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90 Day Fiance UK - Season 2 - Episode 10: Will You Marry Me?
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00:03I'm flying around the world to marry a man that I've never met.
00:08I've never felt so comfortable with someone in my life.
00:11We're like the perfect match for each other.
00:14He is literally the love of my life.
00:17I'm getting married in about eight weeks time.
00:20I do feel like a bride in this.
00:23You look like me.
00:24He's coming over on the fiance visa.
00:26This is the start of the rest of our lives.
00:36He's still in there enjoying himself.
00:38Maybe we're not actually supposed to be in this relationship.
00:41It takes a certain kind of person to be okay with it.
00:44Chopping her breasts into somebody's face might remind me to another profession.
00:49It's all right for you to be touchy-feely with other girls.
00:51Bit of a double standard.
00:52Double standard, my balls.
00:55Clapton is a small town.
00:57How's your day then?
00:58What are you doing?
00:59Nothing.
01:00I'm missing Kenya.
01:01Maybe it's okay in Turkey.
01:03Careful of your voice.
01:04He was quite controlling on your birthday.
01:07I will be grinning.
01:09Yeah.
01:10Yeah.
01:11Yeah.
01:12Oh my god.
01:13I think I might be pregnant.
01:15Ah!
01:16Jose's got his English test on Tuesday.
01:18Excuse me, Christ.
01:19What are you going to do?
01:20Go back to Kenya?
01:21you.
01:22You know where to go is?
01:23I'm done.
01:24You're right.
01:25You're right.
01:27I've just landed in the Dominican Republic.
01:30I flew across the world to meet David and I expect to be treated like a princess.
01:35This restaurant is very nice but it's very expensive.
01:38Are we going to be able to do this often?
01:40Once, twice a month.
01:41I'm going to be out mostly all day to get more money.
01:44I have no friends, no family.
01:47It's not safe to leave the apartment and he's working majority of the day.
01:51What am I going to do?
01:53We're in England.
01:55Yeah, the sad weather country.
01:57It feels so alien.
01:58It's so different from home.
02:00Until I get a spouse visa, I can't work.
02:02This is my life now.
02:03I'm a bit worried about Marcy.
02:05She doesn't seem happy and I don't know what to do.
02:08What happened on that cruise ship?
02:10Nothing happened.
02:11You created this.
02:13This is a problem.
02:15Do you know how many people said to me,
02:16are you sure he doesn't have a different girl in every port?
02:19I don't see how we can get married like this.
02:21Will you marry me, baby?
02:22Of course I will, baby.
02:24Matt's parents don't know that I'm actually born biologically like a man.
02:31I hope one day they're finding out and they still love me.
02:36Yeah, I am in England now.
02:38Oh my God!
02:41This feeling I'm feeling right now is better than anything I've ever felt.
02:45We're starting our lives together.
03:08We've only got a few weeks left at the wedding and there's something really big weighing on my shoulders.
03:13Matt still hasn't told his parents about the whole secret of me and my true identity that I was born
03:18a boy.
03:19Hello?
03:20I don't know what to do and I just want to speak to my mum about things.
03:23Hi, love.
03:24You okay?
03:25I'm okay, thank you.
03:26How are you?
03:27I'm good.
03:28How are things going?
03:30Not too bad.
03:31A little bit stressful.
03:32Matt's parents still don't know about my gender.
03:35So why hasn't Matt told them?
03:37I think he doesn't want to break his parents' heart and I don't think he wants their perception of me
03:43to change.
03:44But I think we owe his parents the respect enough to tell them, especially before the wedding.
03:50They've obviously both given their blessing for this wedding, not knowing the truth.
03:56Yeah.
03:58He needs to talk to it.
03:59I think he'd be relieved once he told them.
04:01I'll be relieved.
04:03Yeah.
04:03Say if his mum FaceTimes me and I've got a little bit of stubble or something.
04:07I'm always panicked.
04:08Like when he goes, oh, my mum wants to speak to you and I'm like, I haven't shaved, babe.
04:12I look like shit.
04:13Like, I don't want to feel like that all the time.
04:15No, that must be horrible.
04:17I don't want to be stood with Matt in my wedding dress feeling like a fraud.
04:22If you don't tell them before the wedding, it's going to ruin your day.
04:27God knows what will happen afterwards when they do find out.
04:31What should be your happiest day ever?
04:34I don't think you'll enjoy knowing that they've not been told, they don't know.
04:38They've got to know Shane and they've got to know Sue.
04:41Yeah, I agree.
04:43If it were me and I'd give somebody my full blessing and found out I'd been misled or betrayed,
04:49I would be absolutely horrified.
04:53I'd be so, so angry.
04:56My mum feels very strongly that Matt is deceiving his parents
04:59and he's not being true and honest, which I wouldn't say he was deceiving them,
05:03but she's got a point.
05:05Matt does need to tell his parents.
