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90 Day Fiancé Season 12 Episode 8
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00:00:01Previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
00:00:05Sweetie!
00:00:09It has been eight long months, but I am finally here with my baby.
00:00:16She wants to change my hairline.
00:00:18She wants to change my eyeballs.
00:00:20What if he likes the way he is?
00:00:21He doesn't know what he likes until he sees it.
00:00:24You can't tell me he doesn't know what he likes until he sees it.
00:00:26He's a man.
00:00:28I do not accept it.
00:00:30I do not.
00:00:31What we have for soon?
00:00:36I invested $250 to buy this rock.
00:00:40There's free rocks all over the place.
00:00:42This will help you.
00:00:43We'll clean the atmosphere here.
00:00:46Would I get married with this guy?
00:00:48He's so stupid and so aggressive.
00:00:51If you want to lose one teeth, you're going to mess with my rocks, okay?
00:00:59I am super anxious.
00:01:02My parents' approval means the world to me.
00:01:05I know that everybody here is concerned.
00:01:07I just like her for papers or things like this, you know?
00:01:11There are a lot of red flags.
00:01:12And unless you're oblivious, you understand that there are.
00:01:16So far, your relationship has been in the tropics, in lovely hotels.
00:01:21But reality is a whole different ballgame.
00:01:24My daughter is an extremely strong woman.
00:01:27And if she leaves him, he'll survive.
00:01:32How are you feeling?
00:01:33I mean, you feel better?
00:01:34Are you still upset with me?
00:01:36Alison and Angie told me that you're a good guy.
00:01:39I'm going to forgive you.
00:01:41You up.
00:01:43If you disrespect me again, I'm leaving.
00:01:47I pray for you that you never cheat.
00:01:59I want you to figure your out with each other.
00:02:02If you love me, you can listen to me.
00:02:04If he has such a problem with my American culture,
00:02:07then maybe he should have been with a Turkish woman.
00:02:13I invited someone you don't like to my birthday party.
00:02:17I invited Ryan.
00:02:20When Katie was doing the Berlin marathon,
00:02:22they shared a kiss.
00:02:23I told her, this needs to stop,
00:02:25or you need to admit that this relationship
00:02:27isn't what you're looking for.
00:02:29Hello!
00:02:30Hi!
00:02:31I'm not going to be shied away from my fiance's party
00:02:34because some boy from the Midwest decides to turn up.
00:02:38Why are you here?
00:02:40Katie and I have had conversations
00:02:42about what she really wants.
00:02:45Like, we're going to be married.
00:03:08I don't know who tried to fist the ,
00:03:10but to be honest with you,
00:03:11it's an imbecile.
00:03:13Jesus.
00:03:19What the f*** is wrong with this?
00:03:25All right, come show me the fence.
00:03:26Mm-hmm.
00:03:28Mm-hmm.
00:03:36This is me.
00:03:39Hmm.
00:03:41No.
00:03:42No.
00:03:43Well, how do you open it?
00:03:44Uh, I'm not supposed to open.
00:03:47What do you mean?
00:03:47It is supposed to open.
00:03:48It's a gate.
00:03:49The imbecile that help you broke this part.
00:03:53So what I'm doing is just lock completely,
00:03:57not going to open.
00:04:01When Marisa told me that half me here is basically half a tertiary,
00:04:06that make me very, very aggravated.
00:04:08I'm not working right now,
00:04:10so I'm just basically doing things in the house,
00:04:12like that's probably she got to pay for somebody else,
00:04:15and I just try to help.
00:04:17Yeah, but if we have to get out,
00:04:19like, what if you have to get out of this?
00:04:20We're going that way.
00:04:21It's a thing.
00:04:23In my whole life, I never fisted a pen before,
00:04:25to be honest with you.
00:04:26I just broke this, broke that,
00:04:28I take material of this,
00:04:29and I just fisted it in this way, you know?
00:04:30Like, it don't look nice,
00:04:34but it's fisted.
00:04:36But that's the point, you know?
00:04:37Like, I was fisted.
00:04:39What if the landscapers have to come in
00:04:41with their lawnmowers and come in this way?
00:04:43Oh, no way.
00:04:44The door doesn't open that way.
00:04:45It's open. I just figure out this.
00:04:47I fisted in the other one over there.
00:04:48What does it look like on the other side?
00:04:49Is it nice like this?
00:04:50Oh, yeah.
00:04:52Well...
00:04:53Oh, I'm going to go see.
00:04:56The last few days,
00:04:58a lot of concerns have come into my brain.
00:05:01Yes, I'm excited.
00:05:02Okay, that's a given.
00:05:03We're excited to be together in person.
00:05:05But I started thinking,
00:05:06what if he's not prepared?
00:05:08What if I'm going to take on another child in my life?
00:05:11So it's been like a rollercoaster of emotions
00:05:15every single day.
00:05:16No!
00:05:19You'll be okay. Come on.
00:05:21Get used to it.
00:05:23Oh, Jesus.
00:05:24One of the things that I really need Edward
00:05:27to step up with is just being a man,
00:05:31being a strong man in my life,
00:05:33and start doing things on his own
00:05:34without me holding his hand through
00:05:35every step of the way.
00:05:39Edward.
00:05:40What?
00:05:43What in the hell is this?
00:05:46Well, I'm going to explain to you now.
00:05:49So...
00:05:49What is this?
00:05:50Molding from my living room?
00:05:52Yeah.
00:05:53How did you do this?
00:05:54Did you go like this?
00:05:57Uh...
00:05:57Oh, yeah.
00:05:58Did you?
00:05:59Yeah.
00:05:59God.
00:06:01Like, look at it from, like, this far away.
00:06:03Okay.
00:06:04Like, when people drive up this road
00:06:06and they see my pathetic fence,
00:06:08it looks so, like, trashy.
00:06:12I appreciate that you try to fix the fence,
00:06:14but...
00:06:15Well, my neighbor's going to be like,
00:06:16look at how, like, poor she keeps her house.
00:06:20I never think about the neighbors,
00:06:22because if somebody don't pay my bills,
00:06:25I don't give the opinion.
00:06:26Make sense?
00:06:27Yeah, but I do.
00:06:28I care about people's opinions,
00:06:30especially when it comes to things
00:06:31that represent me.
00:06:35I get it that you had to have a fast fix,
00:06:37but let's be real.
00:06:38What exactly possessed you
00:06:40to use broken molding
00:06:43that you found somewhere in my house
00:06:44with rusty nails
00:06:45so that it stays intact?
00:06:48Well, who cares?
00:06:49I care!
00:06:50These people don't pay our bills.
00:06:52It doesn't matter
00:06:52if they don't pay their bills.
00:06:53I pay your bills!
00:06:54And I want the house to look a good way.
00:06:57Just say yes, honey.
00:06:59Yes, babe.
00:07:00Yeah, it's a pleasure.
00:07:04Secondly...
00:07:05Okay.
00:07:07...this looks like a disaster.
00:07:09I need this cleaned up, like, immediately.
00:07:11Like, not tomorrow,
00:07:12not, like, you know, like, in an hour.
00:07:14Like, I need it completely clean now
00:07:16because I'm, like, mortified
00:07:17that this is on the side of my house.
00:07:19And everybody that walks by
00:07:20and drives by
00:07:21sees, like,
00:07:22oh, there's the white trash house.
00:07:24Okay.
00:07:28I try to, like,
00:07:30fish something,
00:07:31and it's not enough.
00:07:33This is not enough.
00:07:34It's not enough.
00:07:34But, like, don't insult me, you know?
00:07:37It feels like no matter what I do,
00:07:39I never better got to be
00:07:41in the level that Marisa has standards
00:07:43or the standards of her family.
00:07:46I'm trying everything,
00:07:47and she always cutting me down.
00:07:49Can I help you?
00:07:50No.
00:07:52That's all.
00:07:53I'm gonna go and, like...
00:07:53No, no, no.
00:07:55Your nails.
00:07:56It's okay. Go.
00:08:01Jesus.
00:08:20Like, they're gonna be married.
00:08:23You ready?
00:08:27I think so.
00:08:42I feel like I'm the problem.
00:08:45In my mind, it's 50-50.
00:08:47I think you've got to deal with.
00:08:49I think we've kind of both made this mess together.
00:08:52The last time we spoke,
00:08:53you asked me to not be a part of your life anymore.
00:08:56Yeah.
00:08:58I'm not interested in people who aren't bringing anything to me.
00:09:05You know?
00:09:07I don't really understand, like, when we were all hanging out,
00:09:12I thought it was all quite friendly,
00:09:14and then everything kind of went downhill,
00:09:15and I felt like a bit of collateral.
00:09:20Katie and I did some things that were inappropriate,
00:09:24but Katie's hard to say no to.
00:09:26Mm.
00:09:29I can't help but judge anyone who would go through
00:09:32with something knowing me and knowing us.
00:09:35Like, it's...
00:09:37I guess I really don't know you,
00:09:39and I don't know the us,
00:09:41but I made quite a big mistake.
00:09:45Yeah.
00:09:46I hurt you, and I wanted to apologise.
00:09:52Ryan, to his credit, did apologise.
00:09:55I think that was the kind of minimum expectation.
00:09:59But on the other hand,
00:10:01you know, how many times have I heard an apology?
00:10:03Is it just another apology?
00:10:05Because that's...
00:10:06That's just .
00:10:07I'm not down for that kind of attitude.
00:10:12I appreciate you recognising it,
00:10:15but I'm also thinking that, like, when we were in Berlin,
00:10:18like, you guys did whatever you did,
00:10:20and then, you know, I got an apology after that,
00:10:22and then it happened a couple more times.
00:10:25I want to be able to trust who you're hanging out with.
00:10:27I want to be able to trust people
00:10:28that are gonna be around me.
00:10:33Katie and I have discussed what our relationship is,
00:10:35in terms of just being friends.
00:10:37Yeah.
00:10:39I feel like we're just, like, chill friends now.
00:10:43But I understand that that's difficult.
00:10:46Well...
00:10:47I don't want to control you.
00:10:48I want you to live your life,
00:10:48but I also don't want you to make stupid decisions.
00:10:51Yeah.
00:10:54This whole thing is just a bit of a waste of my time.
00:10:57But, you know, hearing what you've got to say,
00:10:59I appreciate that.
00:11:00Yeah.
00:11:00I mean, I can totally respect that you're not interested
00:11:03in a friendship.
