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00:00:06This morning is coming to you

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00:01:11Good morning Pakistan.

00:01:16Assalamualaikum. Good morning. Good morning Pakistan.

00:01:20What are you doing? How are you doing?

00:01:23The day of the day of the day of the day of the day of the day,

00:01:25and that is the day of the day of the day of the day of the day of the day.

00:01:28The day of the day of the day of the day of the day of day.

00:01:33What is the day of the day of the day?

00:01:36Because it's the shock that the kids are getting.

00:01:39That's what they eat.

00:01:42As parents, it doesn't work for us to give them what to do.

00:01:47Whether they have emotional or physical needs.

00:01:51Whether they have money or something to take.

00:01:54that they want to be better and better for their children.

00:02:00And brother, a phone comes with a baby, especially with a baby,

00:02:04and if they can't say anything to their parents,

00:02:07that their parents don't fully do that.

00:02:10So, babies seem to love themselves,

00:02:16but it's a soft corner for babies, especially parents' hearts.

00:02:21And they go to school, university, college, school,

00:02:28every time they protect their parents,

00:02:31they protect their parents, they protect their parents,

00:02:34they don't sleep,

00:02:36or leave them to school,

00:02:39all their clothes, all their children,

00:02:43all their children, their parents,

00:02:45they say, let's do it, let's do it.

00:02:48So, this comfort, this security,

00:02:52this, this, this, this, this, this, this, this,

00:02:56this parents give their children.

00:02:58And many things,

00:03:01they take a lot of attention to their children,

00:03:04they take a lot of attention to their children,

00:03:04and they take a lot of fear.

00:03:18They take care of their parents,

00:03:19and an attempt to live on their child.

00:03:20But they come, they pick something else.

00:03:20They are sheep 그러� �als schools.

00:03:22There are two elephants that want them to pick their kids.

00:03:22listening to their children to our children,

00:03:24they take care of their children,

00:03:25you take care of your children.

00:03:26We think very much parents,

00:03:28and their parents should keep your children's hands,

00:03:31that we have a and their parents,

00:03:34they're working with our children,

00:03:36they don't take care of themselves,

00:03:36they're they love fathers,

00:03:38sometimes they can do things like us,

00:03:38When parents come back to their children...

00:03:39they start to get, they start to get,

00:03:42but in mental health,

00:03:45when they get back to their children...

00:03:48when they're patterns too much,

00:03:51when you don't get back and put them in their struggles...

00:03:53when they get back to their next life...

00:03:55when they get back to their lives...

00:03:56when children come back to their children...

00:03:57where they recognize their confidence...

00:04:00where they give them...

00:04:06Why?

00:04:08Because those things that are wrong, they don't do this, they don't do anything, you are

00:04:23zero.

00:04:24And we have done you in relation to them.

00:04:27They don't do anything, they don't do anything.

00:04:31that you don't have a shape. If you don't have a shape, you don't have a job, you don't have

00:04:38a job at home,

00:04:40the rest of the things are perfect. So, somewhere else, there is such a shape in life that it gets

00:04:45traumatized.

00:04:46We have seen such a lot of children, which were raised in the garden, when they were married,

00:04:54and when they met them a few years later, you can see them some shape.

00:04:58You can see this, it's been damaged. It's been a tear. It's been a tear. It doesn't keep your mind.

00:05:07It doesn't give you any mind. It's not a trauma. So, today we have to show up on that.

00:05:15The children are very, very sick. And the children are like this.

00:05:19So, this is the only thing that you can do with a plate.

00:05:21It's a great deal.

00:05:34But if you have a good choice or your choice,

00:05:39you can't take your own daughter's back.

00:05:40it's not right to be your daughter's back.

00:05:42So, you can only be able to get your daughter's back.

00:05:46You can only be able to get her back.

00:05:49It can only be filled with your hands.

00:05:52As Walidayan,

00:05:53when we select good clothes,

00:05:55good clothes,

00:05:56good materialistic things

00:05:59that are best to be best,

00:06:02then why not

00:06:03Sassaral? Because our marriage

00:06:05doesn't have to be a girl,

00:06:06it has to be a house. Good morning Pakistan.

00:06:09After break, we'll be with you.

00:06:12We'll save our children.

00:06:13We'll save you from outside.

00:06:15So, let's see. Good morning.

00:06:22Welcome. Welcome back. Good morning Pakistan.

00:06:25Ais it's a very dangerous topic.

00:06:28But there is also an eye opener.

00:06:30Because

00:06:30these are the words that

00:06:32go to Sassaral,

00:06:34this is not our culture.

00:06:36This is not our culture.

00:06:38This is India's culture.

00:06:39You have to listen to your children.

00:06:42You have to say that

00:06:43you have to die.

00:06:45This is not a sentence.

00:07:00It's a very meaningful in we must talk about

00:07:03we must listen to our culture.

00:07:06You can see it in the image

00:07:12and the body of the language.

00:07:17That's the language.

00:07:17Now, you are going to cultivate

00:07:18for the nature of our culture.

00:07:18You have to think about it in the culture.

00:07:19You have to think about it on this culture.

00:07:19and that's why you apply the same culture when we are different,

00:07:24because of cultural differences and religion differences,

00:07:28why do we keep them in society?

00:07:33So today's program is an eye-opener.

00:07:35I will introduce you to my guest list.

00:07:37I will introduce you in a long time.

00:07:39Ghazala, Ghazala Javed.

00:07:41Assalamu alaikum.

00:07:42How are you?

00:07:44How are you?

00:07:45God bless you.

00:07:48Amen.

00:07:49And with me, Fahima Awan.

00:07:51Assalamu alaikum.

00:07:53How are you?

00:07:54It's clear that you don't have a need of a expert.

00:07:58If we are here somewhere,

00:08:01we call our brain or science,

00:08:03they will take us in a certain direction.

00:08:07And also you can get some guidelines.

00:08:10So welcome Dr. Sanash Ramim,

00:08:12who is a clinical psychologist.

00:08:13Welcome to the show. Assalamu alaikum.

00:08:15Assalamu alaikum.

00:08:16How are you?

00:08:16I am fine.

00:08:17How are you?

00:08:18I am fine.

00:08:19Today's topic, as I have told you before,

00:08:21that the trauma that our children are experiencing,

00:08:25after going to the child's personality,

00:08:27their personality changes.

00:08:29Maybe because of bad feelings,

00:08:31maybe because of bad people,

00:08:33maybe because of bad people,

00:08:34or because of the trauma,

00:08:35or because of their personality,

00:08:37or because of their personality,

00:08:40one child has been sent to Nepal's post.

00:08:45As I have seen,

00:08:49I have seen,

00:08:49as many people,

00:08:50as I have seen,

00:08:52when the child is born,

00:08:53they are very happy.

00:08:55We have also been born,

00:08:56so that the child has never felt like this.

00:09:02You have never felt like this,

00:09:04that it is our life.

00:09:07that it's not often.

00:09:07So we have to fight through this way.

00:09:09We have to fight,

00:09:09and we are going to go to this way.

00:09:10It will be a same.

00:09:13We are going to do it as well.

00:09:19We will wear clothes,

00:09:20we will go to our children,

00:09:25and we will also be in their mind.

00:09:26You don't have to wear them now.

00:09:27We will not wear them after wearing them.

00:09:30We will wear them after wearing them.

00:09:34We will wear them after wearing them.

00:09:35that we are saying that we are putting ourselves into the fantasy world, when we are married.

00:09:43And a few things in this that we are having to do whatever we have to do with our husband.

00:09:48And when after a husband can give time..

00:09:51We can give time, because it has different connections.

00:09:56So, first of all, my father said that we have to do whatever we have to do.

00:09:59We have given themselves the fantasy world.

00:10:01It was created by herself, the marriage of a girl, the fantasy, the magazines, the books, the digests, the stories,

00:10:09the films that you see are growing up.

00:10:11So on the other hand, it feels like a girl's life.

00:10:15And how important it is to prepare a girl to make a kid with a seed in her hands.

00:10:21So that's why when she doesn't have a seed, she stays in a bubble, then the seed also becomes a

00:10:26weird thing.

00:10:27That the kids are too shaky and underconfident.

00:10:30Because she is growing up until now.

00:10:32She is growing up in a small age.

00:10:33She is growing up in a small age.

00:10:35There is a way to grow up.

00:10:37She is growing up in a young age.

00:10:44She is growing up in a young age.

00:10:47She is growing up in a young age.

00:10:48This is 100% right.

00:10:51When you have a little bit of a young age,

00:10:5320, 22, 18 years old,

00:10:56she is growing up in a young age.

00:10:58When she has a new age, she will get hurt.

00:11:03That's amazing.

00:11:04She is too angry that she doesn't have to promise her parents.

00:11:06She doesn't have to take her stand.

00:11:08This is why she has a great job.

00:11:11more than a year.

00:11:13They are mature, they have grown a career,

00:11:17they are buying themselves, they are doing everything.

00:11:19Then they have compromised.

00:11:22They feel good to everyone.

00:11:24They feel good to everyone.

00:11:26We are working women.

00:11:29But we are taking care of them.

00:11:31But when they go there,

00:11:34foreign

00:12:03I think my wife is not going to go to my wife or celebrate her dreams, but she doesn't

00:12:10have to do it.

