06:02Yes.
01:06:02Yes.
01:06:03Yes.
01:06:04Yes.
01:06:04Yes.
01:06:05Yes.
01:06:05Yes.
01:06:05Yes.
01:06:05Yes.
01:06:08Yes.
01:06:08blessed life. So, we have learned two things in this segment. One is to check a little bit.
01:06:15It's not so much that it's going to feel bad, but you have to check a little bit.
01:06:20And you have to check a little bit like a bell. And you have to say that you have to
01:06:30forgive.
01:06:30So, you have to forgive.
01:06:30So, you have to forgive.
01:06:33Because Allah has to forgive his people, but he doesn't forgive his people.
01:06:36And this is why our whole world has so bad and so negativity.
01:06:41So, let's forgive.
01:06:42Because I want to mention here that my life is a great work.
01:06:47That's what I have said to him.
01:06:49I have to say that I have to say three words.
01:06:54Three words you have to say.
01:06:58Why did this happen?
01:07:00To send a couple and a couple, to send a message to each other
01:07:02to ask these things tolaw and to ask these things.
01:07:07So, when Allah has asked us why we did this happen…
01:07:10So, we have to give you a response to the question,
01:07:11and these three words you have to do and how to make it happen.
01:07:14That's what you have done.
01:07:15And when you live with one another, husband and wife or one other
01:07:18or either a person in mistakes with mistakes,
01:07:20or God says that our harm is not.
01:07:23So, we have to take three words,
01:07:24If you leave these three words, then your life is very smooth, very soft and good.
01:07:29Absolutely.
01:07:30We have a couple of them.
01:07:32Sayyad Rashid Ali and Sayyada Farhana.
01:07:36They have been married for 37 years.
01:07:39Mashallah.
01:07:40As-salamu alaykum.
01:07:41Come here.
01:07:42Sit.
01:07:4337 years.
01:07:44As-salamu alaykum.
01:07:45How are you?
01:07:45Alhamdulillah.
01:07:49In 37 years, we have learned a lot from you.
01:07:52Yes.
01:07:52Yes, yes.
01:07:53And I too.
01:07:54Yes, yes, yes.
01:07:54So, let me tell you about your marriage stages.
01:07:59After 37 years, do you feel good?
01:08:02Yes, it feels good.
01:08:03You say that children are good.
01:08:07Yes, it feels good and it's on this stage.
01:08:10Okay.
01:08:10When we married in 1988, mashallah, our next year, our son came.
01:08:15Okay.
01:08:16Alhamdulillah.
01:08:17After 9 years, we are very good.
01:08:20We are very good.
01:08:21Yes.
01:08:21In 95, we got a daughter.
01:08:23Mashallah.
01:08:24In 97, I was working on the job.
01:08:28It was dissolved.
01:08:29Oh.
01:08:30After that, we got a little pressure.
01:08:33Financially.
01:09:02Oh.
01:09:04Yes.
01:09:04I was very good.
01:09:05Yes.
01:09:06So, Alhamdulillah.
01:09:07I got a small job.
01:09:08But I couldn't get a level of job.
01:09:10Okay.
01:09:11I was struggling.
01:09:12I was struggling.
01:09:13I was struggling.
01:09:14Finally, I got a good job in 2006.
01:09:15I got a good job in 2006.
01:09:17Yes.
01:09:17But in this period, it was 19...
01:09:22How many years?
01:09:23It was the difficult period.
01:09:25How many years ago?
01:09:26It was in 2007 to 2006.
01:09:27Now, we are doing maths.
01:09:29In 1997.
01:09:31Okay.
01:09:32In 2006.
01:09:34Like 9 years ago.
01:09:35Yes.
01:09:36In 2011.
01:09:39My child, who was older, fell down.
01:09:42Oh, my god.
01:09:43He died.
01:09:44In 2011.
01:09:44My child, who was older, fell down.
01:09:44Six years ago.
01:09:45In that period, they had pain.
01:09:50I had pain.
01:09:51I went to my pain.