00:11:06We are where we are now,
00:11:08and, you know, if everyone knows where we all stand,
00:11:12I'm happy to just leave it in the past,
00:11:15if that suits both of you.
00:11:17It does, yeah.
00:11:19Yeah? Katie?
00:11:19Do you think I can make out with everyone I know?
00:11:21I think... I think it's a bad idea.
00:11:25We're getting married soon,
00:11:28and I'm starting to feel just in my gut
00:11:31that she's not ready for, that she doesn't want right now.
00:11:36Well, I think we're here for a party, so...
00:11:38Let's go.
00:11:40You OK?
00:11:41Yeah.
00:11:42Yes.
00:11:45We have less than 90 days before we get married now,
00:11:48and so I think that Katie,
00:11:50if she's ever going to make a show of commitment.
00:11:54Now it's the time, honey.
00:11:58Can I go see everyone?
00:12:00Nice.
00:12:02You good?
00:12:03I think we'll get the rest of the martini.
00:12:06Can we have the water first?
00:12:08I'm scared.
00:12:09OK.
00:12:12Good shot.
00:12:14Hey, Katie, how's it going?
00:12:17We kissed.
00:12:18Wait, who kissed?
00:12:19No, we're not kissing Katie.
00:12:21No, no, no, we're not doing that.
00:12:23Everybody keeping your pretty occupied?
00:12:26Yeah, no, it's lovely.
00:12:27It's practice for the wedding, like, mingling and circulating.
00:12:31That is normal.
00:12:32OK, we can be normal mode.
00:12:34I think I did.
00:12:35What? Normal mode? Katie normal.
00:12:38Being crazy mode.
00:12:41Hi.
00:12:43Sorry to be hot.
00:12:45Katie...
00:12:45No, I'm being crazy mode.
00:12:46You're being crazy.
00:12:47I'm being crazy mode.
00:12:48Why are you being crazy?
00:12:49Just chill.
00:12:53I'm giving Katie a lot of slack.
00:12:58And already it feels a little bit like that's being thrown in my face.
00:13:02Is this your table?
00:13:03Probably.
00:13:07It makes every conversation that we've had pointless.
00:13:12It makes our relationship feel very unserious.
00:13:18I thought we were past this, but clearly we're not.
00:13:25Katie...
00:13:27Stop.
00:13:28I'm not as close to your face.
00:13:31No.
00:13:34I want to.
00:13:38This is bull .
00:13:39...
00:13:51Babe!
00:13:53Babe!
00:13:54You can't eat that.
00:13:55What is this?
00:13:56Poof?
00:14:00Pork is dirty.
00:14:02Muslim people can't eat.
00:14:05Bacon is the best type of pork.
00:14:07Baby.
00:14:09Oh, don't be so dramatic.
00:14:13So please, when we go downstairs, baby, you need to be respectful.
00:14:16Good morning, sir.
00:14:17Good morning, Miami.
00:14:18Can you understand me?
00:14:20When you come to a Nigerian family and then you address an elderly person as, hey, it
00:14:25makes the person seem like you're talking to a dog.
00:14:28Hey, hey, mom.
00:14:29Baby, correct yourself.
00:14:30I told you this before.
00:14:34I'm speechless.
00:14:36Yeah.
00:14:40I hear come trouble, but you can't look away.
00:14:45Oh, preacher tried to tell your love.
00:14:51I pass in his blood, and it runs through his face.
00:14:56Hi, baby.
00:14:58Hi.
00:14:59Why you didn't wash last night?
00:15:02Oh, my God.
00:15:02What, oh, my God, baby?
00:15:05You don't miss it.
00:15:06Oh, my God.
00:15:07Why you didn't wash last night?
00:15:09Oh, my God.
00:15:11Come on.
00:15:12How you didn't wash last night?
00:15:13Well, you can't stop.
00:15:17Everybody loves an outlaw.
00:15:24We fight probably daily about being clean.
00:15:29Yeah.
00:15:30It's not big fights, but that's majority of what our fights are about.
00:15:34His culture, like, they clean every day, all day long.
00:15:38And I'm just a messy person.
00:15:41When you're doing coffee, when you eat something with pilate.
00:15:45Yeah.
00:15:45This city, five-day, six-day.
00:15:49No.
00:15:52She's lying right now.
00:15:55She's lying.
00:16:01I am very excited about this.
00:16:04I called around just to find you a bidet.
00:16:11It's not common here in America for toilets to have bidets.
00:16:16Yeah, I know.
00:16:25I mean, you're not wrong, honestly.
00:16:30Since the White Trash Bash, life's been, you know, a little tense with the whole Brandon situation.
00:16:37But we're with each other.
00:16:38You're here in America.
00:16:41And why not have water shooting up in your butthole to make you feel like home, you know?
00:16:47Yes.
00:16:52Can you hand me my sandwich, babe?
00:17:05Babe.
00:17:07Babe.
00:17:08Mom.
00:17:11Babe.
00:17:12You can't eat this.
00:17:27Oh, don't be so dramatic.
00:17:36Oh, don't clean the body.
00:17:40Chicken and, like, human, like, we clean inside.
00:17:45God sent message.
00:17:48Pork is dirty.
00:17:49Muslim people can't eat.
00:17:52How was it?
00:17:53You want another bite?
00:17:54No, baby.
00:17:55I think this is all my life first.
00:17:59Yeah.
00:18:00Bacon is the best type of pork.
00:18:02No, I don't like really.
00:18:03Mm-hmm.
00:18:05Baby.
00:18:10You know, we're really close to where the accident happened.
00:18:14Like, we're going to...
00:18:14Yeah, we're pretty much going to pass right by it, almost.
00:18:19I want to see you, babe.
00:18:21You want to see where it happened?
00:18:23Yeah, because of how I want to understand.
00:18:30About a year ago, I was in a major car accident with my best friend, Michaela, her mom, and Michaela's
00:18:36son.
00:18:37And we were hit head-on by a distracted driver.
00:18:42We were all hospitalized for well over a week.
00:18:46Like, I unfortunately had to have a bowel surgery where I lost about three feet of my intestines.
00:18:55Obviously, Rosh couldn't be there physically for me.
00:18:58And that was hard on me that he couldn't be there physically.
00:19:01But I think it was even harder on him.
00:19:03He struggled a lot mentally, I think, feeling like, you know, like, how would you feel if the person you
00:19:12love was in a horrific accident?
00:19:17And you are stuck.
00:19:19You can't be by their side.
00:19:23I haven't been here since the accident happened.
00:19:26Really?
00:19:27Yeah, like, I avoid it.
00:19:29I don't...
00:19:30You don't want to come?
00:19:31Yeah, I don't want to come at all.
00:19:33So, this would be the first time.
00:19:40It was up here.
00:19:43Okay.
00:19:43Yeah.
00:19:44Let's go.
00:19:45I want to see.
00:19:56Right here.
00:19:57Yeah.
00:19:59We were coming down this way.
00:20:01Yeah.
00:20:03Oh, just where, like, that truck is right there?
00:20:05Yeah.
00:20:07She went, like, right into our lane.
00:20:09You can see, like, how fast people are going.
00:20:13Yeah.
00:20:21Very bad moment.
00:20:23Yeah.
00:20:24Yeah.
00:20:28Yeah.
00:20:32This is, yeah, for me, really bad because, yeah, like, little bit I feel you will death, like...
00:20:41Yeah.
00:20:41Yeah, no.
00:20:43And I wish I could at the hospital with you because I want to, yeah, I care you, you know,
00:20:50baby.
00:20:51I know.
00:20:56I was thinking if she's dying in hospital, I was so much thinking, I don't want to
00:21:08marry another woman because I love Mallory.
00:21:14This time, I don't want to cry.
00:21:19It's okay.
00:21:28She's my everything.
00:21:30Like, she's my first married woman and last girlfriend.
00:21:46I don't really care to be here much longer.
00:21:49So, can we go?
00:21:51Yeah.
00:21:51Okay.
00:21:54I love you.
00:21:55I love you.
00:21:55I love you.
00:22:05I love you.
00:22:29Today Asia and I were going out together to the market and we're going to discuss a lot
00:22:33about my visa that was rejected and, you know, come up with a decision that is going to be
00:22:40best for us, but then I'm not even going to lie, I'm nervous, because after last night
00:22:46dinner, at every point in time I need to be around Asia, I need to be around my family
00:22:50just to keep everybody in check, especially Asia, you know, okay baby, the way you said
00:22:56this, don't say it like that again, you know, the way you did this, don't do it like that
00:22:59again, okay?
00:23:01What would it mean to you if your family were to disapprove of Asia?
00:23:05Oh lord, if my family was to disapprove of Asia, oh lord.
00:23:13I feel like when I get there, I'll cross the bridge, because right now I can't even think.
00:23:21Sweetie, you can't help me figure out what to wear.
00:23:23What you got?
00:23:24Oh.
00:23:27No, it's real hot in here.
00:23:28How do you think about this?
00:23:31That's too hot.
00:23:32Sweetie, them long sleeves, what's the temperature outside?
00:23:35You're going to pass out.
00:23:37I like it.
00:23:38It look good, but you might need to wear it at like night time or when it cool down a
00:23:42little bit.
00:23:44I didn't put on this.
00:23:46And that'll kind of match what I'm putting on.
00:23:49I got like a tan dress.
00:23:52Does Maxwell have a good sense of fashion?
00:23:55You're going to get me hurt right here on this one.
00:23:56I still have it ingrained in my head, that blue suit that you want to be.
00:24:01The blue, not the suit, the blue senator I wore, right?
00:24:06I wanted to appear a little bit cultural, because I've seen on videos and pictures where people
00:24:11go to the airport to pick people up, you know, they come with flowers and they look cultural.
00:24:16Just to, you know, sell their culture.
00:24:18Hey, welcome to Nigeria and stuff like that.
00:24:21You sold it all right.
00:24:23It was just a bad choice.
00:24:25And the shoes just like topped it off.
00:24:27In the States, we be saying people look country.
00:24:30He look real country.
00:24:32It looks good, but it's too hot.
00:24:34Just do the brown pants and then the flip flops.
00:24:38Baby, are you the one wearing it?
00:24:40You always want to have your way.
00:24:42I do.
00:24:43I'm coming to pick out what you will wear.
00:24:46You never complained about what I got to wear.
00:24:50Before you'll be talking, cho-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch.
00:24:52Go ahead and get ready.
00:24:53A what?
00:24:54A cho-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch
00:24:55-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch
00:24:55-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch.
00:24:55You're wasting time.