00:12:12Because my wife says that she is going to go to the mood, my daughter's mood, my

00:12:18wife's mood is very bad, she doesn't see her mood again.

00:12:22So she's going to go to the mood, sometimes she's going to go to the mood.

00:12:26Sometimes she's going to go to the mood, sometimes she's going to go to the mood, sometimes

00:12:30So every time you control yourself, there is a lot of anxiety inside it.

00:12:37I would like to ask Dr. Sahib, if you have different cases for therapy, psychologists,

00:12:45so what do you have to do with these things?

00:12:49Basically, the topic of today, I will tell you about the meaning of the trauma,

00:12:55so I would like to add that the trauma is not just the person who feels it.

00:13:04It is also a trans-generational trauma.

00:13:06I also have such children, such young girls, who are taking trauma of their mother.

00:13:13Most of the time, school and university children are taking care of their children.

00:13:17And then we try to make sure that they know that their father was very bad,

00:13:23and their mother was very happy.

00:13:26And because of their personality, we are seeing a lot of changes in today's generation.

00:13:33Okay, so you are saying this trauma is genetic.

00:13:36Genes are the genes.

00:13:38With the mother, with the children, with the children.

00:13:42But it is so good that it is coming to break the therapy.

00:13:45So I have to leave you on the other hand.

00:13:46Because of the children, the children are not knowing that they are getting through this thing.

00:13:53So I am trying to highlight it.

00:13:57That if you are thinking of as a child, especially as a child, I say to everyone, that they have

00:14:04to be

00:14:04known for therapy.

00:14:05So please, love yourself and go to the therapy.

00:14:10This is the same therapy or mental health problem that you have to treat the doctor.

00:14:25Mental health is serious.

00:14:28That means that you are listening to your family.

00:14:49People believe that we are blind.

00:14:55It's a mental health problem.

00:14:58because you are in the genna, you will come to a person.

00:15:00It is not the person that you have to be.

00:15:02And what other people do not have mental health problems?

00:15:04I have to say that many people have to say that

00:15:07we have to eat a lot of rotei, soups, food, food.

00:15:10We have to be able to get a lot of food.

00:15:10We are in our life.

00:15:12We are talking about mental health or health.

00:15:16What is the disease?

00:15:17It is just the disease.

00:15:19We are talking about the disease.

00:15:20We are talking about the disease.

00:15:21We are talking about the disease.

00:15:28you face people who are not like very Amir and Kabir and keep in touch with a lower-middle class.

00:15:35I have both experiences in Jinnah and private clinics in private clinics.

00:15:42In Jinnah people come to the hospital when you have physical symptoms.

00:15:47You start studying, children are late, dissociation,

00:15:53foreign

00:16:23No one has to do something with her.

00:16:25Nothing happens.

00:16:26Nothing happens.

00:16:27The other one is the baby.

00:16:29She's just baby.

00:16:30She's just baby.

00:16:33This dissociation is completely removed from her body.

00:16:35And we're saying that she's doing drama.

00:16:37And that's the only thing.

00:16:38Because that girl who has married,

00:16:41she took her after her wedding.

00:16:43Before she didn't do that, she said she went to her wedding.

00:16:46But after she got married,

00:16:50she took her after her wedding.

00:16:53So,

00:16:55these lawyers,

00:16:56or the social economy are low,

00:16:58they're coming here.

00:17:00And those who are hired,

00:17:01they say,

00:17:01I'm sitting here and talking to everyone.

00:17:04And all my friends don't get away from me.

00:17:07They're coming from different.

00:17:08For example,

00:17:10I feel good.

00:17:11I'm gone alone.

00:17:12But I don't feel like it.

00:17:15And I don't feel like it.

00:17:17Again, the other kind of dissociation.

00:17:20I feel like I'm here.

00:17:23I don't have to worry about it.

00:17:23All these things are coming from different dynamics.

00:17:26No one knows exactly what my parents or my mother is.

00:17:31They don't know.

00:17:32When they come,

00:17:33we're trying to send the case to the child-age history.

00:17:37And the other kind of dynamics,

00:17:39we meet with parents.

00:17:40We know that the mother and father are sitting here and mother are talking.

00:17:43Father, stop me, tell me.

00:17:45I mean, my mother is saying and snubbing it.

00:17:49Exactly.

00:17:50Tell me.

00:17:51Literally, it's like,

00:17:52stop me, tell me.

00:17:54If she's in clinic setting,

00:17:56she doesn't stop her hands.

00:17:57What do you think?

00:17:58How much do you stop at home?

00:17:59Oh, so you observe all things.

00:18:01All things are observed.

00:18:02And this is very common.

00:18:03That it will be in our own home.

00:18:06Absolutely.

00:18:07That you don't know anything.

00:18:10Yes, exactly.

00:18:11So, if this is the mother,

00:18:12obviously, the sister members are also doing.

00:18:16That is all.

00:18:17And then, all the blood are not showing me,

00:18:21all the blood and blood are getting laid out.

00:18:22They all are very educated in.

00:18:24And the kid is being treated like this.

00:18:29The kids are not doing well,

00:18:31but the kids don't offer his weight.

00:18:33It's not the case.

00:18:35But it's always the case.

00:18:37It's not the case.

00:18:38But it's not like our kids.

00:18:38and the children are also going to stress, the children are also going to trauma.

00:18:43Sometimes, the child says that sometimes you don't have to do it, but I don't think that you don't have

00:18:50to do it.

00:18:50You don't understand your mind, you don't understand that we don't need it, but your body is so stressed that

00:18:57your body is so important.

00:18:59You understand that we don't need it, but when you go to a psychiatrist,

00:19:02when you start talking about it, and you take classes for a few years,

00:19:08then you get to know that your body was so stressed and now you are so relaxed.

00:19:15My daughter had a friend who wrote a lot of books,

00:19:20and all the children have studied in school, and all that.

00:19:25She said that there is something on it.

00:19:37It was true that the kids have to come, and if you want to go to normal doctors,

00:19:38The doctor told us that we don't know what to do in the beginning,

00:19:41and he told us that the doctors are not treated.

00:19:42Then the doctor said that we don't know where its normal doctors are going.

00:19:44Then Mrs. Moulana said that there is a status to find him,

00:19:48and that is a status and that is where it does.

00:19:58When he sleeps in the night, he kills himself and kills himself because his parents didn't have any bonding.

00:20:08When he fights, he comes in stress. When he comes in stress, he doesn't do anything in the night.

00:20:13He gives his mother to his mother.

00:20:17He gives his mother to his mother.

00:20:20He gives his mother to his mother.

00:20:21There are a lot of things.

00:20:24Let's move on to our topic.

00:20:27Who is with us? Lubna.

00:20:30What should you tell me about Lubna?

00:20:32I have a problem with my husband.

00:20:35My husband is my husband.

00:20:40My husband is my husband.

00:20:42My husband is my husband.

00:20:44My husband is my husband.

00:20:46My husband is my husband.

00:20:47My husband is my husband.

00:20:49That's right.

00:20:51My husband is my husband.

00:20:54He is taking a shower.

00:20:55I said to myself, I will go alone.

00:20:57That's what he said.

00:20:59That's the worst thing to say.

00:21:02That's the worst thing to say.

00:21:03Because the other one is taking a shower.

00:21:06You get uncomfortable.

00:21:07You know how to take a shower.

00:21:10It's bad.

00:21:12It's weird.

00:21:13It's weird.

00:21:14He doesn't even go alone.

00:21:16I thought I would go alone.

00:21:17He started to get a shower.

00:21:20He started to get a shower.

00:21:21What's the day of Lubna?

00:21:23I didn't sit in my house.

00:21:25I didn't have any photos.

00:21:26I didn't have any pictures.

00:21:28I didn't have any pictures.

00:21:28At the morning, I was standing up.

00:21:30I didn't have any thoughts.

00:21:34I didn't have any thoughts.

00:21:35I didn't have any pictures.

00:21:37Everything is completely empty.

00:21:39I didn't have any pictures.

00:21:40I'm almost all stressed.

00:21:41I'm sitting up late.

00:21:44You are sitting there all night.

00:21:46What did you say to my son?

00:21:48I said, I said that...

00:21:50I wasn't aware of anything.

00:21:52Then he told me that you told me that you didn't get a shower.

00:21:56I said, what a mess.

00:21:58He said, what a mess.

00:21:59He said, what a mess.

00:22:00He told me that I am not doing it.

00:22:01why are you doing this?

00:22:03I don't do that.

00:22:04First impression is coming.

00:22:06He took a start and took something like this

00:22:08and he took something like this.

00:22:10And his husband also didn't say anything.

00:22:12Do you give him a chance or not?

00:22:14No, he hears the mother.

00:22:16He also manages everything in his own family.

00:22:19If he comes here, he is going to come to you.

00:22:22How often do you come to your home?

00:22:25He comes to the house.

00:22:26He comes to the house.

00:22:28When he comes to the house, he is going to come to home.

00:22:31He is going to come to you and he is going to come to you.

00:22:31Yes, he is going to come to you.

00:22:33The house is good.

00:22:34I don't think that it is the house.