05:06It's just a hard situation.
05:10Right, can I start having the invitations, please, babe?
05:14I need to start writing these out.
05:16Right, Auntie Sheila.
05:19Do you know what's just really sad looking through this list?
05:22That your parents aren't coming.
05:24I am sad for this because, er, wedding day, not my family here.
05:28Mm-hmm.
05:29Not with me.
05:31Something that's been playing on my mind for a long time
05:33that your parents still don't know about my gender.
05:36Why?
05:37Full rest back for your parents.
05:39Yeah, thank you, babe.
05:40I need a little bit of time.
05:42I don't want to hurt my family.
05:45I know, but...
05:46This is my family.
05:47I understand that.
05:48You live and stay in the UK.
05:49Yeah, I know.
05:50The UK don't have any problem for LGBT.
05:53But after with my country, always problem.
05:57I know it's hard, babe, but I wouldn't want to be in your situation.
06:00Yeah.
06:02It's more hard, this trend.
06:03No, I understand.
06:05If I tell my family, I tell.
06:09If not, not.
06:11I have thinking about this.
06:14My brain now, boom.
06:18Please, stop now.
06:20I swear.
06:22I can't make you tell them, but I think it's the right thing to do.
06:27I would think on it, but time's running out.
06:32I really don't know if Mert's going to tell his parents or not.
06:35I've said my piece.
06:37I've expressed to him how I feel, but now it's up to him.
06:40It's ultimately his decision.
06:43I know I need to speak with my family about Shane Chandler,
06:47but my parents loving Shane, my mom loving Shane more.
06:53I think if I tell my family about Shane Chandler,
06:59maybe my family not loving Shane anymore.
07:20I've been here for a few days.
07:23David is always working.
07:25I'm just sick of being cooped up.
07:27I really want to get out and see Sosua.
07:30Hello.
07:31I've been shopping.
07:32So today I have a plan.
07:34Oh my God.
07:36What have you got?
07:37Today I want to show Tion how beautiful Sosua is.
07:40I want to take her for a nice picnic.
07:42And I want to propose to Tion.
07:45I want to make a romantic scene for you.
07:48And I want to show you the bright sides as well.
07:51It's going to be exciting.
07:53And I hope to say yes.
07:56So where are we going then?
07:57Am I going to like it?
07:59Let's see.
08:00Me and surprises do not mix.
08:03Like, it just doesn't work.
08:05Tion, surprises, no.
08:21Oh, it's so hot.
08:23I'm hungry.
08:24And the sand is so hot.
08:25It's burning my feet.
08:27Let me sort this out.
08:29Mm-hmm.
08:29Fast.
08:30Bit of urgency with your eyes.
08:33Hey, compa.
08:34No sombrillas.
08:35Where are the sombrillas?
08:38Oh my God.
08:40They're so hot.
08:41No jodimos.
08:42He said that...
08:43We're not able to.
08:44They're...
08:45The umbrellas are only for the people in the hotel.
08:48So...
08:49My feet are burning.
08:51Uh...
08:51Yeah, I'll put them there.
08:52My feet are burning.
08:52I'm hungry.
08:54I'm getting angry.
08:56Don't worry.
08:56I'm going to pick you up.
08:58We can't get an umbrella.
09:00There's no shade.
09:01Why has he brought me to a place like this?
09:03I mean, look at the bright side.
09:04We can get a tan.
09:07Let's go.
09:09Tiong, I know the signs to help.
09:11But I put a lot of effort into this.
09:13Please try to enjoy.
09:15Ah, let's do it over here.
09:17Close to the water.
09:19What?
09:19So our food gets washed away?
09:22I bought everything that I think Tiong's gonna like.
09:26Let's...
09:26Let's eat.
09:27Let's start eating.
09:27Show me what you got.
09:28I got...
09:30How are we gonna cut that up?
09:38Oh, your favourite?
09:40Mmm.
09:40Pot of Chocolat.
09:42I don't like the pot of Chocolat in this country.
09:45Of course you can.
09:46Your very use.
09:48No sugar.
09:50Oh, for God's sake.
09:52It's almost like you don't look at things.
09:54Just pick them all.
09:56You're not doing very well.
09:58He hasn't even thought about plates, any knives.
10:02Any forks.
10:03It's almost like he needs me to be there to assist him.
10:09That's got pork in it.
10:10I don't eat pork.
10:14Do you have a pair of eyes?
10:16That's not good enough to be honest.
10:18Not good enough.
10:19You've got no knife.
10:21So you've got cheese that needs to be cut.
10:23You've got bread that needs to be cut.
10:25You've got mangoes that need to be cut.
10:27Yeah, this bread needs to be cut in half.
10:29Can't cook.
10:30And sliced.
10:31You haven't thought about this at all.
10:33I didn't know.
10:35No, no, no.
10:39It's...
10:42You're annoying.
10:44Look.
10:45The pack is full of sand.