00:24:56Go get ready.
00:24:56Put your mouth.
00:24:57Don't rush me.
00:24:58You're going to wear those sandals, right?
00:25:00All right.
00:25:11and like, oh, this person is not respectful,
00:25:14something like that.
00:25:17Sury, you're not done?
00:25:19Don't rush with me now.
00:25:20What are you up going on?
00:25:21Nothing, just trying to get my makeup finished up
00:25:25so we can go.
00:25:26So please, when we go downstairs, baby,
00:25:28you need to be respectful.
00:25:29Good morning, sir.
00:25:30Good morning, ma'am.
00:25:31You understand?
00:25:32Be sweet.
00:25:33My family is already traumatized,
00:25:35but you're trying to change this, change that.
00:25:37Did they say anything else to you in private?
00:25:39Maybe.
00:25:40Oh, they haven't said anything yet.
00:25:41My mom doesn't like the idea of you
00:25:43trying to change my ear, my nose, my mouth.
00:25:46The eye thing, you didn't even try to explain that to them.
00:25:50Am I a doctor?
00:25:52No, but you should have packed me up.
00:25:56All right.
00:25:57I don't say anything about my hair again.
00:25:59I'm serious.
00:26:00You was rushing me, so come on.
00:26:01Don't say anything about my hair again.
00:26:04There was a lot going on at dinner last night.
00:26:07I feel like they were attacking me
00:26:09because they were definitely not hearing me out
00:26:11when I was trying to tell them about the skin care,
00:26:13you know, how we need to be watchful about his eye condition.
00:26:16Just they were not being open-minded.
00:26:18You know, throughout the whole time,
00:26:20I've suggested all these things
00:26:22to make Maxwell a better person,
00:26:23to look better,
00:26:25and he has been on board.
00:26:27So I was just a little bit shocked
00:26:29that he, you know,
00:26:31just didn't really have my back.
00:26:32It's very kind of upsetting.
00:26:35Hello, Ma.
00:26:36Hello, Dad.
00:26:37Hey, Ma.
00:26:38Hi.
00:26:38How are you?
00:26:40Baby, correct yourself.
00:26:41I told you this before.
00:26:45Good morning, sir.
00:26:46Good morning, ma'am.
00:26:47Good morning, ma'am.
00:26:48Good morning.
00:26:49You're welcome.
00:26:49You're welcome.
00:26:50You know, when you come to a Nigerian family
00:26:53and then you address
00:26:54another person and ask,
00:26:56hey, you know,
00:26:57it makes the person seem like
00:26:58you're talking to a dog.
00:27:00I wasn't brought up that way.
00:27:01You do that in my house,
00:27:03my mom is going to kill you.
00:27:04You say, good morning, sir.
00:27:05Good morning, ma'am.
00:27:06When you don't eat,
00:27:07you say, thank you, sir.
00:27:08Thank you, ma'am.
00:27:09Because it's this whole thing about respect,
00:27:11you know,
00:27:12so I'm not happy about it at all.
00:27:15Why are you people going to the market?
00:27:17I want to go to the market
00:27:18and sit down,
00:27:19talk about the whole visa stuff,
00:27:21what we're going to do,
00:27:21and whatever will come up
00:27:23related to the whole family.
00:27:24People can't discuss it in the whole...
00:27:28This is what you are trying to tell me.
00:27:30We just need a long time
00:27:32to talk about everything.
00:27:35But we don't worry.
00:27:36We are not going to go out
00:27:37and walk on my eye
00:27:38or change my nose
00:27:39or change my ear.
00:27:43I'm speechless.
00:27:46In our culture,
00:27:47for me, see me
00:27:49obeying the man,
00:27:50whether the man have money or not,
00:27:52you must.
00:27:54Whether the man is short or tall,
00:27:57you must.
00:27:58Whether the man knows
00:28:00how to dress well or not,
00:28:02you must.
00:28:02Because
00:28:03the woman cannot disobey.
00:28:06We'll see you all later.
00:28:07Bye.
00:28:09You don't want the man
00:28:10to see you as somebody
00:28:11that is so arrogant.
00:28:16I'm weak.
00:28:18I say I'm weak.
00:28:21Sweetie, my mom seemed like
00:28:22she was upset.
00:28:24Do you think she mad at me?
00:28:31Have you called Nicole
00:28:32about getting her stuff
00:28:33out of the shed?
00:28:36I didn't know that
00:28:37Nicole's stuff there.
00:28:40I'm enjoying, like,
00:28:42poking at them
00:28:43and starting arguments
00:28:44because I feel like
00:28:45he's not being truthful.
00:28:47I've been out her
00:28:48a dozen times.
00:28:49Because you let her
00:28:49walk all over you.
00:28:51You still love her, I guess.
00:29:07Shea, I'm making
00:29:08your smoothie.
00:29:10Where are you?
00:29:12Okay, bud.
00:29:16The bottoms of somebody
00:29:18buy her a drink
00:29:19or take that booty
00:29:20to the bank.
00:29:22I think it's done.
00:29:24Yeah, that's good.
00:29:28Allison.
00:29:30It's good.
00:29:31Good?
00:29:32Yeah.
00:29:33You try it.
00:29:38How's it taste?
00:29:38Yeah, it's real good.
00:29:39You like?
00:29:40Yeah, I like.
00:29:41We have to go get
00:29:42some groceries.
00:29:43We're out of bananas
00:29:44and stuff,
00:29:44so we're going to meet
00:29:45Allison at the grocery
00:29:47here in a little bit.
00:29:48With the kids?
00:29:49Mm-hmm.
00:29:49But, yeah, the smoothie
00:29:51in the morning,
00:29:52I like it a lot.
00:29:53Starting from now,
00:29:54instead of beer,
00:29:55you drink smoothie.
00:29:55Babe, I don't drink beer
00:29:56in the morning,
00:29:57if I was drinking beer.
00:29:59I told you,
00:29:59when I get there,
00:30:00the fun is over.
00:30:02The fun is over.
00:30:03No more fun.
00:30:05You can't fun,
00:30:06but the hunter is a limit.
00:30:07I don't want you, babe.
00:30:08What do you mean,
00:30:08no more fun?
00:30:09What do you mean,
00:30:10no more fun?
00:30:12It's definitely been
00:30:13an adjustment
00:30:14since Annabelle's arrived.
00:30:15I mean, my friends
00:30:16are still, like,
00:30:17texting and calling,
00:30:19hey, the game's on,
00:30:20we're drinking.
00:30:21But I just tell them,
00:30:22hey, I'm watching
00:30:23the game here
00:30:24and drinking a smoothie,
00:30:26Annabelle just made me.
00:30:29It's cold.
00:30:31Alrighty.
00:30:34I mean,
00:30:34I know it's only
00:30:35been a few weeks,
00:30:36but I'm already feeling
00:30:36like I've lost weight
00:30:39and feel better.
00:30:40What are you talking about?
00:30:42No.
00:30:43Babe, look.
00:30:44I mean, look,
00:30:46my stomach.
00:30:47It's just,
00:30:48it's been two weeks.
00:30:50It's been only two weeks,
00:30:51okay?
00:30:52My pants fall down.
00:30:53No, you said
00:30:53back here, you know.
00:30:54Oh, I'm telling you.
00:30:56No.
00:30:57I can feel it.
00:30:58All right, well,
00:30:59we're going to get
00:31:00batteries for the scale
00:31:01and I'll prove it.
00:31:03Okay.
00:31:08So you haven't seen
00:31:09Allison since the nail salon.
00:31:11I kind of feel bad
00:31:12because she asked me
00:31:13to go to lunch,
00:31:14you know,
00:31:14I think like yesterday
00:31:15when I was too busy
00:31:16at work, but...
00:31:18So maybe she's thinking
00:31:19odd at you
00:31:20and neglect me
00:31:22or avoid or whatever.
00:31:24that's what I'm saying.
00:31:25She probably thinks that,
00:31:26but it was,
00:31:27I mean,
00:31:27legitimately,
00:31:28I was working.
00:31:29It just seems like
00:31:30we've been super busy,
00:31:32you know?
00:31:32Yeah.
00:31:35Ever since we did
00:31:37the spa day
00:31:38with the girls,
00:31:38Annabelle and Allison,
00:31:40they seem like
00:31:41they bonded a little more.
00:31:42Their relationships
00:31:43gotten better.
00:31:44So I'm pretty happy
00:31:45to see them
00:31:46getting along so well
00:31:47because it worried me
00:31:48in the beginning
00:31:48that it would ever
00:31:49work out like this.
00:31:52There's Allison.
00:31:54Yeah,
00:31:55she's right beside us here.
00:31:58What I didn't expect
00:32:00was Allison and I
00:32:01had a relationship
00:32:01to suffer a little bit.
00:32:03I don't know
00:32:03if Allison's like,
00:32:04you know,
00:32:05resentful
00:32:06since we're not
00:32:06spending as much time
00:32:07together,
00:32:08but I do know
00:32:09Allison doesn't like
00:32:10to play second fiddle
00:32:11to anybody.
00:32:13Oops.
00:32:18Allison,
00:32:19the kids should be here.
00:32:20Oh, yeah,
00:32:21there they are.
00:32:22Hey, guys.
00:32:24Bubba.
00:32:24Hi, Kruzy.
00:32:26What you doing?
00:32:27Good man.
00:32:28Kruz.
00:32:29Kruz.
00:32:30Kruz.
00:32:30Kruz.
00:32:30Kruz.
00:32:30Good man.
00:32:31Look, say hi,
00:32:32Hi, Allison.
00:32:33Hello.
00:32:33Hello.
00:32:34Hi, Amber.
00:32:35Hey, bud.
00:32:36You got your own buggy?
00:32:37Mm, what do you guys do?
00:32:39Since y'all were here,
00:32:40we thought we'd come
00:32:40do some shopping.
00:32:41Oh, yum-yums.
00:32:42What y'all shopping for,
00:32:43Annabelle?
00:32:44We're gonna get some fruit
00:32:45and some chicken adobo.
00:32:46Chicken adobo.
00:32:47I love chicken adobo.
00:32:49You're gonna have me over
00:32:51whenever you make that, right?
00:32:52Yeah, we're gonna make
00:32:54for everybody.
00:32:56We don't know what night yet.
00:32:57We'll let you know.
00:32:58Okay.
00:32:59I think we need that
00:33:00for pancit, babe,
00:33:01that stuff, the-
00:33:02Green pepper.
00:33:03The red pepper.