00:22:36And when he comes to my home,

00:22:38he changes everything.

00:22:41I do not know what happens.

00:22:42I feel like the other world has become.

00:22:43But like other people are coming.

00:22:46If you will see,

00:22:47if you will talk about it

00:22:49you will tell people.

00:22:51The only thing that is that

00:22:51the people who control their homes

00:22:54and who go and get sick

00:23:00when someone is happy and is happy they are not happy anymore

00:23:05I say that what's happening when I go to the hospital

00:23:08I say goodbye to my sister, I don't know what this happened

00:23:13I just said that why did I do this?

00:23:18What you did before, I changed my wife

00:23:21that he was there.

00:23:24Don't change.

00:23:26Let's take a break.

00:23:27After a break, I have to ask you,

00:23:30is there a nature of human being,

00:23:34and that is the case of human being?

00:23:38What is a satisfaction?

00:23:42I heard that in my house,

00:23:45that either the soul or the soul or the soul,

00:23:48It is a clean feeling that people don't want to make a clean feeling.

00:23:54Is there any problem?

00:23:56We will go after a break.

00:23:58Good morning Pakistan.

00:24:05Welcome back. Good morning Pakistan.

00:24:08So, today we talk about the trauma that has to bear children and girls.

00:24:15We have to bear children, especially after marriage.

00:24:19And their personality is completely swapped.

00:24:23We have to send their children to their children.

00:24:27But they are all vanished.

00:24:29And then they get rid of it.

00:24:31So, let's talk about that.

00:24:32Before we go to the break, I told you that sometimes there are some personalities

00:24:37that have fun to keep others, keep their shoulders up, keep their shoulders up.

00:24:42What is the saddest satisfaction?

00:24:46First of all, we go to this thing.

00:24:48Why is it happening?

00:24:50There are two major things.

00:24:52One is the difference mechanism.

00:24:54Displacement.

00:24:56If I can't get rid of any strong person, I can't get rid of it.

00:24:59But I can't get rid of it.

00:25:00I can't get rid of it.

00:25:01For example, if I was talking about the situation in my house or my house,

00:25:05then I can't do anything.

00:25:07So, I can't do anything.

00:25:08So, I can't do it.

00:25:09I can't do it.

00:25:09Okay?

00:25:10Another thing is reinforcement.

00:25:14If I can't do it, I can't do it.

00:25:16My husband also says that there is no problem.

00:25:19But if I can't do it, I can't do it.

00:25:20What happens to me?

00:25:21There is something else that I can do.

00:25:22Plus, my mother-in-law also says that my daughter is a girl.

00:25:26She is tired and tired.

00:25:27So, the girl is the same.

00:25:30The behavior is also reinforced.

00:25:32Anuna gives a Stua konnte.

00:25:33two days have tolled permission and that you don't have to do that.

00:25:38You can't do it altogether.

00:25:38This is all things,

00:25:39when the photographic person isated came to a very early age,

00:25:42we expect to get caught on the parts of our personality.

00:25:44If momentary age is not getting caught in the beginning,

00:25:46like until 23, 23, 22 years of this gets else involved,

00:25:52then there are tricks as if people are trying to succeed.

00:25:55Just two sides are difficult and succeed to them.

00:25:57But based on such detail,

00:25:58there is a problem itself though.

00:26:02and then they become a part of the personality that you are saying that they are saddest.

00:26:08One more thing is that one thing is that another thing is that it doesn't feel good.

00:26:15But the irritability inside of me is that the anger and anger is going to divert.

00:26:22Which is now our drama share is very hit.

00:26:25So the ex- theater was built in A.R.Y.

00:26:26In the next video.

00:26:28He was a non-managed man who had no divorce.

00:26:31He's aged and he's got so bad.

00:26:34And his own story was just in a house.

00:26:38He's looked at his own brother's face.

00:26:41He's got a bad guy.

00:26:42He was a crazy guy.

00:26:43He was a good guy.

00:26:44He was a bad guy.

00:26:46He was a bad guy.

00:26:48He was a bad guy.

00:26:51He was a bad guy.

00:26:53He was a bad guy.

00:26:55I realized that the toxic environment I have created myself by myself and that brother and

00:27:02the house are all of them because she is the daughter of the house and gave her a sacrifice

00:27:08and she didn't get married so the sympathy was the most seen in the house and the point

00:27:14was that the house is coming and when they come they go to the house and go to the house

00:27:20So they say to them, to destroy them.

00:27:22And they say to them, they have to destroy that.

00:27:25It's a toxic environment.

00:27:26So Sural is toxic.

00:27:28Where did he exhaust?

00:27:30It makes us feel like we keep our head and we keep on crying,

00:27:33we keep on crying.

00:27:35I'm not leaving, it's a mess.

00:27:37We go and go and vent.

00:27:40So when we keep our head and vent,

00:27:43or we keep on crying,

00:27:44we keep on crying,

00:27:46what is the loss of her mother?

00:28:15exactly

00:28:16Look, there is a cycle going on.

00:28:18Sometimes, when the mother comes to bed,

00:28:23sometimes the mother says,

00:28:24you are not here.

00:28:26Sometimes it is like this.

00:28:27So the important thing is,

00:28:30that our mindset,

00:28:32change it and change it,

00:28:34change it and improve it.

00:28:37Actually, the most important thing is,

00:28:40if the house is good,

00:28:42if the house is good,

00:28:43the house is not good.

00:28:45Because,

00:28:48every mother knows,

00:28:50that she is wrong,

00:28:50so the other mother knows that she is wrong.

00:28:52It is not very wrong.

00:28:56So the child knows that she is wrong,

00:28:58and she is wrong,

00:29:00but because she is a daughter,

00:29:02she is a daughter,

00:29:03so she has to give it.

00:29:04She gives it so bad.

00:29:08She has to give it to her daughter.

00:29:09And then she will also also be reading it.

00:29:15me

00:29:40.

00:29:41.

00:29:42Yes, I'm sorry.

00:29:46Yes, I'm sorry.

00:29:47I know, just the only thing is not happening.

00:29:49It's just the gestures of a person.

00:29:51For example, ignore it, talk to yourself.

00:29:57Don't ask yourself to me.

00:29:57So you can ask yourself to me.

00:29:59Just ask yourself to give yourself some things.

00:30:00Just give yourself some things.

00:30:01But you can't give a little things.

00:30:03Yes, you can make a mouth.

00:30:04Yes.

00:30:06It's really a tension.

00:30:07I can't.

00:30:10Many people say that it's so good to be able to do no harm or take a hand or take

00:30:15a hand.

00:30:15Exactly.

00:30:16There is no doubt but it's not the attitude of their world.

00:30:21One thing I would say is that trauma is that people say, who is being attacked, who is being killed,

00:30:27who is being killed, who is being killed, who is being killed.

00:30:30This trauma is not physical, it's a psychological trauma.

00:30:35he is dis-trress, who has so much anxiety and thus no expectations,

00:30:42thus her functioning is disrupting and then the problem

00:30:45that's when she has a small problem, then she realizes that

00:30:50she has their full pressure on her physical health which takes a visit

00:30:54and starts on the last stage.

00:30:57of the treatment.

00:30:58All these children can conceive not be able to conceive.

00:31:01They can give us a lot of stress.

00:31:04They are not able to think that we have this stress.

00:31:07It is the mental health that we have pretty bad.

00:31:09She is not able to conceive.

00:31:11So for them they are not able to conceive.

00:31:14They are able to hear something.

00:31:15That they are able to hear,

00:31:17they are able to do something.

00:31:18They are able to give us a trauma.

00:31:20Even if they are able to give us a shock to them,

00:31:23they can do something.

00:31:24but when I was doing it, I saw a family that made a good food, everything is good.

00:31:33So when someone comes to home, sometimes they eat some of the food, some of the milk, some of the

00:31:41food, some of the food, some of the food.

00:31:42So they also share their own things.

00:31:45So I want to tell you something, I have so much food, my wife also has a good food, my

00:31:50wife also has a good food.

00:31:54or when they eat their food is not good for me.

00:31:57It's not good for me, it's not good for me, it's not good for me.

00:32:00So, what happened was that it was that it was the blood.

00:32:03Yes!

00:32:05It was so good to know that it would be a shame that it would be a shame that it

00:32:10would be a good food for us.

00:32:11When we don't have to come.

00:32:13So, the baby has been a long time for this stress.

00:32:17Why can't it be bad for me?

00:32:20that I am going to panic in many people.

00:32:23If the person is a victim, he will think that I am going to panic.

00:32:26You can't think that the drama is going to be a real life.

00:32:29Yes, it is a real life.

00:32:30For many years, he said that I was going to make food,

00:32:34when I came back,

00:32:36when I came back,

00:32:37I was going to put something like that.

00:32:41He said,

00:32:42what are you doing?

00:32:43He said,

00:32:44I'm going to get mad.

00:32:45He said,

00:32:47that my food failed.

00:32:50Let's go to Sana's side.

00:32:54Where is Sana's side?

00:32:56Yes.

00:32:57Hello, Sana.

00:32:58What do you call Sana's side?

00:33:00My trauma is different.

00:33:02A small child gave me a chance,

00:33:05my childhood child.

00:33:07How old are you?