01:09:52Pancreas.
01:09:54That's why I had pain.
01:09:56That's why I had pain.
01:09:57Then it was pain.
01:09:57Then they showed her in the hospital.
01:09:58Her husband was in hospital.
01:09:59He was in hospital.
01:10:00So, her husband was ill and her husband, too.
01:10:03And she was ill.
01:10:05Yeah.
01:10:05He didn't also really big than that.
01:10:07Big, small and small.
01:10:09Some of the difficulties.
01:10:11Oh, my God.
01:10:12Oh, my God.
01:10:14After the death of birth, they showed her to his son.
01:10:17He said to her operation.
01:10:19But, we didn't do the operation.
01:10:21We had such a doctor.
01:10:23He said this could be correct.
01:10:27He tested him, he tested him and gave him.
01:10:31Oh, my God.
01:10:32Now this is the most important thing.
01:10:34Shabbat Allah.
01:10:36The Chinese people say this.
01:10:39Did you get a job when your daughter's daughter was in the hospital?
01:10:43No, at that time I didn't.
01:10:44So, the financials?
01:10:46Yes, at that time.
01:10:47But I supported my family.
01:10:52And at the beginning, we didn't know that we were a joint family.
01:10:57So, how did the child grow up? We didn't know.
01:10:59Yes, yes.
01:11:02One of the things that happened,
01:11:03the other thing is that when the job was finished,
01:11:06I had a small deal.
01:11:08At the end of the year, I got a good job.
01:11:11Alhamdulillah.
01:11:12And we will be stable again.
01:11:14MashaAllah.
01:11:15But in the court period,
01:11:19there was a problem.
01:11:20Covid, Covid.
01:11:23When Covid started.
01:11:24The place where I was working,
01:11:26it was a private job.
01:11:27So, they sent me their own family.
01:11:30No, so, you tell me,
01:11:31did you do a job at the time?
01:11:33No.
01:11:33No, I didn't do a job.
01:11:35So, you were a housewife.
01:11:36And you were in the 37th century.
01:11:38You were running out of time.
01:11:40In the same time,
01:11:40In the same time,
01:11:41In 2006, Covid,
01:11:42we were stable.
01:11:44What happened in Covid?
01:11:46In Covid, I tried to do a job.
01:11:49But what happened in Covid,
01:11:51He said,
01:11:52You were working on the level.
01:11:54We couldn't keep you on that level.
01:11:58Yeah, as a food inspector.
01:12:00I was a rice expert.
01:12:02I was a rice expert.
01:12:04I was a rice expert.
01:12:04I was a rice expert.
01:12:04But when I came to the private,
01:12:07people said,
01:12:09I was a rice expert.
01:12:10I said,
01:12:11I don't do that.
01:12:12I will do that.
01:12:12I will do that.
01:12:13I will do that.
01:12:14What's the fact?
01:12:28What's the fact?
01:12:29I have influenced that period.
01:12:30We had a little hard time.
01:12:32Then,
01:12:33the kids told me that my cooking is a good idea.
01:12:37So, the kids told me that you start cooking for me.
01:12:40So, the home chef, we started cooking for me.
01:12:43And fortunately,
01:12:45we started 4 years to cook for me.
01:12:48They are cooking for theigu Toronto.
01:12:49You sold their Chavali,
01:12:51and created Chavali.
01:12:52You are a couple of Chavali.
01:12:54Only Chavali did.
01:12:55This is the best chef.
01:12:57One teeth.
01:13:24She's a big name.
01:13:54She's a big name.
01:14:24She's a big name.
01:14:25She's a big name.
01:14:43She's a big name.
01:14:54She's a big name.
01:14:56She's a big name.
01:15:02She's a big name.
01:15:21She's a big name.
01:15:30She's a big name.
01:15:55She's a big name.
01:15:56She's a big name.
01:16:20She's a big name.
01:16:26She's a big name.
01:16:28She's a big name.
01:16:31She's a big name.
01:16:33She's a big name.