10:48Listen.
10:50Listen to me.
10:51I was spending like a hundred pounds with this.
10:53But do you like it?
10:54Don't you think it's cute?
10:55I love it.
10:56Look, the wind is literally...
10:59And the sand combines.
11:01You have sand all over your hands.
11:03You're then going to touch food.
11:05It's going to be contaminated.
11:06It's not hygienic, honestly.
11:09I'm so hungry.
11:11And there's, like, sand in the food.
11:13It's just not good enough.
11:14Like, it's really annoying.
11:15All right, fine.
11:16Shh, shh, shh, shh.
11:17No matter.
11:18Don't tell me to shush.
11:19I didn't...
11:22I didn't tell you to shh.
11:24You did, though, but okay.
11:27I honestly think we should just leave.
11:29Call it a day.
11:30Forget about it.
11:32All right.
11:32At least I heard you.
11:33Okay, we're both getting hungry.
11:34Let's go.
11:35Let's go.
11:35How about that?
11:36Fine.
11:36I'm trying really hard to impress the young,
11:39but maybe it's not a good idea to propose.
11:41I can't believe you brought zero sugar.
11:43Because she is being moody.
11:46Come on, let's ramp it up.
11:48Maybe in the future, but not right now.
11:50There's no way.
11:53Oh, my God.
11:54My feet are burning.
11:57That was a failure.
12:09The only is very angry about the whole picnic situation.
12:13Plan B, we're going to the restaurant.
12:16I'm absolutely starving.
12:18I'm full-on hungry.
12:20I've had enough of his rubbish, and I need food.
12:25Where's the food?
12:26I'm getting hungry.
12:27It's coming.
12:28How long?
12:30What the fuck?
12:32I'm being very patient.
12:39Do you like the fish?
12:41Not really.
12:42It's really salty.
12:43And there's mashed potatoes.
12:44It's really cold.
12:46You have high standards when it comes to food?
12:48I wouldn't say I have high standards.
12:50It's just that in the UK they do things a lot differently.
12:53I heard the food is not that good in the UK, so...
12:57Right.
12:58Well, I mean, you've never been there before.
13:00So, you know, once you're able to visit, you can make an informed decision.
13:05David should not criticise the food that we have in the UK, because he's never been there before.
13:11And his taste buds, quite frankly, they're limited.
13:14So, who is he to judge?
13:16He should just keep his mouth shut.
13:18Sorry.
13:41Hello.
13:42How are you, bud?
13:44Yeah, I'm good.
13:46Don't sound very good.
13:47Yeah, I'm fine.
13:49What are we having for dinner?
13:50I'll pick something up on the way home.
13:52Oh, OK.
13:53That's good.
13:54See you then.
13:55All right.
13:56I'll be home in a bit, all right?
13:57Love you.
13:58Bye, love you.
14:01Since coming to England with me, Marcie's been a bit quiet and subdued.
14:06How are you?
14:07Yeah, I'm good.
14:07How are you?
14:08Yeah, I've got some dinner.
14:10Michael and I got married in Kenya, but it was not official.
14:13I got my wedding day coming in a few days.
14:16But I'm missing home, I'm missing my friends.
14:19I hope I can get used to life in the UK.
14:23Chips again.
14:24One thing that I hate about England is their greasy food.
14:28And we could just put in chips.
14:30I just don't like it.
14:32I thought you liked chips.
14:33Yeah, but every time chips, chips, I'm trying to hate Eldian.
14:37What do you want now?
14:38I couldn't whip something out of thin air, could I?
14:41Me and Michael have been arguing a lot.
14:43It's because England does not feel like home yet.
14:46You all right now?
14:48Yeah, I'm just, I don't know.
14:50I'm just not happy, I don't know.
14:52What do you mean not happy?
14:53I think I'm just getting lonelier.
14:56There's nothing I'm doing.
14:57The weather's not even that good.
15:01And, yeah, just everything is just making me miserable, I guess.
15:04That's why.
15:05Yeah, but it's the winter.
15:06You knew it was going to be like this.
15:08I also just miss my friends, I miss my work.
15:11I just miss my life.
15:13It's me doing my thing.
15:15As much as I want to make friends, as much as I want to do something,
15:19I don't know where to start.
15:20I don't know if you understand me.
15:23I don't know, sometimes I think I made the wrong decision or something.
15:28I've been all this far.
15:29Taking this.
15:32What do you mean make a mistake?
15:33Make a mistake coming over here?
15:34I don't know.
15:38You're saying you think you made a mistake?
15:40Yes, I think you just...
15:41You know how much that makes me feel?
15:53I'm sorry.
16:02It's like so hurtful and, like, disappointing as well,
16:07because I love her to bits.
16:09And to find out that she doesn't even know she wants to be here,
16:12it's just heartbreaking.