00:33:08I was 12 years old.

00:33:09Oh my God.

00:33:10When I was married,

00:33:12we had a joint family.

00:33:14When I was married,

00:33:16my wife told me,

00:33:17I'm going to get married.

00:33:18Because they don't get married.

00:33:20Yes.

00:33:20But you don't go anywhere,

00:33:22you'll take a home.

00:33:23I took a home.

00:33:24I took a home to rent,

00:33:24and it will be clean.

00:33:26But,

00:33:27they told me,

00:33:28my husband,

00:33:28to enter my child,

00:33:29as a cameraman,

00:33:30in my house.

00:33:33Now,

00:33:33he comes,

00:33:34sits,

00:33:35observe everything,

00:33:36and tells me.

00:33:38I am so tired,

00:33:40I'm not going to eat,

00:33:42I'm not going to eat,

00:33:43I'm not going to eat,

00:33:43because I know,

00:33:44that the way,

00:33:45everything will go from there.

00:33:46And the whole mind of my 12 years old,

00:33:48he has a child,

00:33:50makes tales,

00:33:51what he will do.

00:33:52That will make him?

00:33:53That will make him come.

00:33:54God forgive me.

00:33:55It is a different from them.

00:33:56In their lives,

00:33:57it will make him a different way.

00:33:58This is how I am going.

00:33:59When I tell my aunt and her father,

00:34:02he does,

00:34:03he does this,

00:34:04he does this,

00:34:05and this is how she does.

00:34:06Now, when I talk to them, when I understand them,

00:34:10I feel like I'm going to get back to work.

00:34:13What are you doing with me?

00:34:15I'm going to tell you about this child.

00:34:17I haven't said anything about this.

00:34:19Now, she says,

00:34:20the child won't talk a little bit.

00:34:21She's watching.

00:34:23I'm also working at home.

00:34:25I've been working at all.

00:34:27I've been working at all.

00:34:29I've been working at all.

00:34:30I've been working at all.

00:34:31I've been working at all.

00:34:33So, you're not getting into body.

00:34:34You're not getting into body.

00:34:35Now, I'm talking to them,

00:34:39saying to them,

00:34:40we must control that.

00:34:41And then we need to make the children

00:34:42to control our children.

00:34:43Now, my daughter is here.

00:34:47My daughter is here.

00:34:47My mother is here.

00:34:49My mother is here.

00:34:50I'm separating people out of body,

00:34:52but I am not in body.

00:34:55Now, I'll do it.

00:34:57So, you are trying to fight

00:34:58and explain the details to that.

00:35:00I want to clear my husband, but he can control me.

00:35:04He says, no, no, my brother will come, he will do it, you understand this.

00:35:10But how do I understand?

00:35:12My husband first tells me to tell my husband.

00:35:17He comes to the office and starts.

00:35:20After that, when I go to the house, I tell them that I haven't done anything.

00:35:24I talk to my mother.

00:35:25You feel a law.

00:35:28And as a person standing in the house, you are doing a good job.

00:35:37I come to my house, I write a book.

00:35:39It's a popular thing that you have to take a drink,

00:35:42to drink, to drink, to drink, to drink,

00:35:44to drink, to drink, to drink, to drink,

00:35:47I don't have to say anything.

00:35:49Come to my house, sit and eat.

00:35:51But you go and find one or two.

00:35:53Why do you feel like that?

00:35:55And he puts it in this way.

00:35:57And then he has an ego that he doesn't say anything.

00:36:00That he doesn't say anything.

00:36:01That he is a child.

00:36:01Yes.

00:36:04That his mother, as he goes from here.

00:36:06He is a child.

00:36:07He is a child.

00:36:08He is a child.

00:36:08Sometimes he is a child.

00:36:10Sometimes he is a child.

00:36:13He is a child.

00:36:18He is a child.

00:36:21He was a child.

00:36:24He is a child.

00:36:26He is a child.

00:36:27He is a child.

00:36:27He has to say everything.

00:36:28He is a child.

00:36:28Don't take it.

00:36:28I am serious.

00:36:29I am sorry.

00:36:32I have to say anything.

00:36:33But I am sorry.

00:36:34Yes, I am uncomfortable.

00:36:46that you have to create a different image.

00:36:51Like a girl, a girl, a girl, a cheater,

00:36:55or someone who has a image,

00:36:58then you have to bully.

00:37:00In college or university,

00:37:02you have to bully.

00:37:02You have to bully.

00:37:07One thing is that whatever child is,

00:37:10I want to say that your life will go down.

00:37:15You have to bully.

00:37:23But you have to bully.

00:37:25But you have to bully.

00:37:26But you have to bully.

00:37:28But you have to bully.

00:37:29But you have to bully.

00:37:30But you have to bully.

00:37:32I have to bully.

00:37:32My confidence is zero.

00:37:34My parents are feeling like I am getting questions.

00:37:38If I get loud,

00:37:40they say that they are coming.

00:37:42They say that the child is coming.

00:37:45You are saying that you are not coming.

00:37:47You have to bully.

00:37:48You are saying that they are coming from home.

00:37:50You are saying that she will not come.

00:37:52No one is coming.

00:37:52You will come.

00:37:53Everyone is coming.

00:37:54But the child is not coming.

00:37:55You have to do it.

00:37:57We have to stand.

00:37:57And I will come with the parents or the elderly.

00:38:01You will not come with the parents.

00:38:05I feel like I am at the same time in the camera, like you have said to myself.

00:38:11They are under surveillance, so what is happening?

00:38:15I am thinking about everything I am thinking about.

00:38:18There is uncertainty in my home.

00:38:20I am talking about my mother.

00:38:22I am talking about my mother.

00:38:23I am going to talk to her and tell her.

00:38:25Today I am talking about my mother so many hours.

00:38:28Today we have online pizza.

00:38:33I am talking about my mother and I am thinking about me.

00:38:35I have never finished money for me.

00:38:37There is pizza.

00:38:38I am saying little to my money.

00:38:40You are speaking with your hand.

00:38:42I am talking about people.

00:38:45Back in the two years, I was like to talk about your hand.

00:38:50Why is that your voice?

00:38:52If I am being loud, I am the only me and the only one.

00:38:55I have 0% of confidence.

00:38:57level zero. Look, this is your daily problem. You have to stand and stop it, then you will

00:39:07have a problem for 4 days, 1 week, 2 weeks, 1 month. But after that, you have to go smoothly

00:39:13your life. You have to break it. You have to stand and stand and stand.

00:39:17We need to stand and stand. We need to stand and stand. What do you get to the kids?

00:39:21If you don't come to our house, you don't get to the house or get to our house?

00:39:25If your child's home, you don't get to the house, they don't get to the house.

00:39:28I have to be careful not to keep it. And if you keep it, go and tell me.

00:39:36My level is falling down to the 7th and 7th and 2nd. So I am getting nervous from this

00:39:47What are you talking about? What should I do?

00:39:49And if I share it with my husband,

00:39:52this is my husband.

00:39:53You stand in front of me.

00:39:55I will see my house, rent,

00:39:56I will see these things.

00:39:58Look, at a certain age or a certain time,

00:40:02when it happens,

00:40:04a woman is like this,

00:40:06no one is talking about me about it.

00:40:08She says it.

00:40:09I damn care.

00:40:11A time comes in my life,

00:40:13and you are so calm, so peaceful,

00:40:16and you have to think about it.

00:40:18How do you take that time quickly,

00:40:20because life is easy?

00:40:21When it comes to that time,

00:40:23it has become a lot of things.

00:40:26If you feel like,

00:40:27one thing to do,

00:40:29and take a stand,

00:40:31that the child is also hurt,

00:40:33that you don't feel good,

00:40:34so if you feel like the child is coming,

00:40:36then someone will come with it.

00:40:37Or if the child is coming for a while,

00:40:39then you will go,

00:40:40so that you don't feel bad.

00:40:41So that's what you say,

00:40:42that the person goes away.

00:40:43The person will take the first step,

00:40:46then you don't need to reach there.

00:40:48I don't have to think about it.

00:40:49I don't have to think about it,

00:40:49because my child has become a child.

00:40:51Now, the other thing is,

00:40:53they are cousins,

00:40:53so what will the impact of that?

00:40:55Or he will learn this,

00:40:57or he will be scared,

00:40:59and he will be scared,

00:41:00and he will not be able to say anything,

00:41:01and if he will say it,

00:41:02it will be popular that it will be bad.

00:41:03Yeah, I will.

00:41:04Yeah.

00:41:05Let's take a break,

00:41:06and see the break after,

00:41:07Good Morning Pakistan.

00:41:14Good Morning Pakistan.

00:41:15Welcome, welcome back.

00:41:16Good Morning Pakistan.

00:41:18So, today,

00:41:18we are discussing,

00:41:20that the trauma,

00:41:21which people often give the name of drama,

00:41:24that this is just drama,

00:41:25that this is just like this,

00:41:34how we hold people Heart mismo,

00:41:36which is bad.

00:41:38With her,

00:41:39they will lose,

00:41:43because,

00:41:44why we eat it all,

00:41:47and understand them.

00:41:49both��!,

00:41:49Given the words of the event

00:41:50just feel calm.