00:33:05Oh, did you get celery?
00:33:06We're not yet.
00:33:08I heard there's a little fight,
00:33:09Dad, with you and Annabelle.
00:33:11Something about you
00:33:11cheating or something?
00:33:16What's that about, Dad?
00:33:20I mean, y'all talk about it.
00:33:22Why are you bringing it up?
00:33:23Because I haven't heard
00:33:24about it.
00:33:25Annabelle told me
00:33:25at the spa.
00:33:27When Nicole came over
00:33:28that night,
00:33:29she was just saying
00:33:29a bunch of stuff.
00:33:31I mean, I had to tell
00:33:32Annabelle what she said
00:33:33in case we run into her.
00:33:35I mean, are you guys
00:33:36doing okay?
00:33:36That's kind of a big deal,
00:33:38especially for Annabelle
00:33:38just getting here.
00:33:40Yeah, I mean,
00:33:41we're doing really good,
00:33:42actually.
00:33:42I mean, we got through
00:33:43all that crap.
00:33:46Right?
00:33:47I think so.
00:33:50But no, everything's good.
00:33:51Do you need green onion
00:33:52for your stuff or not?
00:33:54Yeah, sure.
00:33:56Have you called Nicole
00:33:58about getting her stuff
00:33:59out of the shed?
00:34:01Oh.
00:34:04No, I haven't had time
00:34:06to deal with that either.
00:34:08If you're wanting Nicole
00:34:09out of the picture,
00:34:10I'd start...
00:34:10Well, I haven't
00:34:11talked about it.
00:34:12...prioritizing that.
00:34:15I didn't know that
00:34:16Nicole's stuck there.
00:34:20I forgot about it, babe.
00:34:23My ex-wife, Nicole,
00:34:24was recently moving.
00:34:25She reached out,
00:34:26asked for help
00:34:27getting her a storage unit.
00:34:29Well, you know,
00:34:30I happen to have
00:34:31a place on my property,
00:34:32so instead of helping her
00:34:34try to find one
00:34:35or pay for one,
00:34:36I was like,
00:34:36I can just use
00:34:37one on my property.
00:34:38But I thought
00:34:39it would be long gone
00:34:40before Annabelle got here,
00:34:42and, you know,
00:34:43it just kind of
00:34:44slipped my mind, honestly.
00:34:45And then when Allison
00:34:46brought it up,
00:34:47I'm like, oh, yeah,
00:34:48it's there.
00:34:49Crap.
00:34:49You know, now it looks
00:34:50like I've been
00:34:51trying to hide something.
00:34:53I tell her,
00:34:54come get it,
00:34:54or I'm getting rid of it.
00:34:57Okay, I want her stuff
00:34:59out today.
00:35:00You just call her right now.
00:35:07I'll just send her a text.
00:35:17I said, hey,
00:35:18you need to get the stuff
00:35:19out of my building today,
00:35:20or I'm going to be
00:35:20getting rid of it.
00:35:23Call me.
00:35:25You didn't actually mean that.
00:35:28All right.
00:35:29I mean, I will.
00:35:29I mean, that's,
00:35:30I've done told her
00:35:31a dozen times,
00:35:32so it's not like that.
00:35:33Because you let her
00:35:34walk all over you.
00:35:37My dad made a promise to me
00:35:39that he would prioritize me
00:35:41and that we would
00:35:42still see each other
00:35:43and do the things
00:35:43that we used to do
00:35:44or have done forever now,
00:35:45and I have to run into him
00:35:46in the grocery store.
00:35:48I'm enjoying, like,
00:35:50poking at them
00:35:51and starting arguments
00:35:52because she moved
00:35:54from the Philippines
00:35:54to be with my dad.
00:35:56I've really liked her so far,
00:35:58and I feel like
00:35:59he's not being truthful
00:36:00and she's not asking questions,
00:36:02and there's stuff
00:36:03that needs to be said
00:36:03and done, so.
00:36:07I mean, obviously,
00:36:08we know how Nicole
00:36:09does sometimes,
00:36:10and it just sounds like
00:36:11she's putting it off.
00:36:14I mean, she tells me
00:36:14she doesn't have a way
00:36:15to get it.
00:36:16She doesn't have a truck,
00:36:17doesn't have anybody
00:36:17to help her,
00:36:19blah, blah, blah.
00:36:20But I mean...
00:36:21You're listening to all
00:36:21of her excuses.
00:36:22This has always been on her.
00:36:24You protect her
00:36:25for no reason.
00:36:26I'm still...
00:36:26I mean, I'm gonna run into her,
00:36:28so, I mean,
00:36:28I want to stay halfway
00:36:29cordial with her.
00:36:30You still love her, I guess?
00:36:33Still love Nicole?
00:36:34No, baby, of course
00:36:35I don't still love Nicole.
00:36:38There's nothing going on
00:36:39with me and Nicole,
00:36:40and there's no love.
00:36:41It's just, I mean,
00:36:42I'm gonna run into her
00:36:43and stuff.
00:36:51And I want Nicole's
00:36:53stuff out today.
00:36:59And I feel...
00:37:02I feel annoying
00:37:04about Allison said
00:37:05that she still have
00:37:07soft spot
00:37:08and maybe feelings.
00:37:10I don't know.
00:37:11And, of course,
00:37:12it's a problem for me.
00:37:14I want to find out
00:37:16what is the truth.
00:37:18You always break
00:37:19crap like that up.
00:37:20Well, I don't mean why.
00:37:22Because she needs
00:37:24to know these things.
00:37:24I know, but, I mean,
00:37:26you need to get
00:37:26it from her.
00:37:27Well, you're not gonna do it.
00:37:29Just chill out about it.
00:37:31Because it's like
00:37:33hard on me, you know?
00:37:34How are you just
00:37:35gonna avoid it?
00:37:41Oh, my God, guys.
00:37:43You saw my apartment,
00:37:45like, instead of couch,
00:37:46we have a bed.
00:37:48Thomas and I,
00:37:49we are super disconnected.
00:37:51I love him,
00:37:52but I love myself more.
00:37:55I don't want to come here
00:37:56and live like a homeless.
00:37:59One day, I will be like,
00:38:01you know what?
00:38:04And go back to Brazil,
00:38:06really.
00:38:23You see this?
00:38:25What is the memory
00:38:26that you think about
00:38:27when you see this?
00:38:29Like a spoon?
00:38:30Bad investment.
00:38:31My first thought
00:38:32is this was a bad investment.
00:38:44Every time I see
00:38:46this tiny spoon
00:38:47and tiny forks
00:38:49and tiny dishes,
00:38:50I remember
00:38:51how warm and cozy
00:38:52can be a family,
00:38:54can be cooking together.
00:38:56Sometimes I cry.
00:38:59Okay.
00:39:01Because I am manifesting
00:39:02so bad
00:39:03and so with
00:39:05so much intention.
00:39:07You're just saying
00:39:07you're thinking
00:39:08really hard about stuff
00:39:09and it's coming true.
00:39:11Yeah, because I'm
00:39:12paying the bills.
00:39:14So when you're
00:39:15spending money
00:39:15on this stuff,
00:39:16that's less money
00:39:16we have to pay the bills.
00:39:18You don't pay bills
00:39:19with 90 cents, Thomas.
00:39:21So, come on.
00:39:22It adds up.
00:39:23You've been miserable.
00:39:24It adds up.
00:39:25It adds up.
00:39:27I mean, look at this.
00:39:29There's a whole pile
00:39:30of stuff
00:39:31that's been arriving
00:39:31all week.
00:39:32What is this stuff?
00:39:34Thomas, these stuff
00:39:35are some things
00:39:36that we actually need here
00:39:38because this is not
00:39:39a hotel room.
00:39:41This is a real house.
00:39:44I gave Paula a credit card.
00:39:45I trusted her
00:39:46to be sensible with it
00:39:48and I feel like
00:39:51she's abusing
00:39:51my trust a little bit.
00:39:54What do you think
00:39:54is in here?
00:39:55If you had a guess,
00:39:56what do you think this is?
00:39:56I think he...
00:39:59I don't remember.
00:40:05Jesus.
00:40:06Are you kidding me?
00:40:07Did you really buy this?
00:40:09This is the most ridiculous
00:40:11thing I've ever seen.
00:40:12A tiny couch?
00:40:15Why are you smiling?
00:40:17They're so adorable.
00:40:19I want this to manifest
00:40:20the real one.
00:40:23Oh, my God.
00:40:25It's so beautiful.
00:40:26If we get to keep
00:40:27this couch instead
00:40:27of getting a real couch,
00:40:28I'll be happy.
00:40:29That's the deal
00:40:30I'll make for this.
00:40:32Are you not worried
00:40:33about the money
00:40:33you're spending?
00:40:34No.
00:40:35Oh, my God.
00:40:37Thomas, look at that.
00:40:38How much money
00:40:39did you spend on this?
00:40:40It was on clearance.
00:40:43It was not on clearance!
00:40:45You're lying to me!
00:40:46I'm really trying to understand
00:40:48what is the cause
00:40:49because it is not about money.
00:40:51I think he's gonna
00:40:53want to commit with this
00:40:55with me.
00:40:56I don't know.
00:40:57Like, I don't feel
00:40:58like I'm welcome.
00:40:59Any money that you can save,
00:41:00I'll consider buying
00:41:01maybe a piece of furniture.
00:41:15Oh, it was Felix Anderson.
00:41:16Tell him I said hi.
00:41:17Okay.
00:41:20I have two neighbors,
00:41:22Felix and Anderson.
00:41:23The first time
00:41:24that I met them,
00:41:25the doorman
00:41:26from my building
00:41:27said,
00:41:27hey,
00:41:27there's another Brazilian
00:41:29living here.
00:41:29And they are so adorable
00:41:32and we became friends
00:41:34and we are building
00:41:35a very cool friendship.
00:41:39Surprise!
00:41:40Hi!
00:41:41Hi!
00:41:43How are you?
00:41:44Nice seeing you.
00:41:45I'm fine.
00:41:46How about you?
00:41:46Welcome.
00:41:47Everything good.
00:41:47Well, I smell so good here.
00:41:49What you guys are doing.
00:41:49Oh, really?
00:41:50Yes.
00:41:52Awesome.
00:41:52There's a Virgo house, too.
00:41:54Virgo's in a...
00:41:55Yeah.
00:41:55Virgo house,
00:41:56but doesn't work with me
00:41:57because Thomas is also Virgo.
00:41:58He is?