16:13MUSIC PLAYS
16:38I've been pushing Matt to tell his family about me and my gender,
16:41and he told me that it was going to be today,
16:43but whether he actually does it or not, I don't know.
16:46It's up to him.
16:49I'm scared if I tell my mum about Shane's gender.
16:54Maybe I've broken my mum's heart.
16:56Maybe I'm losing my family.
16:59But I can't wait anymore.
17:01I need to speak right now with my mum
17:04for respect my mum and for respect Shane.
17:08MUSIC PLAYS
17:11了吧
17:14......eterser
17:19.
17:21. .
17:36.
17:37.
17:57What do you think?
18:06What do you think?
18:10I'm sorry.
18:11I'm sorry.
18:13Why did you say something?
18:16I didn't say anything.
18:17I didn't say anything.
18:18But when I was a year old, I said,
18:20You're your mother.
18:22You're your mother.
18:23You're your mother.
18:24You're your mother.
18:25Why are you crying?
18:38How do you say it?
18:39I ask myself.
18:42How do you feel?
18:43I'm sorry.
18:43I'm sorry.
18:43How do I say it for you?
18:48How do you say it for me?
18:50Osu?
18:51I live with all my family.
18:53And I love you.
18:55You don't see that.
18:55You make assessments to be not okay anymore.
18:59Even for nothing.
19:10Oh my God, I thought she shocked first shot and told me if you okay with this I respect
19:23I'm just so relieved there's a massive weight off my shoulders because I've cried myself to sleep many
19:27of times thinking I don't want to pull this family apart I don't want to be the reason
19:33that you lose your family I'm so proud of you
19:38you risked everything for me you've come to england and you've changed your whole life
19:43you risked not having a family if you put all that on the line for me so thank you from
19:47from
19:49all of me happy day i think you forget sometimes how brave you are i must care because i love
19:57you
19:57i love you too
20:18the past few weeks have been really difficult i've been struggling with jealousy and christian hates
20:24my job now that the dust is settled i'd like to figure out where we stand so i'm getting ready
20:31to go out with christian tonight we've been arguing a lot lately we just need to talk about these things
20:36so we can move on hopefully how many times are we going to talk about the same things
20:41i'm tired i'm tired i'm tired i'm annoyed sick of it we have to get married in order for me
20:48to stay
20:48here in england and for us to be together it's a big commitment before i was sure but now i'm
20:55not
20:56it's very weird the fact that i'm getting married to a person that i barely know bloody hell it's a
21:03lot to
21:04think about the conversation has to go well i cannot have another failed relationship
21:09i'm 27 one divorce behind me already i've had a lot of bad experiences in the past and
21:17it comes down to trust i don't really trust anybody but i'm gonna have to what am i gonna
21:24do lock him away and well that would solve all my issues there is definitely a pattern of behavior
21:32here and i think i'm the problem
21:47you want to see here yes thank you
22:01so we cannot avoid the fact that we have been through some things yeah some of the things that
22:07you said kind of hit a nerve and kind of made me think i need to do some work like
22:14with with myself
22:15like you've never given me a reason not to trust you or not to believe what you say ever so
22:21until you
22:22give me a reason to doubt you then i'm i'm gonna go with that that's very logical same goes for
22:28me i
22:29trust you 100 percent kind of made me think like maybe i the problem is with me and not with
22:35you so
22:36it's not a problem baby we needed to talk about it and then that's that's the first thing i told
22:43you
22:44just talk about it even if it's shit and just hit me with the shit and we clean it together
22:50yeah yeah i've realized that for this relationship to work i need to fully trust christian i need to
22:58move on from whatever might have happened and focus on the future regarding with the belly dancing
23:05i will never stop you from doing it and especially knowing that it makes you happy and on top of
23:12that
23:12gives you money so what you know it doesn't doesn't make me think i wish i have something like that
23:17you know that you can be happy and get money from off of it i can promise you that i
23:22will work on it
23:24and maybe i don't know and then sometime in the future i might be able to go yeah at least
23:32i want to try
23:33well we have a very successful conversation i think this is a brand new start for our relationship
23:39all right love you i love you too i'd like to think that this is the end of the matter
23:46that we can
23:46put the past behind us and start having some fun together so um i thought you'd be nice for us
23:51to
23:51have a little date night tonight so i brought you bowling yeah yeah i'm a little bit surprised to be
23:56honest in the place you chose i think we're going to have a lot of fun whoever the losses tomorrow
24:01does
24:01dishes right deal come on then let's go
24:20no no i don't want to play anymore
24:37it's painful though never
24:39no
24:47what's embarrassing for you it's only again
24:50He said it was you know just about spending time together and it wasn't about the points, but I think
24:57we both knew deep down
24:58Someone needed to it. It was always gonna be
25:02Guess you're doing the dishes then
25:07So what's the human life I think I hate bowling now. Oh you have fun today. Yeah
25:35I
25:35Have been in UK for a while now, but still doesn't feel like home. I'm really missing Kenya. I
25:42Don't think Michael understands what I'm going through. I got my wedding day coming in a few days
25:47But I'm not sure if I'll go through with it
25:56I
25:56Need to call someone that will understand what I'm going through I need to call my sister
26:04Hi, hi, how are you?