00:41:53so how can you see all the things you can see

00:41:55so I'm saying that all the girls traumatized

00:41:59I think that's the biggest concern of the house

00:42:03I think that's the biggest concern of the house

00:42:05because that's the biggest concern of the house

00:42:07that I will keep my daughter

00:42:09so if my daughter is good

00:42:12my two daughters have married

00:42:14so I have

00:42:22I have never seen such things in my life, so much love that they share their stories with me.

00:42:29They won't tell me, they won't tell me, they won't tell me what they will do.

00:42:33because they will understand their story.

00:42:37If they understand their stories,

00:42:42they say that it is a big drama.

00:42:45When you are watching the drama,

00:42:47it is a real reality.

00:42:49When you are watching the drama,

00:42:52it was a real reality.

00:42:53That is what you are doing and you are saying the drama.

00:42:56Absolutely.

00:42:58Soji is here.

00:43:02Tania

00:43:02Aslalakum.

00:43:04Aslalakum.

00:43:06I am going to tell you that I am going to be a lot of trauma.

00:43:09I am depressed and crying.

00:43:11I am going to be a love marriage for about 12 years ago.

00:43:15I have two kids.

00:43:17I started working on my husband.

00:43:20But I am living in a joint family.

00:43:23I started working on my wife and the staff.

00:43:25I am going to work in the morning.

00:43:27I am going to work in the morning.

00:43:28I am going to work in the morning.

00:43:29I am going to work in the morning.

00:43:30I am going to work in the morning.

00:43:31I am blaming her to the kids.

00:43:33I am going to help my kids.

00:43:34I am so sorry for learning to learn everything.

00:43:34Now how are these small kids.

00:43:36They are doing everything.

00:43:39It was a little over-the-run life yet.

00:43:41I started working on my husband.

00:43:42That is a different work after my husband.

00:43:43After opening the office to my husband.

00:43:44She started going after her second wife.

00:43:55Oh wow.

00:43:56She was not doing anything.

00:43:57She was not doing anything.

00:43:58She was not doing anything.

00:44:00She was saying that I am going to live with you.

00:44:01My second wife is very good.

00:44:03Now, the people of the house are the most in her hands.

00:44:07The house and the house.

00:44:08They are going to take care of their relationship.

00:44:10I don't know all these things.

00:44:11Everything is empty.

00:44:12I was living in my house and my children.

00:44:15I was living in my house.

00:44:17I was empty.

00:44:17I didn't know all these things.

00:44:18I was not aware of it.

00:44:19I was married.

00:44:20There were two children.

00:44:22They are living in their life.

00:44:24They are living when the house is Entitled.

00:44:27They are living in my own lives.

00:44:27I have a job, dining room with my house, and all the things.

00:44:30You can always lonely children.

00:44:31I couldn't understand what study is.

00:44:34Well, your dad is living in a productive요ります.

00:44:35When you are spending your own money,

00:44:37Why you love his Graciousness?

00:44:40Why do you stay left from home?

00:44:42You should stay right from the house.

00:44:43I am reinventing your children's house.

00:44:45I ask them to spend some suggestions here just to make them.

00:44:46What are you doing.

00:44:47It is young, and I'm not viendo my dear children.

00:44:52I don't bring my children.

00:44:53If you have support of your mother's house, go out there and pay attention to it.

00:45:00You are also paying attention to it.

00:45:01I was studying at school.

00:45:02I was studying at school.

00:45:04I was studying at school.

00:45:05What do I do now?

00:45:06I'm busy.

00:45:07I'm not going to school.

00:45:08I'm giving money.

00:45:09I'm getting food.

00:45:10Everything is different.

00:45:11But I don't have anything for it.

00:45:12And then the house is coming.

00:45:14You are asking us.

00:45:15You will think about yourself.

00:45:17Look, why do you give a person?

00:45:20That's why it's good.

00:45:21So that is good.

00:45:22You are good between my parents, love and love.

00:45:24It got us on full and tired of you.

00:45:26And that is my favorite part of my father's house.

00:45:30I'll tell you, I love you too.

00:45:33But I want to say something.

00:45:37I love you too.

00:45:37Now, you're waiting for a relationship.

00:45:37What kind of miracle will happen?

00:45:39Because everything will be the same.

00:45:40You are the same.

00:45:42You are drinking.

00:45:43Because you are drinking.

00:45:43You don't have a love for two kids.

00:45:43And you are drinking.

00:45:43You, I love you.

00:45:45Yes, you are drinking.

00:45:46You are drinking for my kids.

00:45:49People are drinking.

00:45:50If you want to think about your children, leave your mother's house, leave your mother's house.

00:45:56This is a very good thing, you are confident.

00:45:59I do the job, the job is also disturbed.

00:46:02You are in a trauma, you don't sleep at night, you don't sleep at night.

00:46:06You know that God gives you the opportunity and He shows how you are going with it.

00:46:13It is possible that this is your destiny, that you want to go further, career wise.

00:46:20And all these things are happening with you.

00:46:22There are no other things.

00:46:24Years and years.

00:46:24Why is this happening at home?

00:46:26I was a good girl, I was a good wife.

00:46:29But I am doing so well and I am doing so well.

00:46:33Then I realized that this alarm has shown you.

00:46:38You focus on yourself, see your children.

00:46:41Because we did love marriage in the beginning of the year.

00:46:44We were very good at the start of the year.

00:46:45Everyone was very cooperative.

00:46:47The heart became very good at the start.

00:46:49Then it was a very difficult time.

00:46:50My mind was that it was a love marriage that you will meet your husband and he will complete your

00:46:56dreams.

00:46:56The heart was very good at the start of the year.

00:46:59And at the time, I realized that it was a good time.

00:47:02You are your parents?

00:47:03Yes, your mother is your daughter.

00:47:05Yes, it is supportive.

00:47:07Then you have no problem at the start of the year.

00:47:10What are you saying?

00:47:12I am very small.

00:47:14You were married at the age of 17.

00:47:15Yes, at the age of 17.

00:47:16Yes, at the age of 17.

00:47:17At that time, what did you say about your parents' marriage?

00:47:20The parents didn't trust me.

00:47:22I didn't trust me.

00:47:24Because I didn't trust me.

00:47:25I didn't trust me.

00:47:26I didn't trust me.

00:47:26I didn't trust my marriage.

00:47:27At that time, the decisions were very immature.

00:47:30But the child is very important.

00:47:32My husband had my parents.

00:47:35They had responded to me.

00:47:35They said it was not right.

00:47:37They were all right.

00:47:38How old are you?

00:47:38You are now matured.

00:47:39How old are you?

00:47:40My husband is now three years old.

00:47:43I've seen this, that you are young age.

00:47:47and young age. After a certain age, the children who have loved their love, don't like them.

00:47:56Because they are not mature, at that time they have married in maturity.

00:48:01But if a child is not mature, then they say that this woman is not my favorite woman.

00:48:06And they say that this woman is not my favorite woman.

00:48:15But God has given you a path.

00:48:18Because if your husband can take another baby, then you can take it.

00:48:22That means that this is the growth for you.

00:48:27But at this time, you understand the pros and cons.

00:48:34I always say that you need to understand that your support system is correct.

00:48:39But what is your support system?

00:48:41Yes, we will manage it.

00:48:44Look at the resources in your home.

00:48:47You are stable enough for yourself.

00:48:50But the children are small.

00:48:51Always the situation as possible as possible as possible.

00:48:58In your home, it is very helpful.

00:49:01When the children are not young today, the children are often the same.

00:49:05We have to divert them to grow up.

00:49:10And we say that the children are very young and young.

00:49:15Instead of the children are often the same.

00:49:17How do you think that the children are often the same?

00:49:20And how do you learn the future?

00:49:20Do youبل the future?

00:49:20Yes, and we are not the same as the children.

00:49:21I'm happy with the future.

00:49:33Thank you very much.

00:49:51What do you want to do?

00:49:53I will tell you now that you don't feel so big for this thing.

00:49:58You have to say that when you get married in a small age,

00:50:01you are going to manage everything in your life.

00:50:05But you are more in the practical life.

00:50:09You are doing good jobs, earn good jobs.

00:50:13But you have to think that you don't regret it.

00:50:21When you take the space, you go to the separation,

00:50:25you are going to lose your mind and you are going to lose your mind.

00:50:30You are going to give the time that you have to do what is going to happen.

00:50:33Because we have all the limitations, no one is going to be perfect.

00:50:37And everyone can manage everything alone.

00:50:40We are giving everyone to someone's face, it is different.

00:50:44Everyone can manage everything alone.

00:50:46You are not going to manage everything alone.

00:50:47And the most important thing is that your mother has done anything with you.

00:50:52But also, women are involved in the person.

00:50:56If they are involved, if they love them,

00:51:01then you can't teach them the rules.

00:51:05Because you will do it with yourself.

00:51:08Your husband loves children.

00:51:10They love children.

00:51:11And they love the children.

00:51:14You can't do it with them.

00:51:16You can't do it with all the time.

00:51:16No, they are not doing anything.

00:51:19No responsibility.

00:51:20How does this love come from you?

00:51:21No responsibility.

00:51:23Even if you are also living in the house,

00:51:25I have to give them rent.

00:51:26Everything I have to pay for you.