00:41:59He is there?
00:42:00Yeah.
00:42:00Oh, my goodness.
00:42:01And look here.
00:42:02It's so clean and organized.
00:42:04Come in.
00:42:06Oh, my God, guys.
00:42:08It's so nice here.
00:42:11Wow, it's amazing, guys.
00:42:12My God.
00:42:13You saw my apartment, like,
00:42:15instead of couch, we have a bed.
00:42:18And also, instead of table like this,
00:42:21a dinner table,
00:42:22we have a camping table that he bought.
00:42:24Camping table?
00:42:25Camping table.
00:42:25And we eat sitting in yoga blocks.
00:42:30It's, like, very embarrassing,
00:42:31the position.
00:42:32I am like this and, you know,
00:42:34eating in a tiny table.
00:42:36So see something like this?
00:42:37I love it.
00:42:39I would throw everything away
00:42:41if I was Paula.
00:42:42I'm sorry.
00:42:44In my opinion,
00:42:46Toma is a little...
00:42:48challenging.
00:42:49Yes.
00:42:51He's a very nice guy,
00:42:52but now she can see
00:42:54they have a lot of problems.
00:42:56Problems they need to resolve
00:42:58because they will be married.
00:43:01I'm sorry.
00:43:03I'm sorry to vent.
00:43:03No, it's fine.
00:43:04You guys are so nice to me
00:43:06because, you know,
00:43:08it's hard to process the feeling.
00:43:10In Brazil, I work it so hard,
00:43:12and I don't want to come here
00:43:14and live like a homeless, you know?
00:43:16It's, it's,
00:43:17it looks like I'm camping
00:43:19inside my old apartment.
00:43:21Sometimes I forgot who I am.
00:43:23Like, I have printed on my body,
00:43:25like, my mentalization words,
00:43:28like, boss and power.
00:43:31And sometimes I think
00:43:32I'm being too nice
00:43:33because I deal with this
00:43:35before in old relationships,
00:43:37like, being the person
00:43:38that always accepts everything,
00:43:41and it ended bad.
00:43:46I was married before,
00:43:48many, many years ago.
00:43:49I got divorced
00:43:50because I know what I want
00:43:52in my life,
00:43:53and mainly I know
00:43:54what I don't want.
00:43:56Thomas and I,
00:43:56we are super disconnected.
00:43:58I love him,
00:44:00but I love myself more,
00:44:02and I don't need to be
00:44:04begging for something
00:44:05so usual and normal for me.
00:44:08All this is about
00:44:10what do you want.
00:44:11I don't want to live
00:44:13like a refugee
00:44:14inside my own apartment.
00:44:17If he don't be more open
00:44:20to talk about this
00:44:21and make any progress,
00:44:23one day I will be, like, pissed,
00:44:26and I'll say,
00:44:27okay, you know what?
00:44:30and go back to Brazil, really.
00:44:41Oh, it's hot.
00:44:44So, what is this?
00:44:46Oh, this is a fan.
00:44:50You'll be wanting one of these.
00:44:53They feel good, don't they?
00:44:55You sure do.
00:44:56Ha, ha, ha.
00:45:05Your mom was looking
00:45:06so mean at me.
00:45:08What?
00:45:09You didn't notice
00:45:09when she was at the table.
00:45:11She was frowning at me.
00:45:13See?
00:45:14After correcting you
00:45:15in the morning
00:45:15about how to address
00:45:17my parents,
00:45:18we went on to say,
00:45:19hey, dad, hey, mom.
00:45:21Quit addressing them
00:45:22that way, please.
00:45:24They're not gonna tell you,
00:45:25but they'll keep observing.
00:45:27That's what I'm trying to,
00:45:28you know, put you in place.
00:45:31It's simple.
00:45:33Is it?
00:45:34Mm-hmm.
00:45:36The first time I met them,
00:45:39like, I'm calling them mom and dad.
00:45:41And so why didn't he tell me
00:45:42to greet them a certain way
00:45:44the first time?
00:45:46Now, this is the second time
00:45:47we're hanging out,
00:45:48and now all of a sudden
00:45:49there's something new.
00:45:51That's crazy to me.
00:45:52I've seen you.
00:45:53I've already spoken.
00:45:54I'm like, enough already.
00:45:56Are you dating your family
00:45:57or are you dating me?
00:46:00You're dating me and my family.
00:46:02Sweetie, that's not true.
00:46:03That's not biblical.
00:46:05Had the visa got approved,
00:46:06you would have already been in the U.S.
00:46:07and you wouldn't have been worried
00:46:08how they felt, correct?
00:46:10All of a sudden, you worried.
00:46:13Because you are here.
00:46:15Right.
00:46:15I don't want all those advice.
00:46:17You're making a mistake.
00:46:18Is this right?
00:46:19Is this this?
00:46:20They should have been worried
00:46:21about that the first time I came
00:46:22and the second time I came,
00:46:23not the third.
00:46:25But then I'm thinking about
00:46:27decision for the fiancee
00:46:28because it might be a sign.
00:46:32Say what now?
00:46:34Are you sure God really wants us
00:46:36to be married?
00:46:39You changed your mind?
00:46:43You confused?
00:46:46A little bit.
00:46:47You ought to be shaming yourself.
00:46:50You letting other folks
00:46:51help you make a decision.
00:46:52But I thought that you
00:46:53wouldn't like that.
00:46:54You make decisions for yourself.
00:46:56I do.
00:46:56I do.
00:46:57No, you don't.
00:47:00If your mom doesn't support
00:47:02me getting married,
00:47:03you don't want me.
00:47:04Sweetie, she would only say no
00:47:05if it was a reason.
00:47:06Like being abusive
00:47:07or cheap.
00:47:09My parents would only say no
00:47:10if there was a reason
00:47:12you being disrespectful to them.
00:47:14No.
00:47:14You know?
00:47:14They might just have
00:47:15a misunderstanding.
00:47:17What kind of misunderstanding?
00:47:18I don't know.
00:47:19Just a misunderstanding.
00:47:19That's why you should
00:47:20learn the culture.
00:47:21Sweetie, quit yelling at me.
00:47:22I think I need to yell
00:47:23so that it will stick
00:47:24in your head
00:47:25because it's not sticking.
00:47:26You keep on.
00:47:26You're going to get me
00:47:27and you in trouble.
00:47:28Don't worry.
00:47:30This is absolutely
00:47:31not the man
00:47:32I fell in love with.
00:47:33Never has Maxwell
00:47:34raised his voice
00:47:35at me like this.
00:47:36And it's very disappointing
00:47:38that not only
00:47:39is he questioning
00:47:40the relationship
00:47:41but to me
00:47:41it's as if he's
00:47:42questioning God.
00:47:43Like our whole relationship
00:47:45is built on God.
00:47:47So the fact that
00:47:48he's let his family
00:47:49come in
00:47:50and caused him
00:47:51a waiver
00:47:51in what he believes
00:47:53is very hurtful.
00:47:54And it really never
00:47:55crossed my mind
00:47:57that I could be
00:47:58going home single.
00:48:23Okay?
00:48:25Yeah.
00:48:34I am glad
00:48:36we are here, babe.
00:48:37Yeah, I know.
00:48:38Me too.
00:48:39I'm glad we're all
00:48:40still here.
00:48:41Thanks, God.
00:48:45We can open music?
00:48:47No.
00:48:49No.
00:48:50No.
00:48:59Come on.
00:49:04Oh, my God.
00:49:11I am very excited
00:49:13about this
00:49:14bidet wedding.
00:49:15Bidet?
00:49:16Bidet.
00:49:16Yeah, bidet.
00:49:17We'll see what
00:49:18the price is
00:49:19and everything
00:49:20and see how,
00:49:21you know,
00:49:21what we're going
00:49:21to be looking at.
00:49:25Uh...
00:49:25Never mind, babe.
00:49:26I don't want to say.
00:49:27Tell me.
00:49:29Yeah.
00:49:30This is for me
00:49:31very hard.
00:49:31I don't have money.
00:49:33I know.
00:49:34I know it's hard for you.
00:49:35Yeah.
00:49:37I just, you know,
00:49:38we have a wedding
00:49:38coming up.
00:49:39I think, you know,
00:49:40sometimes I just get
00:49:41really stressed out
00:49:42about money
00:49:42and you know that.
00:49:47Raj doesn't really
00:49:48have any experience
00:49:49living on his own
00:49:51and paying a mortgage
00:49:53because in his culture,
00:49:55it's normal
00:49:56to still be
00:49:57living at home,
00:49:59you know,
00:49:59well in your 20s.
00:50:01All right, ready?
00:50:03Yeah.
00:50:04You know,
00:50:04I really don't think
00:50:05he understands
00:50:06the amount of money
00:50:07I pay every month
00:50:09to keep a roof
00:50:10over our heads.
00:50:11And now,
00:50:12I have an extra mouth
00:50:13to feed
00:50:14and an extra
00:50:16butthole to clean.
00:50:22First lady.
00:50:23Ooh.
00:50:24Wow.
00:50:25I can't afford
00:50:26anything in here.
00:50:28Wow.
00:50:28Very fancy.
00:50:30Yeah.
00:50:31Hi.
00:50:31Hi.
00:50:32Good morning.
00:50:33Good morning.
00:50:33I'm Heather.
00:50:34Mallory, nice to meet you.
00:50:35Very nice to meet you.
00:50:36Hi, nice to meet you.
00:50:37Nice to meet you too.
00:50:38So what are you guys
00:50:39in for?
00:50:40He's from Turkey
00:50:41and nice.
00:50:42Everyone in Turkey
00:50:43has a bidet.
00:50:45They do.
00:50:46They do.
00:50:47Yeah.
00:50:47Yeah.
00:50:47So that's what we're
00:50:48looking for.
00:50:49All right,
00:50:49so we have a few
00:50:50different options
00:50:50that we can show you guys.
00:50:52This one is fantastic,
00:50:53so we can just kind of
00:50:54show you a little
00:50:55features about it.
00:50:56Okay.
00:50:57First of all,
00:50:58it's got a very nice
00:50:59warm seat
00:51:00for your bum.
00:51:01It has a rear wash.
00:51:02Okay.
00:51:03It has a front wash,
00:51:05females.
00:51:06Oh.
00:51:06And you can feel
00:51:07it's got a pretty
00:51:09powerful...
00:51:09Oh, my God.
00:51:10Right?
00:51:11If we have some
00:51:12stubborn things
00:51:13that we need to take
00:51:14care of,
00:51:14we've got a little
00:51:15pulsating action
00:51:16going on.