26:10I'm not really really really that good
26:16I'm just not liking it here. I just don't like the weather
26:20Because you have to adapt to that climate
26:23Of course
26:24As much as the climate is playing a role. I'm also not happy like the people are just weird
26:30I miss home miss you guys and miss going out and miss partying and just miss how used to be
26:36a home
26:36I'm just not fitting in here
26:39I'm just not fitting in here. We arguing with Michael
26:42I think we should not be arguing because Michael is a good guy first of all
26:46I don't know where you are arguing
26:51I'm not a problem
26:56I'm not a problem
26:59I'm not a problem
27:18I'm not a problem
27:21Is Michael good about the decision or whatever you say
27:25He doesn't have to know
27:26I'll tell him later that I'm thinking of coming home
27:28What?
27:30He has to know
27:31He has to know everything
27:33So please sit down and think about it
27:36You can't make me change my mind
27:38You just have to be okay
27:39If I say I'm thinking of coming home
27:41I'm thinking of coming home
27:42And that is it
27:42No I'm not even okay with it
27:44You're making a bad decision
27:48Okay
27:51Yeah
27:52After speaking to my sister Melissa
27:55I think I need to tell Michael how I feel
27:58I love Michael
28:00But I don't know how much more I can take
28:06One, two, three
28:08We could have it easily
28:11No need to make it difficult for you and me
28:15Four, five, six
28:17Listen up and read my lips
28:20We made foundations
28:21All we need now is some bricks
28:27Rebecca and I are in a good place now
28:30In our relationship
28:31Our plan is to get married
28:32In order for me to stay here
28:34And so I have to propose first of all
28:37It's not a common thing in Argentina
28:39I clearly had no idea what I'm doing
28:41I'm definitely needing some advice
28:43Hello
28:44Hey, how are you doing man? Good?
28:45You okay?
28:46Good
28:46Can I help you?
28:47I might need actually your help
28:49I'm getting engaged
28:50No problem
28:51So I'm from Argentina
28:53The engagement proposal
28:54The whole thing
28:55It's not a big thing over there
28:57Okay
28:58So I know what it is
29:00I mean
29:00Many movies
29:01You know
29:02Down on your knees
29:03Yeah
29:03Etc
29:04But I don't even know what to look for exactly
29:07Yeah, ring wise
29:08So a style ring
29:10Exactly
29:10So a traditional engagement ring
29:12Would be like a single stone
29:15You can go and grab some and show you
29:17All right
29:17That would be amazing
29:18Thank you
29:19Appreciate it
29:20Rebecca is probably expecting a big ring
29:22You know, very sparkly
29:25All right, here we go my friend
29:26So that's one of the most expensive we've got in store
29:30And then sort of going down in price
29:32Can I see you?
29:33Yeah, of course you can
29:34Yeah
29:36I mean the rings are beautiful
29:39But Jesus Christ
29:40They're quite pricey aren't they?
29:42I think I need an option
29:43You know, cheaper
29:45And when I mean cheaper
29:46I mean cheaper
29:47At least two zeros gone
29:49Time for things, you know
29:50I love the ring
29:53Budget wise
29:54I can afford that
29:54I mean
29:55This might kill me for the next year
29:58You know what I mean?
29:59I mean
29:59I just came here
30:00Changing pesos to pounds
30:02That's just
30:02Yeah
30:04I can have a look at something a bit
30:05Right
30:06In the middle if you want
30:07So here we go
30:08So
30:09I brought these three out
30:11They're all nine karat gold
30:12These two are diamonds
30:13Whereas these are cubic zirconia
30:15It's a man-made stone basically
30:17Just brings the price down
30:19And you've still got
30:20All the look of it and everything
30:21Right
30:22Right
30:24I wish you never told me
30:26That it was a diamond
30:27But I love it
30:28I think
30:28I think this is perfect for her
30:30Yeah
30:30And the price is perfect for me as well
30:32Yeah
30:33I mean
30:33It doesn't matter I guess
30:36She's the diamond
30:37Oh that was cheesy wasn't it?
30:40I'm going to ask you again
30:41And you're going to say
30:41They are diamonds
30:42Are they diamonds?
30:43They are diamonds, yeah
30:44This is great then
30:46I think I've got to be honest with her
30:48Eh
30:49About not being real diamonds
30:50I think it's an important thing in a relationship
30:54But uh
30:55Just might not do it quite yet
30:57Or even ever
30:59I think she'll love this one actually
31:01Yeah she'll go for that one
31:01So how are you planning on doing it?
31:05Oof
31:06I mean
31:08I don't know
31:08Some advice
31:09What can I do?