01:16:40She's a big name.
01:16:45She's a big name.
01:16:46which are more than the way
01:16:47that we can do ego
01:16:50and then what does it mean?
01:16:52circle, family, they can do
01:16:53and then the people of the family
01:16:55and then the people of the family
01:16:55and then the people of the family
01:16:55so we want to see
01:17:02we're going to talk about the stages
01:17:04we're going to talk about the stages
01:17:07we're going to discuss the stages
01:17:10we're going to discuss the stages
01:17:1210, 23
01:17:13and 36
01:17:16and going to talk about
01:17:18we're going to talk about the stages
01:17:18in this year
01:17:19we're going to talk about the stages
01:17:22we're going to talk about the stages
01:17:24all of us
01:17:26i'll ask you in break
01:17:30the stages
01:17:34the other day
01:17:35good morning Pakistan
01:17:37good morning Pakistan
01:17:45Welcome, welcome back. Good morning. Pakistan, Bilal and Urusa are with us today and we are talking about different stages
01:17:54of marriage, different stages of marriage, different stages.
01:17:58How many years have you thought that now we are mature Mia and Bibi. Now we don't matter these little
01:18:04things.
01:18:06I don't think it's too early.
01:18:09It matters now. Definitely, definitely. And what do we do to mature? I mean, mature is boring.
01:18:15Marriage is mature. Marriage is mature, yes. You are saying that, as I said before, the anger was out of
01:18:21control, the anger was more.
01:18:25Now it's cool and calm, chill. Like the Begum says to me, Mia, make a six pack.
01:18:30So I say to me, you are not my Begum. Why do I do so much effort?
01:18:36That's the kind of matureness we have.
01:18:38By the way, I'm talking about the stages of marriage.
01:18:41So my friend is a great friend, a friend, a little friend.
01:18:47And my friend, Iqra, married at night.
01:18:50So we are saying that we are like 37 years, 23 years, 25 years, 10 years.
01:18:55So I want to give a marriage for one day.
01:18:59Iqra and Iqra are very much. Good morning Pakistan.
01:19:03We are giving you the same way from Pakistan, all of Pakistan.
01:19:04We are giving you the same way from Pakistan.
01:19:06And Iqra also would like to tell that it's a great scene.
01:19:11I have a lot of children in a circle of children who are like a child and a mother.
01:19:14And who are the same boys? I will also like a child and a mother?
01:19:16Well, I was so proud of them.
01:19:22So I am so proud of them.
01:19:24I think that the people who are choosing to marry and choose to marry.
01:19:27It is a season and a genuine reason.
01:19:30So, this is that we should be happy and happy and respect, love and care.
01:19:35We don't think that we have been very much 10 years now.
01:19:38We don't think that we have had enough time.
01:19:41And that is the example of that yesterday I have put a mehndi.
01:19:45So, I forgot to write a name.
01:19:48So, they didn't write a name for me.
01:19:51So, I forgot to write a name for me.
01:19:55And then, I didn't have any rings.
01:19:59I didn't have any silver jewelry.
01:20:00So, I have a B letter.
01:20:03So, we are not mature and we are so happy to be mature.
01:20:10Okay, I have a note.
01:20:12So, I have a note.
01:20:12Like, Mashallah Mashallah.
01:20:13You have the happy ones.
01:20:14You share it in social media.
01:20:16Like, the year has been a year.
01:20:17Anniversary.
01:20:18Or, there is an event.
01:20:19It is an event.
01:20:20It is an event.
01:20:21It is a complete fabric.
01:20:24A color combination.
01:20:26These are all their credit.
01:20:28So, I have a shock to them.
01:20:29I was very passionate about it.
01:20:31I always thought,
01:20:31that when my family will be,
01:20:32my Begum will be.
01:20:33So, we will do this.
01:20:34This is the credit.
01:20:35So, I have a lot of effort.
01:20:37Yes.
01:20:37Because, there is no such brand.
01:20:39I don't see the same family wearing.