00:51:19Right?
00:51:20Wow.
00:51:21I like...
00:51:21This is how much...
00:51:23So this one's
00:51:24going to run
00:51:24about $1,100.
00:51:27That's a lot.
00:51:28Wow.
00:51:28Yeah.
00:51:30If, you know,
00:51:31price might be
00:51:32a little part
00:51:33of the equation.
00:51:34This one is going
00:51:35to be in that
00:51:36$800 price range.
00:51:38It's going to
00:51:38do its thing.
00:51:40Same thing.
00:51:42Ah.
00:51:44I don't want to be...
00:51:45I am sorry,
00:51:46horny, like...
00:51:47Stop!
00:51:49Hey, no judging here.
00:51:51No judging here.
00:51:53We have a working
00:51:54one in our showroom
00:51:55that I want you
00:51:56to use before you leave.
00:51:56Okay, okay.
00:51:57Okay?
00:52:00Yes.
00:52:01Would you like to try it?
00:52:02Yeah, I'd love to.
00:52:05Oh, my God.
00:52:06And I'll let you go in
00:52:07and do the honors.
00:52:08Yeah.
00:52:11Oh, my God.
00:52:15You stay here?
00:52:16Yeah.
00:52:18My ass
00:52:18hot, baby.
00:52:20Does that feel good?
00:52:20You want more?
00:52:21More.
00:52:22Oh!
00:52:26Your golden throne
00:52:27opens up as you walk.
00:52:29When toilet see me
00:52:31open,
00:52:32welcome, Rashid.
00:52:34You're
00:52:35my mouth.
00:52:36Come on.
00:52:37You don't need to be
00:52:38sitting on the toilet
00:52:38all day long.
00:52:40Lord, have mercy.
00:52:42Toilet do everything.
00:52:43Dry,
00:52:44hot water,
00:52:45cold water,
00:52:46wash,
00:52:47but so expensive.
00:52:49It's expensive.
00:52:50And let's be realistic.
00:52:51His ass ain't worth
00:52:52that much money.
00:52:53No, I need...
00:52:54You don't need it.
00:52:55You want it.
00:52:56There's a difference.
00:52:59Yes, I want.
00:53:01Okay.
00:53:03Baby, I love this.
00:53:05Maybe we need to also
00:53:06look at, like,
00:53:06cheaper ones.
00:53:08Do we really need
00:53:08something so fancy?
00:53:09Yes, baby.
00:53:11It's not a necessity, though.
00:53:12No, baby.
00:53:13You can use toilet paper.
00:53:15I know you want,
00:53:16but you're not
00:53:17the one paying for it.
00:53:19$800 is a lot of money.
00:53:21I need you to understand
00:53:22that this is not a priority.
00:53:34No, I'm not.
00:53:37I did get an insurance
00:53:39settlement from the car accident.
00:53:41It's not like I'm
00:53:42some multimillionaire.
00:53:43I wish.
00:53:45But in my mind,
00:53:47that money doesn't exist.
00:53:48That money is in
00:53:49a brokerage account
00:53:50that I can barely access
00:53:52for a reason.
00:53:53Because if I would have
00:53:54easy access to that money,
00:53:56I would spend it.
00:53:57Honestly.
00:53:58Any normal person would.
00:54:00And it really
00:54:02irritates me
00:54:03and gets under my skin
00:54:04that he thinks
00:54:05this is just
00:54:06money that we can blow
00:54:08on stupid...
00:54:13I'm not touching
00:54:14that money
00:54:14unless there's
00:54:15an emergency.
00:54:16We don't have easy access
00:54:17to it.
00:54:18So I am not special.
00:54:18You know,
00:54:19I left my country
00:54:20for you.
00:54:21I don't have money.
00:54:22I don't have a car.
00:54:24Watch that finger.
00:54:26I'm not paying
00:54:27$800
00:54:28for something
00:54:29that my hand can do.
00:54:31That's my money
00:54:32and I want to be able
00:54:33to build a future
00:54:34for myself on it.
00:54:35And if he's
00:54:36in that future,
00:54:37then great.
00:54:38But if things
00:54:39don't work out
00:54:40between us,
00:54:41I don't want to be
00:54:42broke with no money
00:54:44and no man.
00:54:46Like, damn.
00:54:47You don't listen.
00:54:48What?
00:54:48It's a bidet.
00:54:53I hate to be
00:54:54the one to tell you,
00:54:55but the last four years,
00:54:57like,
00:54:57y'all have been engaged
00:54:58and they've also
00:54:59been hanging out.
00:55:02I've heard him,
00:55:03like, tell her,
00:55:03like, he loves her
00:55:05I love Shay,
00:55:07but he stabbed my back.
00:55:09He's lying to me
00:55:11for four years.
00:55:13I can't marry this man.
00:55:32I can't marry this man.
00:55:37I can't marry this man.
00:55:42Oh, my God.
00:55:44Oh, my God.
00:55:45Oh, my God.
00:55:50Sweet.
00:55:51I just wanted,
00:55:52just wanted me to...
00:55:53Let's stop here a little bit.
00:55:55I'm thirsty.
00:55:57Whew!
00:55:58That was a lot.
00:55:58I love it.
00:56:00Want some water?
00:56:01Do you want to get an ice cream?
00:56:03I want to get a sorbet.
00:56:04Very vegan.
00:56:09Do you believe this is vegan?
00:56:14Mm-hmm.
00:56:15I'm just licking.
00:56:17Mm.
00:56:19Since the argument with Thomas a few days ago,
00:56:22we had a little bit of progress.
00:56:25He gave me a little bit closet,
00:56:27but I still have the feeling that I'm a guest in his life
00:56:31because everything for Thomas is his way or no way.
00:56:36And this is scary.
00:56:39Flomilio, I just arrived here,
00:56:42and I just want to figure out my life.
00:56:45We got a lot of stuff to figure out
00:56:46now that we're living under the same roof.
00:56:49I 100% want to support you,
00:56:51but we got to be a team.
00:56:53Okay.
00:56:54I'm 100% sure
00:56:57that I don't want you to pay my stuff forever.
00:57:01This is just the beginning.
00:57:02I just want to have control 100% of my life,
00:57:06and there are some things
00:57:07that I really want to make happen,
00:57:10for example...
00:57:11Mm-hmm.
00:57:12About the furniture, about our apartment,
00:57:16and I don't like that tiny closet.
00:57:19For me, it is not fair, you know?
00:57:22I left Brazil saying
00:57:24that I want to have the same infrastructure
00:57:26that I have here,
00:57:28and I'm...
00:57:30I'm stick on that.
00:57:32I'm stick on that.
00:57:34I don't really get the sense that Paula
00:57:36really appreciates everything that I've done.
00:57:40First of all, I got her here,
00:57:42and that's not just buying a flight.
00:57:44That's doing the paperwork
00:57:46and all the fees that come along with it.
00:57:49I got her a credit card.
00:57:50I've already done a lot,
00:57:52and none of it just seems to be enough.
00:57:57I don't want to fight. I don't want to...
00:57:58Yeah, but you have way more stuff in Brazil.
00:58:00I know you have five closets in Brazil,
00:58:02and you use every single one of them.
00:58:04And when I visited you, you gave me five hangers.
00:58:08Because...
00:58:09You gave me five hangers,
00:58:10and you gave me one drawer.
00:58:11You don't live there.
00:58:12Okay, you want to move there?
00:58:14But you have...
00:58:15Those closets are full.
00:58:17Okay, what is your point?
00:58:19My point is that your closets in Brazil are full,
00:58:23and your closet here is still empty.
00:58:26When it's full, we'll talk about it.
00:58:27Give it to your dog.
00:58:28Fill it up first.
00:58:29I'm just saying, fill up the closet.
00:58:32If you have that much stuff,
00:58:33if you insist, I'll go back to Brazil.
00:58:35If you insist, I'll go back to Brazil.
00:58:36Wait, wait, wait.
00:58:36Okay, hold on a second.
00:58:37Go back to Brazil?
00:58:38Come on.
00:58:40Stop.
00:58:40Come on, come on.
00:58:41One second, real quick.
00:58:43You always try to manipulate me and cover me.
00:58:47Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:58:47Stop with that.
00:58:50I'm thinking about to go back to Brazil,
00:58:52especially because it's so easy.
00:58:54I don't have any drama.
00:58:56I don't bag for anything.
00:58:58I'm fighting so much here.
00:59:00I'm tired.
00:59:02The only reason that I'm here in the United States
00:59:04is because of him.
00:59:06Well, I'm starting to wondering if love is enough.
00:59:09I'm not a little girl.
00:59:12I'm not shutting up my mouth anymore.
00:59:15I will go up to what I want, okay?
00:59:34Allison seemed a little bit upset.
00:59:37You know, I should be the one who will upset to you.
00:59:40You know why?
00:59:40Why are you upset?
00:59:43I need to know everything.
00:59:44I need to know the stuff in the shed of Nicole.
00:59:47Yes, I want to know.
00:59:50You want to go to the shed right now?
00:59:52Yes.
00:59:53Okay.
01:00:05How much of her stuff is in here?
01:00:07Babe, I don't know.
01:00:08I don't know what's in here.
01:00:09But I'll tell you in just a second.
01:00:12Whoops.
01:00:20You can get in there and look.
01:00:21Okay.
01:00:22A couple of tables and...
01:00:25This is all her stuff?
01:00:27I assume so.
01:00:27Or one of her kids, babe.
01:00:28I don't know.
01:00:30So call her right now and tell her to get...
01:00:33I'll call her in a little bit, babe.
01:00:35I told you.
01:00:36Call her.
01:00:38You know, I'm willing to move on, but only if all this stuff is gone.
01:00:46Okay.
01:00:46I'll go out here and call her and I'll be right back.
01:00:49I'll see if she'll answer.
01:00:52Shea and I were almost broke up a few years ago because hanging out with his ex, Nicole.
01:00:58And I always suspected that there's always something going on since then.
01:01:05Hello?
01:01:05Hello?
01:01:06So the fact he lied to me about her and about this, it's really upset to me.
01:01:13We have two months before getting married, but I don't know if I will continue because
01:01:18I keep finding out so many lies.
01:01:24Uh, I was wanting you to get this stuff out of this building.
01:01:30What about the table and stuff?
01:01:35All right.
01:01:35All right.
01:01:35Well, I'll get it taken care of.
01:01:38All right, bye.