31:10Are you engaged by Chet?
31:12I am
31:12Yeah recently
31:13Archie, alright
31:14So what I did
31:14I cooked a meal
31:16Er
31:17Candle it and everything
31:18And then I got on one knee
31:19Right
31:20And she said yeah
31:21So I must have done something right
31:22So I do this
31:23And I get down to my knee
31:25And then just
31:26That's it
31:27Yeah
31:27And will you marry me?
31:28I think I nailed it
31:30At some point I thought he was going to say yes
31:32You know
31:32I did it that well
31:34Alright, cool
31:35You've been very helpful actually
31:37I appreciate
31:37Okay
31:38Go for that one then
31:39Alright
31:41There you go
31:42Alright
31:42Amazing man
31:43Thank you very much
31:44Take care
31:45Good luck
31:45I got the ring
31:46I'm actually hustling
31:48For all of this
31:49So I'm really hoping she's going to say yes
32:03After the car crash of a picnic
32:05David has decided to take me shopping
32:07Which I love
32:08Because he wants to redeem himself
32:10Which I'm all for
32:13There's some nice jobs
32:14There's some Dominican vibes in there
32:16I hope she like it
32:18And I hope that changed her mood
32:20Hopefully
32:20I'll be able to
32:22Embark on some much needed
32:24Retail therapy
32:28You should buy a new top here
32:30As soon as your buttons are broken
32:33They're not broken
32:34I'm using it like that
32:35They are broken
32:37Look, there's only one left
32:39Why are you still me?
32:41I gave you poop
32:43I gave you poop
32:47Is that what the shops are like here?
32:50Yeah, more or less
32:51I think being from the UK
32:53I'm used to bigger chains
32:54I mean
32:55I mean
32:56You can't wear these type of things
32:59You're not going to buy
33:00Super mall in here
33:02This is how you're at
33:03And they're not clothes
33:04That I would choose
33:05To wear
33:07Voluntarily
33:07Am I going to find any bigger shops in here?
33:10I don't think so
33:10I'm not going to say that
33:15It's like a thing
33:16When you see it
33:17You've seen it
33:18You don't need to see any more
33:19Than that
33:20Yeah
33:20The clothes are awful
33:22Like
33:22I mean
33:24Let's be honest
33:26Tion doesn't like the shops
33:27I put a lot of effort for her to like this place
33:30And
33:31She's just complaining
33:33What do you think?
33:36I mean
33:36We just went to Beijing
33:38You know how that works out?
33:41I want to see the songs
33:42I was thinking of here
33:43But okay, whatever
33:44There's too much song in there
33:48Do you like this place?
33:49Do you like the vibe?
33:52It's different
33:53To be honest
33:54I had enough
33:55I want to go home
33:56Call it a day
33:57She's got that little bar mood
33:59And just put me off
34:00Like
34:02What the fuck is going on Tion?
34:04Why don't you like this place?
34:15Are you okay?
34:17No
34:18Why?
34:22You are annoying
34:24It's like you are in a bad mood all the time
34:27I'm not in a bad mood
34:28I just asked you if you're okay
34:29You said no
34:29I'm fine
34:32One minute David is fine
34:34The next he's being off
34:37Honestly I don't know what's wrong with him
34:39He's just completely shit down
34:41So annoying
34:42What am I doing?
34:44I was feeling quite happy
34:45Like what were you playing with?
34:47I'm trying my hardest
34:49To make her feel comfortable
34:51And welcome
34:52And I feel like it's not working
34:54And it just made me feel like frustrated
34:57So what's that by then?
35:01I feel like I do so many things for you
35:03You always like
35:04They get like
35:06Angriness
35:07I don't know
35:09I'm fine
35:10Stop like on those things
35:11There's something wrong with you
35:12I'm fine
35:13I'm actually fine
35:16All right
35:17If you're fine I'm fine
35:19You're acting really cold
35:20Oh but when you act like that
35:22I'm
35:22I never
35:23Yeah but I'll
35:24Judge you so much
35:24Okay
35:27Okay
35:29Right now I'm feeling super angry
35:31I'm having second thoughts
35:32About proposing to her
35:42The fake
35:45For God's sake
35:48I just feel like this past couple of days
35:50I have been trying so hard
35:52And you've just been so
35:53Freaking mean
35:54I'm with you because I love you
35:56And I love your affection
35:57I feel like you haven't given me
36:00Some of that lately
36:01And I'm sorry for that
36:02But I feel like we've had quite a romantic day today
36:05And you're still like this
36:06It's not romantic to me
36:08So when I'm angry I just get like
36:11Quiet
36:12And I don't want to talk
36:15Is this funny?