00:51:28You are doing everything.

00:51:28I think that you are over-matured.

00:51:33You can do this, this, and this.

00:51:36You focus on your children,

00:51:38if you don't give rent,

00:51:39you don't have rent.

00:51:41I have to go to school for your children.

00:51:44You can get by law,

00:51:49because it's the right to get the rights of children.

00:51:53You can get the rights of children.

00:51:58You can keep the rights of children.

00:52:02You can keep the rights of children.

00:52:04Look, there are many women in the kitchen

00:52:07who are happy for the children.

00:52:11They are just doing work.

00:52:13So many women,

00:52:14when they are sick,

00:52:17they are all the benefits for being happy.

00:52:19I can satisfy them.

00:52:22Sometimes I feel like it.

00:52:24The feeling is exactly.

00:52:27I have joined back in the industry.

00:52:29My friend told me

00:52:31that you don't have all the responsibilities.

00:52:33Do you understand?

00:52:35Yes.

00:52:35It's a pleasure.

00:52:37You don't have to do all the things.

00:52:39We don't have to do all the work.

00:52:41If a child has a daughter,

00:52:43who is my daughter and son,

00:52:45I said that this is your responsibility.

00:52:47It's a pleasure.

00:52:48I owe her all the money.

00:52:49I owe a pay.

00:52:50But,

00:52:50I don't owe all the finances.

00:52:52She has a job.

00:52:55You know,

00:52:55I owe her all the finances.

00:52:57Maybe,

00:52:57I pay for the money or I pay for it.

00:52:59I mean,

00:53:00I have to plan them.

00:53:03It's a matter of when women and women are hungry,

00:53:05they don't do all the things.

00:53:06it's a good job.

00:53:08If a person takes a burden, then we make it one thing, then we make it one thing.

00:53:13We say, okay, let's put everything on it, put everything on it, put everything on it, put everything on it.

00:53:16We do it with women.

00:53:18We do it with women.

00:53:19We do it with women.

00:53:20This is human nature.

00:53:21So we have to set our boundaries ourselves.

00:53:23And in the house, we have to put our children on it.

00:53:27We have to make it on everyone.

00:53:28So the maturity is time.

00:53:31But you can say to your husband or in-laws,

00:53:34that I can say that my child is a nurse.

00:53:37And their schools have been taken.

00:53:40Because no one can't send.

00:53:41So I will not do the job.

00:53:42You take responsibility of your children.

00:53:44Because I am only one, one, one.

00:53:46And the rest of the children do it.

00:53:47But you don't have to leave a job.

00:53:51But once I say, I don't leave a job.

00:53:53But you say to your husband,

00:53:56I will do it with this.

00:53:58And if you do it with this,

00:54:00then I will leave it with that.

00:54:02You can leave a job.

00:54:02This is the work I have been left behind.

00:54:04I resigned from the other day.

00:54:05But I realized that nothing will happen here.

00:54:09And I became a new one.

00:54:10Because it is a little less place

00:54:11after you keep it back.

00:54:13So I just saw that.

00:54:15And I did it with that.

00:54:16But nothing happened.

00:54:16And I did it with support.

00:54:18I realized that we need some money.

00:54:21But it is totally coming to me.

00:54:24In the end of the growing family,

00:54:26you can notice for the kids.

00:54:27Why not? Why do you have to give this child?

00:54:31Because all the children are facing me.

00:54:33And I think that there is a lot of depression.

00:54:36The most important thing is that there is no life.

00:54:37There is no school or there is no activities.

00:54:42I would say that when we have to take a decision,

00:54:46because we have seen the past experiences.

00:54:49But at that time, I would say that

00:54:52we have to take a look at what we have to do.

00:54:55What is the benefit of our children?

00:54:56What is the benefit of our children?

00:54:58All of us.

00:55:00And then we have to take a decision.

00:55:03Not only about the job, not about the divide,

00:55:06nor about the children.

00:55:07You don't have to understand.

00:55:09And I don't say that I don't trust you.

00:55:12You don't have to make a decision.

00:55:13I say that this is a pattern.

00:55:15Because you are small.

00:55:16For example, you don't live in a husband.

00:55:18For example, you have to take a decision.

00:55:22You have to make a decision making.

00:55:24You have to make a decision making.

00:55:26We are wise with age.

00:55:28Our wisdom doesn't come directly.

00:55:30With age, it comes with age.

00:55:32You eat and eat and eat.

00:55:33You eat and eat.

00:55:34You eat and eat and eat.

00:55:36We don't have to make a decision making.

00:55:38Yes, that's right.

00:55:39Our parents often say that.

00:55:41What do you know?

00:55:42We don't understand the story.

00:55:44Yes, yes.

00:55:45One more thing is to identify.

00:55:46One more thing is to ask.

00:55:48If you can observe yourself, you can use the task of other people.

00:55:50I'm saying that important thing is to look and be definitely to bring up the children's job.

00:55:55And we are what we emphasize so much.

00:55:58Before we do.

00:55:59We don't want to make a divorce.

00:56:00Sometimes children are going to be married.

00:56:01There are such such children sí that you have to fight in seventeen years.

00:56:14you have to try to get into account.

00:56:17If you want their education and independence,

00:56:21even if you want someone to choose,

00:56:23even if you want someone to choose,

00:56:23or a very big girl,

00:56:27you don't know what to do.

00:56:30They should stand on their shoulders.

00:56:32They should have such a degree that

00:56:35when they have time to study.

00:56:35I don't know if they do a job,

00:56:38but when they have time to study,

00:56:40they should have something to do.

00:56:41They should have a degree,

00:56:43so they should have a degree

00:56:45that they should have to take their own self-sustration.

00:56:48They should not be able to do it.

00:56:50So there's no one of them.

00:56:52They should have so much to make them,

00:56:55so independent,

00:56:57that when you have married,

00:56:59your children,

00:57:01your children,

00:57:02your children,

00:57:06your children accept them.

00:57:09I will second that I remember my father as I was in my 9th career and he said go go

00:57:15go to the salon.

00:57:17I told him I will not go and do it.

00:57:20I sent him and I made my link to Nabila and Rubina and I started a career in acting.

00:57:27I learned a skill in that time.

00:57:30If any child is not good in studying, then they learn skills.

00:57:33They are very good.

00:57:40They are very talented.

00:57:45They are very talented.

00:57:46They are very good in studying.

00:57:48If there is something that happens, then we will get sick and sick.

00:57:55Our children are standing on their shoulders.

00:57:58They are not good at all.

00:58:02Good morning Pakistan.

00:58:04Good morning Pakistan.

00:58:08Welcome back.

00:58:11Good morning Pakistan.

00:58:12Today we are discussing how to save children from trauma.

00:58:16Basically, we are discussing all these things.

00:58:19But if I ask you, how can we save children from trauma?

00:58:25What are the methods?

00:58:27What will happen?

00:58:27Paruelasien.

00:58:27That is very beautiful for us.

00:58:29If you want to learn from an autistic baby A law, choose one perhaps, both.

00:58:37Of course, sir, you must music as a student.zens

00:58:37will listen. What

00:58:38is the responsibility to learn from mindset? If

00:58:41we have a company where is an investment. We

00:58:41do not make things what we need. I

00:58:45you are learning at this time, then go forward.

00:58:49that. If you think that at this point I have a lot of need, then don't go to your identity

00:58:54disturb yourself. Because when you think about it, your decisions always help you.

00:59:02If you don't have a chance to get that, because you have a tendency to go there.

00:59:07That means that you look at your mental peace. If you think that at that point your relationship

00:59:19has a little bit of a change in your life. You have to give a little time.

00:59:25So that you have to give a little time to your relationship.

00:59:26So that you have to give a little time to build a relationship.

00:59:29After that you think that this is my upset. My relationship with my family and my family.

00:59:35I have adjusted so much. Now I think about my career.

01:00:06This is you.

01:00:06This is how much you love them, how much you can do them, this is how much you tell them.

01:00:13So if we interrupt this in a sentence, you need to know what best time is for you.

01:00:25You need to know what you have to do and what time you have to do.

01:00:30This also matters.

01:00:38You need to know what you have to do and what time you have to do and what time you

01:00:49have to do.

01:00:49If you know what to do, how much it will be easier to do.

01:00:55We know that we have to be a big part of this.

01:01:00Why did we not give the answer?

01:01:03Why did we not give the answer?

01:01:04Why did we not give the answer?

01:01:19Last week.

01:01:21Pre-marital counseling is very important.

01:01:23It is very important to know what you are going to eat and cook Chinese rice.

01:01:31You can learn it on YouTube.

01:01:33There is no problem.

01:01:33After marriage, you need to do these courses.

01:01:39It is very important.

01:01:41There are short courses.

01:01:43So that the children can understand.

01:01:45Because in relationship, if you are the first child, you need to be a child.

01:01:50You need to be a child.

01:01:51You need to be a child.

01:01:52You need to be a child.

01:01:53You need to be a child.

01:02:03You need to be a child and an adult and whatever.

01:02:09And how many kids figure out their child

01:02:10You have to be a child.

01:02:19You have to have a child.

01:02:20You don't remind people.

01:02:22You have to be a child, never forget emotions.

01:02:22You can learn all of them.