01:01:49I got a hold of her.
01:01:51So the couch, I'm just going to take a few pictures from it, upload and put it on the internet.
01:01:57I'm going to try to sell it.
01:01:58And then you sell it and then she will come here to get the money?
01:02:01No, I'll send it to her through Cash App or something.
01:02:06You're still helping her, right?
01:02:09I mean, I'm getting what you want done.
01:02:11You want that empty.
01:02:13And I mean, helping her.
01:02:14Yeah, I want that empty.
01:02:15But if she doesn't want to come here to get that stuff.
01:02:17Well, if you call it helping, if you don't.
01:02:19Throw it in the dump.
01:02:23I will deal with it.
01:02:24I'll get it taken care of, okay?
01:02:26Just calm down.
01:02:34I have to talk to Alison because I trust her to tell the truth, but not him.
01:02:46She is a bitch, you know?
01:02:48He still keeps secret to me.
01:02:50And I've done all of this.
01:02:57Oh, hey.
01:02:58Alison.
01:02:59Yes, what you doing?
01:03:00Can I talk to you?
01:03:01Yeah, sure.
01:03:03Everything okay?
01:03:04No, I'm not okay.
01:03:06Because me and your dad were arguing about the stuff of Nicole.
01:03:13It seems like he don't want to let her go.
01:03:17Yeah.
01:03:19I hate to be the one to tell you, but the last four years, like,
01:03:23you all have been engaged and they've also been hanging out, you know?
01:03:28Mm-hmm.
01:03:30I mean, I know, like, she goes out on the boat with him sometimes,
01:03:33and they text sometimes, and I mean, he invites her to the bar sometimes.
01:03:40He told me that he's with his friends, some old friends, but I didn't know that Nicole is there.
01:03:46Yeah, it's because he would turn the camera to what he wanted you to see.
01:03:50Mm-hmm.
01:03:52I'd even ask my dad.
01:03:53I'd be like, what are you doing?
01:03:54You have a fiance.
01:03:55Like, why are you doing that?
01:03:58He's lying to me for four years.
01:04:03As much as I hate the fact that she's taken my dad away from me, I do feel bad for
01:04:07Annabelle.
01:04:08So I'm telling her the entire truth because she deserves the truth.
01:04:11Like, dad came home four years ago from the Philippines engaged,
01:04:14but it was like living double lives.
01:04:16Like, you're engaged in the Philippines, but you're acting single in America.
01:04:21If I figured out that I was being lied to by a man that had been engaged to me for
01:04:25four years,
01:04:26yeah, see ya.
01:04:31You see them holding hands together, or?
01:04:33I haven't seen them actually kiss or hold hands or anything.
01:04:37Like, he would talk about her body and smack her butt.
01:04:42I've heard him, like, tell her, like, he loves her.
01:04:49You heard that he say that I love Nicole?
01:04:52Yeah, I mean, he says I love you, like, I always love you.
01:05:03I can't do this anymore.
01:05:05I love Shay, but he stubbed my back.
01:05:09And I can't marry this man.
01:05:13He's a liar.
01:05:15I don't know.
01:05:24You know, at some point, you've got to put your foot down.
01:05:26What I find difficult is figuring out what's OCD and what's her being dramatic,
01:05:32because sometimes they look similar.
01:05:34Katie does need tough love.
01:05:37He's just kind of letting Katie roll over him.
01:05:39At some point, he doesn't need to stick up for himself.
01:05:42I want to go with the U.
01:05:44Katie.
01:05:46I need you to .
01:05:58I'm excited to show you New York because, like, even the drive-in is very cool,
01:06:02because you'll see the skylight.
01:06:03Like, you know, like the...
01:06:06The way?
01:06:07No, like all the buildings and stuff.
01:06:08Mm.
01:06:11It's going to be really cool for you.
01:06:12I want to see you then.
01:06:21First road trip together?
01:06:22Yes.
01:06:23Good.
01:06:25Want a graham cracker?
01:06:27Uh, no.
01:06:29I don't think so.
01:06:30Have you ever had a graham cracker?
01:06:31No?
01:06:32No, sounds good.
01:06:33Let me try.
01:06:34No.
01:06:35Now, no?
01:06:37Well, I'm not...
01:06:37I'm eating this one.
01:06:38Take one of these.
01:06:39Okay.
01:06:43Mm.
01:06:44This is very good.
01:06:45Okay.
01:06:47The first couple weeks here in America,
01:06:50I see a very different America that I was seeing in New York.
01:06:54Like, a very different sight.
01:06:58And, like, this is the day we go to New York City,
01:07:00because she worked in New York.
01:07:01She's going to be busy all day, and I'm going to be free.
01:07:05I'm going to be a tourist for the first time in my life, you know?
01:07:09Everybody want to be in New York, like, you know, like,
01:07:11New York, New York, New York.
01:07:13I'm very excited to see the city and everything.
01:07:16Like, you're going to be off on your own when I'm working,
01:07:18so, like, do you have money?
01:07:22Um, I think I have a couple hundred.
01:07:26Did you put it in your wallet?
01:07:27Uh, no.
01:07:28I need to buy it in a wallet.
01:07:29Well, honestly, with you.
01:07:30You don't have a wallet?
01:07:31No.
01:07:32So what do you keep all your things in?
01:07:34Um, this is the reason why I need to buy a wallet.
01:07:40Do you have a credit card at least?
01:07:41Like, how are you going to pay for things when I'm not with you?
01:07:43Cash.
01:07:44You don't have any cash.
01:07:47You forgot it at home.
01:07:50You have to think about these things, my love.
01:07:53It's not like I've been thinking, you know, like, it's exciting, you know, and I forget.
01:07:59What the hell are you thinking?
01:08:01How would you expect to be in a big city all alone with no money, no identification?
01:08:06I'm at work all day.
01:08:08I'm not able to, like, be there to help you.
01:08:10I don't think Edward is a planner.
01:08:12I think he kind of just flies by the seat of his pants.
01:08:14And what's most concerning for me is that I don't want to always have to worry, is Edward prepared for
01:08:20this scenario?
01:08:21Is Edward prepared for this trip?
01:08:22You know, it's annoying to me.
01:08:23And I don't want to have another child.
01:08:27I feel really bad about my behavior over the last couple of days because I feel like I've been kind
01:08:31of cold to you.
01:08:32And, like, you don't really deserve that.
01:08:34You're in a new country.
01:08:35You're experiencing new things.
01:08:36But these last few days have not been easy for me.
01:08:42I think one of the challenges with us is that we just live very, very, very different lifestyles in every
01:08:48aspect.
01:08:49You've really just seen me in Pennsylvania dealing with the children, which is essentially a full-time job.
01:08:56But, like, in New York, I'm also running a company.
01:09:01It's okay. I'm going to help you now.
01:09:05I think the biggest thing for me is not that you're necessarily going to help me with all my tasks.
01:09:11But I think the biggest thing that I'm hoping that you can do is really figure out how to be
01:09:17self-sufficient.
01:09:18You know? Like, I just, I don't have the bandwidth to take on one more thing to take care of.
01:09:26You know?
01:09:29Yeah, but to be honest with you, like...
01:09:31Say what you want. I've been really open with you, so you need to be open with me, too.
01:09:34Well, like, you need to, like, most of the time come down.
01:09:37Do you know why? Because, like, you decide to have the kind of life that you have.
01:09:44You live in two different cities at the same time, you know?
01:09:48You run a company.
01:09:51All the time you're going to be overwhelmed.
01:09:53All the time.
01:09:54Okay, Dad, I'm going to stop you.
01:09:55I didn't choose to get married to Michael and then get divorced.
01:10:00That was not my intention.
01:10:01The way that I had thought my life was going to be was that I would have a complete family
01:10:05with two parents, two incomes.
01:10:08And when we got divorced, like, my whole life flipped upside down and I had to, like, make sacrifices.
01:10:12And I chose to have kids, yes.
01:10:15And I will never regret that decision and, like, the responsibilities of the kids I'm never going to complain about.
01:10:19I'm not trying to say this.
01:10:21But you said, like, you chose this life.
01:10:24I just, the things that I just tried to say right now is, like, life's got to be tough, you
01:10:29know?
01:10:29It's a lot of inconvenience all the time. This is life.
01:10:31I get that, but these last couple of days I do feel a little bit, like, overwhelmed.
01:10:36Because I'm trying to settle in and trying to figure out how the **** I'm going to do everything that
01:10:41I do now
01:10:42and take on more expenses and another person to care for in my life.
01:10:47If you take like that, this is not going to work, you know?
01:10:55I don't think that Edward understands what my frustration is and how much pressure is on my shoulders.
01:11:01I've been upfront and honest with him, and his response has kind of just been,
01:11:06OK, well, we'll figure it out.
01:11:08But that is not an appropriate response to me telling him that I don't know if this arrangement is going
01:11:13to work out.
01:11:13If Edward doesn't start taking my concerns seriously, I'm going to really start wondering if I'm making the right decision.
01:11:22It's like, I have to make a decision if this is the right path for me.
01:11:28And this is a big leap of faith.
01:11:34It's not just you, like, I don't want to, like, make unsteak into you, you know?
01:11:44Asia is 38, and she could have been married years ago.
01:11:49I was surprised to hear that Asia is approximately 40.
01:11:55If they marry old age, they cannot take care of their children.
01:12:00Somebody married at the age of 38.
01:12:03The monopause is knocking at the door.
01:12:06It bothers me.
01:12:08I don't want Asia to be a problem for my son.
01:12:23You're going to get me at you in trouble. Don't worry.
01:12:25Make it hard, OK?
01:12:27Yeah, yeah.
01:12:27Make it difficult.
01:12:28Yeah, yeah.
01:12:29Sweetie, get up at this car.
01:12:36You have to behave yourself.
01:12:37Quit using the word behave.
01:12:39Yeah, you need to behave.
01:12:40I've got a child.
01:12:40You're acting like a child.
01:12:41No, no, you treat me like a child.
01:12:44Let's do this.
01:12:45Let's talk about it over there, OK?
01:12:48Yeah.
01:13:00That's pretty.
01:13:01That's nice.
01:13:02Which is pretty.
01:13:03That green.
01:13:03I like that color.
01:13:04That green?
01:13:05Mm-hmm.
01:13:06That's it.
01:13:09I feel like things are a little bit tense right now between me and Maxwell.
01:13:12So I'm super excited to go to the market.
01:13:15I just think this is going to be a great opportunity for us to get away from everybody.