36:17Uh no
36:22Oh my God
36:23These are times where I wish that I had my family and friends around me
36:26In times like these where David has literally just shut down
36:30I have nobody else to talk to
36:32And it just makes me feel so lonely
36:35It's just so hard
36:38But I feel like
36:40You and your emotions sometimes
36:42Like it's not easy for you to
36:44To get them out
36:46Why are you not able to
36:48War through my emotions
36:50And I'm super
36:51I am
36:52Patient with you
36:52I'm literally
36:53And all your craziness
36:55Right now I'm feeling like I don't want to talk to her
36:57I just need time for myself
37:00We'll talk about it tomorrow
37:01Alright
37:04We're getting nowhere with this
37:06I'm just going to give her some space
37:08I'll back off
37:13Let's do that
37:36Let's do that
37:40that makes me feel special so you must be my bride chain yeah nice to meet you hi i'm susie
37:45everyone thank you for coming in so what are you looking for today i haven't really got a clue what
37:49i'm looking for okay um that's normal don't worry about that don't really know what's going to suit
37:53me yeah i just want to sort of have a look around just see what suits yeah what fits
37:59okay my proportions are completely different to your average woman and these wedding dresses look
38:05tiny so i am worried i don't want to look overly masculine i want to feel like a princess now
38:11how do you feel about um like a strapless sweetheart neckline i'll literally give anything a go okay
38:20i just don't anything to make me look too manly okay i'm trying to find something that suits my
38:26body shape because it is um a bit of a unique body shape we should say yeah matt's parents can't
38:32make
38:32it to the wedding but they will see pictures and videos i hope it was real now does it yeah
38:38it's
38:38normal in turkey for women to be a bit more covered up so i want to be respectful i don't
38:43want to wear
38:43something too revealing okay got the tissues ready oh shame come on out oh
38:56looks perfect does look lovely i do love that that is fabulous i mean i'm just so shocked i walked
39:06into this shop thinking nothing's ever going to fit me okay yeah right let's try something out some
39:12trying to find something that looks nice and fits my body type
39:16it's a very hard task at times okay that was a good start wasn't it brilliant stuff so to actually
39:21come in today and have dresses fit me you know i feel amazing okay right wow this is totally different
39:30isn't it i mean what a figure it's giving me a figure i didn't know i had wow it's a
39:35beautiful dress
39:36it is a really nice dress stunning yeah i don't think he does me any favors up here right no
39:42yeah i don't
39:42know i think it might be a bit too revealing i think his mum would sort of turn her nose
39:46up
39:46yeah it's that would have a heart attack okay yeah so it's such a sort of cultural differences
39:51then really yeah yeah yeah say if i was in the house i wouldn't be able to wear a vest
39:55top that
39:56shows this much in front of his dad it's a lovely dress but just i don't think it's right for
40:00me okay
40:01this is a no okay saying no to the dress
40:08grace i think i might have found the one i just can't stop staring at it the anticipation is
40:14killing me okay are you ready oh yeah come on hey here she is yes oh oh yes i love
40:28it oh that's just a
40:30a bit of both it's me it's a bit conservative yeah i just love the glitter i just love it
40:36yeah i
40:36let's reach you it's beautiful it's like a fairy tale in there beautiful please have that one
40:47so shane do you think this could be your dress i think it is the dress
40:57the dress makes me feel a million dollars i can't actually describe how amazing the dress makes me
41:03feel i just put it on and that was it i just knew instantly i think it's time i popped
41:08that prosecco
41:18get a married girl i know shane looks so beautiful in the dress i was just so overwhelmed at the
41:27stunning beauty and how gorgeous and happy shane looks i do feel like a pride in this you look like
41:34i've always dreamt about getting married since i was little but growing up i didn't think it was
41:40ever going to happen i thought i'd be a lonely old spinster with either 100 cats or 100 dogs
41:45and look at me now i'm in a wedding dress shop trying on my perfect wedding dress that makes me
41:49feel amazing i just never thought i'd be good enough for anybody let alone for someone to want
41:55to marry me and spend the rest of their life with me cheers
41:58cheers
42:17let me open there
42:18thank you
42:25hello so i said to rebecca we're going out tonight i take care of everything so
42:32i obviously haven't told her that tonight i'm proposing
42:38it's a very romantic setting and i didn't know christian had it in him
42:44i'm the mastermind let's say so you have it the british flag on you and the other one
42:53it's nice you weren't ready what did you say oh my god that's super awful
43:01yeah that was a great yeah
43:07so everything is going smoothly i'm pretty sure she does not know what's going on yeah i just
43:14wanted to make something you know nice for you i mean this is just the beginning once i get a
43:21job
43:22in a car i can set things for you so i don't know i just want you to to know
43:28that you are
43:29appreciated i already know that the moment is finally here god i'm nervous
43:38oh that looks nice
43:44do you want me to open this yeah oh maybe no
43:51so
43:54will you honor me will you marry me
44:01you know i would you'll be me wife i'll be your wife
44:07it's beautiful
44:12of course it's a yes
44:14there was never going to be another answer yeah well there were an answer for a couple seconds
44:20just wasn't sure i felt my soul leaving my body for a second i said is she she's going to
44:26say no
44:28now there was never any judge for that for the sake
44:34i love you
44:42but just in that moment i'd never felt so loved and any doubts that i might have had
44:48they don't matter anymore wow
44:51we are engaged
44:55I have been quite unlucky in love my entire life
45:01but it feels almost like everything has been worth it
45:05because now I really get to be the luckiest
45:12I just got down on my knee
45:14you got on one knee for a girl
45:17not a girl, the girl
45:20and I do, I do feel like the luckiest girl in the world
45:24because I get to be his wife
45:26the wild animal has been tamed
45:28no, no, no, it's the wild animal
45:30I get confused
45:33love you
45:35love him all
46:00me and Marcie have been on the rocks for a couple of days now
46:02so I thought I'd come home, make her a nice meal
46:05and hopefully she'll feel more at home
46:11you all right
46:12yeah, I'm good, going to talk
46:14yeah
46:17I was thinking about the marriage
46:20because we're getting married in a few days
46:22you know what about it
46:26I don't know, I'm just not happy
46:28and I'm not sure I'm ready to go through it
46:31what do you mean?