01:02:23Because people don't just do things loose.

01:02:25Just a lot of calculations are put in common life.

01:02:29And within your

01:02:30So you can do exercises to do.

01:02:33Yes, absolutely.

01:02:33Formulation.

01:02:34Whatever we use techniques, they are evidence-based.

01:02:38I know that there is no fault.

01:02:40It is necessary.

01:02:42Every person has NLP.

01:02:44The kids, the people, everyone has done it.

01:02:47Because if you look at the education system,

01:02:51which we have studied,

01:02:53and we have changed the system today.

01:02:56So, we have changed the system.

01:02:57The students have not been able to go to the A, B, C, D, A, B, C, D, A, B.

01:03:01So, that's why they have changed the system.

01:03:04And with many techniques,

01:03:05they can keep your brain in control.

01:03:10And if young children, especially young age,

01:03:13who are starting to get married,

01:03:14who are starting to be in young age,

01:03:16so they have a very important counseling.

01:03:19Maybe with ready,

01:03:20if you will have a challenge to the children,

01:03:21who will help them,

01:03:23then they will bear all the burdens.

01:03:27They will bear all the burdens.

01:03:27If you say that,

01:03:29the exercises are strong to your body.

01:03:33So, basically,

01:03:34these exercises,

01:03:35which we call marriage counseling,

01:03:37they will be so strong,

01:03:40that they will bear the burden.

01:03:44One more thing,

01:03:44I would like to say,

01:03:46that the child,

01:03:49who are not willing to do that,

01:03:51who are not willing to divorce,

01:03:54that we need to take the divorce.

01:03:55we need to do counseling.

01:03:56Yes.

01:03:57It is happening.

01:03:58It's happening.

01:03:59It's happening.

01:04:00It's happening.

01:04:08It's happening.

01:04:09And it says,

01:04:11that there are so many people that are so good

01:04:14and are so happy,

01:04:16that they are so happy.

01:04:17That they are so happy.

01:04:18Well,

01:04:19it is happening.

01:04:20The judge himself told me,

01:04:21take the time.

01:04:23The judge told me that,

01:04:25I would suggest you to take the therapy.

01:04:28Take it.

01:04:28I feel very happy.

01:04:30In our law,

01:04:32it's not going to happen.

01:04:33But,

01:04:33there is enough time to give them.

01:04:36but now they have said that you are going to go and do a couple counseling once again

01:04:43so what happens is that you get to know that what you decide again I will say that there is

01:04:48no regrets

01:04:49so when you go to marriage counseling, couples do you have different sessions or do you have different sessions?

01:04:58there are theories, for example the first session is you have different sessions

01:05:03there will be a lot of fights

01:05:05you have said that you have said that you have said that you have said that

01:05:09we are just teaching family therapy

01:05:15so we have learned how to manage these things

01:05:18first we have to make rules

01:05:19boundaries

01:05:20when your turn comes, you will have to listen

01:05:25first you have said that my attention will remain there

01:05:27I will not see you

01:05:28so this is something that we have to do a little confrontation

01:05:30with work, love, love and love

01:05:33and then they cooperate

01:05:36look, you understand, people understand

01:05:38so after adaptation, the other thing is communication skills

01:05:43okay, if I say that economically

01:05:48it will come to the budget for couples

01:05:51it is not very expensive counseling

01:05:53in the same way

01:05:54the other thing is that the counselling rates have different charges

01:05:57but I say that the benefits of life

01:05:59and when you are looking at it

01:06:01according to the question

01:06:04what does it seem to be?

01:06:05yes

01:06:06because your heart hurts

01:06:06right, the patient's pain

01:06:08good

01:06:08it is the same money

01:06:10it is the same money

01:06:11so people are doing this

01:06:13but the life is changing

01:06:14this is the same thing

01:06:16because both of the life have been connected

01:06:25so people are kind of like

01:06:27there are many and also people

01:06:28there are many other than people

01:06:28who come the same

01:06:30they are hate

01:06:31because the future

01:06:34the disabilityで

01:06:35sometimes

01:06:35it is the same thing

01:06:38because people are in the same place

01:06:43if people take their needs

01:06:44they are in the same way

01:06:45when they turn into the same people

01:06:48where they are in the same place

01:06:52If someone wants to be right, I have a client, this is a husband and wife, a child, 17-18

01:07:02years old, and he says that when I come to counseling, my father says that there is no difference, I

01:07:07will go and talk to him.

01:07:11If someone wants to be right, I will go and talk to him about the rest of the session.

01:07:18People don't give time to go to a technique, they do so much prompts.

01:07:24I will tell you about the counselor, what is the role of the teacher.

01:07:29We tell you that if your parents have any advice, we will see what conditions are, don't worry about it.

01:07:35If someone wants to be right, they have to do so much.

01:07:38When husbands come to take their hands, they come alone.

01:07:41Because if they say that their wife has mentioned that they will do so much or so, they will listen

01:07:47to me.

01:07:47It will be my matter because he wants this, that I will be right.

01:07:51And this is only one place where they have to take their hands.

01:07:53And the other place is also disturbed by the functionality.

01:07:56When they come to a client, they have a client that says that my life and life is a lot

01:08:05of disturbed.

01:08:05They are all set.

01:08:07They came to me and said that I will talk about the rest of the rest.

01:08:11That is, the problem was in the house.

01:08:13But there was no disturbance and thoughts in the workplace.

01:08:17There is no focus, no concentration.

01:08:19But when they came to a client, they thought that they would not help me.

01:08:22And then they would know what thoughts came from the house.

01:08:25That after going to the house, they would be guilty of that I had not done with my wife.

01:08:29That she would have thought of that I would have listened to her.

01:08:32So it is not that everyone is not so incensitivated.

01:08:35But what is it that we don't have to talk about?

01:08:38We don't have to express ourselves properly.

01:08:40We don't have to express ourselves properly.

01:08:44Let's move on to the next question.

01:08:48Yes, Saima.

01:08:49Hello, Saima.

01:08:50Hello, Saima.

01:08:51I am a person.

01:08:53I am a person.

01:08:53I want to get out of this trauma.

01:08:56I am passing through this trauma.

01:08:57I am passing through this trauma.

01:08:58Because my own person has prepared me with this.

01:09:04Because my husband has also stayed with me.

01:09:08My husband has also stayed with me.

01:09:11And when she is at home, she has three.

01:09:15When I'm going to the kitchen,

01:09:17they say that I want to put so much water and so salt.

01:09:21And my husband is coming home.

01:09:24So you are going to take a seat.

01:09:25My husband will take a seat.

01:09:26You will not go inside the seat.

01:09:28Because there are a small children in my house.

01:09:30They are taking the kids.

01:09:32You are trying to take a seat.

01:09:33You are sleeping in the seat.

01:09:35You are sleeping in the seat.

01:09:35The door is shut.

01:09:36meet withません, they would put the sun to clean.

01:09:42The citizens would keep the water, the kids just they would put the sun to the kitchen.

01:09:46They would hold a spray and I would put them out of the kitchen,

01:09:50then I would put them into the kitchen.

01:09:52I would tell you how much oil would be.

01:09:57You would take the shower with a mask,

01:09:59take a shower and put a shower.

01:10:01My husband gave me 80% salary, and 20% gave me money for the children's education.

01:10:10Then he had to raise money for me.

01:10:12And then, I don't think that it will be a lot of money.

01:10:16I've never thought that I would call my parents.

01:10:18No, no, no, I don't need to call it.

01:10:20It will be a lot of money.

01:10:22Now, I'm eating food, I'm having a guest,

01:10:25and I'm going to make rotas.

01:10:31Now, I need to marry my child.

01:10:36Now, I got married my kids.

01:10:37Now, I got married two of my kids.

01:10:38She's a little old.

01:10:41I don't have to marry my child.

01:10:45I'm getting married in my children's education,

01:10:48but I'm having a strong recovery.

01:10:50But it's hard to make me know how good I can last,

01:10:54even if you want to,

01:10:55then you know,

01:10:55take the curfew in the morning.

01:10:56Take it quickly.

01:10:58Take it to the day of the morning and also take the curfew.

01:11:00Do you know what you are saying?

01:11:02Yes, I want to be out of this trauma.

01:11:05Do you feel that you are wrong?

01:11:06Yes, I am wrong, but I am not going to be out of it.

01:11:09Where they are trying to be of a young child,

01:11:11I am not going to be out of it.

01:11:12Do you think that you are a good idea

01:11:14that you are not a good person,

01:11:16not a good person?

01:11:17If you are not going to be out of it,

01:11:19what can I do about it?

01:11:20What do I do?

01:11:21Thank you, brother.

01:11:23What do I do?

01:11:25How do you deal with this trauma?

01:11:27The most important thing is that they know.

01:11:30The person doesn't know that they are traumatized.

01:11:34The most important thing is that you know and you know where it is coming from.

01:11:39How it is coming from. This is the important thing.

01:11:42First of all, I would like to tell you that there are so many things.

01:11:50There are so many things in the sky.

01:11:52So I have a feeling that obviously you and you and me,

01:11:56I don't understand.

01:11:58Gas is not used.

01:12:01Marches is not used.

01:12:02Tell me about your husband.