01:13:19And then I can get a little retail therapy.
01:13:21Because I love to shop!
01:13:23And I definitely want like a few little African outfits, you know.
01:13:28And I've never been to the market in Africa.
01:13:32Maxwell does not like shopping.
01:13:34So it's kind of like a little treat, I guess.
01:13:36Because ordinarily, he wants no part of those markets.
01:13:44Oh, sweetie, you fan of me too hard now.
01:13:47All right now.
01:13:53This is gorgeous.
01:13:54You like it?
01:13:55Yeah, it's beautiful.
01:13:57You like it?
01:13:58Yeah.
01:13:59How much is it?
01:13:5930, so sorry.
01:14:01This is the one on the high side.
01:14:02Yes, I'm sorry.
01:14:03I'm telling you.
01:14:05I won't even give you 30.
01:14:06Should I give you 25?
01:14:08So that will go.
01:14:08Give me 20.
01:14:09No, 25.
01:14:11Please.
01:14:11Just because she likes it.
01:14:1325?
01:14:14Yeah.
01:14:15I feel like in the US, like the price is the price.
01:14:18Like, what are we asking for discounting?
01:14:20I guess unless something is damaged.
01:14:21To me, like, I'm looking at this top, and it's very intricate.
01:14:26It's a really nice garment.
01:14:28So, like, I'm almost ashamed that he's convincing these people to lower this price.
01:14:36But, you know, I'm kind of liking how Maxwell going back and forth, trying to get me what I want,
01:14:41give me these good prices.
01:14:42They look a little sexy on him.
01:14:45Sweetie, try to get something for your mom.
01:14:47What about a purse?
01:14:48Will she lock a purse?
01:14:50Okay.
01:14:52I'm looking for, like, a dark color.
01:14:54Let me see this.
01:14:57All right.
01:14:59I like that.
01:15:00It's a simple purse.
01:15:02You don't have one in the bag.
01:15:03No, this is okay.
01:15:04Just pack this.
01:15:05Let's go.
01:15:06I'm hot here already.
01:15:13Thank you, Mama.
01:15:15How are you working?
01:15:16Mm-hmm.
01:15:16Let me clear the table so that we can move on.
01:15:20Okay.
01:15:21I'm going to go to the living room.
01:15:23Okay.
01:15:24Today that Asia and Maxwell has gone out to have a good time with himself,
01:15:29this is the time for me to discuss with Juliet, the mummy of Asia.
01:15:35And I want to see a lot of things.
01:15:39Mm-hmm.
01:15:40Mama, how was your night?
01:15:42It was good.
01:15:43Did you sleep well?
01:15:45Yeah.
01:15:45It was good.
01:15:47Yeah.
01:15:47Do you know there's something that I was just thinking about since last night?
01:15:53You know that Asia was telling me that he would have to change Maxwell's eyes?
01:16:00Yes.
01:16:01Changing eyes, changing face.
01:16:02All those things are not good.
01:16:04It should be natural.
01:16:05Just like.
01:16:05Because God hates it.
01:16:07It's better living natural the way God created him.
01:16:09Mm.
01:16:10She just wanted skin smoother.
01:16:12That's all.
01:16:13She just wanted skin to look better.
01:16:17You know in Africa, women submit to husbands.
01:16:21Yes.
01:16:22That's right.
01:16:23Yeah.
01:16:23But you know when there is issue of money coming in because of maybe she can see herself
01:16:29that she has everything, I have this, I have that, I have money.
01:16:33Do you understand, Mama?
01:16:35I don't think Asia, just because she make money, I don't think that she'll try to push Maxwell
01:16:40around.
01:16:41Okay.
01:16:41I don't think she'll do that to him.
01:16:43Okay.
01:16:43Because, I mean, she could have found someone that really had money if she wanted it.
01:16:49Okay.
01:16:49Asia is 38 and she could have been married years ago.
01:16:55I was surprised to hear that Asia is approximately 40.
01:17:01Did you not know?
01:17:03I don't know.
01:17:05In the life of Maxwell, we want to see someone about 25 up to 30, 35.
01:17:1038?
01:17:13No.
01:17:17You know from 25 above, 30 is matured.
01:17:22If they marry old age, they cannot take care of their children in that old age.
01:17:30Is it a problem if a person is too old?
01:17:34Yeah.
01:17:34Or is it too old to get married?
01:17:36Yeah.
01:17:36There's a problem.
01:17:37When I'm married.
01:17:40People are mad at the age of 30, 19, 15.
01:17:45Somebody married at the age of 38.
01:17:47The monopause is looking at the door.
01:17:50And monopause too.
01:17:51That's why late marriage is not all that good.
01:17:54And some of them ended it not giving birth.
01:17:56Yeah.
01:17:57That's where I am afraid.
01:18:00Yeah.
01:18:03It bothers me.
01:18:05I don't want Asia to be a problem for my son.
01:18:10Maxwell and Asia will not go further to do what they plan to do.
01:18:16They will be mama.
01:18:24I don't want to go with the U.
01:18:26No.
01:18:28Katie.
01:18:30I am done with this bull.
01:18:32I'm not going to get married if I don't know that her head's in the right space.
01:18:37What am I doing wrong?
01:18:40I think you're...
01:18:55I am so glad you're not close to the bull's face today.
01:18:59I am meaning I am a bull's face today.
01:19:02Sounds right.
01:19:20Josh.
01:19:22How you doing?
01:19:23All right.
01:19:24How are you feeling, buddy?
01:19:25Just a bit surprised, maybe a little bit disappointed.
01:19:29I don't know.
01:19:31What's your take on what she's doing right now?
01:19:34I think it's up, but it's just complicated.
01:19:38I think that I'm putting it on myself to be patient and tolerant, trusting that underneath
01:19:46all the rubbish and all the silliness, Katie is actually the person I think she is.
01:19:53In my head, I'd try to wrap around what it would be like to be in your position, and I'd
01:20:00be furious.
01:20:01I'd be yanking her out of the bar.
01:20:02I'd be like, no, we're going home.
01:20:04We're going to have a talk right now.
01:20:06I mean, I am looking for reasons to excuse her because otherwise, what have I done?
01:20:12I've come here for what?
01:20:15I know that you're trying to be accepting, but it's okay to be mad.
01:20:20What I find difficult is figuring out what's OCD and what's being dramatic because sometimes
01:20:27they look similar.
01:20:28Okay.
01:20:29You know, there's just times where I worry about you, right?
01:20:33When it comes to how Katie's acting on a night like tonight, you know, you deserve to be
01:20:40respected as an individual and more as her fiance.
01:20:45You guys are engaged.
01:20:46You guys are planning on being married.
01:20:47Like, you know, at some point you got put your foot down.
01:20:53Josh is processing the whole situation in a way that I can't fully comprehend.
01:21:01I think it's because he's more worried about the blowback from expressing himself than the
01:21:07act of doing it.
01:21:10I don't know.
01:21:11There's just something about her.
01:21:12Just like, she's so good at winning people's hearts despite what she does.
01:21:18And that's kind of the issue, right, is she has that charm.
01:21:23And if you're always rolling over, she might just, like, continue going on with, you know,
01:21:30how she's living just because she thinks that's acceptable, right?
01:21:37What does that say about your relationship as a whole if you're married and she's, you know,
01:21:41still doing that a year from now?
01:21:44Yeah, I think you're right.
01:21:45I think I need to kind of get over this kind of, um, I don't know what it is, timidness,
01:21:50Britishness.
01:21:52Like, get it done before you're married, right?
01:21:57Katie does need tough love.
01:21:59She needs a firm hand.
01:22:00She needs, you know, I think Josh to be a manly man.
01:22:05He's just kind of letting Katie roll over him.
01:22:07At some point, he does need to stick up for himself.
01:22:10What are you doing?
01:22:11Oh, wait, no, I'm...
01:22:12I don't think I want to do you.
01:22:14No.
01:22:15Katie.
01:22:18No.
01:22:21Nuh-uh.
01:22:22You have a fiancé.
01:22:26I think Katie is a bit too drunk now.
01:22:28I think it might be time to call it.
01:22:33This is...
01:22:35She's tongue-like mom.
01:22:37What am I doing wrong?
01:22:39I think you're .
01:22:44Come on, let's go home.
01:22:46Babe.
01:22:47I am done with this bull .
01:22:50This is not the right start for any sort of a marriage that I want a part of.
01:22:59No.
01:23:01I need to have a conversation with Katie and say, I'm not going to get married if I don't
01:23:06know that her head's in the right space.
01:23:09You're in a committed relationship, Katie.
01:23:17Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:23:19It's not that hard to get around New York, but you have to pay attention.
01:23:24Only in New York.
01:23:27Wow.
01:23:27This is very impressive.
01:23:29Yo, it's a lot of people in the street, you know?
01:23:32Hi.
01:23:33Oh, my God.
01:23:33You feel like a DC, like, what the ?
01:23:38Wow!
01:23:41I don't know what you want from me.
01:23:42Just, like, we'll go shopping. That's fine.
01:23:45Like, I don't care.
01:23:46It is not about go shopping.
01:23:48I'm hurt.
01:23:49I just want to be hurt from him.
01:23:51That's everything that I need.
01:23:52I'm not asking for a furniture.
01:23:54I'm asking for a knowledge.
01:23:58I'm struggling.
01:24:03I want you to want me 100% with no doubt.
01:24:07I want peace between you and my family.
01:24:11You know I'm not disrespecting your family.
01:24:13You're not disres...
01:24:15Hush.
01:24:16Don't tell me to hush again.
01:24:25Hey.
01:24:25This is Aspen. This is Annabelle.
01:24:27I'm excited to meet you.
01:24:28If I was 21 years old, you would have never been here.
01:24:33Shay, I know he's drunk because he's flirting to women.
01:24:38I'm like, hell, I'll get your... you'll get your own island, buddy.
01:24:41If this is who really Shay is, I don't want to live my life like this.
01:24:52I wanted to just go over some of the bills.
01:24:54This is one month? Are you okay?
01:24:56Yeah. This is just from this month.
01:24:58The money issue is a big thing in our relationship.
01:25:02And in the future, it could get even worse.
01:25:04And that terrifies me.
01:25:06Just to protect myself, do you know what a prenup is?
01:25:17You're focused on breakup, I focus on merit.
01:25:22Okay, whatever. Enjoy your f***ing shop.
01:25:24Oh, f***ing...
01:25:25That's a bet on that bit.
01:25:28Too much for having fun in United States.
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