01:20:42Inshallah, very soon we are going to start.
01:20:44Yes, we are thinking about it.
01:20:45Inshallah.
01:20:45We are thinking about it.
01:20:46That family wearing is the same.
01:20:47Because, a lot of people ask me how to customize it.
01:20:49So, we have a lot of effort to do this.
01:20:51Yes.
01:20:51So, many people have said this.
01:20:54Many times,
01:20:54that you don't share your moments.
01:20:56And all that.
01:20:57Yes.
01:20:57So, I say,
01:20:58that the love of God is growing.
01:21:02So, that's why I am growing.
01:21:03And somehow, on social media,
01:21:06definitely, it is our social responsibility to spread positivity.
01:21:10If we are working on a good message,
01:21:14then why not?
01:21:15Because, my personal purpose is to save the memories.
01:21:19So, when we are older,
01:21:21like today,
01:21:22when we are working on Sohaan's memory,
01:21:26you know,
01:21:26some time,
01:21:27hardware,
01:21:28copy,
01:21:29print,
01:21:29all things are gone.
01:21:31But, once it is on social media,
01:21:33you hit it and it comes on.
01:21:34Yes, exactly.
01:21:34So, I am trying to save the memories on that purpose.
01:21:36But, people love so much.
01:21:38And, I really like to thank you all,
01:21:40that our family,
01:21:41who have posted on that,
01:21:43all the most comments are,
01:21:44Masha Allah.
01:21:45So, I love you for that.
01:21:46Because,
01:21:50I love to do it.
01:21:54I mean,
01:21:54I am very passionate about it.
01:21:56You know,
01:21:57the family should rock.
01:21:58Like, I rock,
01:21:59or she rock,
01:22:00or he rock,
01:22:01or something.
01:22:01You know,
01:22:02we rock.
01:22:02I don't believe in me,
01:22:03I believe in we.
01:22:04Yeah,
01:22:05Masha Allah.
01:22:06So, that's why,
01:22:07all the creativity,
01:22:08you think?
01:22:09Yes, yes, yes.
01:22:09And then,
01:22:10you work to make clothes?
01:22:12No, that's not mine.
01:22:13It's mine.
01:22:13It's mine.
01:22:14That's not mine.
01:22:14No,
01:22:26I mean,
01:22:27I think,
01:22:28it's my family.
01:22:30Everything,
01:22:50It's fun. When you have family, you have time, your money, your energy, your family, it's never wasted.
01:23:00Okay, a very important question. As a couple, how do you decide to keep a spark in your life?
01:23:08Because you have 10 years old and sometimes you have to take a person for granted.
01:23:14So how do you keep a spark in your life? What tip is it?
01:23:17Yes.
01:23:19Yes.
01:23:19Yes, tell me.
01:23:21Because if I ask a lot of people, go on vacation, do it, do it, do it.
01:23:25But everyone has budgets.
01:23:27So now everyone can't go on vacation.
01:23:29Okay, let's leave the kids alone and go on vacation.
01:23:33And there are other things that can keep a spark.
01:23:37I guess in our life, the reason is spark.
01:23:40It's important to me because people miss their bachelor's life.
01:23:47They start to miss their responsibilities.
01:23:50They say, make sure to meet kids, my friend circle.
01:23:54So that's not their life.
01:23:56When we married, I told them that you don't want to go to friends.
01:24:02You can go to your life and do it.
01:24:05But they didn't want their love.
01:24:06We also watch Netflix and movies and enjoy.
01:24:12So I guess we enjoy our company.
01:24:15In my opinion, I think that spark is friendship.
01:24:19If you are in a relationship, you are friends with each other.
01:24:23Because every person needs a friend in life.
01:24:25And if you get a friend in your partner or family,
01:24:29then you don't need to go abroad.
01:24:31So that spark is a great question.
01:24:33And in my opinion, there is no secret behind it.
01:24:36It's only that friendship.
01:24:39That we need to be one of the best friends.
01:24:41I share everything with her. She shares everything with her.