01:12:07How is your husband?

01:12:08When I am with my husband, they are right.

01:12:11But when I am with my mother, my mother and my mother are in the house,

01:12:14the main body is the body of my body and the body.

01:12:17My body is not bad.

01:12:18But my body is not bad.

01:12:20I have three body of my body.

01:12:21My body is the body of my body.

01:12:23What was your body?

01:12:25He was also the body of my body.

01:12:28He was the body of my body.

01:12:29He was the body of my body.

01:12:30He was asking you,

01:12:30I was asking you,

01:12:31how do you deal with your body of your body?

01:12:37How do you deal with your body?

01:12:38I am not asking you.

01:12:38It is the case of our mother and our mother.

01:12:42They have been a team-up.

01:12:44They have married both.

01:12:46They have married both.

01:12:47If they have married, they are in our house.

01:12:49After a break, we will discuss about their story.

01:12:53Good morning Pakistan.

01:13:01,

01:13:01Welcome to Pakistan,

01:13:02Good morning Pakistan.では,

01:13:04always say

01:13:04thank you take your mind. Today ,

01:13:04we will

01:13:04speak about the trauma. What we

01:13:07rewriter between our women. Especially after婚.

01:13:11Here, there is a

01:13:12child's

01:13:13Gedanken. That she had đượcню

01:13:14account since they had written down the break. It has been strenght.

01:13:19It is terrible right. It has

01:13:20�ames as likely to

01:13:20drive the whole lives. With three child's hands,

01:13:27It's very bitter, it's so hard that it's a generation of hard work and they are doing the same behavior

01:13:39and they have realized that this thing has been realized.

01:13:42But they want to get out of it and that's why we have asked you, Dr. Tanah, what should you

01:13:50do?

01:13:50First of all, I will say that this is your insight,

01:13:54which you have thought that this is coming into me.

01:13:57That means, again, that you don't bother me.

01:14:02The other thing is that when we look at our roles

01:14:06and the other roles, like I was a witch,

01:14:09then I was a witch.

01:14:11Whatever you don't like,

01:14:13that you don't want to do a witch with me,

01:14:16you have to focus on those things.

01:14:17You have to focus on those things.

01:14:19It's easy to say, I know,

01:14:21but when you do it, it's difficult.

01:14:23For this, your health is very important.

01:14:27We don't have physical health.

01:14:29We only have to drink, drink, drink,

01:14:31but we have to do emotional health.

01:14:34The damage, the trauma, the damage,

01:14:37it was emotional,

01:14:38it was like a temptation.

01:14:39When you listen to all the things,

01:14:41then you stop yourself.

01:14:43You don't have to stop.

01:14:44So, you can see,

01:14:45which things you can do

01:14:48and you can give you a peace.

01:14:51For example, if you feel good to do something,

01:14:54because you feel good to do something,

01:14:56you will be good to do something.

01:14:57Now, see, if you feel good to do something,

01:14:59then do that.

01:15:00So, you feel good.

01:15:02So, you stay busy.

01:15:03Yes, absolutely.

01:15:04And then, you will not study those things.

01:15:06Like I said, you are busy.

01:15:07So, you will not study those things.

01:15:09You will not study those things.

01:15:10You will not study those things.

01:15:11So, you feel that,

01:15:11as soon as I am doing it,

01:15:11I am doing it with my husband,

01:15:12and you don't like it.

01:15:14So, you will not like it.

01:15:16That's the pattern.

01:15:17Because we say,

01:15:18generation to generation,

01:15:20which will be transferred.

01:15:22For this generation to generation,

01:15:25if you feel good to do something

01:15:27then it is very good.

01:15:29You will see yourself like this,

01:15:31but you will also be clean.

01:15:33Let's try to put yourself in it.

01:15:34You will also pay attention to yourself.

01:15:35Give yourself a comfort.

01:15:36Do some kind of activities

01:15:37and work on your own.

01:15:39In which you are busy and at home

01:15:41then you will be busy not as much.

01:15:44And, if it will happen,

01:15:45you need to be changing your role.

01:15:47That if I was in this place,

01:15:49I would like to have some sort of journey.

01:15:50And this is just a formula.

01:15:54as action would be it's to be the reaction of the whole right.

01:15:57It could happen that you are being used to do so,

01:15:59that you are being used to do hate yourextreme,

01:16:02which is your worst, but right now,

01:16:05when he goes down,

01:16:07then he will take his family to his whole family.

01:16:11Exactly.

01:16:12He will then separate your husband's.

01:16:15It's not that you will protect your entire life.

01:16:18That is no fault.

01:16:19now we are regretting this now and keep regretting you now that I have to be caught with my child

01:16:25that I have not opened up my hands with them that I have not given you. Why the girl would

01:16:29go with her mom

01:16:30for a family because she has a family with her wife and she has a family with her. Why is

01:16:39she crazy

01:16:39and many people used to leave this to take care of her? And the other thing, it will also get

01:16:44and when all these things happen,

01:16:47when we told them that they will not get peace,

01:16:49then you will say that neither I got to get peace from the eye,

01:16:53nor I got to get peace from the eye.

01:16:54So this is the point where you have to get this thing,

01:16:57I have to put it in my mind and see it.

01:17:02How is your eye? You haven't told anything about it.

01:17:05My eye is good.

01:17:06But I have told you that I am going to become negative.

01:17:11But it is positive and good.

01:17:16When it is good,

01:17:20you will remember that,

01:17:25when I was doing this with my eye,

01:17:28I was going to get a lot of pain.

01:17:31So, you are the one who can change.

01:17:35Dr. Sanna, how do people do positive things?

01:17:40How do people do negative things?

01:17:41Now they know that they have gone towards negativity.

01:17:44What is a way to do positive things?

01:17:47When you have negative thoughts,

01:17:50you are saying that it will be known,

01:17:53it will be put in your mind,

01:17:55it will be put in your mind.

01:17:57How do you do positive things?

01:18:00Absolutely.

01:18:01I will send this message to everyone.

01:18:03Generally, I will ask.

01:18:04Three things.

01:18:06It will be easy to remember.

01:18:07Self.

01:18:08Self.

01:18:09Self.

01:18:10First, self-awareness.

01:18:12As you talked about.

01:18:13Self-awareness.

01:18:14What am I doing?

01:18:15What am I doing?

01:18:16What am I doing?

01:18:17What am I doing?

01:18:19What am I doing?

01:18:21What am I doing?

01:18:21Where am I doing?

01:18:22If there are self-awareness,

01:18:24you should also change yourself.

01:18:27And then,

01:18:28the way you want to know about yourself,

01:18:29you will identify the problems.

01:18:31Then,

01:18:32you will find the solution.

01:18:33In other words,

01:18:34you will blame them.

01:18:37Self care. Self care is not only that we wear our string. Self care is internal.

01:18:44I have to take the time to my me time.

01:18:47I have to give my time to my me time.

01:18:48But with this of course me time is like that he's watching TV.

01:18:54But he's watching me time, he's watching it.

01:18:56But he's watching me time, he's saying he's not healthy.

01:18:59But I've said that the problem is what he's watching because of the reason he's watching TV.

01:19:05But he's watching him and he's watching them all the time.

01:19:09And I've already watched something, just watching them.

01:19:12I mean make it.

01:19:13I mean make it.

01:19:16It is a good thing.

01:19:17So self awareness, then you get better.

01:19:21And then self care, then power.

01:19:24Self care, just physically.

01:19:27Emotionally.

01:19:28Spiritsually.

01:19:29Why go outside, walk in the park, walk in the park.

01:19:33Allah Almighty gave us free, when we were searching.

01:19:37These things are internal.

01:19:40we have a good feeling from nature, we will have a good feeling.

01:19:44Yeah, I will wind up the program but I will say that today's topic was that the kids are traumatized.

01:19:52So, the mother-in-law also thinks that if the child is married, then your plan is finished.

01:19:59But I think that the mother-in-law cannot be finished until the child is finished.

01:20:02So, the mother-in-law cannot be finished.

01:20:04And they are feeling that if the child is traumatized, many mothers do not want to cry in their homes.

01:20:13They don't want to cry, they don't want to cry, they don't want to cry, they don't want to cry,

01:20:19they don't want to cry, they don't want to cry.

01:20:24So, the mother-in-law cannot cry, they don't want to cry, they don't want to cry, they don't want

01:20:30to cry.

01:20:30Then I will say that to the mother-in-law is not our sentence.

01:20:47So, the mother-in-law is not the case of the mother-in-law is not the case of the

01:20:52mother-in-law, it doesn't mean that they are dying.

01:21:09And I will say that if they are dying, I will say that if they are dying, they will not

01:21:34cry and cry after all.

01:21:34Your own house will be made

01:21:36Don't do it

01:21:38If there is fear in your hearts

01:21:41Then they will understand and think

01:21:43And don't let someone's child

01:21:46Don't let someone's hurt

01:21:49Thank you so much

01:21:50Thank you

01:21:51This was our show

01:21:52We'll remember to remember

01:21:54Inshallah, we'll see you next time

01:21:56Good morning Pakistan

01:22:04We'll see you next time

Good Morning Pakistan | Susraal Ka Trauma Special | 8 October 2025 [Full Movie]

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