46:34I'm just scared
46:36you're telling me you don't want to get
46:37you don't want to get married
46:40I don't know
46:41because of course the moment we just
46:43I get married
46:44like I'm done
46:46I'll be miserable forever
46:48I just don't know
46:49and you're not helping
46:50what do you mean I'm not helping?
46:51I help you at every possible turn
46:52how?
46:54I try and encourage you to go out
46:55try and encourage you to make friends
46:57encourage you to go to groups
46:58which friends?
46:59I've gone to the gym
47:00there's no friends
47:00people are just so lonely here
47:02they don't talk to strangers
47:03it's like girls
47:04you go somewhere else then, don't you?
47:05where?
47:05you join groups
47:06I don't drive
47:07I don't do anything
47:08you even get buses
47:09I don't know how to catch a bus
47:10and I'll show you
47:12you should have shown me before
47:14it came to these
47:15I'm just telling you how I feel
47:17I'm miserable
47:18but we've planned this
47:19for God knows how long
47:21we're going
47:22I know you've planned this all day
47:24no, no
47:24I know that
47:24not I
47:25I know we, okay
47:27we have planned this
47:28we have planned this
47:29after the first hurdle
47:31I'm not saying I'm giving up
47:32I'm just telling you how I feel
47:34you have said you're giving up
47:35because you said
47:36you said you don't want to get married
47:38no, stop shouting
47:38you're the one shouting
47:39I'm not shouting
47:40I'm just telling you how I feel
47:41and you're fucking not understanding me
47:42how I feel
47:43if we don't get married
47:44there is no future for us
47:46is there?
47:46that means you go home
47:47so that means you are giving up
47:49I just think
47:50I feel after everything
47:52you're saying
47:52you don't even want to get
47:53you don't even get married to me
47:55I fucking understand
47:56what are you going to do
47:57go back to Kenya
47:58I'm done, I don't know
47:59yeah then go
48:00fucking go out the door then
48:01you say you don't fucking even listen
48:03you're just not understanding anything
48:04fuck you
48:05I'm just done with you
48:07I'm done
48:08fuck up
48:10I know where the door is Michael
48:11well fuck you
48:13I'll live
48:16she wants to go back home
48:17go back home
48:18but that'll be the end of our relationship
48:21if she walks out of that door
48:22we're done
48:23I can't take it anymore
48:26I asked Matt to go out
48:28and get a few things
48:28have you held down?
48:3040 quid was his budget
48:32why have you spent 116 pounds?
48:35I don't know why she is hungry
48:37he bought caviar
48:38is he taking the piss?
48:40I'm paying the bills
48:41I'm paying for the wedding
48:43we don't have any money
48:44it's all gone now
48:45hang on babe
48:46we need to talk
48:47okay
48:48oh my god
48:50I don't belong here
48:51a lot of friends yet
48:53and I feel lonely
48:55I do love her
48:56but does she love me?
48:58am I making a mistake?
49:00if you're not happy here
49:01and you want to go
49:02I'm not going to stop you
49:04David is taking me
49:06to the salsa class
49:07and I hate salsa
49:08hopefully she's going to see that
49:10he can dance with other people
49:11without being too sensible
49:13the very thing that he said
49:15that he doesn't do in salsa
49:16he's just done
49:17right in front of my eyes
49:18I want to go back home
49:19to the UK
49:20I have way too much potential
49:22to be with someone like you
49:40all in the water
49:41and be with someone like you
49:41and thank you
49:41it's pretty damn good
49:45to be with someone like you
49:48so it's your passion
49:49and you don't want to vibe
49:50well
49:50to be with someone like us
49:51andlong
49:52I want to say
49:52he might be somebody like the
49:52all you
49:53can and then
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