00:13I postpone sex actually till after I was married, but not through any lack of interest.
00:23The reason that I was successful was absolute fear of being pregnant before I was married.
00:32One of my roommates said, if the bomb is coming, what would you do?
00:37It was just like, I'd like to sleep with somebody.
00:40It was this smoldering something that we were all supposed to know about, but we had no way of getting
00:47the information.
00:49Men somehow expected, and I think believed that something magic happened to release all of this wonderful whatever it was.
00:59And when it didn't happen, everybody was puzzled.
01:03We were taught, you should be so grateful that he has chosen you.
01:07You know, for a woman to ask a man to wear a condom was like unheard of.
01:15My first child was born nine months and five days after I was married.
01:22It was not even talked about, but people really used their fingers to count in those days.
01:30I think my mother really sweated it out.
01:33Not that she thought that I had gotten pregnant before I was married, but it was what would the neighbors
01:39think.
01:43After we started seeing how easy it was to get pregnant, I mean, just any time I want, I can
01:49get pregnant.
01:51You know, I know I cannot do this the rest of my life, but what am I going to do?
01:57We were very desperate.
01:59We were very desperate.
02:12You
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