01:24:45And we enjoy it.
01:24:46Just one thing, I'm angry.
01:24:49What?
01:24:50I don't go to the morning walk.
01:24:52He's a night person.
01:24:54I'm a morning show.
01:24:55I'm a morning show.
01:24:56I'm a morning show.
01:24:57I feel like you wake up early and go jogging.
01:25:00But it doesn't work.
01:25:01So you sleep early?
01:25:02Or you also sleep early?
01:25:03No, I sleep early because of it.
01:25:05But I like to wake up early and sleep early.
01:25:08Morning.
01:25:09And jogging early.
01:25:11They don't do that.
01:25:24I'm a night person.
01:25:26I'm a night person.
01:25:27I'm a night person.
01:25:28I'm a vampire.
01:25:29In a way.
01:25:30That I feel like I'm going to be the night.
01:25:33This is a difference.
01:25:35But that's the thing,
01:25:36that we can adjust it happily.
01:25:37Just do it happily.
01:25:37Just do it.
01:25:38And if there is an issue or ego,
01:25:40I don't know how to do it.
01:25:41I don't know how to do it.
01:25:43I don't know how to do it.
01:25:44But I don't know how to do it.
01:25:44But when they go to school,
01:25:45they will go to school in the morning.
01:25:48They will go to school in the morning.
01:25:48No, no.
01:25:48I have given their duty to go to school in the morning.
01:25:51Because I'm very conscious.
01:25:53We are parents.
01:25:54The first year they will go to school.
01:25:55What will happen?
01:25:56So I have given their duty.
01:25:57Alhamdulillah.
01:25:57And now I have seen it smooth.
01:26:00I think this is it.
01:26:00No.
01:26:01When the romance will grow,
01:26:02we will go more on honeymoon trip.
01:26:04The kids will grow themselves.
01:26:06But now,
01:26:06you will start doing some good projects.
01:26:10Inshallah.
01:26:11Inshallah.
01:26:12Inshallah.
01:26:12Now, let's see.
01:26:13It will be clear that
01:26:14you don't have to be proud of it.
01:26:16You had to be proud of it.
01:26:17You had to be proud of it.
01:26:18I had to be proud of it.
01:26:20I had to be proud of it.
01:26:21I had to be proud of it.
01:26:22I had to be proud of it.
01:26:31I always say something about you.
01:26:33We always say something about you.
01:26:33We are very strong.
01:26:36I and Begum always say that
01:26:37we are going to the morning shows.
01:26:39We have seen the hosts.
01:26:40They are very good.
01:26:41Respect to all.
01:26:42But the genuineness of you.
01:26:44That you are not breaking on screen.
01:26:46It is always the same.
01:26:47We are talking about it.
01:26:49You are soon.
01:26:49You are soon.
01:26:51I said that you are not the one.
01:26:54The camera is off and the break came.
01:26:56It is a different role.
01:26:58That is so good about you.
01:27:00That is the camera.
01:27:01And the other thing is that
01:27:01you have also heard your husband.
01:27:03He said that I am very good.
01:27:05I remember that as an actor,
01:27:06there was a huge award for me.
01:27:07One time he gave a puppy and father.
01:27:10I am a fan.
01:27:12I never forget that moment.
01:27:13He said that I am very good.
01:27:14And my mother, you are very good.
01:27:16Because we have come to the TV show.
01:27:18He came to the morning show.
01:27:19Very cool.
01:27:20So mashallah the way you are doing it.
01:27:21Allah has a lot of blessings for your family.
01:27:24And for your children.
01:27:25And you have also done parenting.
01:27:27But we have learned from you.
01:27:29Because we both have learned a lot from you.
01:27:30Because when our children come to the age of the age.
01:27:33So learning is everyday.
01:27:36It is always the same.
01:27:36It is always the same.
01:27:37It is always the same.
01:27:38It is always the same.
01:27:38Exactly.
01:27:39Thank you so much.
01:27:44Good morning.
01:27:46Good morning Pakistan.
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